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Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by mrkings84(m): 2:58pm On May 24, 2020
Get a good lawyer, sue the bank, u won't regret doing so. I can introduce u to d kind of lawyer that will help u make a fortune with such mishandling of transaction by the bank.

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Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Charity85(m): 2:59pm On May 24, 2020
Nigerian banks are useless and inefficient. I can't Still imagine this bullshit in this century. Unfortunately its citizens are getting accustomed to the bullshit such that one who reacts against such bullshit is seen as a trouble maker . Nothing ever works in this country.
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Ladycewhy(f): 2:59pm On May 24, 2020
I want to know how much the money is that a policeman had to get involved? undecided.


That right there is why she said she doesn't want wahala ,maybe next time na efcc or Sars you go call for her grin.

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Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Blakjewelry(m): 2:59pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:

Put yourself in my shoes. How would you feel if they told you at the bank the person you sent money to has received it and is only playing pranks won't you be madd. Mstcheew
you have ask her to go and get a bank statement print out
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by sylve11: 3:00pm On May 24, 2020
sisisioge:
a good person would give benefits of doubts airing the matter instead of bottling it up. Biko I think she's better off going her way jeje. If you could handle small matter like that, what would you do if something huge hits?

Good luck.

Na so cool
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by hydrogen1: 3:00pm On May 24, 2020
Calm down Bro. dont you know that you nare the Boss, you are trying to help her career. Give her some time, then re lunch your plan. follow what the first person said.,
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by hydrogen1: 3:00pm On May 24, 2020
Calm down Bro. dont you know that you are the Boss, you are trying to help her career. Give her some time, then re lunch your plan. follow what the first person said.,
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by jmichael259(m): 3:00pm On May 24, 2020
hardon1:
see this one, she say make u leave her and you dey worry yourself mtchewwww. if you like make you go mumu send her another money. she is not willing to talk to you is because of guilt. she is just trying cool of or shed of the shame. is she is a reasonable lady, after some time she will call and apologise

Are u mad or high? What is she guilty of to be ashamed? U send her money wey she never receive u come call police on top. Before one week ur bank come return the money to you say the send no work. Are you not a fool? Will you allow your mother, sister or daughter to stay close to such a non-entity?!

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Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by dazzlingd(m): 3:01pm On May 24, 2020
Renida:
Women like men looking stupeed. Don't give up. Look for her friends or families and speak to them. Do not speak to her directly, it won't work. Plus give her two weeks or more to re-elect like 4 weeks.


Next time separate money from early days of relationships

@bolded, flesh and blood did not reveal this to you.
You said it all
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by redcliff: 3:01pm On May 24, 2020
e be like say you and the girl dey craze... e be like say she no sabi your name or what?
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Glink2018(m): 3:01pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.


Shebi you don yansh her for like 3 times....?/ if yes....make she carry waka....but if no.....nah you lose o....
You need to Yansh her Wella.....nah that one she go dey take dey remember you....guys, as you dey spend money make she too dey service you...you are not a charitable organization.....just drop your money....and get your instant rewards both front and back side..
Why you dey carry woman mata for head like gala...just do your best and pass your leftover to another mugu guy......woman be like NEPA light, sometimes dem go dey on why sometimes , dem go dey off....but.mind you, if.you.never yansh am, just hang around, if she no.see anybody on time, she still come back to you...she go.come do blxxxwjox
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by IamPlato(m): 3:01pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:

Put yourself in my shoes. How would you feel if they told you at the bank the person you sent money to has received it and is only playing pranks won't you be madd. Mstcheew
why not confront her
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by iqiq: 3:02pm On May 24, 2020
Wow, this is bad for a bank to do that
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by sart(m): 3:02pm On May 24, 2020
Lo and behold! Are you new to banking in Nigeria? are you new here, in Seyi's voice! You and bank ruined yourself my guy. Should you already know Nigerian banks are crazy, you wouldn't act in that manner?

Keep pushing notwithstanding, your efforts may rekindle some affection again in her. Good luck bro.


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Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Ladycewhy(f): 3:02pm On May 24, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


stop trying to impress good for nothing ungrateful women with money... count your blessing you got your money back., and just send her what you owe her, nothing more then forget/block the animal.
who hurt you? Oga carry your furstration commot for this thread jor,see as you dey spit for everywhere like a rabid dog undecided.

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Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by mondayaudu(m): 3:02pm On May 24, 2020
Let me advise you Bros I know you won’t take it. That girl has a serious relationship. It has nothing to do with the bank stuff. If she doesn’t have then she is very daft and you have to flee from her because even older women in the village understand that bank due malfunction.
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by toprealman: 3:03pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.
This one funny Sha. What will be will be.
Give it time to settle then try again. If it doesn't work, move on bro.
Beside this bank no get name? Drag the bank along, maybe they will even respond here or via their social media platforms. Your Juliet will see that indeed you are an innocent Romeo worth giving a "second chance".
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by blowjob: 3:03pm On May 24, 2020
PLANNED RODDIN GONE WRONG grin grin
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Ajixegun: 3:03pm On May 24, 2020
You ruined your relationship not bank mehn!

You seem to lack little patience and you've let what people are saying about girls and money to get into your mind too much.
Merely behaving the way you did, is a red signal for anybody.

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Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by maasoap(m): 3:04pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:

You are right sha

He was wrong, love is involved. Even you, you forgot that love when you were reacting. You've got to be persistent with your pleading because you were wrong. A month or two, she will get over it. She needs time to overcome the incident but don't let her be, not even for a day. The reason is that she can conveniently forget about you and move on because your relationship is new and she's not yet emotionally attach to you. So, stay close with messages and calls, it always work, trust me
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by toprealman: 3:04pm On May 24, 2020
Ladycewhy:
who hurt you? Oga carry your furstration commot for this thread jor,see as you dey spit for everywhere like a rabid dog undecided.
His type will troll the babe like forever......we know them.

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Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by atoleybaba(m): 3:04pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:

Put yourself in my shoes. How would you feel if they told you at the bank the person you sent money to has received it and is only playing pranks won't you be madd. Mstcheew
I would advice her to go to her bank and confirm

.these things happen. You would av given her benefit of the doubt. You screwed up big time. If she said she didn't received tho u were debuted I wouldn't hold her to it, I will insult her bank on being slow....Infact it really showed u didn't trust her...like what that person said, if u doubted her in this small issue, what will happen going forward.... Beg her and if she doesn't agree don't blame her don't blame your bank blame urself for acting irrationally.... Goodluck

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Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by liverpudian9(m): 3:05pm On May 24, 2020
M sure its Access bank
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Nobody: 3:06pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

Sounds like something Access bank would do. Please mention the bank's name.
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Ladycewhy(f): 3:07pm On May 24, 2020
toprealman:

His type will troll the babe like forever......we know them.
to think that guy is an adult is what irks me the most. Very anyhow human being.
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by cezarman(m): 3:08pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:

Thanks man. I will do that. She dey madd

You don dey para?
Lmao!

This is not an issue, fine girls full everywhere. Nor beg pesin untop help you been wan give.
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Nobody: 3:09pm On May 24, 2020
sisisioge:
You know you could have sent her your account statement for reconciliation purpose instead of ghosting her...a good person would give benefits of doubts airing the matter instead of bottling it up. Biko I think she's better off going her way jeje. If you could handle small matter like that, what would you do if something huge hits?

Good luck.
Nice post smiley
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by sosospence(m): 3:09pm On May 24, 2020
TransflectTP:
Don't get yourself confused bro. Move on.
Exactly
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by MPESA(m): 3:09pm On May 24, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


but what the babe is indirectly insinuating is that he is a fraudster... while she already received the money (for whatever he was buying + wooing money). would you still want to be lovey dovey with the babe (which is what the dude was hoping for)?

Abeg stop for now not necessary say you go give advice...... She was accused wrongly because from every indication she never received any money..... So why blaming the Innocent girl for goodness sake just to form hard man ......

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Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 3:10pm On May 24, 2020
hardon1:
see this one, she say make u leave her and you dey worry yourself mtchewwww. if you like make you go mumu send her another money. she is not willing to talk to you is because of guilt. she is just trying cool of or shed of the shame. is she is a reasonable lady, after some time she will call and apologise
Did you read the post at all. The bank reversed the money to him after some time meaning she never got it at the first place. Next time read.
Except you are one of those guys that always see a reason to bad mouth ladies just because the women in your life didn't give you the lo e you needed.
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by govomotors: 3:10pm On May 24, 2020
Few days ago, I made an online transfer to Ecobank from Zenith. I informed the receipt that transfer completed, after 24hrs I started receiving insult through WhatsApp as a result of the bank not crediting her evobank account.

After all the insult, she asked my why am not saying anything, I told her there is nothing to say until she confirm the transfer because anything I say will be considered a lie.

After 48hrs, I woke up with am sorry for doubting you, I received the transfer today. I have to forgive because it was the banks fault.

Some banks are not worth banking with, sincerely I have not experienced same from zenith.
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Midadeola(f): 3:11pm On May 24, 2020
abelswife:
did you or did you not say nasty things to her? I;m sure ingrate and scam where part of the things you said grin grin grin grin grin
Yéèèèèè, mo weak......akakakakakakakak!

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