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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Yoighaman(m): 6:54pm On May 22, 2020 |
Naija246: I think I should stop reading comments at this juncture |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Decryptor(m): 7:00pm On May 22, 2020 |
Naija246: May God bless you with long life and anything you have ever desired in life for this comment! So APT!! 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 7:05pm On May 22, 2020 |
TheArchangel: Why? The guys are being wired to take the lead and protect from the time immemorial....the fact that ladies are known as a weaker vessel is enough for them to thread lifestyle with caution... There are a lot of feminists ladies on this platform who believe men and women have equal rights in marriage. So, how will equal rights favor one gender more than the other? |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by chilan: 7:12pm On May 22, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl: I think you are wrong. The fact remains that most single old ladies are very irritable unlike their male counterparts. Old single men are fun to be with. Old single ladies are extremely desperate for love and attention unlike their male counterparts and that is why they are vulnerable to be scammed than the male counterparts. Also statistics has shown that married men are prone to committing suicide more than single men. Marriage in the short and long run benefit the women most because by nature they are supposed to be taken care of by their husband (other things being equal) and in the long run by their children who will naturally want to show them love and attention as mothers more than their fathers. |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Mypeople2(m): 7:13pm On May 22, 2020 |
Naija246:my stomach oo ..see as I won turn laugh to cry |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Ebenezer2O2O(m): 7:14pm On May 22, 2020 |
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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Ebenezer2O2O(m): 7:14pm On May 22, 2020 |
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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Ebenezer2O2O(m): 7:15pm On May 22, 2020 |
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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Ebenezer2O2O(m): 7:15pm On May 22, 2020 |
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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by lanchy: 7:20pm On May 22, 2020 |
You have not been to Thailand I see!! Headlesschicken: |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ItswellMike: 7:25pm On May 22, 2020 |
Marriage is much more than finance.... sexylassie2: |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by David160(m): 7:30pm On May 22, 2020 |
Davash222:white girl all the way |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by TheArchangel(f): 7:31pm On May 22, 2020 |
Gforce2015:Men have always had this idea to be magnanimous and chivalrous towards women, and women has allowed it and has let it fester from inception. Same men are crying against feminism even though feminism is working towards recognising gender equality for both sex which will even favour men more than women especially in family institution. Regardless, using single mothers and widows as an example, they have shown that it is possible for a woman to juggle their career, give birth, and raise their kids single-handedly. Can a man get pregnant, give birth, nurture and raise kids while holding a career or a job?....in that order. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Mike008(m): 7:47pm On May 22, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl: I didn't say 50/50 financial contribution. Marry with a mindset to not rely 100% on your husband and see how those impediments will be taken care of. A good husband should not be insensitive to the plight of her wife and so he must be willing to support the wife even where she doesn't work. Even where she works, there are laws in place that accord privileges to married, pregnant or women that just put to bed. A valid excuse for a woman not working should be because she cannot find a job and not because it is the husband's duty to work while she does the cooking, do the house chores and take care of the kids. Even at that, she should not shut her eyes to been self employed by learning a trade. It is for the best of the family. |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by IprintMONEY: 7:59pm On May 22, 2020 |
Ebenezer2O2O:please dot bring your frustration to me abeg. abeg Xendra na who be this guy naaaa lol. bro take it easy with me abeg, i have been in your shoe before. send me ya akant |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by IprintMONEY: 8:01pm On May 22, 2020 |
xendra:ok, i see where he is comng from. he don shift the frustration to me o |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 8:16pm On May 22, 2020 |
All these guys saying Nigerian girls are gold diggers don't know what gold diggers are. A Nigerian girl gets into a conversation with you and you can tell instantly whether she is in for your money or not. But in Europe and America, a gold digger comes into your life and showers you with excess love, and gives you children. You give her a share in your will or you start running broke and boom she starts planning divorce or even plans to kill you. My brothers Nigerian girls are not gold diggers, ask european footballers/stars why they aren't married. As for the people talking about what we are both bringing to the table, lemme just not shake that table tonight. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by chukzyfcbb: 8:24pm On May 22, 2020 |
Naija246:When I tell my fellow guys this, I come off as being wierd, lol I want kids quite alright, but marriage I am not sure about that as I haven't seen any benefits from it |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Cj4charles(m): 8:37pm On May 22, 2020 |
Especially those once called Obiagheli, run wen u see them |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Cj4charles(m): 8:46pm On May 22, 2020 |
Jezking:Bro u wrong, Nigeria gold digger will not even come into your life but stay at the corridor and pretend that she loves you only to milk you dry and render the person useless if they are merciful 4 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ellapius(f): 9:00pm On May 22, 2020 |
PastorFire:200k |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ellapius(f): 9:02pm On May 22, 2020 |
Holumhidey:ur mind is too shallow to comprehend the matter so go home go back to mama |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ellapius(f): 9:03pm On May 22, 2020 |
temptnow:Mr sound engineer |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Futurejoy(f): 9:22pm On May 22, 2020 |
pDudd:Congratulations dog |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Wizzarro(m): 9:42pm On May 22, 2020 |
Obierika: correct |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Wizzarro(m): 9:44pm On May 22, 2020 |
Naija246: gbaa gbos gbos, wisdom kee you!! 4 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 9:52pm On May 22, 2020 |
Futurejoy: Thanks |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by trutht828: 10:36pm On May 22, 2020 |
ellapius: If you are not a shameless, morally dirty, undignified prostitute chasing after big gbola, no man will be able to deceive you with one. |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Jaboyka: 10:38pm On May 22, 2020 |
The greatest mistake for me would be for a guy to marry any lady out of pity just to 'save' her from single hood due to her being working class and old age! My 2cents Obierika: As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income. Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon![right][/right][b][/b] 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by AlhajaChinyere: 10:51pm On May 22, 2020 |
ojasweb: Married for only 3 years pe re! You are here talking like a marriage don. I dey laugh you Oga come back and talk after 20 years and 4 children. |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by AlhajaChinyere: 10:59pm On May 22, 2020 |
Mandela27: Oga, please remember each one to his own. You've stated what you believe and your preference, Good! Let others make their own choice. As for me I love to avoid stress and do like new ladies. I will do until I die! |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by AlhajaChinyere: 11:06pm On May 22, 2020 |
lincs25: You need a slap? What are you waiting for? |
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