Blackmann001:


Hahahhaha... Shebi na una dey yab us wey no Sabi blow Grammer.. Oya giv am solution oooooo. Lol

The elders don give am advice na

Victorious1000:


That's me nailed right there then .. Still need your 2cents on what to do as per my birthday

Some can figure out people through their posts. I saw right through you.


As for your request, I don't know how to play games with people's heart. I can't help with that.

Ariza:
If the slap go make me sabi English like you, make I bring stick? I fit use that English rob bank


Don't worry I will always remind you to interpret your posts. No be everybody get dictionary Biko.

LOL. I still de imitate you. Stay safe.

Ningen:
Set those birdies free.
Figure out your own path first.

You clearly don't know what you want.
You are not ready for added responsibilities.

Best advice ever... Good job B4 marriage. Not skl B4 marriage

Oluromantic:
cynosuree come see your colleague












As for me, unless English language is simply used, I won't offer you any advice

So you'd rather hop into the bandwagon of folks picking issues with the grammar used huh, I mean not my fault that's the way I write, now people like you will rather ignore the major reason the post was put up because of their failure to grasp basic English? Proffer a solution or move along

[quote author=Blackmann001 post=90486732]... I will advice OP to throw some shit about and around the 30years old lady... Dont b carried away with her nice nature.. Her age is her weakness

If sh is Dat good where was sh at 22 to 27.....I dnt trust her.. But marriage with ladies dox ages are better [/quote

Thanks, you know anything I could do? as they both intend to show up fr my birthday? I don't want to hurt any one of them

[quote author=Victorious1000 post=90473907]

Don't lose a good lady just because she isn't learned as you do!

Education is not a criterum for success bro!

And if you really love her, you can shape her up to your taste, educationally (she's not too old to learn and go to school), socially... she could have MSC in your home if you nurture her!



As regards, the 30years old lady, well it's your choice though. Being older doesn't mean she would be more responsible or so, being learned doesn't mean she would know all! Besides time is not on her side and she's desperate and in rush to get married now!

Choose wisely ooo

[quote author=Victorious1000 post=90486943]

It's better you don't let anyone them comes around oo, don't forfeit your game

Victorious1000:


That's me nailed right there then .. Still need your 2cents on what to do as per my birthday

So she's even right Oga you are shameless! I'm pretty sure you above 30 nd really baffles me how a so-called grown man still playing two girls!
Please let that young girl go, if her qualification is a problem to you then go for your type simple as ABC! Bt if you chop the younger girl nd later realized she's not educated to settle down with dnt forget what we call KARMA!

Crownstar01:
Your English is really good and women love guys who speak good English.

Just go for the 30-year-old, she's a lot better. Any lady less than 26 would always want to stress you. Some are even drama queens.

Thanks! Will keep this in mind.

Petyprincess:

So she's even right Oga you are shameless! I'm pretty sure you above 30 nd really baffles me how a so-called grown man still playing two girls!
Please let that young girl go, if her qualification is a problem to you then go for your type simple as ABC! Bt if you chop the younger girl nd later realized she's not educated to settle down with dnt forget what we call KARMA!

Something wey he don do already.

Petyprincess:

So she's even right Oga you are shameless! I'm pretty sure you above 30 nd really baffles me how a so-called grown man still playing two girls!
Please let that young girl go, if her qualification is a problem to you then go for your type simple as ABC! Bt if you chop the younger girl nd later realized she's not educated to settle down with dnt forget what we call KARMA!

You ladies lose your shit even when there is absolutely no need to! You got your assumptions about me all over the place and you couldn't be more wrong about my personality, anything you know about my post is because I wanted you to so halt the drama and form a coherent advise already!

I wouldn't come here if I intend to leave the younger girl.

Ariza:
Something wey he don do already.

Ohh poor girl!! She must be thinking she has gotten an educated serious guy that loves her all these guys that speak big vocabulary are usually deceitful!
May God save us from deceitful guys like OP.

Ariza:
You never jam LordKO Op's English nah ABC where that guy own dey




But seriously there's nothing wrong with Op's command of English. He reminds me of Tenthman.

LordKO na my personal nigga. i love him more than my girlfriend. he writes my favourite food - grammar.

Petyprincess:

Ohh poor girl!! She must be thinking she has gotten an educated serious guy that loves her all these guys that speak big vocabulary are usually deceitful!
May God save us from deceitful guys like OP.

Spoken like a hardcore Feminist! .. Its always about them and less about the guys.

gamapoy539:

LordKO na my personal nigga. i love him more than my girlfriend. he writes my favourite food - grammar.

Our girlfriend must hear dis, remind me of that her phone number again. LOL.

Victorious1000:


You ladies lose your shit even whe there is absolutely no need to! You got your assumptions about me and you couldn't me more wrong about my personality, anything you know about my post is because I wanted you to so halt the drama and form a coherent advise already!

I wouldn't come here if I intend to leave the younger girl[b][/b].

Forget bring grammar, if you really interested in her you wouldn't be opening this thread!
What made you think being educated automatically means good wife material? You think the 30 years old lady is better abi? Little do you know most women at that age tend to hide their true character just to hook someone's son!
You have gotten someone that loves you,respective,that can cook etc whatelse do you want? 22 years isn't too late to start college as long as you can help her, you have master degree with your vocabulary you couldn't even persuade her to write jamb nd groom her to the educated woman you wanted!!

Victorious1000:


Spoken like a hardcore Feminist! .. Its always about them and less about the guys.

Because you are self centered! I would have said the same thing if a girl opened this thread!

gamapoy539:

Lord KO na my personal nigga. i love him more than my girlfriend. he writes my favourite food - grammar.

You cheat! I will tell her.


Yeah.. Dude is good. I want to be like him when I grow up.

Petyprincess:

Ohh poor girl!! She must be thinking she has gotten an educated serious guy that loves her all these guys that speak big vocabulary are usually deceitful!
May God save us from deceitful guys like OP.

Lol..... It's not about the grammar, it's their personalities . An illiterate can be deceitful. Only the gullible will mistake grammatic eloquence for altruism. Which I believe the lady is.


I don join my master like that ooo . Make everybody dey blow dey go

Petyprincess:

Forget bring grammar, if you really interested in her you wouldn't be opening this thread!
What made you think being educated automatically means good wife material? You think the 30 years old lady is better abi? Little do you know most women at that age tend to hide their true character just to hook someone's son!
You have gotten someone that loves you,respective,that can cook etc whatelse do you want? 22 years isn't too late to start college as long as you can help her, you have master degree with your vocabulary you couldn't even persuade her to write jamb nd groom her to the educated woman you wanted!!

This is quite a revelation,apparently you speak much more sense when your feathers are ruffled, I've gleaned enough from you already about the true mechanization of the mind of ladies.

I will now follow through with some of your summation

Vyzz:
The older lady has passed her whoring period and it's ready to settle down it seems she is very very serious..... This one the apologise?






The younger always apologies even when she isn't wrong, what more could a man ask for..... Is she the type to LovePeddler?





Just give me the number of the younger one and marry the older one

Sense go keee u dia

{hisses and rethink}

Sense will not kee you

Who else thinks that OP has already made his choice,he just want people to support him.
After reading this and seeing how you described the first lady's qualification i knew your mind is already made up for the second lady,just that you don't want to hurt the first.

...

Op you are not serious.

All these grammar on top , two babes are waiting to spend the night with you on your birthday.

Rada Rada! Nonsense!

Smhhh!



Inbetween nairalnders thats a refurbished storyline from someone last year. He simply used grammar to confuse y'all .

And the bottom line is meant to be, how can I play these two ladies on my birthday, cos I need Only one on that day.

Smhhh.

Una sure say Op nor be lordko

Victorious1000:


You ladies lose your shit even when there is absolutely no need to! You got your assumptions about me all over the place and you couldn't be more wrong about my personality, anything you know about my post is because I wanted you to so halt the drama and form a coherent advise already!

I wouldn't come here if I intend to leave the younger girl

You've obviously made up your mind not to leave the younger girl, so why did you come here asking jamb question? Leave the 30year old alone and stay with your "mismatch socially and educationally".

Fountainofyouth:
Una sure say Op nor be lordko

LOL. See me see wahala. If na me, ma personal person like you for know without guessing. In fact, na to become a catholic priest sure pass for me now because I want to go heaven.

LordKO:


LOL. See me see wahala. If na me, ma personal person like you for know without guessing. In fact, na to become a catholic priest sure pass for me now because I want to go heaven.

Pls o, I don't want to imagine you in a Catholic priest regalia

Solution: marry them both.

Your fellow bosses do it...

Victorious1000:
Hello Nairalanders! I must admit I'm not one to run to the internet seeking advice on relationship matters as I'm obviously an unrepentant introvert with the mindset of always capable of single handedly finding solutions to any seeming challenge when I shut everyone out and channel all energy in our usual self isolation mode, but I'm afraid this very issue would seem a daunting task just too high for one person to manoeuvre around

I will try and succinctly go straight to the point symmetrically in other not to bore you all to death about my apparent inability to make a right marital choice

I am in a state of absolute quagmire in a period where I should have logical clarity in making a choice concerning a life partner, this is so because I'm in a relationship with two ladies who admittedly on their parts go out of their way to shower love, affection, care and unbelievable level of understanding toward my person. I mean the choice could have been far easier if one of them was found wanting in delivering desirable wife duties but NO they're equally as lovable just as they're deserving of becoming ladies who should be dolted upon by an absolute faithful man

Just like every other lady they both have their distinct strengths and weaknesses but the catch in all of this is that they complement each other's weaknesses astutely, Wish they could both be moulded into just one person , I met the first one about 2 years back having just returned from NYSC duty,she is 22 and comes from a vulnerable background economically and as such just have the solitary WAEC certificate to show for all her efforts but my goodness! she is caring and kind, she cooks so good, does my laundry, calls 24/7,always the first to say sorry even when not wrong.. etc, simply put she is undoubtedly a good girl but I fear for the mismatch socially and educationally with me, I have a Master's degree in view and don't even know if my parents will entertain such union as I'm clearly levels above her in qualification even though she is currently acquiring tailoring skills

The other I met quite recently, earlier this year to be precise, she is 30, done with tertiary education and working, I first chatted her up as normal acquaintance in January and further escalated proceedings to relationship status when I had a major fall out with my first girl(largely due to my fault) I must add, she calls just as much and hinges little financial responsibility on me,she has even gone as far to informing her parents about me and wants so much commitment from me when I'm not so sure what to even do right now even though I plan to settle when I complete my Master's program

Now I need two form of solutions on what next to do, both short and long term, my birthday comes up next month and both literally intends to spend all day with me for obvious reasons, I'm absolutely flummoxed as to what decision to make, none of them deserve to be hurt by me, they haven't remotely done anything to warrant such treament from me, but what exactly can I do?

Please I will so much appreciate if this gets to FP as I can do with a broader scope of advice and help! Thanks.

Needless verbosity has made reading your post carefully very challenging. You don't need to string together high sounding words to pass across a message. It only serves to distract the reader.

In short, I suspect you're up to no good with this story because you're hustling for front page after writing all these yeye grammer wey no gel.

Victorious1000:


This is quite a revelation,apparently you speak much more sense when your feathers are ruffled, I've gleaned enough from you already about the true mechanization of the mind of ladies.

I will now follow through with some of your summation

That first lady is GOLD !

You don't deserve someone as responsible as her. To hell with education, there is nothing like marrying a woman that loves and indeed cares for you.

You created a fallout and started a relationship with a 30 year old who is very eager to marry because of age obviously. You deserve whatever happens to you.

I m really pissed how the two of them met someone as irresponsible as you !!!