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Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Maxi2020: 11:58am On May 16, 2020
Oh hail fellow Nairalanders!
Pls I do want to be as brief as possible.

I need a serious advice on how to go about this challenge.

I've notice for like a month now or so that my girlfriend and I we don't get too close any longer( don't mean we have issues, but like asexually) unlike before, she just can't wait to see me, she would hug,kiss and would want to be rolling all over me.

Since we've been dating we've had se**x and it was always awesome, at a time we both agree to stay off it till we get married.
There was a time she told me she at times she don't use to have urge for a long time. So I felt may be due to obvious reasons like stress and the likes.

To crown it all. Yesterday she open up to me and tell me that she has a problem, that for a long time now she never had any urg for me, she thought may be something went wrong that made her not have find herself attracted to me but that's not the case, that all men are even looking irritating to her, she doesn't want men close to her.

Her fears go deeper that even when she was surpose to have the urg as a normal being may be before, during and after her normal monthly period reverse is the case as she doesn't feel anything at all.

I became freez, because I noticed it but never wanted to wrongly conclude what I wasn't so sure of.

Pls elders and aunties of Nairaland kindly help a brethren in dear need.

Attn: Mod assist pls in pushing this forward.

Note! I'm not a good writer pls, so shun my bad nararion and focus on the point.
All questions will be answered.
Thanks.
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by MoneyMindset(m): 12:02pm On May 16, 2020
This one pass me lol
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Ab025(m): 12:03pm On May 16, 2020
Dont fret out bro,

There is nothing you can do. If she doesn't feel attracted to you again, trust me.... don't force it.....let her be.

Do your own part and if it doesn't work out, walk away. Life continues.

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Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Nobody: 12:05pm On May 16, 2020
Another guy is giving her sweet orgasm

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Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by iLegendd(m): 12:07pm On May 16, 2020
Nice post — keep it up.

All these men that don't know anything about sex or satisfying a woman always say, "The sex was awesome."

Give that girl to any of my students and see how she'll start loving sex more than going to Church or food even if she's a bisexual or a lesbian.

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Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Ningen(m): 12:09pm On May 16, 2020
That all men are even looking irritating to her, she doesn't want men close to her.

Is she gay?
At this point, you've to question her sexuality.

Anyway, there's any spark left in her.
Your relationship is not salvageable. It's gone.

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Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Ahmed0336(m): 12:09pm On May 16, 2020
Guy are you sure she's not into lesbianism?
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by GodPunishBiafra: 12:35pm On May 16, 2020
Maxi2020:
Oh hail fellow Nairalanders!
Pls I do want to be as brief as possible.

I need a serious advice on how to go about this challenge.

I've notice for like a month now or so that my girlfriend and I we don't get too close any longer( don't mean we have issues, but like asexually) unlike before, she just can't wait to see me, she would hug,kiss and would want to be rolling all over me.

Since we've been dating we've had se**x and it was always awesome, at a time we both agree to stay off it till we get married.
There was a time she told me she at times she don't use to have urge for a long time. So I felt may be due to obvious reasons like stress and the likes.

To crown it all. Yesterday she open up to me and tell me that she has a problem, that for a long time now she never had any urg for me, she thought may be something went wrong that made her not have find herself attracted to me but that's not the case, that all men are even looking irritating to her, she doesn't want men close to her.

Her fears go deeper that even when she was surpose to have the urg as a normal being may be before, during and after her normal monthly period reverse is the case as she doesn't feel anything at all.

I became freez, because I noticed it but never wanted to wrongly conclude what I wasn't so sure of.

Pls elders and aunties of Nairaland kindly help a brethren in dear need.

Attn: Mod assist pls in pushing this forward.

Note! I'm not a good writer pls, so shun my bad nararion and focus on the point.
All questions will be answered.
Thanks.
You're expiring already...
She probably is having it with someone new...
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by donbachi(m): 12:37pm On May 16, 2020
She don join lesbian gang.
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Shellsploit: 12:59pm On May 16, 2020
Kekereekun123:
Another guy is giving her amazing orgasm

Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Nobody: 1:13pm On May 16, 2020
let me make this clear, Men, the s...e..x may be spectacular for you as you will orga..sm with penetration. Women (99%) however do not o.r.g.a.sm with penetration, so while you are pounding away and feeling like a p.o.r.n.h.u.b star, she is in pain and praying for you to finish so that she can help herself with her fingers.
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Monaco2(m): 1:16pm On May 16, 2020
How old is she
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Nobody: 2:00pm On May 16, 2020
MelaninSkinGirl:
let me make this clear, Men, the s...e..x may be spectacular for you as you will orga..sm with penetration. Women (99%) however do not o.r.g.a.sm with penetration, so while you are pounding away and feeling like a p.o.r.n.h.u.b star, she is in pain and praying for you to finish so that she can help herself with her fingers.
Daaaayuuum

Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by prettysassygirl(f): 2:38pm On May 16, 2020
MelaninSkinGirl:
let me make this clear, Men, the s...e..x may be spectacular for you as you will orga..sm with penetration. Women (99%) however do not o.r.g.a.sm with penetration, so while you are pounding away and feeling like a p.o.r.n.h.u.b star, she is in pain and praying for you to finish so that she can help herself with her fingers.
Quite true
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Maxi2020: 3:24pm On May 16, 2020
Monaco2:
How old is she

She's 26
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Maxi2020: 3:26pm On May 16, 2020
Ahmed0336:
Guy are you sure she's not into lesbianism?

Very sure she's not bro
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Maxi2020: 3:31pm On May 16, 2020
Ab025:
Dont fret out bro,

There is nothing you can do. If she doesn't feel attracted to you again, trust me.... don't force it.....let her be.

Do your own part and if it doesn't work out, walk away. Life continues.

OK bro. Thanks
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Nobody: 3:43pm On May 16, 2020
There's a lot about that lady you do not know. Ask her if she has been at one time molested or raped, Ask her if she masturbate, or was circumcised and finally look closely if she as a female partner or a male one.

True some times ladies don't enjoy sex but endure it but there are times they really do especially during their heat periods. If your lady doesn't enjoy it at all and Men irritate her, then there's something wrong with her physiology.
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Monaco2(m): 7:51pm On May 16, 2020
Maxi2020:


She's 26

Ok, u should ask her if she is sexually attracted to female
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Ximenez(m): 8:55pm On May 16, 2020
Maxi2020:
Oh hail fellow Nairalanders!
Pls I do want to be as brief as possible.

I need a serious advice on how to go about this challenge.

I've notice for like a month now or so that my girlfriend and I we don't get too close any longer( don't mean we have issues, but like asexually) unlike before, she just can't wait to see me, she would hug,kiss and would want to be rolling all over me.

Since we've been dating we've had se**x and it was always awesome, at a time we both agree to stay off it till we get married.
There was a time she told me she at times she don't use to have urge for a long time. So I felt may be due to obvious reasons like stress and the likes.

To crown it all. Yesterday she open up to me and tell me that she has a problem, that for a long time now she never had any urg for me, she thought may be something went wrong that made her not have find herself attracted to me but that's not the case, that all men are even looking irritating to her, she doesn't want men close to her.

Her fears go deeper that even when she was surpose to have the urg as a normal being may be before, during and after her normal monthly period reverse is the case as she doesn't feel anything at all.

I became freez, because I noticed it but never wanted to wrongly conclude what I wasn't so sure of.

Pls elders and aunties of Nairaland kindly help a brethren in dear need.

Attn: Mod assist pls in pushing this forward.

Note! I'm not a good writer pls, so shun my bad nararion and focus on the point.
All questions will be answered.
Thanks.
She is already bored and wants to try something else, something new.

You can still patch things up and drag it on a little further, but I'll advise you to not do anything and just observe. Chances are that she's already talking to your replacement.
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Maxi2020: 9:51pm On May 16, 2020
Ximenez:
She is already bored and wants to try something else, something new.

You can still patch things up and drag it on a little further, but I'll advise you to not do anything and just observe. Chances are that she's already talking to your replacement.

OK bro
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by princesavo(m): 10:34pm On May 16, 2020
Bro dont agree with those who said she's having it somewhere else. It happened to babe and she said the same thing. She said she was already used to me and thats the major reason it happened. I had to just surprise her by playing often and not even being sexual about it. It’s totally normal bro. Take your mind off sex for now, and just be more romantic. Kiss her forehead when she’s not looking, peck her, watch movies with her, cuddle her, kiss her randomly and with time, she will loosen up

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Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by flokii: 10:43pm On May 16, 2020
Should we tell him?
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Maxi2020: 7:36am On May 17, 2020
princesavo:
Bro dont agree with those who said she's having it somewhere else. It happened to babe and she said the same thing. She said she was already used to me and thats the major reason it happened. I had to just surprise her by playing often and not even being sexual about it. It’s totally normal bro. Take your mind off sex for now, and just be more romantic. Kiss her forehead when she’s not looking, peck her, watch movies with her, cuddle her, kiss her randomly and with time, she will loosen up

Thanks so much bro
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Nobody: 7:49am On May 17, 2020
stop fornication and leave her alone,she belongs to the convent,thats her calling
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by oluwaseyi0: 7:55am On May 17, 2020
She is probably seeing someone else that's promising her marriage
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by Myhusband(m): 8:23am On May 17, 2020
Either she's cheating or now into homosexuality. Either of the two, set a trap for her either WhatsApp/Facebook to get her


Do male account, if she no fall, use pretty female acct to test beside that relationship is gone even if you find out. If a lady tell you something like that, the relationship survival is 12%
Re: Help And Save My 2yr Relationship Pls by sanemind2(m): 10:20am On May 17, 2020
Don't push it, just let it go...

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