1. Just because you are special doesn't mean you can choose what you want me to see you as.
2. By your statements, you function externally as a man. Able to give pleasure the right way a man can, But have not proven if a man can gain pleasure the right way from you as a woman.
3. You have so many things going on with you personally and it should remain a personal issue if you are not ready to face the challenges from your revelation.
4. Find a man or a woman that understands and loves you for who you are regardless or your sexuality.. Be the person's all and don't expect everyone to understand your plight, they have their own worries I swear.
5. Find your happiness alone.

nams77:

As a scientist, i understand exactly what u mean. But ignorance is a disease in Africa. Most people fear and hate what they don't understand
I salute you for your courage. Never let anyone talk you down

u be scientists?

I prefer you to marrying a woman instead of man, I mean take the woman part of u, because no man will wanna see dic k whenMakin love but woman can see both no problem.

watchindelta:
I prefer you to marrying a woman instead of man, I mean take the woman part of u, because no man will wanna see dic k whenMakin love but woman can see both no problem.

well speak for yourself. Lot of straight men totally love and accept me the way i am, they don't even want me to have my dick removed, it makes me too special. And neither will i support intersex surgery to please anyone. True love is not all about having sex or based on external factors. It comes deep from the heart

[quote author=greatbuc post=89339663]1. Just because you are special doesn't mean you can choose what you want me to see you as.
2. By your statements, you function externally as a man. Able to give pleasure the right way a man can, But have not proven if a man can gain pleasure the right way from you as a woman.
3. You have so many things going on with you personally and it should remain a personal issue if you are not ready to face the challenges from your revelation.
4. Find a man or a woman that understands and loves you for who you are regardless or your sexuality.. Be the person's all and don't expect everyone to understand your plight, they have their own worries I swear.
5. Find your happiness alone.[/quote) if i did function more externally as a man, i wouldnt have experience these female puberties in my body and let me tell you something you don't know. My vagina canal that is not fully opened, i can still feel scratches sometimes between my scrotum skin at the area the hole is located and placing my finger deep in the hole, i can still feel the hole and my doctor has told me through surgery i can fully open but that will cost a lot. I'm against intersex surgeries because we should be left the way we are born except it causes health problems. I still need lot of tests and operations carried out but of course lot of money will be involved but all i know is despite my dual nature, i am a woman and i don't feel less of a woman... Hope someday people can really learn what truly defines intersex gender identity. Not asking all those weird questions ''are you more of a man or a more of a woman in body to define gender identity'' many intersex people are neither more of a man or even more of a female in their bodies. Infact its mostly 50/50 for most of us but that doesn't invalidate our gender identity.

OP thank you for your time and... Please address my final question and I will pack my load from this threat - - - - you testified to have dated a lot of open minded men but my question is, were those men able to penetrate you?....
My apologies, I just want to learn

CYBERWEAVER:
OP thank you for your time and... Please address my final question and I will pack my load from this threat - - - - you testified to have dated a lot of open minded men but my question is, were those men able to penetrate you?....
My apologies, I just want to learn

to be honest most Intersex females do take anal or even prefer not to do at all. Talking about AIS women that their vagina is short, the pain they feel during penetration is too much that many of them do prefer anal. Even at using lot of lubrication, it still hurts. I mostly avoid sex because of this reason and i know lot of men love penetration, mostly i'm into MouthAction and kissing but once it comes to penetration, i'm very bad in that area and its due to my intersex trait. Well sex is not everything, i can do without sex� hope i have answered you now. Have a nice night

IntersexSherry:
thank you

Bleep God we only exist because we do

TheSourcerer:
Bleep God we only exist because we do

lol but i still believe there is a creator that watches over all of us... I wouldn't want to start religion arguement that will lead to another topic and trust me it gets lot of critics. Everyone is entitled to what they believe in..

Gmajor:


Nawa oh. Why are you embarrassing your self like this?
In the whole topic, was there any mention of sexuality?
You won't read, yet, you'll want to comment SMH.

Lol,if you actually know the meaning of sexuality, you won't make this comment to condemn the person you quoted even though he may have sounded harsh. This whole thread's motive is the OP educating people about his/her sexuality. Sexuality means sexual identity/orientation of a person.

Nigeria bloggers are one the problems we are having, they keep posting lies and misleading others just to sell their business. For example, Daniel Anthony or Jay Boggie is tagged as a crossdresser by Nigeria bloggers while it is obvious he has intersex traits written all over his/her body, he is even placed under the likes of Bobrisky which isn't true and misleading because Bobrisky is neither a crossdresser or intersex but rather a transgender woman. People should learn the difference and stop misleading others . Micah was also like that when he was tagged by bloggers as man with biggest hips in the world and called a gay but today Micah is found to be an intersex female and discoveries made on her is that she has both male and female reproductive organs. She even got pregnant but lost the pregnancy because her body wasn't designed to carry a baby due to her intersex trait. Bloggers should stop using that crossdresser word to decieve others rather than calling them the real thing they are, the last time i checked crossdressers are people who dress in the opposite sex for ridicule reasons or stage performance, they have no dsyphoria. Nigerians really need to learn!

Orubebe01:
Sherry how is life in Abuja

Abuja is ok. How you know i stayed in Abuja?

IntersexSherry:
well speak for yourself. Lot of straight men totally love and accept me the way i am, they don't even want me to have my dick removed, it makes me too special. And neither will i support intersex surgery to please anyone. True love is not all about having sex or based on external factors. It comes deep from the heart

in Nigeria ok.

watchindelta:
in Nigeria ok.

ya in all countries. You still find free minded people

watchindelta:
I prefer you to marrying a woman instead of man, I mean take the woman part of u, because no man will wanna see dic k whenMakin love but woman can see both no problem.

God bless you bro

greatbuc:
God bless you bro

Chicks with dicks are one of the most desirable women in the world for having best of both worlds. Your friends won't tell you, they will hide in private and keep lusting so you don't laugh at them.

IntersexSherry:
Chicks with dicks are one of the most desirable women in the world for having best of both worlds. Your friends won't tell you, they will hide in private and keep lusting so you don't laugh at them.

I did a tiny research just this morning from your Facebook page

greatbuc:
I did a tiny research just this morning from your Facebook page

Good

greatbuc:
your feelings and heart is deceiving you my brother. You are a complete male +. You decided to choose the gender that is less dominant. God will judge you with what HE has completed in you so you either live a life of deceit or accept your manhood. You have done the first good thing.. Confessing your situation.. I gathered from your story that your male side functions 90% maybe you ejaculate but you did not say. Your female side is inaccessible since you said its a tiny hole..no menstruation .. Where do you want your husband to satisfy you from. Fear God my brother. I have feelings within my heart that I want to be rich..just like you have for being a female but what I am not is I won't force people to tag me so since I have no evidence i.e money yet.

ignorance fellow

James Johnson and before Iyabo . very strong and truthful personality. I will give my 18yr old girl child to this man because he is an example of realism. When he starts a fund raising program I will donate.
He said he was disqualified from women's football team because his male traits were higher though not complete than that of the female.
He accepted his new identity though it cost him a great future.. This new identity was given to him by physicians not his heart or feelings like you said.
You will not be fair if you use your situation to buttress your thoughts.. Rather let your thoughts portray the reality of your situation.
Everything in this world is measured in a scale.. You're black because your skin shade is close to the colour black.. You are called white because your colour is close to is called white.
In the legal system you will see a portrait of a blindfolded being holding a sword and a scale.. The scale means you will judge based on your actions against the law and every feather weight counts. Equity!
You put yourself in James shoes.. You would have broken down but if he could choose I know he would have remained a woman so as to achieve his dreams.. He told himself the truth by becoming a man as per forensics not Feelings

IntersexSherry:
Chicks with dicks are one of the most desirable women in the world for having best of both worlds. Your friends won't tell you, they will hide in private and keep lusting so you don't laugh at them.

I can only consider you a chick with a dick if you have an accessible Vaginal opening putting you on a 50/50 scale of being both male and female. 51/49 and you automatically a male . 49/51 and be your female jeje. Which are you? That's the education I want to get from you

greatbuc:
James Johnson and before Iyabo . very strong and truthful personality. I will give my 18yr old girl child to this man because he is an example of realism. When he starts a fund raising program I will donate.
He said he was disqualified from women's football team because his male traits were higher though not complete than that of the female.
He accepted his new identity though it cost him a great future.. This new identity was given to him by physicians not his heart or feelings like you said.
You will not be fair if you use your situation to buttress your thoughts.. Rather let your thoughts portray the reality of your situation.
Everything in this world is measured in a scale.. You're black because your skin shade is close to the colour black.. You are called white because your colour is close to is called white.
In the legal system you will see a portrait of a blindfolded being holding a sword and a scale.. The scale means you will judge based on your actions against the law and every feather weight counts. Equity!
You put yourself in James shoes.. You would have broken down but if he could choose I know he would have remained a woman so as to achieve his dreams.. He told himself the truth by becoming a man as per forensics not Feelings

i have told you that being more of a male or more of a female do not define your gender identity but rather defines your body.. lot of intersex people may identify as male, female, gay, trans, nonbinary, fluid etc. Ok i have met lot of intersex people that are more of a female but still identify as a male or vice versa. In some cases its 50/50 for intersex folks. In some areas i do score higher in the female range and some areas do score higher in the male range, still all this do not define my gender identity. My brain is more of a female and thats what supposed to be the most dominant factor of all. James is my friend and till today he is not still really sure of what he really is. Most of these people do these things because of pressure they face from society. If you like james so much, he still needs more funding to finalize himself to a full blown man so maybe you can support him on that.

greatbuc:
James Johnson and before Iyabo . very strong and truthful personality. I will give my 18yr old girl child to this man because he is an example of realism. When he starts a fund raising program I will donate.
He said he was disqualified from women's football team because his male traits were higher though not complete than that of the female.
He accepted his new identity though it cost him a great future.. This new identity was given to him by physicians not his heart or feelings like you said.
You will not be fair if you use your situation to buttress your thoughts.. Rather let your thoughts portray the reality of your situation.
Everything in this world is measured in a scale.. You're black because your skin shade is close to the colour black.. You are called white because your colour is close to is called white.
In the legal system you will see a portrait of a blindfolded being holding a sword and a scale.. The scale means you will judge based on your actions against the law and every feather weight counts. Equity!
You put yourself in James shoes.. You would have broken down but if he could choose I know he would have remained a woman so as to achieve his dreams.. He told himself the truth by becoming a man as per forensics not Feelings

when people like your type read stories, you will focus on the types you want to hear and leave the rest so you can keep on criticizing. I'm sure you also read the story of samuel oluseun that is even more of a female in his body but still he identifies as a male because he is more of a man in his brain and thats what matters so he is even calling on Nigerians for help to get rid of all the feminity in his body so he can be the normal man he truly he is and identifies as.

Alanpoza007:

Lol,if you actually know the meaning of sexuality, you won't make this comment to condemn the person you quoted even though he may have sounded harsh. This whole thread's motive is the OP educating people about his/her sexuality. Sexuality means sexual identity/orientation of a person.

In this context, op is talking about sex not sexuality.
The issue of sexuality was only brought up by people who asked.
Yes, sex and sexuality can be interchangeable but in any discourse where the two issue are mentioned they are not used interchangeably. In such a case - like this one - sexuality is about orientation while sex is about biology.

IntersexSherry:
when people like your type read stories, you will focus on the types you want to hear and leave the rest so you can keep on criticizing. I'm sure you also read the story of samuel oluseun that is even more of a female in his body but still he identifies as a male because he is more of a man in his brain and thats what matters so he is even calling on Nigerians for help to get rid of all the feminity in his body so he can be the normal man he truly he is and identifies as.

well I'll let you be from here. But expect many unpleasant reactions to the path you've chosen for your self.

Gmajor:

In this context, op is talking about sex not sexuality.
The issue of sexuality was only brought up by people who asked.
Yes, sex and sexuality can be interchangeable but in any discourse where the two issue are mentioned they are not used interchangeably. In such a case - like this one - sexuality is about orientation while sex is about biology.

so which is useful to human the society. Sex or sexuality.. Sex says op is more male than female.. Op decides that the female aspect is what he wants while we Nigerians should accept his sexuality above sex. He is welcomed as a boy by all standards than a girl. If there is any one of them that displays female traits higher than male then by Nigerian concept should be female. Your system says act like a girl and your body is more of boy.

Goddys:


It is commonsense to know that people that are not attributed to any gender are referred using the pronoun " it".

I wonder why Nigerians can't simply research and read. The Op is neither he or she. The Op is an entirely different gender

The proper pronoun for such group is Them/They/We/Us.

greatbuc:
so which is useful to human the society. Sex or sexuality.. Sex says op is more male than female.. Op decides that the female aspect is what he wants while we Nigerians should accept his sexuality above sex. He is welcomed as a boy by all standards than a girl. If there is any one of them that displays female traits higher than male then by Nigerian concept should be female. Your system says act like a girl and your body is more of boy.

ignorant peope like you are the reason why they force intersex feminization or masculization on kids that do not even identify as such. Like what they tried to do Caster Semenya saying she is a man because she is more of a man even though she has stated she is a woman and a lesbian. I'm not more of a man in my body neither in my brain. I am more of a woman both in my body and in my brain and in my sexuality and thats because i am a woman. A woman with problems. No point arguing with people like you that have refused to be rational. Just because you don't like seeing a woman with a dick doesnt mean other men doesn't feel comfortable with it. Weak minded Men like you get threatened by masculinity in a woman. I won't change anything about myself to please you or anyone. I know who i am and i live my life for who i am and my body also supports that so who cares what you think?. My doctor has already confirmed my claim and online trolls like you coming up with lot of silly arguement that the intersex community will just laugh at. Do me a favor and go educate yourself properly. Won't waste my time with you. All your ignorance is deeprooted in your weak religious belief. AIS women are more of a male in their inside but even if you place them on a bucket of testosterone, their bodies will never masculinize and most of them do identify as women because thats who they are. You are just an ignorant troll and a waste of time, also part of the reason intersex people are misunderstood.

GboyegaD:


The proper pronoun for such group is Them/They/We/Us.

When you meet an intersex person that is nonbinary, you should first ask what pronouns they go by.. Some of them do identify as She or He or They. My pronouns are She/they. Thanks. Its very wrong to refer to a human being as ''IT" except you are a troll looking for trouble.

Thank you for sharing something so personal intersexsherry. A point I'd like to add is that all humans are born female before the Y chromosome reverts the female development into a male. It's why males have nipples and other similarities to the female, the chromosome retools female parts into male.

Personally I don't believe you should change anything about yourself so long as you're happy. And I'm sure there are men in Nigeria who'll be into your extras. Feel free and ignore the ignorant.

IntersexSherry:
When you meet an intersex person that is nonbinary, you should first ask what pronouns they go by.. Some of them do identify as She or He or They. My pronouns are She/they. Thanks. Its very wrong to refer to a human being as ''IT" except you are a troll looking for trouble.

I guess the last sentence wasn't referring to me, right?

davien:
Thank you for sharing something so personal intersexsherry. A point I'd like to add is that all humans are born female before the Y chromosome reverts the female development into a male. It's why males have nipples and other similarities to the female, the chromosome retools female parts into male.

Personally I don't believe you should change anything about yourself so long as you're happy. And I'm sure there are men in Nigeria who'll be into your extras. Feel free and ignore the ignorant.

thank you. I love chatting with sensible and openminded people like yourself