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kayzbrian:
you need deliverance

why because love pay bills!

jacoik:
so painful my G. you need to give love a chance again my dear because you can't keep reminding yourself of the past. I pray the ancestors to heal your wounded soul

this one shock me ooo

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Hmmm 54Mill.....

This is seriously serious.

Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

I stood in the rain to see my gal at our usual spot for 3 hours after she didn't show up at the right time. When she eventually came out at about 10pm she said I was crazy...I mean crazily in love, gave me a hot deep kiss and took off. I walked 4 kilometers home same night feeling silly but happy.

Whileytech:
My own part be say make Una listen to Olamide Baddo song WON MA DO. No matter your efforts on her , it will never come out good. No love anywhere. What keeps a relationship now is
Maturity n understanding. Aside from that you will still be having problems with ladies

standing ovation ninu kitchen won ma...birthday gift kora venza...oun wa benz igba ye nko....won ma do noni!

grafixdon:
Though she's my crush then, but I love her so so much.

She was schooling in ado, it was around 2010... I travelled from Lagos to Ado just to see her. Bought provisions (milk, bread, 5alive,soaps,bounvita etc).

I got to her hostel around 2am because there's a heavy traffic. I almost fainted when I met a guy at her place at that time putting on just boxer, she later introduced the guy as her boyfriend. Both of them slept on the bed while she gave me mat to sleep on. I couldn't sleep because I could hear them fvcking.

The following morning, she prepared the bread, milk and bounvita I bought with my money for her boyfriend. Oboy, I don suffer.

You try to sleep for that room oo

Similar experience,i ve 2 switch over 2 street life and rotate within bitches,coz it cost nthg bt money,bt lv can cost u ur life

murtalaa:
So many slip ups. This story is 100% fake. Allowance for PTDF scholar at best of times never exceeded £22k/year and that was for PhD students with family.

Secondly, even in the two biggest economies in europe, UK and Germany, you could never make such amount of money working menial part time jobs. Let's say for the sake of argument you work 24hrs a day, for the whole 365 daysin a year at £/€15 an hour, right? That's about 24*365*15= £/€131, 400.

Some fact about greece: It has one of the lowest minimum wage in Europe at $3-$4 (dollar not pound or euro!) per hour. Don't take my word for it, google it.

Thirdly, PTDF has never sent scholars to Greece. Until recently when they started sending scholars to Germany, France and China, all PTDF scholars go to UK.

The guy just dey make me laugh. I remember the documentary on that NBA draft whose father migrated from Nigeria. He and his family were stuck in deep poverty that he was hawking on the road.

Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

So many slip ups. This story is 100% fake. Allowance for PTDF scholar at best of times never exceeded £22k/year and that was for PhD students with family.

Secondly, even in the two biggest economies in europe, UK and Germany, you could never make such amount of money working menial part time jobs. Let's say for the sake of argument you work 24hrs a day, for the whole 365 daysin a year at £/€15 an hour, right? That's about 24*365*15= £/€131, 400.

Some fact about greece: It has one of the lowest minimum wage in Europe at $4-$5 (dollar not pound or euro!) per hour. Don't take my word for it, google it.

Thirdly, PTDF has never sent scholars to Greece. Until recently when they started sending scholars to Germany, France and China, all PTDF scholars go to UK.

How did you make £125k to send to your girlfriend? You must think we are all stupid.

PS. I would have enjoyed the story if it were meant to be fiction, though

Zyzxx10:
Nothing.Bleep love.
Pls I'm very sorry for derailing this thread especially by this time but a man in pain has no choice but to cry out.Pls I beg you if you can help me with anything if you have enough.Im not going to bore you with false tales to make myself foolish but Ive tried other means and people have ignored me.Lack is no respecter of person and when you have no one to reach out to it becomes worse.I can brave the odds just to feed any day curfew or no curfew.No one likes begging it's just the situation of life that makes one to.Pls If you decide to help me my account number is on my signature as I was falsely accused of being a scammer by a fellow nairalander for reasons best known to him and banned anytime I type numbers.I dont care about the insults or negative words.Thanks and God bless nairaland

You can't give/get what you don't have/deserve.... Bleep love, yet you want love

Change your ways

samtoolz:
This love shii scares me, ever since my secondary school love left me for another guy. I cried ehn
Love is sweet, but it just shatters ones walls and makes one vulnerable... Softie like me can't comman kill myself oo.
I hope i find someone that loves me more than i do her.

what is sweet in the love...the cry or something else...

Stevecreativex:
Yo!! It simple just do the calculation yourself, bro...The scholarship doesn't deny your job in Greece. I work PT then in a grocery store and at night I work as a security a day man I make £145 / £150...

So do the calculation yourself.. Thou if you a lazy ass black Africa you might think the stress is too much to work on scholarship...

I know black peeps who earn £260 / £300 daily here in Greece...

So ease your mind...
It about how strong you can hustle under cold..
Peace...

300 daily doing what? Unless they are a footballer, selling drugs or selling themselves what type of job?

Odoskii:
She's trying to tell us that she's into nagging

you are not serious o..

angelfallz:
i strongly discourage Long distance relationships. However, what kind of relationship did your friend have with the girl? Ordinary boyfriend and girlfriend relationship? or relationship with hopes of marriage?

Relationship with hopes of marriage. He was damn serious then!

My story long oo, but I will try to paraphrase.

So i was in my finals in 2014 and was doing security job at night. So on this fateful day, i didn't go to school and was sitting in our office when this pretty girl walked in with her elder sister, seeking to be employed as a security guard. She was employed the next day with my influence and we became friends...She told me she had only one boyfriend while in secondary who later broke her heart and i swallowed it hook line and sinker because she looked very innocent. We started dating almost immediately....This baby dey fire no be here oo. Two weeks later, I realized a certain number kept calling her each time we were together and she would never pick. She would always tell me it was her younger brother and this number could call up to 50 times none stop..On one occasion, i decide to check the phone while it was ringing because I never bothered to check because i believed everything she told me about herself, only for me to see the name of the caller saved obim (my heart), immediately babe started weeping that she was no longer dating the guy and the guy has refused to let her be bla bla....Well, i was already neck-deep cos of the constant knacking i was enjoying. We moved on.
One fateful Sunday, babe said she was coming after church and i was waiting till evening, called her number but it was switched off. A friend of mine who lived next to their house called to tell me that a certain guy came to my babe's house to beat up her sister accusing her of arranging his girlfriend for different men...And that sister said was going to report me to my company for always keeping the girl... Two days later, she came back,refused to talk to me.. Ater a week, na me go begin apologize because her style of knacking don enter my head. We started again. Few months later, i was posted to sokoto state for NYSC and she cried and insisted i take her along. But I pleaded with her because i had never been to the north before. I travelled and we were always chatting and calling each. I came back after orientation camp and everything was fine. I went back and things started to change, calls and chats dropped. Babe gained admission without mentioning it to me. I came back, called her and she was sounding very platonic. I chatted her on WhatsApp, next thing she upload a pic where she was kissing a guy��, I asked if he was her boyfriend, and she said yes�‍♀. I went offline, next her call came in,I wanted to ignore it but decided to hear what she wanted to say, only for the boyfriend to give serious warning never to call or chat he's girlfriend again.


This was a girl who constantly told me she couldn't even date any other guy if not me. That she would rather die than have anything to do any man in her life except me...chaii. This life no just balance

Mvena:
I had this boyfriend then who lost his job, everything became so difficult. I wasn't complaining about it though but with the way he's always thinking, I thought of a way of helping him get back to his feet. I had this old man asking me out then on Facebook , we hardly chat Sha, so I asked him for money one day and he sent it. I gave the money to my boyfriend, even explained how I got it so he wouldn't call me a cheat later on. I continued collecting money from him and giving my boyfriend until one day I got a text from my boyfriend saying "it's over between us" like I thought it was a joke until he called again and said the same thing. I regretted everything I did�
Mumu me

You're not a mumu o. You're being human & did what a lady who cares naturally do. You did what you could to help a thoughtless dude's situation. He ended up being ungrateful. For him mind, he wise.

afribabe:
You can't give/get what you don't have/deserve.... Bleep love, yet you want love

Change your ways

Sure at your first point.But the so called romantic love we have now has been bastardized a lot.Its hard to find true love especially in this zone called Nigeria.

Zyzxx10:
Sure at your first point.But the so called romantic love we have now has been bastardized a lot.Its hard to find true love especially in this zone called Nigeria.

It is a general thing. The same way you find it difficult to find true love in a person/people, same way other person/people will say they can't find true love in you.

May God help us and lead us to the right person and also lead the right person to us.

Samfloxin:
The guy na Lai Mohammad

You are correct. Maybe he wanted to write 5.4m otherwise he is telling lies. Except he want to tell us that he is not doing legit work in Greece. How can, 2.5m in 54m and he accepted he should be given the office of the Nigeria minister of information

Israelinno:
Love na bastard ...travelled all the way from lagos to awka to see this girl, i got there around 9 cux i left lagos late, i took my bath then started watching tv with the girl,suddenly.. this guy entered the room she hugged him, the guy took remote and changed station, i later found out that the guy was dating the her,and he paid her rent,,the guy spent the night in the room, i couldn't sleep ..i left early morning for lagos cant believe that lagos boy like me went to awka just to baff...

Copy copy go kill you. Copied from a NLer who copied from Twitter. Na ur type dey copy matric number too

God!!! , that lady is not getting out of jail o! , cause i will file every possible charge against her.....N54mil

Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

raphretle:
Fetched 33 Jerrycan of water for them...
Packed her mums stuff to the market on my head... all in the name of love...
Don't even know where the 4 o'clock eyed girl is now sef...
Truly she been Put me for inside bottle

Hahahaaaa! " ...4 o'clock eye girl..." you are funny oh!

ojuu4u:
75% blame is for you, one tin about you ladies is that when you are approaching , 30yrs of age you can do any nonsense tin for the sake of being getting married,

A man who can't afford to get at least a room that you and him will leave doesn't deserve to be a married man, just imaging, you married yet you are fully leaving with your in laws!!!!!!! Not that ur hubby was in outside o and not that u were doing one stable job, two of u were leaving separately even before marriage.

People live separately before marriage na. You don't even know what prompted her living with her in-laws..... And where did she mention that she was jobless...

And those people condemning her for saying the man won't see his son again( not that I am in support of this or not), I hope you read where she wrote that the man abandoned them because her son was born differently.. (something about serious jaundice and cerebral palsy)...
I refuse to judge either of the parties anyway because I am not a player in the gist.....

Men, take responsibility for your children even if you don't like/want their mothers again. Be part of the child(ren)'s life...... Women, if a man wants to be responsible for his children, do not deny him because you don't like/want the man again. Allow them be part of their child(ren)'s life....
And for those(men/women) who make it clear from the start that they don't want to have anything to do with the child(ren), don't expect to reap where you didn't sow.... Just that life is so funny.. Most of them even reap more than the party that laboured

gaby:
Don't mind the dude, there are no jobs in Greece.

Boss na my dream country you dey O
Netherlands how is life over there

misreal:
hahahahahaahah

Don't mind that guy. he copied that stuff from twitter!

danduchi:
You all don't know what God has done for you all oo.
One time, many years ago, I traveled to calabar to go see this girl. She picked me from the parked and we got to her one bedroom apartment, nice and cozy. I baff, wear singlet and boxer, crossed leg on the table changing TV channels.
2 secs my girl received a call, followed by a knock on the door. It was very obvious he paid for the apartment from the look on his face. My girl just said 'I'm sorry Dan'.
I got dressed, this guy and my girl dropped me off at the park. I reached PH by almost 11pm.
So Me go calabar to just go baff, I can't still believe it.

copy copy.

penisilin:
Like someone said - it has been flogged very very well but women matter will continue to flog men as long as them still get yansh and bleast cool.

One of my many mumuness.

It was 2000, I was very young (after SSCE) and had a girl crushing on me but for reasons known to only God & devil, I just no send the babe.

But for the mumuness in me, I was seriously pursuing one yeye girl because of her yansh so tey in my bid to win her favor, I took a family cherished flask and made a sumptuous chocolate beverage with bread and sardine (from money I fapped from my sister) for her on a rainy day.
I told her from our balcony that I was coming with the goodies and she beckoned on me to come quickly. Only for me to reach her house, she asked to carry the flask follow her until we reach her boyfriend house angry. She jumped on him and said "Thank you Ola, shebi you have given me the flask" and they shut the door while I was standing there and smiling like Ganduje.

Anger no gree me sleep for 2 days

told my ex about my hustle. we had some issues. she snitched up on me. got me arrested. i banged 8 month in jail. Love ain't for me again

machiavelli95:
You are loud and uncouth!!! The OP said he transferred over 500,000 euros back home. PTDF scholarship lasts for one year. The per-capita income of Greece hovers between 16,000 Euros to 20,000 Euros.
Now the op was not even a citizen, but was a student qualifying him for only part-time jobs.
Which job will pay up to 500,000 Euros in one year? Even C-suite executives don't earn that much. Then factor in the fact that the OP is a foreign student with no legal working permit or even reasonable experience.

I want OP to tell me the format he ran. Its either he ran PTDF or he ran street or he is just lying!!
Use your head to think and stop being sentimental and rabid about issues like a typical Nigerian

That guy na heavy street man. more reasons why the money even vanished like that.

Kestolove:
I made him suck me b4 penetration, now am not happy dat I use nd dump d boy

Pwuuzey or boobs?

lukman885:
If I remember wetin girl do me. I go just weak.
So there is this angel i met (so I thought)..
Anytime she needs money, she will just touch my neck and ears... just like Atm I go just dey dispence like mumu. Pant I no take my coro coro eyes see am. Laslas na wedding card j come seeeeeee But glory be to God ....wetin I don do girls in return eh. Ah be champion RightNow.

Luku omo sekinat, abeg gist us wetin u do her na