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Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Nobody: 10:26pm On May 20, 2020 |
osazsky:breast feeding is work o. Shuuu! 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by osazsky(m): 10:27pm On May 20, 2020 |
sowilli:a civil servant with side huzle in a month on d average he earns 200k d wife should go and look for 100k job making it 300k..any family that cannot survive with 300k a month has a serious medical condition that eats up the money maybe cancer 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by kunletexs: 10:27pm On May 20, 2020 |
Bola146: Please, are you TRULY a lady? If yes, then I just want to say am touched. Thanks for speaking frankly to your gender. Not toasting you o, are you still single within the age bracket of 32 - 36 years, let us discuss. I click. The like for your frank comment. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by ademidedavid(f): 10:27pm On May 20, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:I am very hard working even her family can testify but althesame, thanks for this. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by osazsky(m): 10:28pm On May 20, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:so u don't know when women breastfedd they are given compulsory 3 months leave 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by m140(m): 10:28pm On May 20, 2020 |
emmaodet:I tell my wife , na lazy man go dey fear make woman no leave am. I no fit come die, make you get money like shekere, even sabi in the other room like werey, if them go leave , they will. If my best ain't enough pack your load. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Deoboss(m): 10:28pm On May 20, 2020 |
ademidedavid: I thought most ladies want GOD fearing, faithful, honest & loving man as husband. Here is one of such men they describe but his wife would rather want other wise. Don’t hit or slap her next time as this is where you are at fault. But again she behaves like she does not know what’s happening in the country economy wise as cost of living & things generally are very expensive so she just have to be content with what you can provide & work hard also to contribute her quota. Don’t hustle illegally or steal funds. After the man goes thru illegal ways to make more money to please his wife & he gets caught eventually which is always the case, then he is shown on t.v by EFCC it is this same wife that will insult her husband as a shameless man. Such wives are quick to move on with another man once the bubble burst & dump the marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by osazsky(m): 10:29pm On May 20, 2020 |
kunletexs:correct man 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Nobody: 10:30pm On May 20, 2020 |
osazsky:because it is work intensive. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by m140(m): 10:30pm On May 20, 2020 |
ademidedavid:Go buy ps5 ,dey use am cool body.... my brother our papas try no be small 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Babaken(m): 10:30pm On May 20, 2020 |
rockstarB:bet me if she get a job tomorrow she Will sell her body join not minding she a married woman just to leave the kind of life she want. 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by ademidedavid(f): 10:33pm On May 20, 2020 |
grandstar:I was actually working with a private sector before moving into federal sector just because I will have better time for my PP, all in the name of making more money........I thinking keeping certain sources of income will go a long way in solving the issues .....much gratitude |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by gidoskiaustino(m): 10:33pm On May 20, 2020 |
If I advised you not to marry a woman who likea fine fine thing am sure you wouldn't have listened. My heart felt prayers are will you all 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Munzy14(m): 10:33pm On May 20, 2020 |
ademidedavid:How a literate and well exposed guy like u, ended up marrying a "sit down look" as a wife, baffles me. This is an ant infested wood u brought home. Enjoy the lizards having a field day. 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Deoboss(m): 10:33pm On May 20, 2020 |
My candid advice:- Don’t let your wife push you into crooked ways you will live to regret & don’t allow her make you feel less of a man cause you can’t afford the life-style she can’t maintain for herself as well. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Poorboy: 10:34pm On May 20, 2020 |
m140:that's why it's not good to invest in women. I call it bad business. 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by ademidedavid(f): 10:34pm On May 20, 2020 |
lereinter:So I should beat her black and blue and you will still be the 1st person to crucify me 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Skepticus: 10:36pm On May 20, 2020 |
emmaodet: When you tell men to completely abandon marriage/dating and go their own way when they CAN'T find a woman that meets 90% of marriage material, they'll start screaming INCEL. The kids these men seek can be gotten outside the rigid confines of the business contract called marriage. Then, they go ahead to lower their standards in picking these women, ending up marrying the worst of women and enabling their bad behaviour. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Slimpotter(m): 10:36pm On May 20, 2020 |
Mariangeles: As in ehn. Thats to show she didn't fully read the story, she just has her own warped view about men that she has already concluded that this is another typical cases of men hurting women. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by osazsky(m): 10:36pm On May 20, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:pls how old are u don't quite me again..I have worked for various multinationals. Banks. Before I set up my biz...if u are a female and working for a good company once u give birth u are given 3 to 6 months leave with pay..have u finished secondary sch..I pray my son don't come across such..my wife is a caterer her least job is 1m for services and deco.if u price 999 thousand u will be directed to her friend..go and work this is the 21st century..the sex u can offer all other girls can offer it too.sex is overrated 7 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Slimpotter(m): 10:36pm On May 20, 2020 |
Mariangeles: As in ehn. Thats to show she didn't fully read the story, she just has her own warped view about men that she has already concluded that this is another typical case of men hurting women. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by ranksz: 10:37pm On May 20, 2020 |
Bola146: Thank you very much. Best advice not that fool that is asking the man to go and tender unreserved apology. Is it not her mate that go and get money by all means to assist the family? Stand your ground and only give what you can afford. If she is not ok with it let her go. It may sound harsh be that's only saving you from more pressure and depression. 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by m140(m): 10:38pm On May 20, 2020 |
ademidedavid:My brother, no put her matter for mind ooo, just leave am. I don fight my wife once n I no regret am pkin, na that day I no say my wife maddin gan. She was like no man ever slap am before , I told her I never raised my hands on any woman before. That day wetin she no break finish,,,, today the matter na laughing thing.... if you wan apologize, you can, but no carry her matter for mind ooo, you go just die, n she lives enjoying her life ooo. Where you pikin go dey your dead body no go know. Just try be responsible, if it's not enough for her, my brother pack. I dey always tell my wife , if your frustrate me too much , if you no pack , I pack for you. Be happy ooo, na female landlord plenty every where 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by ademidedavid(f): 10:38pm On May 20, 2020 |
jay2smart19:Yes I saw it but thought my jobs can cater for it |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Poorboy: 10:39pm On May 20, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:a girl is a commodity I should afford, that says alot about the family you come from. My moniker is POORBOY, yes if I no be davido, Wizkid, e-money etc then I never rich na.... 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by bouncin04(m): 10:40pm On May 20, 2020 |
daaaaaamn niggaaar .. dem tie you to her .. divorce her 1 Like
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Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by InvertedHammer: 10:40pm On May 20, 2020 |
meetme01: / No apology necessary. At least not now. She is testing his limits. She already knew there would be repercussions for her actions even before she started. Stop treating women like infallible angels. Treat them like humans. Only apologize when everything has been settled. Be quick to apology and you have opened a pandora box of psychological blackmail henceforth. NB: I can translate women into plain language. / 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Kylce042(m): 10:42pm On May 20, 2020 |
ademidedavid: You married her, not the other way round. And don't do anything you don't want to cus of her. If she is not okay with whom you're and what you have to offer but rather you do the extreme just to please her selfish n unreasonable desires broda i advice you send her packing. She can land you into big trouble and won't be with you during your time of despair. Talk to her, but if she refuses to change! Flog her to her parents house before she sends you to ya early grave. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by m140(m): 10:42pm On May 20, 2020 |
Poorboy:One can if you one got some to spare, not last kobo or money not in excess 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by CoolAmbience(m): 10:42pm On May 20, 2020 |
meetme01: While I will never encourage or support domestic violence, I believe that strong measures have to be taken to address certain excesses by a wife. For every 'excess' that is left unaddressed, there are a score more in the offing, which are likely to drive the man nought. No two marriages are exactly the same. I am sure the advise you gave OP aligns with your own style. It is likely not going to work in his home. I really don't see N100,000+ as too small for a family of two adults and an infant, neither do I see how making her know how every kobo is earned and spent will make things better. I think OP should assess his wife properly and see how best to address her new life of insatiability. Starting a business for the woman wont improve the situation. This could cost them so much if it is not handled. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Kylce042(m): 10:46pm On May 20, 2020 |
Bola146: This is beautiful. Ya very open minded. Perfect advice. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by osazsky(m): 10:49pm On May 20, 2020 |
Kylce042:and she is even a female while the other idiot fumilayyyyyyuaaa is saying rubbish..she should eat her sex o 2 Likes |
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