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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Isaactimmy: 12:21pm On May 22, 2020
Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage grin

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them. grin

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!! cheesy

Guy come collect origin!!! Oil dy ur head

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Dybala11(m): 12:21pm On May 22, 2020
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
Well that has some truth in it
And the biggest mistake any girl can make is to marry a broke man, which 75% of all naija guys fall into
Sad
Stop deceiving yourself, the richest individuals in this country are mostly men, the large number of ladies are left to leech off their resources.
Let both parties make contributions irrespective of how little before talking of having equal rights. This should be the true definition of feminism, it should be what do you have to offer and not what is your gender.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by cnonyechi(f): 12:22pm On May 22, 2020
So marriage is no longer about love
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by SmartyPants(m): 12:23pm On May 22, 2020
Naija246:
most of these studies are propaganda in disguise.
in the real world, married men are more depressed, work more and are generally unhappy.

They are also easier to manipulate by employers since they have more to loose if they don't bring home the bacon.
A singles man's needs aren't much so you can't really manipulate him to work himself to death contrast that with a father with 3 kids and a wife to feed, such men will jump through hoops just to provide for their family.

PragerU published a video four years ago that was obviously propaganda encouraging men to marry, the backlash they got wasn't funny at all. grin
Men are wising up!! Especially men from the western world



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtvfHnZMcOY


Harvard, and generally much of academia in the US is liberal-leaning...Marriage is a hallmark of conservatism. Now why would liberals promote conservative values?
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by AlhajaChinyere: 12:23pm On May 22, 2020
MelaninSkinGirl:
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts.

On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts.

These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!!

TOTAL CAPITAL RUBBISH !!!!

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Grandlord: 12:25pm On May 22, 2020
Naija246:
most of these studies are propaganda in disguise.
in the real world, married men are more depressed, work more and are generally unhappy.

They are also easier to manipulate by employers since they have more to loose if they don't bring home the bacon.
A singles man's needs aren't much so you can't really manipulate him to work himself to death contrast that with a father with 3 kids and a wife to feed, such men will jump through hoops just to provide for their family.

PragerU published a video four years ago that was obviously propaganda encouraging men to marry, the backlash they got wasn't funny at all. grin
Men are wising up!! Especially men from the western world



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtvfHnZMcOY

I'm a lazy ass who loves to enjoy life without a worry. I look at people who are miserable in marriage and wonder why they even tried. Why have a wife and kids if they're going to make you so old and stressed out. Maybe I'm weird, but I just wanna be happy cheesy

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by wisdomkid: 12:26pm On May 22, 2020
Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..

The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

Says a Nigerian man. You see how the whites have made you hates yourself?
Have you ever heard of whites marrying blacks?

Blacks hating blacks.. typical.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by drlateef: 12:28pm On May 22, 2020
Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!


The biggest mistake is to marry an irreligious and non-submissive wife. As Muslims we are expected to provide for our wives, not expecting her to provide for us. I am sure your post is directed at non-muslims.
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by cnonyechi(f): 12:29pm On May 22, 2020
luvlyADESUWA:


My brother, you might be typing this out of frustration, but i tell you "it's very good to marry, it sweeter when u marry a good woman" It is BEST when both of you are working and contributing to the home.

The end shall tell, old age is NOT what any man prays to live without a wife by his side...
#fact

Don't mind him. I had an uncle who died single, it took us 4days to realise he was dead. Old, single and childless
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ellapius(f): 12:29pm On May 22, 2020
nedekid:

Is that not what Una want? Them go hide for back go de beep gateman, jobless boys, danfo drivers etc say husband no de house or ehm too de work or ehm no de kain them well, ehm no de do 20 rounds grin
ladies have self respect. i m sure u read all this on social media or watched in movies
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by MrNipplesLover(m): 12:29pm On May 22, 2020
anytime I think about marrying some day, my heart beats faster with 1500w bass, my balls ring louder than a church bell.


how I wish I could just have a baby mama that I won't even need to have her in my house as a wife.


nothing sweeter than living as/like a bachelor.



as una dey see me so, I no like wahala for my life.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Exodora: 12:29pm On May 22, 2020
Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage grin

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them. grin

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!! cheesy
You must be a self -centered person.
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by TheArchangel(f): 12:30pm On May 22, 2020
After ranting, they will still end up getting married and will continue the rants.

Women gains nothing from marriage.


Marriage strips a woman everything she has... Her name, family, friends, preference even careers.

Next life, maybe a sperm bank will do the honors.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by tolimaxman: 12:30pm On May 22, 2020
Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage grin

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them. grin

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!! cheesy
I will like to buy u a drink Sir. U make great sense

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by dinachi(m): 12:30pm On May 22, 2020
MelaninSkinGirl:
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts.

On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts.

These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!!
Studies carried out by feminists, abi? Otondo!

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ellapius(f): 12:30pm On May 22, 2020
Bolosiye:
see dis one! u are sounding as if gbola is not your factor in your dream marriage. Go after a man with pin screw, you will still be de same person that would come here and be seeking for solution and whining that your man is not screwing deep down....be sincere
don't believe all u read on social mediaor watched in movies. there are better things than gbola.
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Ugmama(m): 12:31pm On May 22, 2020
Sickest thread on nairaland right now

I wonder how it made fp.
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Sagay212: 12:31pm On May 22, 2020
Naija246:
bro I'm just spilling red pill truths for my brother's oo grin
I hope they listen.
We men should seriously start questioning alot of thing's the society implicitly expects from us.

Marriage restricts a man's potential and freedom.
Have you ever noticed that the most productive time in a man's life is when he is still single.
Look at great inventor's from Nikola Tesla to Faraday, they all peaked when single.

True yarns. Some guys allow the pressure from family and friends or mumu love to push them into marriage believing blessings will come with it.
This covid 19 go teach some people lessons. Imagine being single and losing jobs due to pandemic compared to being married and having a child or children and both couples losing their jobs. Hypertension go triple.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Cosyfaith(f): 12:31pm On May 22, 2020
gypsey:
The biggest mistake is getting married atall. who da hell gets married thesedays, Marriage is an ancient, stressful, depressing and achaic institution where one is tied to the hips with one emotional, selfish, self righteous, argumentative and obnoxious human. who da hell wants to be tied down for years with one smelly one sized vagina? when there are hundreds more different sizes, shapes and colours of vaginas out there, who da hell wants to be starring at the same bloody face, the same bad breath every morning? the same flat bottom? the same big bottom? the same fat/slim individual.. all in the name of marriage. tueh!! angry



I am have been married twice, divorced twice, separated before and still single now. I know. tongue

Lol, too bad you haven't met me cheesy cheesy
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ellapius(f): 12:32pm On May 22, 2020
gentlemate00:
You wan corrupt me with dis gbola i beg wettin be dat self?? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin



lol its bet9ja ticket
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 12:32pm On May 22, 2020
Evening newspaper ladies go flood this thread like indomie noodle nylon...
They will write all kinds of stupid theory that will make some gullible guys who read it fall for their cheap story.
I don't want to be partial...Naija marriage Nah scam....if you are not cheating your wife definitely your wife is cheating you in one way or the other.

My advice for both genders is to be adequately prepared before they rush into marriage.

Ladies will deceive u with the bible saying " one that provides not for his household is worst than an infidel. " guys tell her the passage is talking about a widow and not a man......

Pls shine your eye before you enter or else you will die prematurely because of the heavy burden that they will place on you

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ellapius(f): 12:32pm On May 22, 2020
DenreleDave:

But u love big gbola na
fo u have one
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Bostin(m): 12:33pm On May 22, 2020
cnonyechi:
So marriage is no longer about love
Aunty did you just say Love or you want to say Money
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ellapius(f): 12:33pm On May 22, 2020
Goodnigga:
RUBBISH, How many big Gbola guy have you met that never spent a dime on you?
don't need ur money. I maybe richer than you self
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Dreyton36: 12:34pm On May 22, 2020
This one go loud gaan grin I don book seat with my popcorn
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ellapius(f): 12:34pm On May 22, 2020
Helios85447:
hmmmmmm...I fear you ooo
respectme fear God
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Munzy14(m): 12:34pm On May 22, 2020
MelaninSkinGirl:


Because of societal pressures sir. If you leave women alone, I am sure they will be happy to maintain their singlehood status.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 12:35pm On May 22, 2020
MelaninSkinGirl:


Because of societal pressures sir. If you leave women alone, I am sure they will be happy to maintain their singlehood status.
To be sincere, this is so true.

Remove societal pressure..., Most women will not marry. Most women will leave their unhappy marriage.

Around me., all I see are married women who confide in me, wishing they are still single.


On a serious note..., is marriage even worth it? Over here in Nigeria..., I see more unhappy couples than happy ones.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by thundafire: 12:35pm On May 22, 2020
ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point
u went off point,no one is bashing a hard-working lady,who is supporting her man and having a kitchen mentality
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by MrSly(m): 12:35pm On May 22, 2020
ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point
As a lady must all your thought s be around sex? Do you ever think of other things.
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ellapius(f): 12:35pm On May 22, 2020
Oluromantic:

See you. Its a truth you will realize as u mature up. Wetin concern my son with ur matter
was thinking same too.

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