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Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by GreenArrow1(m): 5:10am On Jun 09, 2020
SUPERPACK:
See, judge and act.

Y.C.S
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by SUPERPACK: 6:34am On Jun 09, 2020
GreenArrow1:

Y.C.S
Yeah.
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by alphaNomega: 6:38am On Jun 09, 2020
Dominion202, you have the creativity of a mouse. This story has been recycled on nairaland countless times

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Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Gentle0wavez: 7:25am On Jun 09, 2020
Tell him, it's not her fault though.
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by 2cul2care: 7:25am On Jun 09, 2020
Body no be firewood abeg
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Nobody: 7:26am On Jun 09, 2020
if yhu truly love your bro, then you hav to tell him. do you want ur bro to raise a bastard or bastards up to university level and later wen he find out,he commit suicide. if this happen, jus kno u kill ur own bro with ur hands. Yoruba people will say if an adulterous woman doesn't kill herself, she will kill herself.
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by seanwilliam(m): 7:29am On Jun 09, 2020
Starz825:
Oga mind ur biz
Make ur brother wife no go charm you....
Fear women oo

This one wey u add picture...u wan make Dem push am go fp grin
u no get sense.. make him mind him business and watch his brother's life shattered... ? Uu mumu
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by seanwilliam(m): 7:32am On Jun 09, 2020
kunkelhanspeter:
Waste of time and money
You live abroad while your spouse live in Nigeria do you expect the spouse to stall one or two years without sex?
Think again
u self mumu.. cant she just break up?
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by FlordFlorez(m): 7:34am On Jun 09, 2020
U are even wasting limited time by coming here. Tell asap.
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by seanwilliam(m): 7:38am On Jun 09, 2020
At OP, just find anonymous way to tell your brother and convince him beyond reasonable doubt and move away from them for now
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by heykims(m): 7:42am On Jun 09, 2020
I suspect fake story
However, u leave a reproductive lady and left for UK, what do u expect when she is not a nun?
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by heniford2: 7:47am On Jun 09, 2020
Dominion202:
My brother that lives in the United Kingdom send me down to Lagos to check on his wife.
Getting to their house in Lekki, I met the door locked so I try to check on their neighbour for me to ask of her where about. Actually have tried her line before coming but was switched off. While trying to move from their own flat to the next flat, I heard someone moaning from the oza room, I paused but to my greatest surprise I discovered the voice is that of my brother's wife, so I waited at the verandah for her to come out. After an hour and 30minute, she came out together with a man who happened to be her boss.
After the man have left she begged me not to tell my brother but I can't keep dis to myself. My brother is to kind to me. He was the one sponsoring my eduction from secondary to University. He has be in UK no for a year trying hard just to make things work fine for the family while the wife here was engaging in adultery.
He travelled out of country not that long This is happening, what will now happen if he stays for more 3years before the family join him?
Am at a confused state now, what should I do?
Kindly help
bros na money making thing oh first record her while she confess to you then tell her to start paying up remember to calculate how much your brother has paid for the bridal price get that money from her first then get interests too from it then chop her punna too then report her to your brother also with evidence even tell him she seduce u but u flight backgrin be smart oh if his ur own wife will ur brother keep calm
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by davidadenrele: 8:00am On Jun 09, 2020
My advice informed one elderly members of the family who think is old and matured to keep secret just in case something bad happens to you, fear women ooo?? she knows you will leak her secret and she will find a way to either do the following

1. Implicate you that you pressing her for sex, and that you always come to peep on her unnannouced to seduce her.

2. She will go and consult an herbalist to charm you and do evil stuff.

3. She could cause chaos and problem between you and your elder brother therby your brother will never even want to set eyes on you.

4. You have to be very .....careful, prayerful at this point in time you also need wisdom aviod her completely at this point she might even come over to your house to seduce you. If possible aviod staying home alone for now.

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Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Michelle55: 8:15am On Jun 09, 2020
Tell your brother... He's your blood and you need to protect his interest first before any other person.
Bringing another man to your matrimonial home is highly disrespectful and inappropriate.
Meanwhile, be careful around her to avoid stories that touches the heart

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Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Factfinder1(m): 8:21am On Jun 09, 2020
SUPERPACK:
See, judge and act.
Ycs
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by flokii: 8:26am On Jun 09, 2020
Please tell him, else they'll one day gang up and kill him to acquire all he has laboured for.
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Nobody: 8:45am On Jun 09, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Dick and attention without money will simply cause irritation

Tell them....

After all when things start getting better, he will move her over to join him.
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Dreyton36: 8:45am On Jun 09, 2020
Why are you trying with monthly allowance
Alaye na steady monthly wiring me they see so oooo
Tell her 100k monthly or nothing else , and if she's the buoyant type increase it
What if you tell your brother and she denies it , what proof have to got ?
What if the love your brother has for her makes him to forgive her ?
What will be left of you ?
No they joke with money ooo

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Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Mobi47(m): 8:48am On Jun 09, 2020
Dominion202:
My brother that lives in the United Kingdom send me down to Lagos to check on his wife.
Getting to their house in Lekki, I met the door locked so I try to check on their neighbour for me to ask of her where about. Actually have tried her line before coming but was switched off. While trying to move from their own flat to the next flat, I heard someone moaning from the oza room, I paused but to my greatest surprise I discovered the voice is that of my brother's wife, so I waited at the verandah for her to come out. After an hour and 30minute, she came out together with a man who happened to be her boss.
After the man have left she begged me not to tell my brother but I can't keep dis to myself. My brother is to kind to me. He was the one sponsoring my eduction from secondary to University. He has be in UK no for a year trying hard just to make things work fine for the family while the wife here was engaging in adultery.
He travelled out of country not that long This is happening, what will now happen if he stays for more 3years before the family join him?
Am at a confused state now, what should I do?
Kindly help
u know what to do Bros. as I de read this sef I de vex with u for even contemplating on telling ur bro or not. mk sure u tell ur bro today.
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Mobi47(m): 8:50am On Jun 09, 2020
Starz825:
Oga mind ur biz
Make ur brother wife no go charm you....
Fear women oo

This one wey u add picture...u wan make Dem push am go fp grin
there is notn like mind ur Biz in this kind of situation.
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by peeps4u: 9:01am On Jun 09, 2020
Dominion202:
My brother that lives in the United Kingdom send me down to Lagos to check on his wife.
Getting to their house in Lekki, I met the door locked so I try to check on their neighbour for me to ask of her where about. Actually have tried her line before coming but was switched off. While trying to move from their own flat to the next flat, I heard someone moaning from the oza room, I paused but to my greatest surprise I discovered the voice is that of my brother's wife, so I waited at the verandah for her to come out. After an hour and 30minute, she came out together with a man who happened to be her boss.
After the man have left she begged me not to tell my brother but I can't keep dis to myself. My brother is to kind to me. He was the one sponsoring my eduction from secondary to University. He has be in UK no for a year trying hard just to make things work fine for the family while the wife here was engaging in adultery.
He travelled out of country not that long This is happening, what will now happen if he stays for more 3years before the family join him?
Am at a confused state now, what should I do?
Kindly help

You alone can tell how your relationship with your bro is, that will detwrmine if you can tell him.

It is not always bad to tell one's bro about things like this but onenjust has to be sure how it will end especially the husband's reactions.
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by davillian(m): 9:04am On Jun 09, 2020
You should have turned on your recorder
Because if she feels you going to tell your bro,
She might set you up telling your brother u tried to sleep with her
And then your story , your brother won't be live you anymore
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Raeheemwayne: 9:50am On Jun 09, 2020
Op, I'll advice you tell your brother. but, make sure you don't tell him on phone and be very wary of that woman henceforth, i.e, don't eat her food, avoid any form of affiliation with her.
OR, You can as well turn her to your ATM Machine, then you have every transaction taped or recorded for future reference or incase of necessity. But, I'll advice you do the former - Tell your brother in details what you saw.
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Nmezor(f): 9:53am On Jun 09, 2020
Fake story

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Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by jagaban002(m): 10:05am On Jun 09, 2020
Starz825:
Oga mind ur biz
Make ur brother wife no go charm you....
Fear women oo

This one wey u add picture...u wan make Dem push am go fp grin
Fear woman how , so it’s until he kills is brother that has been good to him a cheating wife can kill u if u don’t know

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Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by themaestro08(m): 10:17am On Jun 09, 2020
Pretend nothing happened and mind your own business. It will save you from a lot of stress
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by themaestro08(m): 10:19am On Jun 09, 2020
2special:
Tell your brother and you must show him the evidence or his wife might set you up by lying against you to his brother,, she can tell your brother you attempted to rape her..so act fast...

He didn't record it - meaning no evidence whatsoever. He should stay away from this stress if he has sense.
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by themaestro08(m): 10:21am On Jun 09, 2020
Freelane33:
Don’t dare tell your brother that shit bruh , untimely death wont be ours and yours ooooo... you have to be very careful around her now that you knew her secret because women are dangerous and she can go to any length to make sure she even bring you down now that you’ve knew her secret . You tell your bruh or not , you’re still in a freaking danger .all you need to do now is man up , talk to her , let her know that what you saw wasn’t your business and you don’t give a damn but she should just try and change if she likes because everyday is for the thief and one day is for the owner

Oil dey your head
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Yungmil: 10:25am On Jun 09, 2020
Is marriage really worth the stress





Is becoming so scary
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by kapai(m): 10:29am On Jun 09, 2020
Bruh be kiaful ur good deed nut turn against .Knowing u don't have evidence makes it not to hold water,in case ur bent of telling ur bruh go back to the woman engage her on discuss inrespect of the incident while u take record of the discussion. That cud on only save u from not been seen as a blacKmailer
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by PlsBanMe: 10:32am On Jun 09, 2020
The best advice. Let OP listen


J111333:
The faster you tell your brother the safer you become. That lady will do everything possible to keep that secret between both of you and the best way she can do it right now is to silence you either by hook or by crook.

Tell your brother now and receive only "god will punish you " from her besides if you don't protect your own brother, who will?

I would've said forgive her because no one is above mistake but by bringing a man to the same bed she share with her husband, she is disrespectful and has no regard for her husband.
Re: Should I Tell My Brother What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Openbusiness: 10:36am On Jun 09, 2020
Dominion202:
My brother that lives in the United Kingdom send me down to Lagos to check on his wife.
Getting to their house in Lekki, I met the door locked so I try to check on their neighbour for me to ask of her where about. Actually have tried her line before coming but was switched off. While trying to move from their own flat to the next flat, I heard someone moaning from the oza room, I paused but to my greatest surprise I discovered the voice is that of my brother's wife, so I waited at the verandah for her to come out. After an hour and 30minute, she came out together with a man who happened to be her boss.
After the man have left she begged me not to tell my brother but I can't keep dis to myself. My brother is to kind to me. He was the one sponsoring my eduction from secondary to University. He has be in UK no for a year trying hard just to make things work fine for the family while the wife here was engaging in adultery.
He travelled out of country not that long This is happening, what will now happen if he stays for more 3years before the family join him?
Am at a confused state now, what should I do?
Kindly help
That you're even asking whether to tell or not shows you're not a good brother. Are you not meant to be your brother's keeper. Maybe God allowed you to witness the adultery because he wants to save your brother from the disaster of slaving away for a cheating wife. Better report to your brother before I tear your beta sanding from this screen.

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