Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

Flesh and blood could not have revealed this to you.....

If she's my best, i will marry her.

Czartega:


No, I want to put my own galaxy in your milky way. I want to satisfy your thirst for pleasure, so you'll thirst no more. Hope you are still a virgin? Or is it the men are scum gang you belong to?
Anyway fvck is fvck. 2face said no matter how many we fvck, we cannot fvck them all

I'm just jealous that someone has fvcked you before I did

another f.ck boy spotted

Futurejoy:

It is your type that will marry a baby mama of two and still pay their school fees while smiling in the open

I have been presented with the opportunity in the past. I chopped her and cleaned mouth. I nor dey carry last. I collected my share and kept it moving.

pDudd:


Studies carried out and published by you

sorry oo pls abeg are you a god??!





Y? Because the kind sacrifice you were eating on your dp get as e be .

Moji12:
sorry oo pls abeg are you a god??!





Y? Because the kind sacrifice you were eating on your dp get as e be .

Hahahahaha. Na Persian food o

pDudd:


Hahahahaha. Na Persian food o

no mind me jare

bluefilm:


Nwanne, mechie gi onu osiso.

I say shut up.

Since when did men start making their wives earning potential their topmost criterion in choosing a partner?

That is the job for women to do.

As a man, your own job is to earn more and more money so that you can have as many women as you want.

That is the natural order.

I know an idiot when I see one!

ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point

You sound pain

temptnow:


You sound pain

u sound senseless

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

This your idea will be reviewed in senate first before any action

Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..

The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

Take one bottle for ma head baba!

bubbychis:




This your idea will be reviewed in senate first before any action

My Broda eee... I feel the guy shaa.. Lol

gypsey:
The biggest mistake is getting married atall. who da hell gets married thesedays, Marriage is an ancient, stressful, depressing and achaic institution where one is tied to the hips with one emotional, selfish, self righteous, argumentative and obnoxious human. who da hell wants to be tied down for years with one smelly one sized vagina? when there are hundreds more different sizes, shapes and colours of vaginas out there, who da hell wants to be starring at the same bloody face, the same bad breath every morning? the same flat bottom? the same big bottom? the same large/small or medium breast, the same fat/slim individual.. all in the name of marriage. tueh!!



I am have been married twice, divorced twice, separated before and still single now. I know.

Correct guy!

partnerinbiz4:


i want to understand how that by passage is talking about a widow

Go and read 1 Timothy 5: 1-8
Read it with an open mind, then come and explain the passage. Thanks

ellapius:
u sound senseless

You sound like someone who has done mistake in marriage.

There is nothing like ONE biggest mistake in marriage.

Every situation, person, combination, etc differ. It's just like saying Toyota is the best car or Sony is the best TV brand or claim your mom's okro soup is the sweetest. Many others will disagree with you validly.

A lot of stay at home moms are good wives while we have some working-class "terrorist" wives..........and vice versa!

To marry any Nigeria lady....na risk you wan take so.
But to marry any Nigeria lady wey nor be helper...na....d______i______e

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

You're the wisest man on nairaland

ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point

You make little or no sense

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

I dey reason d matter oooo. Have kids buy don't marry.

AlhajaChinyere:


I know an idiot when I see one!

Wow!

Alhaja, that's great.

I'm assuming you acquired this wonderful skill by observing so many idiots you have in your family?

Nne eh, you really deserve a mention in the Guinness World records.

Gforce2015:


Go and read 1 Timothy 5: 1-8 Read it with an open mind, then come and explain the passage. Thanks

I am not arguing oga. Just want to learn

Gforce2015:


Go and read 1 Timothy 5: 1-8 Read it with an open mind, then come and explain the passage. Thanks

I am not arguing oga. Just want to learn

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

Marriage cannot benefit a figure head husband.

Someone who has ojukokoro.
Who can never be contested in life.

If you appreciate and value a good wife nature will Favour you but if not you have to keep on struggling with a lot of regrets

scokoro:
No... I beg to disagree. I have seen people who started off as working classes but ended up as broke couples. I have also seen those whose marriage buttered their bread. That suitor that drives a Ferrari that you are melting for, could be driving his last car... ( I am not saying things change for the worse always) Though there are no hard and fast rules to marriage and its associated problems, I would solemnly advice anyone to look at for qualities that you could bear when the chips are down. For instance, If you are the talking type, remember, couples talk and waive hunger requests. Have it at the back of your mind that certain big things which you enjoy mostly may not be around after some years of entering the marriage room. Bodily curves and built would certainly disappear at some point; money sometimes may not be around for the most part, due to the arrival of the babies and other family dependencies. Marriage, may be societal norm but it is also a way of life in this part of the world. Some day you would wish to have someone who would sing for you, dance for you, play with you and take you for a walk. Discouraging people from marrying is not my idea of helping people fulfill theirr destinies. Afterall, no one gets into school to aim to finish with a third class but when life knocks there has to be an answer. The answer you give can be determining to go along with patience, forgiveness, charity (love) kindness and above all, endurance. It is these qualities that would make you be celebrated and for the world to continue with good people like you. How many descendants of Adolf Hitler do you know in the world?

What is your point?
You love marriage abi? Then stay for your lane bro!

ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point

u Don minit

Michelle55:

That's not the biggest mistake huncle..
What if she's working and not supporting the home front in any way?
What if all the responsibilities still falls on you as the man despite having a working class wife?
What if she doesn't encourage nor inspires you to soar higher than you were before ?
What if she doesn't give you the maximum peace of mind you deserve as a man?
What if all she does is spend all her earnings on herself, buying the latest bags and clothes and attending high societal functions and not caring to acknowledge your presence in her life?
Trust me, there's a lot to marriage than meets the eyes.
Just ask your maker for direction when you want to settle down.
She might be working yet feels entitled to your money..
Marriage is 50/50... All hands must be on deck to ensure the smooth sailing of the homefront.

Michelle are you single ...i hope you are... I'm prepping myself to get to know you at least...i want to confam something...my mom is one of the few women who think this way...sadly my dad is traditional..gets uneasy cos his woman is richer and more successful...if only he knows what he lost...but well...hope you're different

THE BIGGEST MISTAKE IN LIFE FOR YOUNG LADIES IS TO MARRY A LAZY YOUTH" IN THE NAME OF HUSBAND.

WHO WILL NOT SEE EXPENSES ON SIDE CHICKS AND NIGHT CLUB " RIDICULOUS"

BUT SEE HOUSE HOLD EXPENSES AS SOMETHING KILLING

drlateef:



The biggest mistake is to marry an irreligious and non-submissive wife. As Muslims we are expected to provide for our wives, not expecting her to provide for us. I am sure your post is directed at non-muslims.

Is anybody holding you?

Travel bro, most Muslim countries and societies are disintergrating at an alarming rate. Most Islamic countries are dirt poor!

cnonyechi:


Don't mind him. I had an uncle who died single, it took us 4days to realise he was dead. Old, single and childless

His problem was poverty not absence of marriage.

MrNipplesLover:
anytime I think about marrying some day, my heart beats faster with 1500w bass, my balls ring louder than a church bell.


how I wish I could just have a baby mama that I won't even need to have her in my house as a wife.


nothing sweeter than living as/like a bachelor.



as una dey see me so, I no like wahala for my life.

110%

I have done it for 20 years.......I'm looking younger all the time!