jumpymonkey:
You always have the most toxic ideas for your sister as portrayed in your chats here. Desperate family.

They want to have a British baby and claim Benefits . Dirty village people and ignorant fools. This guy f**k up big time for marrying from a low life family like yours and putting up with abuse for so long

Bro... thanks for this, now to you all simps and maginas wey dey defend anything underskirt hoping to claim fvvck as the ultimate price, una eyes go soon clear..

@etrangere you are a disappointment, you've migrated to Canada as a single person, i pray you marry a Nigerian girl who sees you as an ends to success and bring her over to Canada, then you'll know that not all sensitive topic like this you'll jam talk on..

jumpymonkey:
Adunola Olutade always has the most toxic ideas for her sister as portrayed in the chats below. Desperate family.

They want to have a British baby and claim Benefits . Dirty village people and ignorant fools. This guy f**k up big time for marrying from a low life family like yours and putting up with abuse for so long

Your warp reasoning did not show you that was a forwarded message from someone to your wife's sister when she sought an advice on how to rescue her sister from you. Why not explain how you laid your hands on the forwarded message if not when you seized your wife's phone and went through her messages. You are really not man enough

Ok. Best of luck with whatever you decide but please remember the innocent kids. A simple search of their mums name may bring this up.

jumpymonkey:
She started the game of name calling and we the friends and family are ready to play it

ayomidate0:


Your warp reasoning did not show you that was a forwarded message from someone to your wife's sister when she sought an advice on how to rescue her sister from you. Why not explain how you laid your hands on the forwarded message if not when you seized your wife's phone and went through her messages. You are really not man enough

You still wont back down, will you? Should we keep playing this game? I think the people of nairaland who have stuck around for this long deserve to be entertained.

jumpymonkey:
Adunola Olutade always has the most toxic ideas for her sister as portrayed in the chats below. Desperate family.

They want to have a British baby and claim Benefits . Dirty village people and ignorant fools. This guy f**k up big time for marrying from a low life family like yours and putting up with abuse for so long

Chei!

jumpymonkey:
I hope you're carrying your sister and women advocacy group along because you're ruining your sister's chances at the remotest chance of any kind of respite by fighting dirty. I also hope that you have the mind for what you are about to start. Lemme source for some more info, your violent sister is about to go viral


...instablog naija loading. The court of public opinion is where you guys want to fight, oya na lets go

Mr man, take this matter offline. You're not a lady, I'm surprise a man can engage in banters like this.

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ayomidate0:



Mr man go and respond to the question and evidence posted about. You've just been going from post to post, moniker to moniker avoiding it. The question came with a receipt. By the way why are u posting an innocent lady photo? Is she your wife or you don't know you can be sued for that. What has your wife's sister picture got to do with the evidence posted up there?

Tunde answer the question and the message sent to you

Please present more evidences Anty

O boy ye

No be na wa, na real wa

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Atk1nson:


Mr man, take this matter offline. You're not a lady, I'm surprise a man can engage in banters like this.

So una fit come say this rubbish, but the ayo lady started, them dey cheer her up...

Hypocrite

So the accused really did seize his wife’s phone.

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cococandy:
So the accused really did seize his wife’s phone.

In real life, many couples have access to their partner's phone

And how did you come up with calling a free and innocent man the accused? Only one person was accused, arrested and restricted here and it's the OP's violent and abusive wife

simbated:
In real life, many couples have access to their partner's phone, I think

These ones that are fighting like this? What’s the likelihood?

cococandy:
So the accused really did seize his wife’s phone.

So this is what you can come up with from your brain, no be una dey cheer up the ayomidate nii, now dem brong evidence una dey type rubbish

rs172:

So this is what you can come up with from your brain, no be una dey cheer up the ayomidate nii, now dem brong evidence una dey type rubbish

Hmm. Too many relatives in this ish.

I can say categorically that this couples’ marriage failed because of too much outside interference. If they had any chance, it was ruined the moment all of you started “chooking” your heads and noses in it.

Men are just too weak nowadays get out of my face you pervert

immaculate1234:
Men are just too weak nowadays get out of my face you pervert

Not all men are violent. Some are very mature and reasonable. Unfortunately they are often taken advantage of by abusive women.

It's glaring that this is all cooked up to claim domestic violence later. No sane person composes such a long text message. This is not an evidence of anything. The person who sent this stupid SMS is probably in on the plot too. If anything at all, this is a clear threat and whoever sent it can get in trouble too. OP's wife has many friends that fuel her abusive behaviour Birds of a feather...

simbated:
Not all men are violent. Some are very mature and reasonable. Unfortunately they are often taken advantage of by abusive women.

I will rent another apartment and file for divorce who has time to waste on a woman who is lucky he can eat three square meal without working.

Trash

Gloriagee:
Yeah, in an ideal environment, people are perfect. They don't make decisions based on emotions and societal expectations.

I may not fault her for leaving the control of her future to someone else cos living with a personality like this can make you doubt yourself. N if the violence emanating from her is
a one off case, I empathize with her.

A typical Nig woman can't leave a marriage easily - so many vested interests and opinions. I always believe a separation is even better than going this way cos nobody is worth going to jail for. I also believe in being a good example for my kids so there's that too.

Okay na. They should stay and be dragged like this since it is too much to ask women to take any sort of responsibility for their actions.



The whole thing is so messy the man has them where he wants. I cant stand women who love the position of victim while being toxic themselves.

With the message about wanting to get a british baby madam can kiss her stay bye.

ayomidate0:


Why are you fighting like a wounded lion Tunde
Oh sorry its in your usual practice. Look at all the monikers you've been using, violence is written all over your posts.

Why can't you calmly explain and answer the questions I asked yesterday. I thought you are the victim

Stop replying madam.
By now, you should know your sister should be speaking to a lawyer and keeping you mouths shut and your plans to yourselves.
There are many Nigerian communities in the UK who can give you good advice on how to go about this matter. I'm talking about people who have been in the system long enough (at least 10 to 15 years) to know how it works. Seek them out first.
You should also be able to get free legal counsel too. The police should offer you one I believe.
Go online and find out also about the citizens bureau and get advice from them too, if needed.

It may seem like an easy thing to do, but DIVORCE is messy! You lose all the meat and have only skinny bones left. You might never recover from the aftereffect for a very long time and may slip into clinical depression. You know what happens from there...?
In all, that would not be the very first course of action. The Op had to nail her by the Law first. It gets easier to begin divorce proceedings.

quote author=immaculate1234 post=89922163] I will rent another apartment and file for divorce who has time to waste on a woman who is lucky he can eat three square meal without working.
Trash [/quote]

I'm not saying women should be absolved from taking responsibility.
I personally take responsibility for my mental health. Not everything is worth my time and I guard my space jealously. I'm just tryna see things from her perspective n not be so judgmental.

Eketem:


Okay na. They should stay and be dragged like this since it is too much to ask women to take any sort of responsibility for their actions.



The whole thing is so messy the man has them where he wants. I cant stand women who love the position of victim while being toxic themselves.

With the message about wanting to get a british baby madam can kiss her stay bye.

Thank you Eyin.

eyinjuege:


Stop replying madam.
By now, you should know your sister should be speaking to a lawyer and keeping you mouths shut and your plans to yourselves.
There are many Nigerian communities in the UK who can give you good advice on how to go about this matter. I'm talking about people who have been in the system long enough (at least 10 to 15 years) to know how it works. Seek them out first.
You should also be able to get free legal counsel too. The police should offer you one I believe.
Go online and find out also about the citizens bureau and get advice from them too, if needed.

rago:
This is a rather huge hyperbole (borli). You could not have blown this person's head to an unparalleled degree! You never could have!!

My statement obviously is an assumption not cited from anywhere clearly, so it's based on what I think. And I wasn't trying to blow his mind buddy, rather we were having a conversation, that was me replying to what the person I quoted said about what his brother thinks, don't just jump from nowhere into any conversation (No offense).

SweetCunt97:
Naso. Some of them are mortuary attendants, dish washers over there o.

yeah but the dollars we earn here is far more what u can achieve in a whole year

Very sad but Providence will make you a conquerer. If you live in Canada, specifically, Ontario, contact me, and I will assist you with your Divorce, pro bono. I hope your side of the equation is credible as it sounds, if yes, you have a compelling case although, there are lots of nuts and bolts with divorce matters as you probably know by now. If you live outside Canada, good luck and be focused. Whatever happens, be strong, don't loss your job. Divorce is a nightmare but you will be just fine.

Ebenezer2O2O:
yeah but the dollars we earn here is far more what u can achieve in a whole year

Yes you are right. No b competition. You no dey feed me or shelter so what d f?

SweetCunt97:
Yes you are right. No b competition. You no dey feed me or shelter so what d f?

just kukum tell me say u want fellow come make I arrange your green card