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Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by reubenobi(m): 8:21am On May 26, 2020
SpecialAgent:
undecided

So in summary, she dumped you on her own terms despite cheating on you.


Even in the league of sissy men, You are a champion. metchew
I no fit laugh oo
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by uthlaw: 8:23am On May 26, 2020
instinct57vm:
And honestly I agree with you but it is what it is. You have to train yourself to that level, it takes time but very possible. Most importantly, I tell guys women are naturally unreliable, hence do not at any time have one babe. At least TWO! Especially if ure dating all this gals that are still in skol. E get why
2 is too small,at least 6 and Bleep them steady!
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Angelacruz: 8:24am On May 26, 2020
It will end in tears...dis one will be between her n ur pastor
Lifedonor:
Pls refer to my thread about my girlfriend cheating on me even in the church

https://www.nairaland.com/5880851/girlfriend-just-confessed-she-fornicated

Finally last night she called me and was still pleading so I went to her place.

The door was open and I walked in only to see her crying so badly.
I talked to her and avdised her this talk went on for almost 4hrs.

I finally forgave her and decided to take her in again. But on the condition that she leaves the church. Its a redeemed church and its just here i n our area. I told her to join me at my branch (same redeemed) or she should choose any other church and that I was going to follow her.

To my shock she agreed to change she promised nothing of such can happen again and that she still loves me but can't change her church. She still wants to remain there and work out her salvation... I told her if that is the case then the relationship can't continue and that I was going to leave And then block her from my WhatsApp. She agreed and I left then I blocked her.

It Hurst still but I would remain like this
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by instinct57vm(m): 8:43am On May 26, 2020
uthlaw:
2 is too small,at least 6 and Bleep them steady!
See correct guy chop knuckle jare �
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Kingsteve(m): 8:55am On May 26, 2020
Pascalvik06:
In your last thread someone said it will end in tears, and yeah indeed it ended in tears... grin grin
grin

Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Dreyton36: 9:32am On May 26, 2020
instinct57vm:
And honestly I agree with you but it is what it is. You have to train yourself to that level, it takes time but very possible. Most importantly, I tell guys women are naturally unreliable, hence do not at any time have one babe. At least TWO! Especially if ure dating all this gals that are still in skol. E get why
You have a valid point bro
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Mightyify(m): 9:52am On May 26, 2020
She was crying because she felt she was so stupid to be caught. she was not really sorry. Never forgive a woman who cheated on you because she'll always do it again. I guarantee you of that
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by seanwilliam(m): 10:15am On May 26, 2020
Dreyton36:
Let's be honest with ourselves here brother
When it comes to a woman you so much love it's very hard to play hard on them , that's the fact
Especially when it's a woman you got future plans with
stop justifying being simpish.. if you fail to face the reality, reality will face you...
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by elpochas: 10:18am On May 26, 2020
Guy man bone that girl o, you can still choose to keep her as a sexmate not as your serious date.
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Nobody: 10:34am On May 26, 2020
mission08:
Bros, just move on with your life. She has made her choice. You even gave her a very soft landing....changing church is very small price to pay for her waywaredness. Seems you are not in her priority list.

Working out her salvation indeed.....
workin put her salvation indeed o grin grin


Niggas will neva learn...
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Tillatalk: 10:44am On May 26, 2020
Once a cheater is a cheater forever ..bro use your head
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Nobody: 10:56am On May 26, 2020
Oxb90:
Can you please stop disturbing us with this rubbish. Haba it's too early.
grin
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by holymiles(m): 10:59am On May 26, 2020
na relaxer dey your skull not a brain.

Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by macho44(m): 11:01am On May 26, 2020
Lifedonor:
Pls refer to my thread about my girlfriend cheating on me even in the church

https://www.nairaland.com/5880851/girlfriend-just-confessed-she-fornicated

Finally last night she called me and was still pleading so I went to her place.

The door was open and I walked in only to see her crying so badly.
I talked to her and avdised her this talk went on for almost 4hrs.

I finally forgave her and decided to take her in again. But on the condition that she leaves the church. Its a redeemed church and its just here i n our area. I told her to join me at my branch (same redeemed) or she should choose any other church and that I was going to follow her.

To my shock she agreed to change she promised nothing of such can happen again and that she still loves me but can't change her church. She still wants to remain there and work out her salvation... I told her if that is the case then the relationship can't continue and that I was going to leave And then block her from my WhatsApp. She agreed and I left then I blocked her.

It Hurst still but I would remain like this

Modified*****

She finally came to my place this morning. Though I did the calling.
She has agreed to change the church and attend mine.
I must say that I wasn't regular with my attendance in church. She also pointed that I have to be steady with going to church too.

Conclusively we are back and better ..
Everyone should know that it takes God to have a peaceful and fulfilling relationship.
I may sound weak but hey! I know why I had to go through this to get her back.
I have equally cheated to the point she caught me pants down. and I really haven't been paying attention.

Guys the alpha male should a time to reflect too. Its saves a lot.
Bros, na WA oooo. U be Cheater, ur babe sef na "CHEAtist", I just dey wonder wetin Una go born grin,abeg make uno no increase the population of Olosho and Phuck Boiz for this our country ooo
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Sixfeetbelle: 11:02am On May 26, 2020
mission08:
Bros, just move on with your life. She has made her choice. You even gave her a very soft landing....changing church is very small price to pay for her waywaredness. Seems you are not in her priority list.

Working out her salvation indeed.....
He just admitted he's a cheat too. Abeg they deserve each other
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by CallMeGrace(f): 11:05am On May 26, 2020
A cheat will always be a cheat.
Just wise up.
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by CovenHighPriest: 11:23am On May 26, 2020
Greatresearcher1 if this guy no enter your list me and you go fight undecided
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by UndauntedYOCA(f): 11:28am On May 26, 2020
Lifedonor:
Pls refer to my thread about my girlfriend cheating on me even in the church

https://www.nairaland.com/5880851/girlfriend-just-confessed-she-fornicated

Finally last night she called me and was still pleading so I went to her place.

The door was open and I walked in only to see her crying so badly.
I talked to her and avdised her this talk went on for almost 4hrs.

I finally forgave her and decided to take her in again. But on the condition that she leaves the church. Its a redeemed church and its just here i n our area. I told her to join me at my branch (same redeemed) or she should choose any other church and that I was going to follow her.

To my shock she agreed to change she promised nothing of such can happen again and that she still loves me but can't change her church. She still wants to remain there and work out her salvation... I told her if that is the case then the relationship can't continue and that I was going to leave And then block her from my WhatsApp. She agreed and I left then I blocked her.

It Hurst still but I would remain like this

Modified*****

She finally came to my place this morning. Though I did the calling.
She has agreed to change the church and attend mine.
I must say that I wasn't regular with my attendance in church. She also pointed that I have to be steady with going to church too.

Conclusively we are back and better ..
Everyone should know that it takes God to have a peaceful and fulfilling relationship.
I may sound weak but hey! I know why I had to go through this to get her back.
I have equally cheated to the point she caught me pants down. and I really haven't been paying attention.

Guys the alpha male should a time to reflect too. Its saves a lot.
Lobatan, why didn't you tell us about your cheating escapades in the previous post? Carry your wahala and go work things out.
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by obo389(m): 11:29am On May 26, 2020
Karda20:
I'm disappointed in you. You went to her place to beg her? You met her crying? Have you ever heard of the word "emotional manipulation?" That's one of the dangerous gift Satan gifted ladies, probably when they discussed in the garden of Eden. You're being manipulated.

Guy, you need her dose of red pill.

No matter how beautiful a girl is, my relationship with her ends immediately I catch her cheating.

Do you want to destroy your life young? Do you even fear deadly STDs? Your priority for now should be testing yourself for any possible STDs you could have gotten from her. Grab a copy of "The possibility of Sex" by Alan Currier and set yourself free from stupid ladies.
Ol boi, if you like , rant pass this keneri wey wan born.
Toto get power pass normal man brain
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by MEGA4BILLION(m): 11:29am On May 26, 2020
Op, she is right. You have to be regular in church and go before time as well so you start your own church romance
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by heniford2: 11:36am On May 26, 2020
Lifedonor:
Pls refer to my thread about my girlfriend cheating on me even in the church

https://www.nairaland.com/5880851/girlfriend-just-confessed-she-fornicated

Finally last night she called me and was still pleading so I went to her place.

The door was open and I walked in only to see her crying so badly.
I talked to her and avdised her this talk went on for almost 4hrs.

I finally forgave her and decided to take her in again. But on the condition that she leaves the church. Its a redeemed church and its just here i n our area. I told her to join me at my branch (same redeemed) or she should choose any other church and that I was going to follow her.

To my shock she agreed to change she promised nothing of such can happen again and that she still loves me but can't change her church. She still wants to remain there and work out her salvation... I told her if that is the case then the relationship can't continue and that I was going to leave And then block her from my WhatsApp. She agreed and I left then I blocked her.

It Hurst still but I would remain like this

Modified*****

She finally came to my place this morning. Though I did the calling.
She has agreed to change the church and attend mine.
I must say that I wasn't regular with my attendance in church. She also pointed that I have to be steady with going to church too.

Conclusively we are back and better ..
Everyone should know that it takes God to have a peaceful and fulfilling relationship.
I may sound weak but hey! I know why I had to go through this to get her back.
I have equally cheated to the point she caught me pants down. and I really haven't been paying attention.

Guys the alpha male should a time to reflect too. Its saves a lot.
dude i don't wanna quote you Buh i feel like to tell you this someone like you usually end up been used by women i don't know why u are putting up with her again after u notice all she did Buh like the say u never can tell the real truth so is a disgrace to manhood to see puppy act like a man
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Stewart883(m): 11:40am On May 26, 2020
Lalasticlalabos:
Bro, u are a fuul
No na fowl
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Aremu01(m): 12:12pm On May 26, 2020
I am not a prophet... But I don't see faithfulness in the marriage
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Dreyton36: 12:16pm On May 26, 2020
[quote author=seanwilliam post=89972326]stop justifying being simpish.. if you fail to face the reality, reality will face you...[/quote
There's no Superman when it comes to dealing with emotions
Na ur type they cry pass, just shut up, wetin u sabi
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Martinez39s(m): 12:25pm On May 26, 2020
The foolishness of this OP is way taller than the mythic tower of Babel.

Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Martinez39s(m): 12:31pm On May 26, 2020
GreatResearcher1, Omar09, emmaodet, we have a new simp in the Simp Hall of Fame. grin
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Martinez39s(m): 12:32pm On May 26, 2020
StubbornGENIUS:
Your Village people are impressed
They are popping champagne right now. grin
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by jom4real007(m): 12:33pm On May 26, 2020
With all due respect sir, You suck!
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Martinez39s(m): 12:34pm On May 26, 2020
CovenHighPriest:
Greatresearcher1 if this guy no enter your list me and you go fight undecided
As in. grin
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Roodez(m): 12:38pm On May 26, 2020
Cooked up story
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Nobody: 12:42pm On May 26, 2020
On a long enough timeline we all - both males and females alike - are bound to fùck up. I'm all for meaningful, fulfilling relationships that go deeper than mere sex. That special kind of connection/bond you share with someone that isn't threatened by sexual infidelity.

I shouldn't really be saying this but it warms the heart knowing you didn't let your ego get in the way of your happiness. It's good you realized that just cos she cheated, doesn't necessarily make her a bad person, that you were cheated on too doesn't make you the victim. You both just saved yourselves from further hurting each other unnecessarily.

That's the kind of love we all should aspire for.

But then again on a different day, I might just join the bandwagon and tell you it's a beta-male move to take back a cheating bìtch. Hehe.
Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by seanwilliam(m): 12:46pm On May 26, 2020
Dreyton36:
There's no Superman when it comes to dealing with emotions
Na ur type they cry pass, just shut up, wetin u sabi
lol.. if only you knew stupid things I have done in the past... I learnt the hardest way...
We just have to forget the memories and take up new series..
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