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Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..

The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Hey, I showed you the science, you decide what you want to do with your lives. It's a free universe.

But believe me you, there is nothing sadder than a man who is 50something running around and sleeping with everything that moves. He thinks these pretty young girls love him, but he doesn't know they are in it for his wallet. It's a sad life.

ellapius:
ladies have self respect. i m sure u read all this on social media or watched in movies

Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..

The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Because of societal pressures sir. If you leave women alone, I am sure they will be happy to maintain their singlehood status.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Married men and mortality
A major survey of 127,545 American adults found that married men are healthier than men who were never married or whose marriages ended in divorce or widowhood. Men who have marital partners also live longer than men without spouses; men who marry after age 25 get more protection than those who tie the knot at a younger age, and the longer a man stays married, the greater his survival advantage over his unmarried peers. But is marriage itself responsible for better health and longer life?

Although it's hard to be sure, marriage seems to deserve at least part of the credit. Some have argued that self-selection would skew the results if healthy men are more likely to marry than men with health problems. But research shows the reverse is true: unhealthy men actually marry earlier, are less likely to divorce, and are more likely to remarry following divorce or bereavement than healthy men.

Another potential factor is loneliness; is the institution of marriage linked to better health, or is it simply a question of living with another person? Although studies vary, the answer seems to be a little of both. People living with unmarried partners tend to fare better than those living alone, but men living with their wives have the best health of all.

Numerous studies conducted over the past 150 years suggest that marriage is good for health. More recently, scientists have begun to understand why married men enjoy better health than their single, divorced, and widowed peers. But before we turn to the why, let's look at how marriage affects specific diseases, including America's leading killers, cardiovascular disease and cancer.

https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health

MelaninSkinGirl:
Hey, I showed you the science, you decide what you want to do with your lives. It's a free universe.

But believe me you, there is nothing sadder than a man who is 50something running around and sleeping with everything that moves. He thinks these pretty young girls love him, but he doesn't know they are in it for his wallet. It's a sad life.

nedekid:
Nope. Real live show.

ellapius:
then u should know better

PastorFire:
This one is another Adamu with cobweb-head. We don't even know what she is saying sef.

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

Nairalandmonika:
Have u seen a fûck boy getting married b4.

madridsta007:
This is NOT a mistake, at least the reason that was mentioned, which was linked to sex.
Which means, she had experienced it and made the marriage decision based on sex. Of course, she will go into regrets when she finds out that marriage isnt sex; but more than sex.
So sorry, it is not a mistake.

Goodnigga:
no need of talking to you again. Your writing reeks your identity already.

ellapius:
don't do much talking

MelaninSkinGirl:
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts.

On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts.

These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!!

21cents:
@last paragraph. because he wants kids which can be gotten thru baby mama these days. otherwise women are nothing to men.

I've stayed alone 5yrs without any lady and I noticed I never longed for companionship or got wrecked with loneliness.

I fawking hate it when women overestimate their importance in a man's life.

DenreleDave:
So how do u want it?

Anal or main pu***y

madridsta007:
I expected that
Accountability is quite hard for humans, generally.
It has always been much easier to blame others than own ones mistake.

sexylassie2:
The biggest mistake a woman can make is marrying a man with no income.

The reality is most men want to eat their cake and have it, they want a traditional wife but cant carry the responsibility of marrying a traditional woman.

Shebi you are the man, why do you need a woman that works, aren't you guys the superior being.

The only reason why you need a working woman is to prey on her finance, to be realistic, only broke men want a working woman, a rich man wants a house wife.

Note: cry me a river, you won't get any reply from me.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts.

On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts.

These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!!

ellapius:
face ur dog first it needs it more. see it shaking it's tail after u just pull down

Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..

The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

Anyahuruagu:
The worst mistake is to marry entitled wife with zero contributions..

Living Hell.

She may be working but she no dey contribute.

Looking for a go getter who is ready to wave poverty bye bye as am waving it not a mediocre whose taste buds doesn't taste investment and savings.

Gforce2015:
Evening newspaper ladies go flood this thread like indomie noodle nylon...
They will write all kinds of stupid theory that will make some gullible guys who read it fall for their cheap story.
I don't want to be partial...Naija marriage Nah scam....if you are not cheating your wife definitely your wife is cheating you in one way or the other.

My advice for both genders is to be adequately prepared before they rush into marriage.

Ladies will deceive u with the bible saying " one that provides not for his household is worst than an infidel. " guys tell her the passage is talking about a widow and not a man......

Pls shine your eye before you enter or else you will die prematurely because of the heavy burden that they will place on you