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Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Nobody: 4:06pm On May 24, 2020
govomotors:
Few days ago, I made an online transfer to Ecobank from Zenith. I informed the receipt that transfer completed, after 24hrs I started receiving insult through WhatsApp as a result of the bank not crediting her evobank account.

After all the insult, she asked my why am not saying anything, I told her there is nothing to say until she confirm the transfer because anything I say will be considered a lie.

After 48hrs, I woke up with am sorry for doubting you, I received the transfer today. I have to forgive because it was the banks fault.

Some banks are not worth banking with, sincerely I have not experienced same from zenith.
i just hope this lady u were transfering money to was a business associate and not some chick who was begging u for chop money and u now sent her some chop money out of the kindness of ur heart
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by stormborn28(m): 4:06pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.
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Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Ladycewhy(f): 4:09pm On May 24, 2020
toprealman:

An adult.....lol. some secondary school lads are also here. No age barrier.
You can tell his type from the tone of his response...his headache though.
you will be shocked to know it's actually a grown adult behind that moniker grin grin grin grin grin,
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by stormborn28(m): 4:12pm On May 24, 2020
queenitee:

But you conveniently jumped the part where the bank reversed the money?
but he confirmed that she received the money by the bank statement..





Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Akanoaaa(m): 4:12pm On May 24, 2020
Humanoid01:

Boss, as the matter dey, I nor sure say na because of the money they chick dey vex. Na because of the accusation wey them knack am. How you go feel if person tell you say you receive money wey you nor see?

And the police even get involved. If na me wey I be guy sef I go vex pass that. She even called him but he ignored her calls. The girl fit forgive him but if she allow him make him come back to her life, the girl na mumu.


He accused her wrongly
Police get involved
He ignored her calls when she needed him. Maybe the police was threatening her on the money she didn't received and she called him to know what the next step would be but Mr. alakori no gree pick her calls.


Abeg @Agbagbaregoo, leave the girl alone. You are definitely not the man for her.


If something like that happen next time, tell the person to go to his or her bank, you can even follow the person if you are doubting.

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Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by jaxxy(m): 4:14pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

I see no problem here. U must be knew in the game. This one isn't even difficult or crazy shes normal. We have dealt with the crazy and difficult join together. cool
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Ladycewhy(f): 4:16pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:

Thanks man. I will do that. She dey madd
if only she can see this reply of yours,she will not only run but block you forever. Please leave her alone, stop calling her phone ,two-faced motherfucker undecided
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by varnaija(f): 4:19pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.
Your moniker sounds like agbero to me. You've lived up to your name. Broke ass, I'm sure that money was nothing worthwhile but you've let hell loose because bank hold it. Nonsense
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by born2begreat(m): 4:25pm On May 24, 2020
The only bank that are guilt of doing this is Access Bank...

Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

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Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Dalby(m): 4:26pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

Thank your lucky stars, you never know!!!
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Midadeola(f): 4:26pm On May 24, 2020
LtChisom:

That police collected her number to chyke the girl now she don gree for the police man and ditched the Op
madd oooooo
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Spino6(m): 4:27pm On May 24, 2020
Bros i heard you mention say she is light skin and beautiful abeg give me her phone number and her address i will help you talk to her
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Joshforeal: 4:27pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.
@Op I no the part of this your story wey dey pain you sha. But you be Mumu. If you like report me to Mod. Your family don finish wey u fit help bah. Your Gees don finish too bah. Light Skin go eventually lead you to Light Kingdom. You even lucky you got your money back. Dundee OP
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by KayCee92(m): 4:28pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:

Put yourself in my shoes. How would you feel if they told you at the bank the person you sent money to has received it and is only playing pranks won't you be madd. Mstcheew


The truth is that anyone one could be very angry man. You can't anticipate such situation. It only possible to act like you understand and give benefits not the doubt if you have been in that exact situation before. Looking at the whole thing, I think I that was same thing I would have done put in ur shoes. Don't mind those hypocrites saying U could have done this or that, the truth is that they will do worst and even beat up the gal. Lol. If U like her then don't give up, behave like a fool in front of her and show her how stupid U where to take the word the bank gave to you. She will come around definitely. grin
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by afribabe: 4:28pm On May 24, 2020
Charmingrascal:
You wanted to go into a relationship with a 419, God saved you and you are crying.


Bro buy her a car to safe your relationshlip.
How is she a 419? The money didn't get to her. OP said it was reversed. Was she supposed to acknowledge receipt of what she didn't receive?? Plus police interrogation on top undecided undecided
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Dalby(m): 4:28pm On May 24, 2020
Akanoaaa:


And the police even get involved. If na me wey I be guy sef I go vex pass that. She even called him but he ignored her calls. The girl fit forgive him but if she allow him make him come back to her life, the girl na mumu.


He accused her wrongly
Police get involved
He ignored her calls when she needed him. Maybe the police was threatening her on the money she didn't received and she called him to know what the next step would be but Mr. alakori no gree pick her calls.


Abeg @Agbagbaregoo, leave the girl alone. You are definitely not the man for her.


If something like that happen next time, tell the person to go to his or her bank, you can even follow the person if you are doubting.

He accused her wrongly based on the information from his bank...
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by abpotato: 4:30pm On May 24, 2020
Looking at your post I was disappointed self yesterday I transferred money to my own account and I got text and email but to my surprise the money was not in my account till now. Am disappointed in this UBA bank imagine someone is in need of money.
Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by queenitee(f): 4:30pm On May 24, 2020
stormborn28:
but he confirmed that she received the money by the bank statement..





Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.
Now go back and read where he said the bank made a reversal. You obviously didn't finish the write up.

"A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment."

I very much hope you read the above and understood.
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by afribabe: 4:32pm On May 24, 2020
mordred44:
If u marry dis kind lady aswear she go bring u down and ur kindnez is gonna put u in big kasala
how and why??
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Gandollar(f): 4:32pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:

You are right sha
He is not right anything!

These macho good guys do worse when in a difficult situation. They beg and grovel when they are in love but come here to play macho.

What happened was not your fault and not hers.

Apologize to her and woo her back if you love her and she loves you too.

If after everything she refused to bulge, leave her.

But if you still want to be with her, keep keeping in touch through texts. She will eventually come around.

But your write up said you went home disappointed after you got the SOA. You never said you sent it to her.
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by OgogoroFreak(m): 4:34pm On May 24, 2020
queenitee:

You lack comprehension, it's clear you do. So let me simplify what I typed for your sake.

What I typed is that some people really only want to see the bad in women that they refused to see the good in them, appreciate them for their good deeds, commend their good act and see their kindness for what it truly is. Which is exactly what you are saying that not all women are evil and that women have good attitudes also.

But I shouldn't be surprised you don't get, because if you think it's possible for a bank to make a reversal of an already successful transaction, it's safe to say you really won't understand what I wrote earlier.

So no, you, not me is the one thinking with your anus.
"You are talking in the rubbish".

Only you came up with the idea of generalizing and only you is fighting against the idea of generalizing.
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Gandollar(f): 4:36pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:

Thanks man. I will do that. She dey madd
You love this girl...go for it if you really love it.
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by queenitee(f): 4:37pm On May 24, 2020
OgogoroFreak:
You are talking in the rubbish.

Only you came up with the idea of generalizing and only you is fighting against the idea of generalizing.
No, you actually lack comprehension. I'm not generalizing and I never said all women have bad attitude and I never said the lady in the op's write up was wrong.
But then, I'm tired of you and your myopic understanding. So, enjoy the rest of your day.
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by stormborn28(m): 4:39pm On May 24, 2020
queenitee:

Now go back and read where he said the bank made a reversal. You obviously didn't finish the write up.
i actually finished reading the whole thread. I also read there too. From my statement, you will discover I blamed both OP and the lady.. Let me you you the analysis why I did that..

If bank statement shows that money has been sent to a receiver, then the deal is sealed.... Reason why I blamed the lady for denying

OP is a pvssy dude 1. He said statement shows she received the money and towards the tail end of his statement that the money was reversed
2. With the buhaha on ground, OP is still try to still force a relation
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by engraced123(m): 4:40pm On May 24, 2020
How OLD are you?
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by DavidEsq(m): 4:40pm On May 24, 2020
Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.
It's Access bank abi?
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Tillatalk: 4:41pm On May 24, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


stop trying to impress good for nothing ungrateful women with money... count your blessing you got your money back., and just send her what you owe her, nothing more then forget/block the animal.
maybe that's how they treat your sisters
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by engraced123(m): 4:43pm On May 24, 2020
Please change the topic to "How I Ruined mi Relationship"
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by queenitee(f): 4:44pm On May 24, 2020
stormborn28:
i actually finished reading the whole thread. I also read there too. From my statement, you will discover I blamed both OP and the lady.. Let me you you the analysis why I did that..

If bank statement shows that money has been sent to a receiver, then the deal is sealed.... Reason why I blamed the lady for denying

OP is a pvssy dude 1. He said statement shows she received the money and towards the tail end of his statement that the money was reversed
2. With the buhaha on ground, OP is still try to still force a relation
Oh okay, I get you now.
But most times, if you don't get to the bank, you wouldn't know. My brother has sent money sometimes ago and despite checking my account balance through mobile, the money wasn't there and he had already received a debit alert. It took days for the money to reflect in my account. Now, imagine if he wasn't my brother.

Banks in Naija are just something else entirely, they would disappoint you.
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Dexter23401: 4:46pm On May 24, 2020
The two of u are just being childish and lack patience.
Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by jmichael259(m): 4:48pm On May 24, 2020
stormborn28:
but he confirmed that she received the money by the bank statement..





Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

If she received the money how did the bank reverse it?
A bank transfer reverse is like bounced check it did not pay the recipient.

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