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Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

His own side of the story will be; my girl left me because I don't have money to send her for her birthday...think about it

StrongandMighty:
Relief yourself from this entitlement syndrome &
leave the guy alone! He doesn't owe you anything and he deserves someone that's not entitled like you..
Make your own money and spoil yourself the way you want so you won't have any reason to create this kind of thread again

I doubt she made this thread solely on money
You didn’t see where the guy is as lazy as Bleep?!

Onto birthday money���.



Abovementioned, you stated how you fed him, how you did this and that, Now knowing fully well he doesn't have a job...................





I can't continue to type on this matter I have other things to do�

Your caption is misleading,u indirectly want him to get busy and take care of you.Or should hv not hv thrown a bash on his bday because urs was approaching.

You are free to go, I am sure he is not the first and may not be the last. But, if birthday gift is the last straw that would end a relationship then the affair is built on a Sandy soil. So, the earlier the separation the better. Good luck.

Ladies and birthday self!

Well, it good u having to fend for urself..... We can be friends just give me a mid call on 09022959258.... Love ur conviction..

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

he's not serious... Come let me spoil you silly

Stevyne:
Because he no give you Money for birthday He's stingy,
No goals, No focus.


The moment will start taking responsibility for our lives, and hold on to the fact that no one owes you anything.

I need to finish your statement
.....anything, the better for you

victorazyvictor:


Women!
Is he your father or husband?
Why so dependent on him.

He fit blow tomorrow o!

Na so Mayoku girlfriend left him after 2 weeks the guy blow.

I am not dependent on him biko

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yettymuse:
Dear Sis!!! Sprinkle Sprinkle

Is this sarcasm....or straight up telling your kind they are not maximizing their potentials as a Prost!tutes......

By fellow women, we get better problem that can't be solved by any man

Rickylambert:
Your caption is misleading,u indirectly want him to get busy and take care of you.Or should hv not hv thrown a bash on his bday because urs was approaching.

I expected him to hv me at heart . I want him to get busy n take care of me as a man should. I am not broke neither am I from a poor home.

Our graduates of today.
Please are you really teaching our kids?.


He's = he is, and not his.
Dim = lack of light
Dime = A US coin equivalent to 10 cents.

YOU'RE A GRADUATE

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

I always wonder why people celebrate birthdays. Every year into our life's pushes us one year closer to death but people rather celebrate instead of reflection to why we are created? What is the purpose of life?

yettymuse:
Dear Sis!!! Sprinkle Sprinkle

is this what you intend to teach ur girl children?

Ladylite:
Wow, you have really suffered.
But are you sure you don't have low self esteem?

For you to cope and continue with a burden of a man, with a man who is proud enough not to hustle.

Babe, you should really study more books on relationship so you know that you are not in one, you are in a disaster waiting to happen.

Don't waste your time. Walk away, he may blow later or become rich... It does not matter. Go and watch the movie ACRIMONY... Then you will receive sense.

You are in a relationship with Covid19 in human form. Pls have self respect enough to leave and stay single till you meet a man that complements you.

VERY senseless post that doesn't even address the issue at hand.
Side chic geng

Lamanii22:
A boyfriend has to be a giver.... What's now the essence of dating you when you cannot even give... You'd find somebody better my dear...

and the girlfriend has to be the main receiver?!
how toxicly parasitic, very myopic anschauung!

yeah, goodluck in her finding that dumb someone that would rather witlessly spend his life savings on one b*tch who has nothing buhh only pussay to offer.

Bullcrap!

Ningen:
Tell us; How much did you send to him on his own birthday? — Or that didn't cross your mind?

I am genuinely pleased you broke up with him.
Man gotta wake up and plan with no liability.

You did yourself a good thing too.
But the pleasure is HIS.

I was wondering too whether she sent the guy money on his birthday. The guy doesn't seem to be ambitious but the typical Nigerian lady is sounding so entitled.
I did not know that a guy has to send his girlfriend money on her birthday.

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

Let me start by saying I like u and how focused are, Ure a faithful galfrnd and that’s a plus, u looking out for ur guys future or perhaps for him to get a job so he can always send u money when u ask? I hope not bt rather about his future.

My only issue with u is u seem too focused on him not giving u money even when u have why?? Is the the hallmark of a good bf Or u just want money from him so u feel his doing Smtn in the relationship??

Positivechick:
ungrateful that what ?

Babe you must first of all know what you want , does he have it ?, He is working towards it ?, Have u ask him ?, How have u help him to achieve it ?, Is his friends a better motivator for him ?... It is clear u both don't understand yourselves... And if u go ahead like this u would have problem after marriage , on who will take care of this and that ... If u have answers the questions above , u should know what is more important than birthday , that people come and drink and eat your money and u start struggling again , thesame mistake he made , u also want to make same .


Imagine , he don't have a job he is celebrating birthday and people are taking bottles in his bills, people who may have money than him, is that is last birthday ?, If u people don't celebrate birthday will they arest u ?.. there is time for everything... Is it the time to start celebrating birthday with money ?, Who are you trying to impress ? As what investment it is to u?.... Let it not be money that is enough to even start up somethinh that u people are spending for birthday and yet he don't have job...



If he don't have sense , u have to talk sense into him ....and if the both of u don't have sense, is a big problem .

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

ur problem is you trust so easily, people you do good to always repay u with bad in d past until u address fat issue to avoid further disappointment

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

In as much as you told the story for it to seem true and sweet to anyone that will read it i stand to tell you that you too is as stupid as the guy.

Did you say you're a teacher?
You don't know the difference between am and I'm.
His and he's.
Wahala wa ooo.

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

Oya come make we start new relationship, ayam single and u just broke up, 1+1=2

By fellow women, we get better problem that can't be solved by any man.

Shormiey:
See ehn madam, shebi you don break up with him? Wetin you want again now? Even if you manage to nail a rich guy, if you don't complement him he will walk.....stop this entitlement mentality funny enough you are managing somewhere and he is not working....do you think it's everybody that can teach?....you should have seat him down and tell him what did he wanna do ....if it is business what skills does he have or acquired? Because getting jobs ain't easy lately.

Thank you my brother. u Don broke up with am, why bring it here. It seems the op still need the guy. though I don't support the not getting a job, u ladies that is what deserve. A guy that will eat ur food, Bleep and don't give you any thing

Have goy hoes

"You want me to spend the money your father can't spend on you"

I think about his future more than he does.......SPEECHLESS