Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,195,114 members, 7,957,158 topics. Date: Tuesday, 24 September 2024 at 08:15 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Religion / Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? (45929 Views)
Pastors Attacking Each Other On Social Media, the new norm / How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society / Pre Marital Sex Or Masturbation? (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Nobody: 1:35pm On May 23, 2020 |
hopefulLandlord: Are you sure you understood what I wrote here before quoting that portion? My mum wasn't threatening us. She only scared us by saying the men will tear our private parts not she. It will work on my children because I grew up in this century therefore i know what's up and would know how to handle them accordingly by the grace of God. 1 Like |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Nobody: 1:39pm On May 23, 2020 |
GrammarNazi1:Run, come etc are a problem for people. |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Franchise21(m): 1:43pm On May 23, 2020 |
Internet and Social media is part of the causes |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Lamanii22(f): 1:44pm On May 23, 2020 |
jakD: |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by DesignAssasin(m): 1:44pm On May 23, 2020 |
Rich4god: 1 Like |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by BreconHills(m): 1:50pm On May 23, 2020 |
Fabulouzjoseph: Its basically the idea that knowing more does not make people better. That we are becoming worse people in spite of knowledge and that what is needed is not so much more knowledge than a rethink of our social structures do that it is in peoples interests to do what is just and fair. There is a good book on the subject which I have attached here as an image. Take the US in spite of the tech advantages it has, is it a fairer society than it was 100 years ago? Racism may have moved from public lynching to an institutional one that ensures that more blacks die of covid 19 We need to review the nature of relationship rather than the sole pursuit of knowledge and technological advance. I subscribe to the idea that knowledge does not only bring good but it increases the scale and visibility of evil. Building a just society means knowing how to create interdependence not individualism. But let me stop, I am rabbiting on.. 1 Like
|
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by hopefulLandlord: 1:51pm On May 23, 2020 |
Eulalia: Fair enough I misread it as her tearing your vag but even if we go by him tearing it, all it'd take is peer pressure and she'd discover many of her mates are doing it with no "tear". this could backfire. I just feel that style of parenting worked because you lacked access to information that can counter it in your time. these information are accessible to adolescents and teenagers of today. I was told when I knew nothing that licking salts would cut my tongue. one day out of angered rebellion I licked a large amount of salt, while the result wasn't pleasurable in any way, my tongue refused to fall off. this led to me experimenting against the other "myths" like whistling when the sun is hot to see if a snake would suddenly appear. These myths fast tracked my becoming an atheist as I extended the questioning of their truth to religion and god. if they discover you're scaring them with lies they'd start questioning the other things you're telling them which could lead to loss of control over them. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Nobody: 1:53pm On May 23, 2020 |
BreconHills:Amazing |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Ebenezer2O2O(m): 2:04pm On May 23, 2020 |
[s] xendra:[/s] |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Nobody: 2:08pm On May 23, 2020 |
hopefulLandlord: Misleading them with lies? What lies? Is it not true that if a man touches a girl childs private part it will tear? Haven't you read cases of such in recent times? For your info, during my time (growing up) I was exposed to all sorts of info ranging from sex, romance, adventure and what have you but because of what has been instilled in me, I didn't let those things derail me. Do you remember the "mummy and daddy" game children used to play those days? I knew it was bad/wrong so I never joined those children whenever we are acting a drama. I'll rather chose to be "Cynthia" the daughter fetching water cos I couldn't lie under the wrapper /cover with those small bad boys of my age then. Why? Mum has taught me the right way and for me it was always fear even up till now, I still can't invite a guy to my house. Never! Another thing I observed is, if a parent is not spoilt or wayward, theres no way the children will be wayward. Its Mostly children of wayward parents that are always wayward. So i don't see my children going wayward because its not in my genes. Reasons one has to be careful the spouse they chose in life. Because children exibit 80% traits of their parents behavior. 1 Like |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by biggy26: 2:10pm On May 23, 2020 |
Bacteriologist:What makes a body lifeless? Why is a man certified dead, what happened? If you know the answer, then you know why certain things are kept for its time. |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Onitola2: 2:35pm On May 23, 2020 |
Calabar1stSon:its majorly because we're distancing ourselves from our morals and religion guidelines, we deem it normal nowadays to Bleep girls around but we don't want our sisters, daughters and relatives to be bleeped around. Average person now sleeps with six different partners b4 settling down, the worst is that very few don't fornicate even after marriage. Perhaps we need our religious guidelines. |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by stieyven(m): 2:43pm On May 23, 2020 |
Bacteriologist:Remember that you shall be judged by every idle word you speak. Matthew 12 :36 |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Kokaine(m): 2:52pm On May 23, 2020 |
Kobojunkie:lol. When fornication is the new wisdom. We're doomed! |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by OVB123: 3:06pm On May 23, 2020 |
Calabar1stSon:The truth is dat family value doesn't longer matter again. And d religion leaders (christian & muslim) are making things worst. Do u knw that even as a guy of about 30 years, i am still a virgin. 1 Like |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Ayomidexj8(f): 3:13pm On May 23, 2020 |
Anyways am just here to motivate you all
T
G
I
S
|
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by shaneroberts26: 3:22pm On May 23, 2020 |
lailo: Jesus is on this forum? How? |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Tundex911: 3:42pm On May 23, 2020 |
Another instance... Technology |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by donnie(m): 3:43pm On May 23, 2020 |
KelejoS:YAH did not create religion. Satan did. When we opened ourselves to the various religions, we opened ourselves to all forms of abominations, including including the worship of the Sungod. YAH called Israel as a nation to he Holy and separate unto him and he gave them commandments to keep. Dassol. |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by t2luv1: 3:50pm On May 23, 2020 |
MajorOvakporaye: Tell yaa you women are one complex human being. The man acted as a gentleman and you call the man names. |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by jayaim: 3:54pm On May 23, 2020 |
Omo everybody gat opinions like asshole. For me i must teaste my package to avoid cheating & stories that touch |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by KLand(m): 4:10pm On May 23, 2020 |
The answer is that our sense of morality has been decaying over the years. But anyone who is born again knows that premarital sex is not normal; it is a sin against God. For those who say that premarital sex is okay because of civilization, my answer to them is that civilization is not the same thing as promiscuity. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by seunayantokun(m): 4:47pm On May 23, 2020 |
kikero:This view is correct but we have ourselves to blame. A lady should be married at 20 and a man at 25, latest. But bad economy and values emanating from ignorance that we promote don't help. Even with all development we have around today, I don't think we are happier than our ancestors were. 1 Like |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Paulot001: 4:51pm On May 23, 2020 |
Pre marital sex means NO FEAR OF GOD 1 Like |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by dasparrow: 4:53pm On May 23, 2020 |
infogenius: Well said. |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by ONIMARINE(m): 5:45pm On May 23, 2020 |
Calabar1stSon:cos marriage is not natural 1 Like |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by factually4(m): 5:55pm On May 23, 2020 |
The truth remains that no matter how the world packages premarital sex or trivialize it, noteworthy still it is that the standard of the Most High God remains UNCHANGED! His standard will not bend for no one. The earlier the world realizes this the better. Wrong will always be wrong! Irrespective of time and technology |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Bahddo(m): 6:24pm On May 23, 2020 |
Eulalia:interesting. Who were the parents of the first wayward parent then? 1 Like |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Nobody: 6:47pm On May 23, 2020 |
...even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient. Premarital sex is rampant because that is what the society celebrates. Parents now ask a girl of 16 years to introduce her boyfriend to them. But the word of God says, though hand join in hand, the sinner shall not go unpunished. For the unmarried reading this, the word of God says thou shall not follow a multitude to do evil. Have your own conviction and do not live by other immature youth's conviction. |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Benprass(m): 8:39pm On May 23, 2020 |
Fabulouzjoseph:so were they preaching against it to avoid pregnancy or to keep the bed holy before marriage? |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Nobody: 8:53pm On May 23, 2020 |
Benprass:It was just to avoid unwanted pregnancy and illegitimate children. |
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by BrainRider: 8:56pm On May 23, 2020 |
Calabar1stSon:Technology |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (Reply)
Lost Church 'Where Jesus Healed A Bleeding Woman' Unearthed In Caesarea Philippi / Ibidun Ighodalo's Daughter, Zenan's Rendition At Her Service Of Songs / Winners Chapel Awka's Alter Decoration For 56th Independence Celebration (Photo)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 69 |