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I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

Women like men looking stupeed. Don't give up. Look for her friends or families and speak to them. Do not speak to her directly, it won't work. Plus give her two weeks or more to reflect like 4 weeks.


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Renida:
Women like men looking stupeed. Don't give up. Look for her friends or families and speak to them. Do not speak to her directly, it won't work. Plus give her two weeks or more to re-elect like 4 weeks.


Next time separate money from early days of relationships

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You know you could have sent her your account statement for reconciliation purpose instead of ghosting her...a good person would give benefits of doubts airing the matter instead of bottling it up. Biko I think she's better off going her way jeje. If you could handle small matter like that, what would you do if something huge hits?

Good luck.

Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it. Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call. A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment. Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

stop trying to impress good for nothing ungrateful women with money... count your blessing you got your money back., and just send her what you owe her, nothing more then forget/block the animal.

sisisioge:
You know you could have sent her your account statement for reconciliation purpose instead of ghosting her...a good person would give benefits of doubts airing the matter instead of bottling it up. Biko I think she's better off going her way jeje. If you could handle small matter like that, what would you do if something huge hits?

Good luck.

Put yourself in my shoes. How would you feel if they told you at the bank the person you sent money to has received it and is only playing pranks won't you be madd. Mstcheew

Don't get yourself confused bro. Move on.

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Agbagbaregoo:
Put yourself in my shoes. How would you feel if they told you at the bank the person you sent money to has received it and is only playing pranks won't you be madd. Mstcheew

I will be, but my first reaction will be to put the evidence in her face. Let her refute or confirm it. I won't just ghost the person.

Is it today that you go to ATM, it will count money without expelling, debit you and even eat your card. You get debited. You may be lucky to get reversal without logging complaint... You may also not get reversal until you complain.

Money has always been a biatch though.

TransflectTP:
Don't get yourself confused bro. Move on.

Hmmmm

@Agbagbaregoo

This might be a blessing in disguise, but I also agree with sisisioge. You should have shown her the evidence, then her reaction would determine your next action. I understand her decision to not continue with the "relationship".

She doesn't want any trouble, and she thinks that you'll have a hard time trusting her. No one wants to be in a relationship like that. Her mind may be made up but you should sincerely apologize. I know it's not your fault, and you shouldn't feel guilty, but just do it to let peace have its way.

Send her a text containing an outpour of your heart, include a shot of the document given to you by the bank. Do that just to rid your self of the guilt, then move on. Don't sweat it. If she's yours, she'll come back.

sisisioge:
I will be, but my first reaction will be to put the evidence on her face. Let her refute or confirm it. I won't just ghost the person.

Is it today that you go to ATM, it will count money without expelling, debit you and even eat your card. You get debited. You may be lucky to get reversal without logging complaint... You may also not get reversal until you complain.

Money has always been a biatch though.

Ok ooo. But I was patient with her

Bank didn't fvck you up, your hot temper did.


What you do when you send money to people and they say they haven't received it yet is to send evidence of payment not ghost them. Haba, we're you on your period?

On top your own money again u dey feel sad. U be mumu

Jim99:
On top your own money again u dey feel sad. U be mumu

Hmmm

Jim99:
On top your own money again u dey feel sad. U be mumu

Who told you I didn't send it? I sent everything and she said she will get her out statement of account

sisisioge:
I will be, but my first reaction will be to put the evidence in her face. Let her refute or confirm it. I won't just ghost the person.

Is it today that you go to ATM, it will count money without expelling, debit you and even eat your card. You get debited. You may be lucky to get reversal without logging complaint... You may also not get reversal until you complain.

Money has always been a biatch though.

I sent her the statement of account

Agbagbaregoo:
Who told you I didn't send it? I sent everything and she said she will get her out statement of account

Oga u send money, person no receive am nor be ur fault. E dey happen all d time.

U fall hand sha, come dey beg am on top ur own money smh.

Jim99:
Oga u send money, person no receive am nor be ur fault. E dey happen all d time.

U fall hand sha, come dey beg am on top ur own money smh.

You are right sha

Jim99:
Oga u send money, person no receive am nor be ur fault. E dey happen all d time.

U fall hand sha, come dey beg am on top ur own money smh.

Boss, as the matter dey, I nor sure say na because of the money they chick dey vex. Na because of the accusation wey them knack am. How you go feel if person tell you say you receive money wey you nor see?

Tallesty1:
Bank didn't fvck you up, your hot temper did.
What you do when you send money to people and they say they haven't received it yet is to send evidence of payment not ghost them. Haba, we're you on your period?

but what the babe is indirectly insinuating is that he is a fraudster... while she already received the money (for whatever he was buying + wooing money). would you still want to be lovey dovey with the babe (which is what the dude was hoping for)?

Agbagbaregoo:
I sent her the statement of account

Before you ghosted her? See, you guys would have been each fighting with your banks instead of each other if you indeed shared it with her before ignoring her calls.

Humanoid01:
Boss, as the matter dey, I nor sure say na because of the money they chick dey vex. Na because of the accusation wey them knack am. How you go feel if person tell you say you receive money wey you nor see?

Before God and man I never accused her

sisisioge:
Before you ghosted her? See, you guys would have been each fighting with your banks instead of each other if you indeed shared it with her before ignoring her calls.

I swear I shared it with her

Sue the bank.

Agbagbaregoo:
Before God and man I never accused her

You may not have done that verbally, but she'd feel that way after everything, especially with the fact that you just got to know each other.

Just move on guy. Nothing spoil. e fit happen to anybody, she no serious

Jim99:
Just move on guy. Nothing spoil. e fit happen to anybody, she no serious

Thanks man. I will do that. She dey madd

Agbagbaregoo:
I swear I shared it with her

Ok then...aunty being irrational then. It showed that you sent it and got debited...if she didn't receive then she should contact her bank. Simple! It is well jare...move on and take a learning from this. Money issue is always dicey in relationships.

Humanoid01:
Boss, as the matter dey, I nor sure say na because of the money they chick dey vex. Na because of the accusation wey them knack am. How you go feel if person tell you say you receive money wey you nor see?

He no accuse am. Him fvck up to even apologize.

You're the one at fault. You got angry and sent her the bank statement without actually communicating with her, like you no longer wanted to speak to her; ignored her call when she called you after receiving the statement; further ignored her/ghosted her as she was being questioned by the police. Nobody likes being falsely accused of something they had no hands in and treated badly as a result.

sisisioge:
Ok then...aunty being irrational then. It showed that you sent it and got debited...if she didn't receive then she should contact her bank. Simple! It is well jare...move on and take a learning from this. Money issue is always dicey in relationships.

Na true sha

Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it. Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call. A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment. Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

Ignoring her isn't an issue. The above is the issue, right? Your police friend threatened her life?