Dear Nairalanders, i want to get your views on this issue,
I'm into a relationship with this babe which started about 13months ago, we actually met on FB though we are from same place. It has been a no sex affair cos she said she's a virgin. I love her so much cos of certain qualities and d most important is that she's humble, calm and doesn't nag, i love the fact that she hardly gets angry cos I'm a bit tempramental and shes always ready to say sorry, she's not arrogant cos thats what ended my previous relationship buh the issue here is that this girl according to her hasn't been in a committed relationship before and cos of that i feel that she doesnt care enough, I've made my intentions of marrying her known to her and have also introduced her to my mom and younger siblings, she takes almost everything lightly, she's boring during a conversation and makes u feel like u are disturbing her when u call. She claims to love me alot and can't let me slip of her finger buh her attitude doesnt show it, she has certain characteristics i don't fancy such as always updating her male friends pictures on certain ocassions(though she's stopped that cos i complained) she used to have a male bestie(though she claims she has reduced d level of communication since i wasnt comfortable with d idea), d annoying part was when i saw a guy's number saved as "mine" with some emojis, when i comfronted her, she claimed d number has been like that even before we met and that d guy is a very close friend to her family, that caused some issues and she edited it, just recently i noticed that she also saved a guy's number as "gumdrop" this is a guy who is her neighbour in the compound where she lives with her sister, when i asked, she said it has been that way b4 we met and that d previous guy she dated never saw anything in that probably thats y she felt i won't mind even after the first issue we had o. Recently, she visited me and decided to cut her hair, i took her to a very good saloon, that same evening i noticed she sent pictures of her new look to this same gumdrop of a guy. Could it be she's into another affair, could it be she's not showing so much sign of committment cos we've not had sex or its just her kind of person. I'm dis kinda guy that loves attention and she's d type that is so reserved. Just few days ago i told her i wanna quit and she cried, asking me to give her time to work on herself and that she always thanked God that she met me, when i told her I'm not feeling romance that i feel like she's into d relationship to use me to learn relationship matters or to fulfil all righteousness she felt bad, i told her i wanna go into another affair and she said if that would make me happy i should go ahead so we get some space to work on ourselves buh that she doesnt wanna lose me. Please i need your candid opinion on this. She's 25 I'll be 31 next month

Sorry to ask bro, this no sex affair you people have been doing for 13 months now, is she a virgin
If she's not, discard her immediately.
How can your non virgin girlfriend deprive you of kpekus for over a year and still claim she loves you?? She's wicked, self centered, and inconsiderate!

Just quit let’s all have peace of mind .

Ginaz:
Just quit let’s all have peace of mind .

is that what u think as best, i hate to jump from one affair to another so quickly. Sorry to bother u

Chai, imagine being in a no sex relationship. God forbid.

Bro, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

So you can't do without "SEX" ?

makydebbie:
Chai, imagine being in a no sex relationship. God forbid.

You'll drink sniper very soon because of a lady that doesn't know where she belongs to.


You are lucky you are not here. I go land you two better slap, las las I go beat the nonsense love comot your body. Nonsense and Buhari

She's no virgin and that bestie is her fvck buddy.
You're being manipulated simple.
A woman would deny, cry, faint and still be lying. Not all women though but majority are so.

Carchoice:
You'll drink sniper very soon because of a lady that doesn't know where she belongs to.


You are lucky you are not here. I go land you two better slap, las las I go beat the nonsense love comot your body. Nonsense and Buhari

lol, no too vex bro

Should we tell him?

My worry is not the NO sex relationship , I have something else to draw your attention to.That your concept that she does not nag.hmmmmmm.

By the time you people get sexually involved and the sex is not worth it or below expectation my brother she will nag.So please keep that she does not nag aside first.

Ishilove:
Should we tell him?

Nooooooooooooooooooooo

pls what is gumdrop?

Uniquekriss:
lol, no too vex bro

https://www.nairaland.com/5880449/see-reason-why-several-heart#89929714

makydebbie:
Chai, imagine being in a no sex relationship. God forbid.

Virgin huntsmen are coming for you o

Am sorry that I av to tell u this "you're in a game"

It's the best

makydebbie:
Chai, imagine being in a no sex relationship. God forbid.

The hand written is boldly written on the wall.

Use your head else it will end in "high quality made in Germany tears"

Are u really sure she is a virgin?
Answer this question and get my advice.

Twoclans:


Nooooooooooooooooooooo

Hokay

Am sure you give her money.shes may be using you for the money.dats how some of these under 25 girls are.i dont think shes a virgin and i believe strongly dat those her guys are her sex mates.but if you love her i think you should marry her and get her pregnant.that should bring some sense into her head and make her mellow down.i think she would make a good wife.but you should love her and be strict with her too otherwise not only you go dey enjoy her body.those naive girls are sometimes like that.they love penis like its sugarcane.

It's her personality, some people are like that doesn't mean she's playing games.

That's the best. Discipline

Davash222:
Sorry to ask bro, this no sex affair you people have been doing for 13 months now, is she a virgin
If she's not, discard her immediately.
How can your non virgin girlfriend deprive you of kpekus for over a year and still claim she loves you?? She's wicked, self centered, and inconsiderate!

Some guys are fool. Me that can't date a woman for a week without fu*cking her pussy.

bro u better man up and let her go. there are lots of fishes in the ocean, even bigger and better ones.

ibkayee:

Virgin huntsmen are coming for you o

They're already in my mentions.