mira4u:


Same way I made your numerous accounts you use to bully people here banned. This will be banned a second time if you don't learn how to behave. No one caused your predicament so you can't take it out on anyone here. I'm watching you closely!!

switch back to your rOsy247 moniker and watch me deal with you.
At least you can confess that I dealt with that account and I'm the reason why that rOsy account is in a hiatus (dormant).
Why are you no more using that account?
The fear of Ebenezer lol.
Go and get a life cos the funny thing is that you're not worth the stress cos if I were to see your picture I'll be so disappointed that this is the kind of person I've been wasting my time on.
You don't deserve it and neither can you engage on a physical conversation with me cos you're not in my class, I'm not your type.
You're not just worth it

Helios85447:
at least they are in it for his wallet and he is having his fun driving them like okada on the bed so its a win win ......just live a happy life ooo but that is why pple prefer to do baby mama stuff this generation don spoil no be small

Funny dude,you mean a man at 50 driving them like okada,is a man at 50 not a suppose grand father,haa the joke is on you.another note on baby mamas ,as a man life will humble from 60 without a family.will you still be wearing Nike and chinos trouser charting up the girls and how about your engine room will it still kick as expected. A sad end awaits you.

[quote author=PastorFire post=89874027][/quote] speechless I guess...poor church rat

The biggest mistake is marrying a wrong partner.


When I got married I was working and my wife was not doing anything though she just came back from nysc, we were sure of God's leading because out of our five years courtship we kept our bed undefiled, we got married without her having a job and as at that time my own job was in bad shape, as God will have it She secured a job 45days after our wedding and as God will have it I lost my own job.


Op if you will hear the truth she is now the breadwinner in the family and we are fine, in fact I pray for her to keep going higher and I am giving her maximum support and she has never for once insult me.


So op the biggest mistake is marrying a wrong partner. If you marry a wrong partner even let her be working in shell and you a senator she will make your home a HELL for you to live..


The best investment in marriage is to invest in prayer for God who see all secret and that know all hearts to lead you to the right partner, because I can tell you if it is God that lead you and you are sincere in obeying him, even the lady may not be the type of woman you personally desire if God lead you and you go for it,you will come back to testify but if your emotion or mind lead you, you MAY not experience the joy you expect in that marriage. Shalom

cnonyechi:


Don't mind him. I had an uncle who died single, it took us 4days to realise he was dead. Old, single and childless

Anything wrong with being Old, Single and Childless?

gbagyiza:


There r some doors n opportunities that will not open until you r married. I have come across some business opportunities that don't go to unmarried folks. They r afraid to bring you in because they don't trust you as a single person, meaning you can sabotage n even runaway with something valuable when the opportunity appear. A friend was denied a particular job opportunity simply because he was not married at that age. They told him face to face that at his age he is not married, they did not employ him because they felt he is not a responsible person. When you have a family our society look at you with a particular level of trust than a single person.

This not applicable in all cases

This only happens in ultra conservative circles in Nigeria
In my own space in Nigeria, no one cares
Merit comes first

And being married has no correlation whatsoever with your competence or merit

So it depends

ellapius:
all this ur long talk is as a result of dumbness go back to ur bushy village and become a dumbass villiage town crier that is what ur true nature is. did u read feminism in from my post. chicken brain maniac

Claiming women are becoming woke and challenging a man in relationship/marriage, exhibiting all sort of annoying attitudes is the Nigerian feminism which you pointed out in your post.

Our forefathers did not have it that way and efforts to make all that nonsense happen now will lead to chaos, so y'all better calm down. Only the few cool-headed wise ones among you will have things going well for them.

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

great

learning

MelaninSkinGirl:


I have seen these professional bachelors, trust me they are lonely, there is only so much women you can sleep with and then one day, you wake up, 60 and alone with no legacy. Having baby mamas is punishment for your children and subjecting them to a bad start in life. There are single parents who are that against their will but to actively want to be a single parent is selfish.

We are ooo ... Ko easy rara !

DexterousOne:


Anything wrong with being Old, Single and Childless?

It's a very bad thing.

cnonyechi:


It's a very bad thing.

Says who?

I'm sure God will not penalise you for being single and childless
It's not a sin

DexterousOne:


Says who?

I'm sure God will not penalise you for being single and childless
It's not a sin

True though.

ellapius:
why u are still crying LMAO 260 likes 17 shares
people who have sense to reason did all that not losers like ugo kill urself u are just useless here.

Because people on nairaland lik your post doesn't mean your post makes sense; it only means you are not alone in your stupidity and dumbness

dangoteinlaw:
i am not here to contradict u but my uncle and his wife started like dat, his wife a lecturer very stingy always wanting my uncle to pay for everything but could u believe when he lost his job this same woman brought out money and completed the house he was building that wasn't up to lintel level, she single handedly sent 3 children to university (2) and one(Hnd) and today's the last born just got admission into uni and i met him some weeks back, this same woman is still responsible for all. She bought 5iphone 8 at once and took one gave the rest to her children for school assignment. Abeg forget, u can't tell me nothing.a working class woman over anything infact if god can't give me such woman then let me die single and rotten inside my house for like 10days before i am found. Yes i said so!!!

Well, thank God for that exception, but one cannot and should not base one's life on exceptions. I'm married and so my cliques are married people especially. I'm telling I know by experience. When you get in the waters you'll understand better. Some things are better experienced to be understood.

RemarkableMind:
Those men are children in grown men's body. Believe me, I can tell you the opposite: I have met some really pretty and intelligent ladies who were threatened and shrink when they meet highly intelligent men. I have been asking what the problem is, I then realised that intelligent ladies believe their views should not be questioned, and that because they believe they are intelligent, whatever opinion they hold, or advice they give, is always right and the best. Ladies like these end up with weak-minded men they can control, and make decision for. It is pathetic. It kind of make their beauty "ugly." But I hope you're not like that.

thanks so much for it comment for the first time and am.seeing s comment from an intelligent mind. I not like such ladies at all I just don't follow well with silly guy. an intelligent guy is not really know by how.many grammar he speaks but rayher his understanding mind. u have truely show that here ... thanks so much

trutht828:


Because people on nairaland lik your post doesn't mean your post makes sense; it only means you are not alone in your stupidity and dumbness

ho hang ursef cos u are bittered am not ur problem

ellapius:
ho hang ursef cos u are bittered am not ur problem

I'm sure in your dumb head now, 260 likes is like 260 thousand naira. Idiot.

trutht828:


I'm sure in your dumb head now, 260 likes is like 260 thousand naira. Idiot.

why are u crying my dear it's actually about 280 now can u imagine

ellapius:
thanks so much for it comment for the first time and am.seeing s comment from an intelligent mind. I not like such ladies at all I just don't follow well with silly guy. an intelligent guy is not really know by how.many grammar he speaks but rayher his understanding mind. u have truely show that here ... thanks so much

You are welcome

AlhajaChinyere:


You must be a leech!

You are an organized Fool

dinachi:

Na your Papa be self centered person!

You think I have time for a paranoid like you. I know you have no respect for your father .Fool

ellapius:
why are u crying my dear it's actually about 280 now can u imagine

Lolz. So, your happiness is determined by social media standard? That's an empty lifestyle right there.

trutht828:


Lolz. So, your happiness is determined by social media standard? That's an empty lifestyle right there.

he is hurt

ellapius:
he is hurt

Hurt by what? Why will your unstable mental state hurt me? Is it my mental instability?

trutht828:


Hurt by what? Why will your unstable mental state hurt me? Is it my mental instability?

u have beenout of mb since poor fellow

ellapius:
u have beenout of mb since poor fellow

Focus on the issue. Stop yielding to childish distractions. Your dependence on social media approval is a sign of emptiness and depression.

trutht828:


Focus on the issue. Stop yielding to childish distractions. Your dependence on social media approval is a sign of emptiness and depression.

u have a nagging problem and u are still poor. I have forgotten the topic and facing other issue. go and make money and be online always then u can focus. don't like talking with poor guys. who can't afford to be stable online. stop pulling me back pls. don't quote me again pls go and nag with ur sef

ellapius:
u have a nagging problem and u are still poor. I have forgotten the topic and facing other issue. go and make money and be online always then u can focus. don't like talking with poor guys. who can't afford to be stable online. stop pulling me back pls. don't quote me again pls go and nag with ur sef

Even if I'm poor, I'm not begging you for bread. So, shut up and face the main issue.

pDudd:
The biggest mistake is to marry any woman at all.

As a man, can you tell me exactly what you benefit from marriage that you can't benefit as a single guy. Tell me.

Sex, child(ren) that will bear your name, partnership, companionship.

ArcToyin:


Sex, child(ren) that will bear your name, partnership, companionship.

You don't need to be married to get those things.