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Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by pek(m): 10:52pm On May 26, 2020
What help do you want? The only help I can offer is advise for you to concentrate on your studies. Based on what you wrote, you obviously need it.
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Heavensent01(m): 10:52pm On May 26, 2020
paul100:

Mr Heaven sent hmmmmgrin



na only religion person dey use am? you extremist won't cease to amuse me with your naivety, yet na una dey do evil pass grin

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Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by frozen70(f): 10:55pm On May 26, 2020
Maclink288:
Good day everyone, I'm a guy of 22years before now I've promised my parents that all through my stay in school I won't endulge in anything sexual but as of last 2 month something happened, I made out with a lady(didn't penetrate) but since then my mind hasn't been at rest, I over think, I'm loosing control, my heart beats faster, I've told my parents about it but yet I'm not calm.

In Addition: I took a substance (Man power) on that day, I don't know if it's what is affecting me. It's over 6weeks now.

I've run to God and made a vow to him if I get free...
Please Nairalanders, help me out

Just calm down, there may be nothing wrong with you

Just confess to God and give yourself midnight prayers to reconcile with God

What happened it that you disobeyed your spirit and its not happy with you

But pure repentance will set your mind free

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Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by TheMohican(m): 10:58pm On May 26, 2020
Maclink288:
Good day everyone, I'm a guy of 22years before now I've promised my parents that all through my stay in school I won't endulge in anything sexual but as of last 2 month something happened, I made out with a lady(didn't penetrate) but since then my mind hasn't been at rest, I over think, I'm loosing control, my heart beats faster, I've told my parents about it but yet I'm not calm.

In Addition: I took a substance (Man power) on that day, I don't know if it's what is affecting me. It's over 6weeks now.

I've run to God and made a vow to him if I get free...
Please Nairalanders, help me out


22 year old child. Your mates governed countries and you're here doing Ife umu azi tufia
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by ehardetola(m): 10:59pm On May 26, 2020
Maclink288:
Please I need more suggestions

Lalasticlala

Relax your mind, is over anxious that causes it. But you do erect early morning? If yes means nothing wrong with you. And if No since six weeks, brother consult your doctor.
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by gulfer: 11:00pm On May 26, 2020
iPhone bad, will type txkomorro
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by TheMohican(m): 11:02pm On May 26, 2020
scoundrel:
At age fifty when you’re cheating on your wife for the third or fourth time, you’ll laugh at this naivety. I assure you of it.

The guy is too old to be this naive, at 15 some people are already exposed to some kinds of knowledge, this man is getting Panic Attack because he kissed, my younger brother is also 98 and he isn't this ignorant

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Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by emusmithyy(m): 11:05pm On May 26, 2020
anochuko01:
Where that righteousness guy When you need am

lolss
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by wizkidblogger(f): 11:07pm On May 26, 2020
do more of it steady and you go dey alright. you no kee person na grin

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Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by bassette(m): 11:09pm On May 26, 2020
Issue reporting has become the new NL front page tactic.
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by ymbappe: 11:09pm On May 26, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:
It's anxiety.
It always doesn't feel right when you do something wrong.
But this is a good thing too.
Just repent towards Him and hope in his mercy.



And get married if you are capable.

Trust, I've been on Nairaland for a few months but I've never seen a sensible comment/advice better than this. I love your thinking. You're sensible bro..

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Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by TheMohican(m): 11:11pm On May 26, 2020
safarigirl:
Lol...this is so cute cheesy

Don't tell your parents about your sex life though, I doubt they will be as willing to hear about all the freaky stuff as you think they will.

Stay true to you and don't do anything that would cause you to feel regret. Don't allow the world and its quirks overwhelm you. If you truly wish to live a life without sexual activities, you should probably make more informed decisions and keep away from circumstances that would lead you to do something you don't want to do


This is solid advice.... for a 16 year old.

the MAN IS TWENTY TWO YEARS OLD for crying out loud, he's not a child!!! It's not "cute" infact, It should be a crime for someone to be this naive, and although the advice is 10/10, I believe it endulges such behavior.

At 22 my mother had graduated from University and was giving life to her 2nd child, at 23 her elder brother had started his first business and was welcoming his new wife into his home, at 21 my eldest brother was leaving the shores of Nigeria to a strange land where he knew absolutely nobody.

At 22 bomboy over here is going to report himself to his parents for kissing a girl. Damn..


Editted: just wanted to add that at 15 my father was going off to fight in the Biafran War.

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Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by TheMohican(m): 11:20pm On May 26, 2020
Nyamve1:
I dnt get it, at the age of 22 hmmmm, kids of nowadays, when i was at ur age their was noting like that ever cross my mind, even in my school days i was the must quiet person yet the must brilliant. I dnt blame, i rather blame the society


Sarcasm!!!!!

You deserve a gold star
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Phemzy003(m): 11:22pm On May 26, 2020
I will advise u to ask for forgiveness from God I bliv he will answer you so far u are feeling sorry
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Realiskit(m): 11:24pm On May 26, 2020
Are you blind? Read it again.
chiemmanuel:
You told your parents you penetrated a lady
Did your father clap for you, or your mum smile
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by PoliticallyInco: 11:24pm On May 26, 2020
Maclink288:
Good day everyone, I'm a guy of 22years before now I've promised my parents that all through my stay in school I won't endulge in anything sexual but as of last 2 month something happened, I made out with a lady(didn't penetrate) but since then my mind hasn't been at rest, I over think, I'm loosing control, my heart beats faster, I've told my parents about it but yet I'm not calm.

In Addition: I took a substance (Man power) on that day, I don't know if it's what is affecting me. It's over 6weeks now.

I've run to God and made a vow to him if I get free...
Please Nairalanders, help me out


Classic anxiety disorder and perhaps a little panic attack.

Simple notice it when it happens and let it go. Don't bother about it. Don't go about googling and reading stuff. Don't go about stressing.

You are simply excited. It is your flight or fight response. Unfortunately as a human, your body doesn't differentiate if what is making you anxious is good or bad. It simply reacts. You will have to let your body know that is isn't a big deal.

However you are currently making a big deal about it. Feeling bad, reporting your self, etc.
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by banio: 11:29pm On May 26, 2020
Maclink288:
Good day everyone, I'm a guy of 22years before now I've promised my parents that all through my stay in school I won't endulge in anything sexual but as of last 2 month something happened, I made out with a lady(didn't penetrate) but since then my mind hasn't been at rest, I over think, I'm loosing control, my heart beats faster, I've told my parents about it but yet I'm not calm.

In Addition: I took a substance (Man power) on that day, I don't know if it's what is affecting me. It's over 6weeks now.

I've run to God and made a vow to him if I get free...
Please Nairalanders, help me out

Mr runner.

First, you ran to God.

Secondly, you ran to nairaland
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by chaloskyx: 11:33pm On May 26, 2020
the manpower is still in you go and visit the nearest brothel so that they can purge you of your anxiety and panic attack once they are done with you your head will feel a bit lighter and all your stress gone
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by SweetDipBenny(m): 11:36pm On May 26, 2020
I don't get it. Didn't u enjoy it. Are u gay

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Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by MelCosta: 11:48pm On May 26, 2020
Maclink288:
Good day everyone, I'm a guy of 22years before now I've promised my parents that all through my stay in school I won't endulge in anything sexual but as of last 2 month something happened, I made out with a lady(didn't penetrate) but since then my mind hasn't been at rest, I over think, I'm loosing control, my heart beats faster, I've told my parents about it but yet I'm not calm.

In Addition: I took a substance (Man power) on that day, I don't know if it's what is affecting me. It's over 6weeks now.

I've run to God and made a vow to him if I get free...
Please Nairalanders, help me out



Go see your doctor
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Diamond23(f): 11:49pm On May 26, 2020
Maclink288:
Good day everyone, I'm a guy of 22years before now I've promised my parents that all through my stay in school I won't endulge in anything sexual but as of last 2 month something happened, I made out with a lady(didn't penetrate) but since then my mind hasn't been at rest, I over think, I'm loosing control, my heart beats faster, I've told my parents about it but yet I'm not calm.

In Addition: I took a substance (Man power) on that day, I don't know if it's what is affecting me. It's over 6weeks now.

I've run to God and made a vow to him if I get free...
Please Nairalanders, help me out
first attempt na so e dey be, las las you go dey alright but sin no more grin
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by madjune(m): 11:49pm On May 26, 2020
You made out with a lady and ran to your parents.

Wait. Are you from Abakiliki?

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Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Slynation(m): 11:50pm On May 26, 2020
Maclink288:
Good day everyone, I'm a guy of 22years before now I've promised my parents that all through my stay in school I won't endulge in anything sexual but as of last 2 month something happened, I made out with a lady(didn't penetrate) but since then my mind hasn't been at rest, I over think, I'm loosing control, my heart beats faster, I've told my parents about it but yet I'm not calm.

In Addition: I took a substance (Man power) on that day, I don't know if it's what is affecting me. It's over 6weeks now.

I've run to God and made a vow to him if I get free...
Please Nairalanders, help me out
Look at this guy oO, you haven't done anything yet and when u decided to, you went straight and took manpower grin Anyways it virtually means your prick has taken control of your brain, so until you feeds him, it will keep charging at will (autonomous charging) grin grin but now it's left for you to either starve him or satisfy him...

But please how did you feel telling your parents about your sexual life... Seems to me you are mummy's boy

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Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by MrBigiman: 11:57pm On May 26, 2020
Your only problem is lack of problem.

Pick urself up and start making real progress.

There is no progress in smooching a lady and going to hell, instead of banging a girl silly and going to the same hell.

When i was in the world I banged the hell out of ladies, as it was more profitable that touching and feeling guilty.

However it all it leads to destruction. Trust me, as I am more than a decade older than your are

If you must choose heaven, then make that move, and avoid trouble.

Tomorrow will be better

Cheers
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Slynation(m): 11:58pm On May 26, 2020
TheMohican:


This is solid advice.... for a 16 year old.

the MAN IS TWENTY TWO YEARS OLD for crying out loud, he's not a child!!! It's not "cute" infact, It should be a crime for someone to be this naive, and although the advice is 10/10, I believe it endulges such behavior.

At 22 my mother had graduated from University and was giving life to her 2nd child, at 23 her elder brother had started his first business and was welcoming his new wife into his home, at 21 my eldest brother was leaving the shores of Nigeria to a strange land where he knew absolutely nobody.

At 22 bomboy over here is going to report himself to his parents for kissing a girl. Damn..


Editted: just wanted to add that at 15 my father was going off to fight in the Biafran War.
Asin ehh nobi small bomboy oO....grin I wonder the kinda weak men the society is breeding of recent grin
Just when I thought I'av heard it all grin
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Bilkol: 12:00am On May 27, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:
It's anxiety.
It always doesn't feel right when you do something wrong.
But this is a good thing too.
Just repent towards Him and hope in his mercy.



And get married if you are capable.
.

22 yrs should get married ���� & who says marriage cure lust?
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by lekki1444: 12:04am On May 27, 2020
she has taken your spiritual energy. now your spirit is gasping. you joined unto a succubus. she snatched your soul
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Nobody: 12:43am On May 27, 2020
Bilkol:
.

22 yrs should get married ���� & who says marriage cure lust?
Too old or what?
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by OKTolu: 12:52am On May 27, 2020
its called anxiety ,stay away from immorality bro and focus on your studies. Good luck.
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Samabu07(m): 1:03am On May 27, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:
It's anxiety.
It always doesn't feel right when you do something wrong.
But this is a good thing too.
Just repent towards Him and hope in his mercy.



And get married if you are capable.
Dont marry because of sex. Do it because you are ready and want it. And please good money so that she won't insult you some day.
Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Adeevah(m): 1:04am On May 27, 2020
Go get yourself a good sex and all forms of anxiety would be erased

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