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Premiumwriter:
forget this nonsense talk about not touching a woman.


Some women de f*ck up and if you no correct them with some methods such as a good slap dey will not understand the extent of their actions.

iamjean:
Omo, this life Shaa, me I have been working since 22 yo, I earn 4 times that amount and still I don't even think I am ready financially for marriage, maybe because I am just 26 now though.

I am constantly thinking of personal development and how to make more money,I don't even have nor keep any girlfriend, I run from girls as if they are plagues.

Aplaudez:
The truth is you guys ain't understanding yourselves, if truly she's your wife and she's the mother of your daughter, create a very sweet environment, you can even take her out and sit her down and talk things out!

I'm not happy you couldn't caution yourself, what's done is done, please try to caution yourself next time!

God bless your family!

ademidedavid:
Its not for you to believe, just pray it doesn't happen to you.....but when it does happen, you will always live to believe any marital issues and work towards perfecting your home

Poorboy:
Broke man ,broke man if her father is not broke will she be totally dependent on you.

How old is she?

Is she educated?

Does she have a job?

Is the other sisters married and doing well than you people?

Is she from a wealthy home, like she is used to comfort already?

Which state do you reside?

See you cannot satisfy greed, your wife is a greedy person. How can your wife ask you to look for money for her to travel out then you feel you have a wife.

Work on your emotions don't allow the term wife to make you try to impress, if you put yourself in unnecessary pressure to make money and die before your burial another man will already be sleeping with her. She is the money type.

Tell people the truth and let them know their worth, I once told my fiancee I am not your responsibility, if you can't survive quit.

Don't regret beating her, though I don't subscribe to that.

Titi03:
How old is your wife coz I don't understand this childish mentality.

Its 2020! do people still believe everything others post or "show off" on social media?

travelland:
Mr cautioner, hope you don't continue this way, if your wife can't tell you to go out and hustle I wonder who can encourage you in this life

travelland:
You're already getting worked up sir please deal with your anger issues

KanwuliaExtra:
Indeed!
Which of your online personality am I dealing with? The abusive one or the cowardly one?




Let me give you time to reveal your real agenda.

Welcome!

Aplaudez:
The truth is you guys ain't understanding yourselves, if truly she's your wife and she's the mother of your daughter, create a very sweet environment, you can even take her out and sit her down and talk things out!

I'm not happy you couldn't caution yourself, what's done is done, please try to caution yourself next time!

God bless your family!

ademidedavid:
She's into her own business......that's my only regret, I wish I never raised my hands on her.

0go123:
He doesn't have anger issues here, try to be reasonable on your replies. I think you are the one with anger issues here tho

MansoryMX:
Not just some. A lot of women of this generation from the age of 14-40yrs lack basic parental home training. Broken marriages yakpata. My wife wan carry exactly this kind leg a year ago in our marriage. You know what I did? I transferred all my money from all 3 accounts to that of my company account and told her we are broke. We ate from the gutter, 4 good months to an extent 2 months she nor do hair and she learnt her lesson, today she nor dare ask me money for irrelevant things. I told her after u are done with your NYSC and working, you can lavish your own money.

yomi007k:
Bola o...I dey gbadun you everytime. You get sense.

pDudd:
Hahahahahahahahahahaha. No entity o. I'm just a long time fan of yours.

klenton:
you are just an empty vessel, na coconut water full that your head

what is it with Africans and religious belief, kneel down pray, have faith like a mustard seed!!! must everything be about religion the woman's request is stupid and that is what it is, which one is pray for God to give you the money, what happens to the woman praying on her own for God to give her the money.

do you know how many families that are looking for money just to eat, money to buy drugs, do you know how many families that does not have a decent shelter over there heads, families that cant afford a hospital, what happens to thanking God and been grateful, must it be pray for one luxury or the other.

and let's say u prayed ur way to a dubia trip, what if the woman needs a gwagon tomorrow or even cravings to fly private jet or a cruise trip round the world and you couldn't pray yourself out of it....i dont know why some women have failed to be reasonable as a people, is it that there processing brain is limited from birth, honestly it differs logic.

BluntTheApostle:
So, nagging makes a woman a strong vessel?

You people will just come and make some really annoying statements.

She was angry and abused him. He was angry, and he hit her. They were both weak, and gave in to their emotions.

Moreover, hitting a person is not the only weakness a person is capable of when provoked. Walking out on your partner is also a weakness. I have a lot of men like that in my workplace. They prefer to do overtime than to go home because home is hot. They are avoiding confrontation. But does that make them strong? They will tell you that their wives are demons and that if they stay with their wives for a second, they could strangle her. So, they stay until night in the office. Some of them even drive straight to the pub from the office. Anywhere but home. Is that strength?

Please, we should not be too quick to judge others.

Mariangeles:
That is where self-control comes in.

emmaodet:

Brosssssssss
You don vex?

humilitypays:
I have said it over and over again, 99% of the problems in today marriages is as a result of money and then sex!

Guys don't allow anybody to push you to marry when you are not financially ready and settled because majority of ladies today want a flamboyant life even in marriage....social media have influenced today women, they now live for the gram!

Op, with the kind of life most Nigerian ladies of today want to live in marriage, no federal civil service job without corruption can afford it. How much do they pay most civil servants; NGN250,000 at most for level 12 above which most young people cannot attain until they have approached 50yrs+.


It is not a must to marry. If you cannot find a lady ready to work and till the soil with you to make that billions she wants to enjoy and flaunt, please stay single oh, the world is already overpopulated, we have enough humans so if you no born, its not a big deal!!

If you must marry, marry a working class lady, working class ladies seem to have sense small, more than jobless, unemployed ladies who only sit at home watching TV and fantasising to live flamboyant life like those they spend their whole time watching on TV. Guys stop glorifying unemployed, manner less ladies with wedding ring!!!

Marry financially productive ladies, they understand the pains of making a dime, they appreciate the little you have and are ready to put effort with you to build that dream future, not all those lazy, jobless ladies una de marry all because of big ass and big breast that you will still get bored and tired of after you marry her

mblarry1:
Send u a mail... Please get bck to mi

osazsky:
pls how old are u don't quite me again..I have worked for various multinationals. Banks. Before I set up my biz...if u are a female and working for a good company once u give birth u are given 3 to 6 months leave with pay..have u finished secondary sch..I pray my son don't come across such..my wife is a caterer her least job is 1m for services and deco.if u price 999 thousand u will be directed to her friend..go and work this is the 21st century..the sex u can offer all other girls can offer it too.sex is overrated

MSEdLAW:
God bless you...it’s their type foul mannered irritants , insisting men must cope at all cost with their lack of proper parenting, peer pressure induced madness and/or poor upbringing in the name of marriage... The Ratio of men to women globally is 4(men): 6(women) any man that dies because of an insane woman dies foolishly there are POF!!!!

Heathrow44:
Nne & where re u in d equation or are u not a human being with d same no of hands & legs like d man Y is it that women in relationship always feel entitled t be taken care of when both of u feel in love & took a decision t start a family, then out of nowhere d man is t work & then urs is t eat right? Madam, go & work & provide 4 d family.. In d animal kingdom is d lion & in most times lioness that hunt 4 food together as a pride(family), don't sit ur ass down like a toddler & wait t be fed like a quote & unquote "Queen" DAT obviously u re(sarcastic). A lot of all this stems from the lies that women are fed with that they are "Special" & should be treated as queen when in all honesty they aren't special anymore like a chocolate!

meetme01:
You don F-up. Raising your hands on any woman talkless your wife has degraded you. That's the bitter truth.

Back to the main issue. Your wife needs your unreserved apology. You need remorseful which is through your attitude. Let her know you are deeply sorry.

To her, is she not working? Why have you refused to set her up in a biz? One problem I have realized in today's marriage is, finance. It's really creating a lot of issues in most marriage. As a man, if you earn from three sources, declare only two. Let her know how the money is spent to the last kobo. That was the initial problem, you need to fix that part asap

Poorboy:
a girl is a commodity I should afford, that says alot about the family you come from.

My moniker is POORBOY, yes if I no be davido, Wizkid, e-money etc then I never rich na....

funmisticqueen2:
when i say afford. I mean that you cant afford to be in their presence.


I take no responsibility if you choose to misinterpret my statement.

Poorboy:
I like men wey get sense, who you owe are your parents, I doubt if he has a wife like that he can remember to buy anything for his parents.

I repeat young guys try and secure your future even though you are married, investing in a woman is bad business

Some will ask how is it bad business?

If you try all you could to satisfy a greedy woman when it's time to leave, she will leave you to your fate and by that time you won't have anything left with you again, because all your money was been consumed by her.

I was given a marriage list of about 1.5 million just the list only, that's what is delaying me from getting married, what did I do, I paused the marriage.

Now I am building a 5 self-contained rooms for rent, I will finish that before I continue the marriage because I come to realize that for marriage to be successful it's money that drives love now.

Tyriq:
You've being on point man.. Thanks for the update.