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Stacyomolola:
what if she isnt actually cheating, what if u having all this assumptions due to guilty conscience, u should be sure so not to loose an angel cos u would regret later on.
What makes u think everyone wants her

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Freemanalee:
All these signs are spot on...my same experience.
My girl cheated on me badly before and I forgave her. Just recently, I happened to hack through her WhatsApp simply because she started displaying the 3 signs of a cheating partner as mentioned by the OP..
What I found blew me off.

Bro, how you take do that whatsapp stuff?

horllar007:


Dating a beautiful girl will make you feel like you aren't the only one dating her....

So does that mean we should date ugly ones?

Perhaps, do guys date ugly ladies?

They get angry easily with their partners,just for no reason in order to put the blame on their man.

how old are u?

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Good advice for pussy ass niggarrrz
Not we the real niggarrrs
Women don't cheat on real niggarrrz because real niggarrrz don't do love and relationships

they see women as swimming pool
They don't give a fuckkkkk if the swimming pool have never been used
They don't give a fuckkk who have been swimming before they started swimming
They don't give a fuckkkkk who will swim after they are done swimming their own
And they don't give a fuckkkkk who is even swimming with them as they are swimming
They just swim their own sharpely and move on.
Real niggarrrz bang pussy and move on.

horllar007:


Dating a beautiful girl will make you feel like you aren't the only one dating her....

I once date one ugly girl,na when i want get heart attack I free her,as in,her phone ring every time like ashewo house customer care line

FuckAllTheMODs:
Bro, how you take do that whatsapp stuff?

bro I won't advice you not to hack WhatsApp account of your gf ooo,but b4 you do so,try and check the backyard of your family house, if there is enough space for burial ground, cos heart attack is real my brother

Blitz888:
For the umpteenth time... Another post for female bashing making front page in quick succession..

Men cheat as much as women do. Chauvinistic, misogynistic and gender biased threads like this most times is an morbid attempt at compensating for an insecurity or worse still an inadequacy.

Let's love and respect them more and you'll see them do right by themselves.

Though not excusing those that are misbehaving but we should balance the narrative because it swings both ways.

Men and women cheating is not the same thing who dem dey f**k and who dey Bleep no be the same bro... you be woman wrapper

I dated a girl in my 4th and 5th year in the uni, this girl was super caring, pretty and had a sweet voice, I broke up with her because am afraid she'll probably cheat on me wen am outta school, she was in 200 lvl then.

As karma striked, it took me More that one year to move on, I learnt some lessons the hard way.
1. Never initiate a break up unless u are completely sure your partner is a t fault

2. If u find someone that truly loves u, and u don't in return, at least make them ur best of friends.

3. Neva go into a relationship with the hope that u will change the behavior of ur partner.

Olarewaju89:
OK. What of this? Who do you think she want to stone??

his mother but she didn't Know

jonahhh:
Men and women cheating is not the same thing who dem dey f**k and who dey Bleep no be the same bro... you be woman wrapper

Man sokoto!

What do you know?

Are you married?

Do you have a daughter you love and adore?

What's your relationship with your mother and sisters?

My guess is that none of these exist.

Wait till you walk in my shoes then you can have an opinion or even call me names.

Dysfunction adults like you think coming on a faceless forum to rub you nonexistent bloated ego in people's faces helps you come to term with your troubled childhood.

Only those who are hurting, hurt others!

Irony of life! The girl you are madly in love with is also madly in love with another guy. I have been there and it really hurts. The moment they started seeing someone else is the moment they started picking up fights with you on irrelevant issues.
She doesn't see you attractive anymore. They add more security to their phone. She doesn't want to press or use her phone in your presence so that you don't know who she is talking to. They started deleting their conversations just for you not to see what they are doing with their phones.
Its such a awkward moment and feelings to see your love fading away in the heart of the person you love and there is nothing you can do.
I have woke up in the early hour of 5am in the morning on the day of my birthday only to drove my girlfriend younger brother to Ajah to sign his NYSC payslip and surprisingly my girlfriend was fighting me because I didn't pick her call while driving to Ajah and I spent almost 8hours waiting for his brother to do the payslip things so that we can go back home and have little celebration with my friends and family. During my stay waiting for the brother to get done with his stuff, my girlfriend didn't for a seconds call me to ask how im doing or if I have eaten at all despite the fact that she knew its my birthday. The only moment she chat me up was to ask me for subscription money for her phone. I got back home around 6.30pm that day and my girlfriend didn't care if I have a good day or not. She makes sure I had a bad day despite the fact that I was trying to help her own brother while I was neglecting my bday.
I use to take my girlfriend to Ibadan every Sunday and pick her up every Friday when she was doing her NYSC till she finished, but one fateful day, I left Ibadan around 8pm going back home to ogun state and there was a heavy rainfall on the road that everywhere was so dark and blurry that you will hardly see the road or the cars ahead of you. I almost crash my car and fell into a pitfall by the highway but God was there to protect me. I was shaking like a little baby. I had to call my girlfriend and informed her of my ordeal and what I encounter at that same spot but surprisingly, the next morning when I was expecting the first call on my phone to be from my girlfriend, opposite was the case. I was still the one that picked up my phone to call her again and greet her despite that fact, she didn't do as if I told her anything the previous night.
My brothers girls can be funny and so frustrating. Devil is living inside some of them but they are just pretending to be nice. God created every woman to be of bad deed but once they do good deed its their mistake and not the real them. They are created to be evil. We just need to be watchful and prayerful.

OmoAlakija:
You forgot to mention her being so private with her phone , or fixing nails and lashes when y'all not planning on going out and a few hours later , she gives you excuses that her mother is sick or someone died in their house ? So she can go out with other men

You forgot to mention how disrespectful she might start becoming

You forgot to mention how her timing no longer adds up , or when she disappear for hours ?

I've been there before and its so painful when the person u loved the most and trusted the most has been going out with other men behind your back and she acts so sweet to you , always swearing to you that she'll never cheat even when you don't ask her , giving men head..

I forgave her and we moved on , she's changed ever since then but guess what ? She woke the devil in me coz I've screwed over 12 girls after she cheated so I'm also pretending to be real now she's just noting but a sex object , my love playing role is A +

Furck any thing fuxxxck able

See you see high blood pressure at a very young age, emotional distress, phycological problems and possibly life long health issues cos of chaff relationship that would soon inevitably end..

EXLOVER:
I'm going through hell right now, I was very happy with my single status o, until world people begin disturb me say i need girlfriend, call me names, call me even stingy sef. I decided to go into a relationship, I love her so much and she love me too, we don't stay together, we see ourselves on few occasion, have never caught her cheating before, but anytime i imagine her cheating, my heart beats very fast, if i call her and it's showing call waiting, my heart beats very very faster.

My girl is very beautiful, like everybody wants her, there was a time we were walking together and one mature man saw us and said, guy is she your girlfriend? Hold her very tight o.

I'm a cheater, but whenever i do it, I'm not always happy with myself, I feel really bad and hurt inside, I'm doing it because I'm having the feeling my girlfriend is cheating.


I feel like ending the relationship, because I'm tired of all the heart beats and BP. I have tried quarreling several times with her, and won't call her, but she will call to apologize, my heart ❤️ will just melt.

God relationship of a thing is very hard abeg. Is any Guy going through this same shit?

horllar007:
Can your relationship recover from cheating?

Cheating

People cheat for different reasons. The general consensus is that it's wrong. No ifs, and or buts.

If you've ever been cheated on, you know that it feels pretty awful. It's a blow to your ego and your self-esteem. If you are a man reading this article; here are subtle signs that your woman is cheating on you.

1) She is always lost in thought

Women are known to be attentive creatures and great listeners. They sacrifice a lot in relationships but if she barely pays attention to what their man is saying, that means something or someone else is playing on their minds.

In fact, sometimes she may be totally lost in thought and may even lose touch with reality. If she is cheating, she will also probably think of ways to break up and hence, may appear distracted.

2) She has lost interest in romance

No matter how good the lovemaking was, she will lose interest if she is dating another man. She will begin to act so cold and distant lately; finding excuses not to have intimate time with you.

3) Constantly asking about her man’s schedule

Most women inquire about their man’s daily itinerary to plan for surprises, prepare supper on time or go on dates. But if she suddenly takes too much interest in her man’s schedule, and wants to know exactly when he leaves and comes back home, she might be planning to have the other guy over for a visit.

everything you mentioned are symptoms of CONVID19 ��

OmoAlakija:
You forgot to mention her being so private with her phone , or fixing nails and lashes when y'all not planning on going out and a few hours later , she gives you excuses that her mother is sick or someone died in their house ? So she can go out with other men

You forgot to mention how disrespectful she might start becoming

You forgot to mention how her timing no longer adds up , or when she disappear for hours ?

I've been there before and its so painful when the person u loved the most and trusted the most has been going out with other men behind your back and she acts so sweet to you , always swearing to you that she'll never cheat even when you don't ask her , giving men head..

I forgave her and we moved on , she's changed ever since then but guess what ? She woke the devil in me coz I've screwed over 12 girls after she cheated so I'm also pretending to be real now she's just noting but a sex object , my love playing role is A +

bad man

koyyess:
Stop spilling your filthy secrets here. I know your type. Gutter brain.

Where is your so called girlfriend by the way? You came here to nag about your heartbreak while still playing and celebrating community dog. How many houses have you built with that so called gutter achievement?

You need to be hung by the balls and lashed severely. What a disgrace.

Both of you don't have sense. Fighting on a faceless forum?

You forgot to add, When she goes out to get some ffuckeddd from the other guy and the dick is good, she giggles n laugh a lot even when nothing is funny, while also trying to piss you off by trying to pin something on you just to fight or ask for a breakup. I don Waka pass that terrain too sha

horllar007:
Can your relationship recover from cheating?

Cheating

People cheat for different reasons. The general consensus is that it's wrong. No ifs, and or buts.

If you've ever been cheated on, you know that it feels pretty awful. It's a blow to your ego and your self-esteem. If you are a man reading this article; here are subtle signs that your woman is cheating on you.


1) She is always lost in thought

Women are known to be attentive creatures and great listeners. They sacrifice a lot in relationships but if she barely pays attention to what their man is saying, that means something or someone else is playing on their minds.

In fact, sometimes she may be totally lost in thought and may even lose touch with reality. If she is cheating, she will also probably think of ways to break up and hence, may appear distracted.

2) She has lost interest in romance

No matter how good the lovemaking was, she will lose interest if she is dating another man. She will begin to act so cold and distant lately; finding excuses not to have intimate time with you.

3) Constantly asking about her man’s schedule

Most women inquire about their man’s daily itinerary to plan for surprises, prepare supper on time or go on dates. But if she suddenly takes too much interest in her man’s schedule, and wants to know exactly when he leaves and comes back home, she might be planning to have the other guy over for a visit.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Good advice for pussy ass niggarrrz
Not we the real niggarrrs
Women don't cheat on real niggarrrz because real niggarrrz don't do love and relationships

they see women as swimming pool
They don't give a fuckkkkk if the swimming pool have never been used
They don't give a fuckkk who have been swimming before they started swimming
They don't give a fuckkkkk who will swim after they are done swimming their own
And they don't give a fuckkkkk who is even swimming with them as they are swimming
They just swim their own sharpely and move on.
Real niggarrrz bang pussy and move on.

I thought you're fasting? na wa o.

OmoAlakija:
You forgot to mention her being so private with her phone , or fixing nails and lashes when y'all not planning on going out and a few hours later , she gives you excuses that her mother is sick or someone died in their house ? So she can go out with other men

You forgot to mention how disrespectful she might start becoming

You forgot to mention how her timing no longer adds up , or when she disappear for hours ?

I've been there before and its so painful when the person u loved the most and trusted the most has been going out with other men behind your back and she acts so sweet to you , always swearing to you that she'll never cheat even when you don't ask her , giving men head..

I forgave her and we moved on , she's changed ever since then but guess what ? She woke the devil in me coz I've screwed over 12 girls after she cheated so I'm also pretending to be real now she's just noting but a sex object , my love playing role is A +

You will soon be a family man but that your later behaviour might not help.

abd09abd:
Irony of life! The girl you are madly in love with is also madly in love with another guy. I have been there and it really hurts. The moment they started seeing someone else is the moment they started picking up fights with you on irrelevant issues.
She doesn't see you attractive anymore. They add more security to their phone. She doesn't want to press or use her phone in your presence so that you don't know who she is talking to. They started deleting their conversations just for you not to see what they are doing with their phones.
Its such a awkward moment and feelings to see your love fading away in the heart of the person you love and there is nothing you can do.
I have woke up in the early hour of 5am in the morning on the day of my birthday only to drove my girlfriend younger brother to Ajah to sign his NYSC payslip and surprisingly my girlfriend was fighting me because I didn't pick her call while driving to Ajah and I spent almost 8hours waiting for his brother to do the payslip things so that we can go back home and have little celebration with my friends and family. During my stay waiting for the brother to get done with his stuff, my girlfriend didn't for a seconds call me to ask how im doing or if I have eaten at all despite the fact that she knew its my birthday. The only moment she chat me up was to ask me for subscription money for her phone. I got back home around 6.30pm that day and my girlfriend didn't care if I have a good day or not. She makes sure I had a bad day despite the fact that I was trying to help her own brother while I was neglecting my bday.
I use to take my girlfriend to Ibadan every Sunday and pick her up every Friday when she was doing her NYSC, but one fateful day, I left Ibadan around 8pm going back home to ogun state and there was a heavy rainfall on the road that everywhere was so dark and blurry that you will hardly see the road or the cars ahead of you. I almost crash my car and fell into a pitfall by the highway but God was there to protect me. I was shaking like a little baby. I had to call my girlfriend and informed her of my ordeal and what I encounter at that same spot but surprisingly, the next morning when I was expecting the first call on my phone to be from my girlfriend, opposite was the case. I was still the one that picked up my phone to call her again and greet her despite that fact, she didn't do as if I told her anything the previous night.
My brothers girls can be funny and so frustrating. Devil is living inside some of them but they are just pretending to be nice. God created every woman to be of bad deed but once they do good deed its their mistake and not the real them. They are created to be evil. We just need to be watchful and prayerful.

Are you still a weak lover boy doing all her biddings? Or have you grown some balls and moved on?

Weak men every where. You will surely be stepped on and kicked in the curb if she ever sees another man that can feed her and promise her marriage. If she ends up with you, then its for the sole reason that you are the only financially capable option available.

And why are you in a serious relationshio with a hoe still doing her NYSC?
When will Nigerian men ever have sense and know that undergraduates and girls going for NYSC shouldn't be taken seriously. They must cheat on you with no mercy. Unless you never served...or you are just too stupid to acknowledge the fact that once these girls goes for service, no matter how good she was with you, another dude will fucck craze out of her brain.

Once your babe goes for NYSC, bros forget her and get another girl.

As for me true love does not exist anymore,97% of our girls now go for who is richer. No money no love!
Dm us for your different types of high quality male/female Fabrics ,Curtains and beddings at affordable prices. Zero Seven Zero Five Two One One Three Four Zero Five

ibkayee:
She may behave like this if she's cheating, but you've made a lot of assumptions (and asserted them as facts) that may actually end up helping a lady who is indeed cheating (if this is how guys think they're supposed to act )

Or end up hurting someone who exhibits some of these behaviors but genuinely isn't cheating lol

These behaviours may occur, but they're also are a bit too 'ordinary' to be held as some kind of 'paradigm' for catching female cheats lol

Ib, you have sense.
Is your name IB?

infogenius:
Abeg make una leave the ladies alone.
It takes two to tangle. Men invariably cheat more.

Please free the ladies for once.

Then open a thread for that.

EXLOVER:
I'm going through hell right now, I was very happy with my single status o, until world people begin disturb me say i need girlfriend, call me names, call me even stingy sef. I decided to go into a relationship, I love her so much and she love me too, we don't stay together, we see ourselves on few occasion, have never caught her cheating before, but anytime i imagine her cheating, my heart beats very fast, if i call her and it's showing call waiting, my heart beats very very faster.

My girl is very beautiful, like everybody wants her, there was a time we were walking together and one mature man saw us and said, guy is she your girlfriend? Hold her very tight o.

I'm a cheater, but whenever i do it, I'm not always happy with myself, I feel really bad and hurt inside, I'm doing it because I'm having the feeling my girlfriend is cheating.


I feel like ending the relationship, because I'm tired of all the heart beats and BP. I have tried quarreling several times with her, and won't call her, but she will call to apologize, my heart ❤️ will just melt.

God relationship of a thing is very hard abeg. Is any Guy going through this same shit?

You are very weak emotionally and easily give in to women. I hope women will not be the cause of your death. Your girlfriend is cheating! Most young ladies of nowadays are lesbians and they cheat a lot.

Save your energy. Learn to understand that women will always cheat and be truly free! This generation of women are all cheaters.

Freemanalee:
All these signs are spot on...my same experience.
My girl cheated on me badly before and I forgave her. Just recently, I happened to hack through her WhatsApp simply because she started displaying the 3 signs of a cheating partner as mentioned by the OP..
What I found blew me off.

Teach us how to hack into whatsap

Blitz888:
For the umpteenth time... Another post for female bashing making front page in quick succession..

Men cheat as much as women do. Chauvinistic, misogynistic and gender biased threads like this most times is an morbid attempt at compensating for an insecurity or worse still an inadequacy.

Let's love and respect them more and you'll see them do right by themselves.

Though not excusing those that are misbehaving but we should balance the narrative because it swings both ways.

The females should be the one to create that one..no one bashes himself, is natural

EXLOVER:
I'm going through hell right now, I was very happy with my single status o, until world people begin disturb me say i need girlfriend, call me names, call me even stingy sef. I decided to go into a relationship, I love her so much and she love me too, we don't stay together, we see ourselves on few occasion, have never caught her cheating before, but anytime i imagine her cheating, my heart beats very fast, if i call her and it's showing call waiting, my heart beats very very faster.

My girl is very beautiful, like everybody wants her, there was a time we were walking together and one mature man saw us and said, guy is she your girlfriend? Hold her very tight o.

I'm a cheater, but whenever i do it, I'm not always happy with myself, I feel really bad and hurt inside, I'm doing it because I'm having the feeling my girlfriend is cheating.


I feel like ending the relationship, because I'm tired of all the heart beats and BP. I have tried quarreling several times with her, and won't call her, but she will call to apologize, my heart ❤️ will just melt.

God relationship of a thing is very hard abeg. Is any Guy going through this same shit?

I experienced same in Secondary school.

The day she will break off, you will cry like a baby. You will slim within a week and the only available cure will be to get another girlfriend.

That her lovely nature of apologizing when you Fuc.ked up even when u are cheating on her will hunt your emotions down.

Just get ready.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Good advice for pussy ass niggarrrz
Not we the real niggarrrs
Women don't cheat on real niggarrrz because real niggarrrz don't do love and relationships

they see women as swimming pool
They don't give a fuckkkkk if the swimming pool have never been used
They don't give a fuckkk who have been swimming before they started swimming
They don't give a fuckkkkk who will swim after they are done swimming their own
And they don't give a fuckkkkk who is even swimming with them as they are swimming
They just swim their own sharpely and move on.
Real niggarrrz bang pussy and move on.

Yes O, Baby Daddy, shebi you no go marry na?

abd09abd:
Irony of life! The girl you are madly in love with is also madly in love with another guy. I have been there and it really hurts. The moment they started seeing someone else is the moment they started picking up fights with you on irrelevant issues.
She doesn't see you attractive anymore. They add more security to their phone. She doesn't want to press or use her phone in your presence so that you don't know who she is talking to. They started deleting their conversations just for you not to see what they are doing with their phones.
Its such a awkward moment and feelings to see your love fading away in the heart of the person you love and there is nothing you can do.
I have woke up in the early hour of 5am in the morning on the day of my birthday only to drove my girlfriend younger brother to Ajah to sign his NYSC payslip and surprisingly my girlfriend was fighting me because I didn't pick her call while driving to Ajah and I spent almost 8hours waiting for his brother to do the payslip things so that we can go back home and have little celebration with my friends and family. During my stay waiting for the brother to get done with his stuff, my girlfriend didn't for a seconds call me to ask how im doing or if I have eaten at all despite the fact that she knew its my birthday. The only moment she chat me up was to ask me for subscription money for her phone. I got back home around 6.30pm that day and my girlfriend didn't care if I have a good day or not. She makes sure I had a bad day despite the fact that I was trying to help her own brother while I was neglecting my bday.
I use to take my girlfriend to Ibadan every Sunday and pick her up every Friday when she was doing her NYSC, but one fateful day, I left Ibadan around 8pm going back home to ogun state and there was a heavy rainfall on the road that everywhere was so dark and blurry that you will hardly see the road or the cars ahead of you. I almost crash my car and fell into a pitfall by the highway but God was there to protect me. I was shaking like a little baby. I had to call my girlfriend and informed her of my ordeal and what I encounter at that same spot but surprisingly, the next morning when I was expecting the first call on my phone to be from my girlfriend, opposite was the case. I was still the one that picked up my phone to call her again and greet her despite that fact, she didn't do as if I told her anything the previous night.
My brothers girls can be funny and so frustrating. Devil is living inside some of them but they are just pretending to be nice. God created every woman to be of bad deed but once they do good deed its their mistake and not the real them. They are created to be evil. We just need to be watchful and prayerful.

Na wao

Some guys can really sacrifice o

You will never know if I am cheating

Evergreen4:
There's element of cheating in every human being but the degree varies

Word of the week.......but it annonys me people will still argue this and na them go first shout pass say trust nobody!!