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It must be noted that there is a wide discrepancy between a date and a marriage. What married couple do should not be practised in just a date, otherwise you may end up eating your pounded yam as boiled yam. Marriages can do a lot of good in people's life if rules are adequately followed, but a fake marriage can destroy life even beyond repair. Guys and ladies should do their homework
properly before digging deep with a partner.

1234IKECHhukwu:
Mine happened last year,I nearly got heart attack, what saved me was that I insisted that we should visit my own personal doctor for a test,before she now opened up that she is not pregnant,I was furious at her at first,but later found out that she was doing all that to settle down asap.

hope you broke up with her? Why should she lie to settle down?.. Na from clap dance start

Abeg where d mod that pushed this old thread to front-page

hahn:
I have this business associate. Last year, he told me he was getting married and even invited me to the wedding that was supposed to happen in Delta state. He did tell me she was pregnant and as a good guy that he was he decided to marry her and finally settle down. Fast forward to some months back, I was chatting with him on bbm and I asked him about his "wife" and he told me she was fine.

Concidentally, the next day I was on the Island running businesss when I met him going to the bank. He told me to follow him since I had finished all my transactions. Then I asked him again, "how's your wife?" And I got the shocker of my life, they weren't married. Here's the story: apparently, just about a week to the wedding, his fiance's ex came with some elders to meet him and explained to him that he, the ex, is actually the owner of the pregnancy and since he is not interested in getting married to the lady and he doesn't want his child to grow up with someone else or even exist he came to tell my friend the truth.

After enough consultations with some elders, he took his time and told his wife-to-be that they should go on 3 days fasting. After the first day he told her that the spirit of God revealed to him that there was something she was hiding from him(yes, he'll make a good pastor) and after enough pushing she eventually confessed. Apparently she still had the fear of God in her. In her confession she said she and her ex had a one nighter when he travelled for business. Obviously the wedding was cancelled and till today he has been unable to explain why he cancelled the wedding to his parents because they really loved the girl and sent money to her when they discovered she was pregnant.

Believe it or not, this same lady got married to someone else this year and again she was "pregnant" for the guy.

I have had a similar experience, my ex and I were doing it raw but since I was applying the withdrawal method, she decided to lie that she was pregnant barely 2 weeks into the relationship(she don see mugu). I told her no problem and a week later she was on her period. She later claimed she "made a mistake". Needless to say the relationship ended.

The funny thing is these ladies will suddenly flare up when you suggest or attempt to use a condom. Is this the new trend? Since these ladies have nothing to offer that will convince the guy to marry them they have to use these tactics. OR probably, they are in love with the guy but feel he needs a little bit of "convincing" because he feels he isn't ready yet.

Guys share your experiences. Ladies, give us your reasons.

Story of my life, though I knew the pregnancy was mine but I feel trap and everybody is looking me like I’m wicked or I don’t wanna marry cos I’m already close to mid 30’s....just a month into relationship oooo.... marriage is for eternity and not just something you can just decide in a split of seconds

When you two consenting adults were having coitus, it was fun and the secrecy tingled your nether regions. Y’all need to stop having sex and save us all the hassle of these ‘stories that touch’.

LADIES OF EXTREMES

DNA test is the solution, just codedly get strands of your kids hair or blood and take tests for all of them. From there you will know whether she has been faithful with you all this while.

Women have been robbing men since 1910, they will just lie flat on their back, the idiot monkey will be going up and down, sweating profusely while they do nothing. And if she is "full house " wife, the guy don die be that. She will inherit all your properties and finally give you "rice and sniper". Adios amigo,

Before you lie/sleep with a woman, always have a back up plan, they are like the devil, no crime dinning with him, but use a looooooooooooooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnngggggg spoon!!

Abbeybailey:
It's true. Once you penetrate, some of your semens are coming out without you going into trance. It's when you go into trance that you release most of the semens.

ojogbon agba.. emurasi

You can't trap any human being into marrying you.

If you force someone to marry you, nah divorce las las.

Been there, done that!

the aftermath is better imagined than experienced!
....if only i could turn back the hands of time, i'll un-meet certain biiitches!

mctfopt:
2015 thread

See Coco
Candy then...

Yet, she never marry

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Some years back that's how my girlfriend then told me she was pregnant and insisted she must abort the pregnancy, I told her no and pleased with her but to no avail and I had to give her the money.
Later we got married and after 4 years of being married she is yet to get pregnant. When I bring up the issues or that we should go and visit a doctor she will always remind me that when we were dating she got pregnant and I gave her money for the abortion and that we should just be prayerful and visit her pastor regularly for prayers.
To cut a long story short the marriage is long over because I was able to force her to the hospital and found out that over 10 years before we ever met she did an abortion that affected her womb and that she can never get pregnant.

The other girl I would have married claims she is not a virgin but it will be sex after marriage only to find out she has other guys she sleeps with. Obviously this type of girls know they can never get pregnant.

Advice to guys out there that are ready and serious to get married should marry their woman when she is pregnant.
Saves a lot of wahalah for the man and the woman because men and women can be impotent .
Imagine you have been doing skin to skin over 5 years with your guy and you no miss period the something is wrong with the guy or you the woman.

what kind of sick daughter or family will trap a guy into marriage with false pregnancy unless their motives is to kill the guy and inherit his properties Otherwise na everyday fight for such marriage because mind nor dey

A thread created since 2015 moved to FP in 2020.

simplepee:
yeepaaa

that's a conversation these men don't want to have

ireneidiva:
Stop going about experimenting with/without condoms. How can you even comfortably sleep with a lady without protecting yourself? Are you a kid? Your sense should tell you that any lady that insists on sex without condoms has an ulterior motive. The last bullet- abstinence will protect you from these 'evil' ladies. Duh

I agree. But sometimes, We forget to have our my hands washed before setting down to eat. At least I have.

I can't be victim of their trick... one were we just knack one day call me after one week she's pregnant... I asked, if I asked her whether she's saved she said yes... how come she's pregnant on just 1 knack...k yank her off forever

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hahn:
I have this business associate. Last year, he told me he was getting married and even invited me to the wedding that was supposed to happen in Delta state. He did tell me she was pregnant and as a good guy that he was he decided to marry her and finally settle down. Fast forward to some months back, I was chatting with him on bbm and I asked him about his "wife" and he told me she was fine.

Concidentally, the next day I was on the Island running businesss when I met him going to the bank. He told me to follow him since I had finished all my transactions. Then I asked him again, "how's your wife?" And I got the shocker of my life, they weren't married. Here's the story: apparently, just about a week to the wedding, his fiance's ex came with some elders to meet him and explained to him that he, the ex, is actually the owner of the pregnancy and since he is not interested in getting married to the lady and he doesn't want his child to grow up with someone else or even exist he came to tell my friend the truth.

After enough consultations with some elders, he took his time and told his wife-to-be that they should go on 3 days fasting. After the first day he told her that the spirit of God revealed to him that there was something she was hiding from him(yes, he'll make a good pastor) and after enough pushing she eventually confessed. Apparently she still had the fear of God in her. In her confession she said she and her ex had a one nighter when he travelled for business. Obviously the wedding was cancelled and till today he has been unable to explain why he cancelled the wedding to his parents because they really loved the girl and sent money to her when they discovered she was pregnant.

Believe it or not, this same lady got married to someone else this year and again she was "pregnant" for the guy.

I have had a similar experience, my ex and I were doing it raw but since I was applying the withdrawal method, she decided to lie that she was pregnant barely 2 weeks into the relationship(she don see mugu). I told her no problem and a week later she was on her period. She later claimed she "made a mistake". Needless to say the relationship ended.

The funny thing is these ladies will suddenly flare up when you suggest or attempt to use a condom. Is this the new trend? Since these ladies have nothing to offer that will convince the guy to marry them they have to use these tactics. OR probably, they are in love with the guy but feel he needs a little bit of "convincing" because he feels he isn't ready yet.

Guys share your experiences. Ladies, give us your reasons.

Yes, this is the new trend amongst guys like you who choose to roll in the sack with women of little or no value system. Pardon me for sounding too judgemental.

ireneidiva:

No solution. Anybody that can't abstain should take anything he sees.

Gosh! I love you, no homo. These guys go out and mess up, then come back on nairaland to try and get some psycho-analysis.

The funny thing is these ladies will suddenly flare up when you suggest or attempt to use a condom
I wonder too, a new trend maybe. That how dey ignorantly spread various types of STD

hahn:
I have this business associate. Last year, he told me he was getting married and even invited me to the wedding that was supposed to happen in Delta state. He did tell me she was pregnant and as a good guy that he was he decided to marry her and finally settle down. Fast forward to some months back, I was chatting with him on bbm and I asked him about his "wife" and he told me she was fine.

Concidentally, the next day I was on the Island running businesss when I met him going to the bank. He told me to follow him since I had finished all my transactions. Then I asked him again, "how's your wife?" And I got the shocker of my life, they weren't married. Here's the story: apparently, just about a week to the wedding, his fiance's ex came with some elders to meet him and explained to him that he, the ex, is actually the owner of the pregnancy and since he is not interested in getting married to the lady and he doesn't want his child to grow up with someone else or even exist he came to tell my friend the truth.

After enough consultations with some elders, he took his time and told his wife-to-be that they should go on 3 days fasting. After the first day he told her that the spirit of God revealed to him that there was something she was hiding from him(yes, he'll make a good pastor) and after enough pushing she eventually confessed. Apparently she still had the fear of God in her. In her confession she said she and her ex had a one nighter when he travelled for business. Obviously the wedding was cancelled and till today he has been unable to explain why he cancelled the wedding to his parents because they really loved the girl and sent money to her when they discovered she was pregnant.

Believe it or not, this same lady got married to someone else this year and again she was "pregnant" for the guy.

I have had a similar experience, my ex and I were doing it raw but since I was applying the withdrawal method, she decided to lie that she was pregnant barely 2 weeks into the relationship(she don see mugu). I told her no problem and a week later she was on her period. She later claimed she "made a mistake". Needless to say the relationship ended.

The funny thing is these ladies will suddenly flare up when you suggest or attempt to use a condom. Is this the new trend? Since these ladies have nothing to offer that will convince the guy to marry them they have to use these tactics. OR probably, they are in love with the guy but feel he needs a little bit of "convincing" because he feels he isn't ready yet.

Guys share your experiences. Ladies, give us your reasons.

Horrible story but why do Nigerians have to hide behind infantile, superstitious games?

Why could he not have told her what he knew without the charade?

ireneidiva:

I said you should abstain. That should solve the problem.

You yourself, are you abstaining?

hahn:


And "she" can continue lying and deceiving guys. How nice

So men can be responsible for their actions while women can't?

I'm going to add this to reasons why women can't be equal to men

you should have just said feminism is your problem bro, all these your yarn nor make sense. Some ladies can be bitchy and some guys can be demons at times, what's all these for? You sound as if we guys are saints in all issues, pls this is childish

Nairaland dey run out of topic. Lol

.

Jacksyn09:





Story of my life, though I knew the pregnancy was mine but I feel trap and everybody is looking me like I’m wicked or I don’t wanna marry cos I’m already close to mid 30’s....just a month into relationship oooo.... marriage is for eternity and not just something you can just decide in a split of seconds

you know that but you dey knack raw? You better do what is right

A friend sent this to me this week, a girl he met few weeks ago claimed she's pregnant for him. I was wondering, this doesn't look official. No stamp, no signature.
Unfortunately for her, the clinic is close to my house and I know the owner.
We went there and ask the guy to help us confirm the pregnancy test result...


Long story short, Nigerian girls are very wicked!