Bitches!!!

When he sleeps with you then come back and tell us the full gist.

Girl, u write so well, weldone!

My question to u, d real BF and dis new guy, what do u need them for? If I have to answer u, these guys are distractions for now and if u are not careful ur body counts will start increasing cos they will definitely sleep with u. Please be wise.

Women are moved with what they heard, but never forget the sweet talk you are hearing now could be temporary. Think twice ✌�

pauladonis:
It's nice that you have realized that you have feelings for this other guy...

However, You might think the cat does ablution because it is a Muslim, while it only wants to eat fishes

To put it simply, just remember that a guy will tell you everything you want to hear just to fulfill his wishes on your body. As soon as he gets what he wants, you're just a tally on his body count sheet.

She's a true definition of fish brain.. A guy who's not bothered she's in a serious relationship but smartly warms his way into her should have been a warning flag if she had any brains left but her pussie dey soak n beat for serious pounding from new preeq.

Vyzz:







.. I was being sarcastic brother

Don't mind me, bro I was off-track . I did not complete sarcasm 101 back then...

dairykidd:


OAN Nairaland chapter

I swear down... Hahahahahaha.

dairykidd:

She's a true definition of fish brain.. A guy who's not bothered she's in a serious relationship but smartly warms his way into her should have been a warning flag if she had any brains left but her pussie dey soak n beat for serious pounding from new preeq.

Well I'm sure she has a functional brain... She just needs to actively engage it.

The qualities you find in this second guy will also fizzle out and what happens? Jump ship to the next guy and the next and the next.

It is good to go through life with focus and principles.
Seek what you want, get it and stick to it. Find a strategy that works and hold on to it.

Life's hard in all its entirety so why complicate things after all. Break up with him already.

bodecasual:
Women are moved with what they heard, but never forget the sweet talk you are hearing now could be temporary. Think twice ✌�

Absolutely!

As for me, I don't wanna see her new post where all men are regarded as trash... She is a greater trash, she is about to give in to an apparent deceit...

See someone's cross lol yuck.

Tajbol4splend:




Why do I think you are not less than 35 years of age

You're wrong,waaaaaay below.

SweetMan1:
When he sleeps with you then come back and tell us the full gist.

By then all men would have transitioned to trash...

Alotta peeps here are like choose the second,choose the second but dear lemme give u my advice.
You are young,yes. You wanna explore,no shits!... but dear BE WISE!!!!!...this second guy may not be worth it. Back wen I was still in skul,this same mess apuned to my roomie. A guy she dated for four years since her year one days got replaced by anoda guy of whom she felt had it all. She didn't even last one week with the new guy, she realized he was a cheating jerk,a man slut. Well,to cut the long story short,she went begging her first bf and after sometime he accepted only to give her a epic breakup months later. Now, she's devastated till today.

sylve11:


YOU're wise.............

Thanks

You can't kill two birds with one stone you go for one and leave the other

Dobson43:






I would give you a mature advice since that's what you want. Your present boyfriend is just your boyfriend. He is not betrothed to you neither has he paid your dowry. Don't limit yourself at this stage of your life. Experiment, try new things, discover yourself. If you feel the urge to move on, do move on. You clearly have a thing for this guy and one can conclude that all you need is a push.



Based on your level in the university, one can determine your age. Some callous folks would call this stage you find yourself a whøre phase, but the true is we all have this identity crisis. We do not actually know ourselves. Certain people we see typify those characters we do have but can't express. They inspire this qualities in us to be birthed.




I don't want to go too philosophical, but I am going to tell you this: twenty years from now, you would wish you were more adventurous, you would wish you tried new things and you would understand that life is worth living and you would not allow yourself wallow in bondage because you are in relationship. Ships are supposed to move you in a certain desired direction. Either it moves you or you jump ship.




But the real truth is, you have broken his heart and emotionally screwed him over. Have the decency to break it up

This is pretty much the best write up about a confused heart I have ever seen.. should be published..

Iceyjayz:
You don't have sense, am sure you are still a teenager.

Wetin dey vex me for the matter be say, she said this guy takes care of her. So this is how to pay back? If e happen now. they will say all men are scum.

DebbieSylvex:
Alotta peeps here are like choose the second,choose the second but dear lemme give u my advice.
You are young,yes. You wanna explore,no shits!... but dear BE WISE!!!!!...this second guy may not be worth it. Back wen I was still in skul,this same mess apuned to my roomie. A guy she dated for four years since her year one days got replaced by anoda guy of whom she felt had it all. She didn't even last one week with the new guy, she realized he was a cheating jerk,a man slut. Well,to cut the long story short,she went begging her first bf and after sometime he accepted only to give her a epic breakup months later. Now, she's devastated till today.

don't know why girls take guys that they hurt back, he will always break up with you.

You must be an ashawo

You just want to have this guy inside you ..............that is the truth. It is called lust

patoballistic:
You sound like the guy she is falling for.
Why can't you just give her a better advice than encouraging her to complicate things for herself

I guess she has an instinct that distinguishes right from wrong. The aftermath will be for her to bear if she follows his oloshoistic-centric advice

That is how she will start a business subconsciously all in the name of wanting to explore.

Happy989:
I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.

There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.

During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.

Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.

The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.

I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart.

As a student you can date as much small boys as you wish cause none of them is real. When you are ready you will get a real man

You don't love the second guy, the second guy is richer and u are falling for his money

Happy989:
I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.

There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.

During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.

Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.

The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.

I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart.

When last did you treat malaria?.
Please visit your doctor and thank me later, because this matter no go easy to settle.

I think this is all just infatuation. Everything you listed that makes this new guy create a spark in you with plenty beautiful butterflies will one day stop to matter, when the chips are down alright. Your boyfriend is a "great guy" so if you need him to be that and more then having sincere and open conversations with him will help. Stop cheating on him emotionally. Severe ties with Mr. Freaky Freaky and his beautiful package. But first, decide if your man is who you want, stay with him and find best ways to improve on the relationship's dynamics. If he is not, then let him go. Know this though; there are tonnes of even "better" men out there, so if what you don't have keeps attracting you then sis you gotta buy jungle boots cos you'll keep jumping from bus to bus.

Mumu....

When it is there first time been in relationship there always loss their senses.

You're suffering from infuation, nothing can really help you now until your heart got broken.

Happy989:


I still love my boyfriend.

All those advising you to go for this new guy are not telling you the truth, not every thing you like you must go for, at your level in the uni, you still have a long way to go, in fact dating somebody at your uni and a course mate/level is more or less a waste of time and there is possible regret for you later when the flame stops, most relationship that you are about going for don't work considering the Nigeria economic situation and getting job immediately after NYSC, hence, when both of you get to this level and because of your attitude of dumping this guy would lead you to having so many BF in your life which is not the right way to go.

My advise is don't leave your BF for this guy, you most not date every one you feel like dating, take your mind away from this new guy and focus on your studies, believe me, this new guy and what is attracting you to him is not only for you, he could as well be dishing it out to other ladies, this may hurt you when you find out as you are so carried away to the extent that you are about duping your BF. pursuing two birds is dangerous, a word they say is ok for the wise

I pity you ma.
You have already cheated emotionally
And it will most likely end in tears.

She should give her infatuation TIME. Alas, it'll fizzle out.

Happy989:
I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.

There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.

During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.

Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.

The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.

I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart.

Ashawo blood dey run for ur vain

It is not new.
Majority of people (old and young)have passed through such phase countless times, it's because of SM days that many of these stories are on the air. The least of body counts majority of ladies had before getting married is 10...
Here is my submission;

1) You can either choose to be different to live a distinct life by staying with one guy and maintain a decent relationship with him or follow the way of the majority and satisfy all your lusts.

2) Kiss dating goodbye and maintain decent friendship with guys till you reach a stage where you can make decisions for yourself without coming to social media.

3) Whichever way you go, it's still a matter of personal choice, and years to come, you will remember this and either be happy or sad over the decision you made.

4) Yea, life is an adventure indeed, but if you do wrong,you will die; if you do right, you will die. Why don't you do right?

yomi007k:
You have already started cheating on your bf emotionally. It is better to break up with your guy than double date.

The new guy is not as wise as you think because no wise guy will covet his neighbours woman, goods or properties.

I believe you are below 32. I don't expect much.

It may end in tears.

That's a mature advice indeed, exactly the same I wanted to say.

Stick with your original boyfriend to avoid "Had I know".