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sometimes, what's in our mind reflects on our body system.
First, you think your cultist boyfriend is not good for you, hence you ended the relationship. Believe me, at that point even if its just mere headache you have, you will think its from him. Typical African!!!

Stop being fetish, read good books, eat healthy foods, mind the company you keep, flee fornication and strive to live a holy life.

I would rather believe in J. K. Rowling's wizardry than to believe in Nollywood's karachika.

while you were making promises,, the forces present there are the ones disturbing you. You only know about your guy physically, do you may be he's possessed?
your pastor asked you about your past to enable him predict well.About your dream, not everyone that have sex in the dream has spiritual husband or wife.
pray against satanic power stamping that promise you made with him to be destroyed.
The Lord set you free...

12inchess:
Spirit husband that will not give u money for your hair or take you out to dinner. Is that one spirit husband?

lol u no well

Premarital sex is the likely culprit. Sex is a covenant on its own. Flee fornication.

Kobojunkie:
How so? The following of the traditions and cultures of men serves to nullify the power of God in one's situation, and this is according to Jesus Christ.

@Poster, first of all, I am with the guy who suggests you go to a hospital, and I think you should maybe even see a psychiatrist while you are at it. Sometimes degunking is necessary to clear one's mind.

I don't see God in any of what you described because much of what you have described i.e. rituals, prayer books, etc., read more like pagan practices than what Jesus Christ taught His own to follow. That said, to each His own. Jesus taught people to look inside when they are being tempted or troubled in any way, so He would not have encouraged you to place blame on your ex or any spirit external to yours for that matter. And as far as fasting is concerned, Isaiah 58 is the kind of fasting that God requires.

My advice, go to the hospital and get yourself properly taken care of. Sickness happens to even the best of us, and there is nothing wrong with being sick - it does not have to be spiritual.
Afterward, you should work on figuring out what you believe so such things don't mess with your mind again.

the pastor pray for her, and the demon was shouting no no no, you still think she needs to see a doctor? That exactly how my friend dad died. He was taken to hospital but the doctor say everything is okay , the next day the man died.

Demiladey361 there are many atheists here who does not believe in the spiritual, take note and ignore them, there best suggestions is for you to see a doctor. But you are doing well, keep the momentum, continue what you are doing, you will get there, don't stop halfway. Thank you.

deep!

tellwisdom:
So you didn’t know he was in cult or a cultist till the day you were to marry him.?? I hope you have big breasttt and yansh the spirit can press very well??.

U are the opposite of ur monika

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Let me grab my weed and light it up while i read comments form our spiritual elders in the house

smoke ,eat,drink,bomb,sleep,f^ck and then recycle ♻️ Every single day all for free ...I guess that’s all you know lol

This is not a problem. It's a simple issue as ABC to stop.She just need to do one thing...

All this wor wor life you people live.
Live a decent life and have fewer problems.

Thank God you are still alive.

HenryDion:
I read an entire epistle and nowhere did I see a mention of "Hospital."

All you said was, you were taken to 'some places' and 'church'

The mind is very powerful, in the sense that it can play according to your fears, what you hear or see.

I want to be very honest with you, what is happening to you is not spiritual, neither is your ex trying to harm you.. Leave that poor boy out of this.

The reason you started dreaming about your ex and having sex in the dream was the moment someone hinted about your ex being the cause of your problem..

Lemme tell you my life's story, so you'll learn about the power of the mind.

I was diagnosed with HIV in 2009 in a heart to heart center and immediately, I start exhibiting all the symptoms of HIV. I got thin overnight, sores started growing in my throat, and some rashes too.

I was told to begin medication immediately.. The hospital they referred me to, for my ART drugs ran another test.

Everything came out negative. They conducted more test to confirm and everything was negative. I got confused.

I went to a more sophisticated private lab here in Abia state. Still, the test was all negative. What happened? What do I have to say about the symptoms?

What am I saying? The mind is powerful, and these churches and pastors will not help you. Instead, they will play on your emotions and heighten your fears..

Dump all of them and go to a reliable hospital. Let them run some tests and know what's really wrong with you.

Hospitals are where you should go when you're sick, not the church. I don't know if this will sink, but for your sake, I hope it does.

Demiladey361

Omode o mogun o npee lefo.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Let me grab my weed and light it up while i read comments from our spiritual elders in the house



Ogbeni. Na wetin i come do for life be that
Drink beer, smoke weed, bang the pussy, bombing,

lol then your a junkie

Sis,keep praying.
You cant make amends with the Devil. Read ur bible,and rise in knowledge. God bless you.

Nairaland Pastor.

Keep praying sister, you will be free. Not before you pay the price. You need to check, if you are really justified to leave him. Sometimes there maybe more underlying reasons which you are not being sincere about.

The next thing you do is return everything he has given you. You may need to refund some money he gave you during the courtship.

You may also need to call him and beg him for forgiveness, even if you know he won't forgive you. Do it first and mention all these steps in your prayers.

Then the kind of prayers you pray is not the regular MFM prayers. First of a you have to surrender your life totally to Jesus. Your deliverance depends on that. Don't ever go into sex before marriage or any form of sexual impurity.

There are steps you need to take. Reply if interested

But I remembered when I was still very sick, my sister told me a pastor explained to her that the attack is coming from a guy who is angry with me and I have to make amends. I didn't really bother about it since I was getting better.

I broke up with my ex around last year when we quarreled. When I found out he is a cultist. I told him never to call me anymore. We were planning to get married next year but when I found out he is a cultist I ended it and it caused a lot of confusion btw our families but at the end they respected my decision and we part ways. Weeks later he called me and said he was really hurt bla bla...

Fast forward to when I was sick. I discovered when I was sick and recovering... I dream about him a lot even without thinking about him but I didn't take it as anything.

Don't try accusing an innocent person because you had a misunderstanding with him. He might be a cultist but seeing him in your dream doesn't mean anything.

There are two major reasons you might be seeing him in your dream:
1. You suspect/think about him so much and hence the dream.
2. A familiar spirit is trying to deceive you to think he is the one responsible for your health challenges.

Hear me, nobody would use his face to attack you in the dream. Are they that dumb? No! Forget about the guy please, he's not the one you saw in your dream.

Then recently I decided to go to MFM church for a week deliverance to be totally free from this affliction... I fasted for a week and prayed but on the last day, the prayer was about spirit husband and behold I fell and started screaming "No No"... I was rolling up and down scattering everything.. A lot of pastors came to my side praying but I was still screaming" no no" "she belongs to me".

How can you be in the spirit and still hear yourself? You mean someone told you after you regain yourself? If you heard yourself screaming whatever while praying, it's either you are lying or you were still in the flesh. You can't be in the spirit and still be conscious of yourself.

Then when I came back to my senses "the pastor called me and told me I still need much fasting and deliverance session because there must have been a strong covenant for him to say no" . Then he asked me about my past lifestyle. I told him I was worldly then and the only boyfriend I had that lasted long I broke up with him. Then he started praying for me and telling me to say I break every covenant with that guy and behold I was feeling very uncomfortable and shaking then I stopped.

Do you call them pastors and they were not able to deliver you? They might be workers in the church and NOT pastors. A true MOG should be able to knock that foul spirit out of you in the name of Jesus. The fact is that if at all you manifested and they were not able to deliver you, then they are also afflicted with same spirit. Deliverance is a fight. If you can't deliver someone with foul spirit out, the spirit in the person would definitely possess you [in other words, deliver you].

You manifested a contrary spirit and your past lifestyle doesn't matter. Jesus does not consult our past to give us a future. Once you submit to Him, He'll just change your life for the better. Later you can talk about where you are coming from. Telling them about your past life at a time you needed their help was a waste of time.

.. After that he prayed for me and told me when the church reopens I should come back for the deliverance cuz the church is currently locked because of the corona issue.....

Pray for you about what exactly? He couldn't pray to deliver you, so what was he praying for? For praying sake? The pastor better reflect on his calling again.

When I went back home I decided to pray about this guy again but I was still feeling very uncomfortable like I was going to faint then I stopped but then I began to recall everything about my ex.. I could remember he told me we should have a covenant then but I refused ... Then he told me to promise him I won't ever leave him.. I did and he also promised and that was all. Again I remembered he called when I was very sick, he greeted me fine and asked if the sickness caused some spots on my body I said no and then the day the pastor told me to pray about breaking covenant with him, my ex called me that very day to ask me how am doing.

This is confusion. I don't see anything here. Can you just leave the young man out of this?

But now am really confused right now. Have prayed about witches and wizards to leave me alone but still am not totally free and now am beginning to think towards my ex direction...

Could he be responsible for this and what about the spirit husband stuff cuz during the time I was sick I dreamt about someone having sex with me and me breastfeeding a baby in the dream.

Someone slept with you in the dream?
Yes! That could signal a spiritual husband. But how many times?

You dreamed breastfeeding a baby?
This doesn't add up. Are you in search of the fruit of the womb? Is your breast heavy right now?

And when the pastor called me again he said he saw a stretch on my life and he doesn't know where it is coming from that I really need to pray and gave me some prayer books.

Then I called the pastor my sister went to and asked him. He told me the attack is coming from a guy that he is very angry and because a covenant was made and I need to make amends cuz I was ungrateful to him. I was totally confused.

Am so confused and tired of everything right now how is my ex anyway connected to spirit husband.

Stretch on your life? What is that? I don't get.

He gave you prayer books? That may not work. You don't pray by reading a prayer book. You pray from your heart.

The pastor your sister consulted for you is totally out of point. He was only exercising his brain.

In conclusion, you may be possessed and needs deliverance but you need to do that in a living church. On the flip side, nothing may be wrong with you, but your suspicions may be what is creating problems for you.

Verdict:
1. Go to hospital and check yourself again.
2. If indeed you are possessed, please locate a living church near you.
3. Stop thinking that your ex may be your problem. He is not.
4. Give your life to Christ.
5. Get to know God deeply so that people won't be confusing you with their fleshly imaginations.

Person get headache, he run go church, that one na headache?

HenryDion:
I read an entire epistle and nowhere did I see a mention of "Hospital."

All you said was, you were taken to 'some places' and 'church'

The mind is very powerful, in the sense that it can play according to your fears, what you hear or see.

I want to be very honest with you, what is happening to you is not spiritual, neither is your ex trying to harm you.. Leave that poor boy out of this.

The reason you started dreaming about your ex and having sex in the dream was the moment someone hinted about your ex being the cause of your problem..

Lemme tell you my life's story, so you'll learn about the power of the mind.

I was diagnosed with HIV in 2009 in a heart to heart center and immediately, I start exhibiting all the symptoms of HIV. I got thin overnight, sores started growing in my throat, and some rashes too.

I was told to begin medication immediately.. The hospital they referred me to, for my ART drugs ran another test.

Everything came out negative. They conducted more test to confirm and everything was negative. I got confused.

I went to a more sophisticated private lab here in Abia state. Still, the test was all negative. What happened? What do I have to say about the symptoms?

What am I saying? The mind is powerful, and these churches and pastors will not help you. Instead, they will play on your emotions and heighten your fears..

Dump all of them and go to a reliable hospital. Let them run some tests and know what's really wrong with you.

Hospitals are where you should go when you're sick, not the church. I don't know if this will sink, but for your sake, I hope it does.

Demiladey361

U go kill urself one day if you're of the opinion that everything is physical, especially here in Africa, someone can cast a spell on u and inflict u with a disease or illness and you'll be in the hospital looking for the cure until u die u won't get the cure. Atheists who believe that science has an explanation for all things may end up dying mysteriously.
The mind is powerful. Can science explain y?
That's y whenever u have a problem, don't put all ur eggs in one basket, try to approach it both physically and spiritually.

Demiladey361:
I fell sick six months ago and almost died. I was taken to some places but got worst. So later I was taken to church where they did deliverance for me. Then I got better. I didn't get better totally but gradually. Till date I still experience the sickness but not like before.

But I remembered when I was still very sick, my sister told me a pastor explained to her that the attack is coming from a guy who is angry with me and I have to make amends. I didn't really bother about it since I was getting better.

I broke up with my ex around last year when we quarreled. When I found out he is a cultist. I told him never to call me anymore. We were planning to get married next year but when I found out he is a cultist I ended it and it caused a lot of confusion btw our families but at the end they respected my decision and we part ways. Weeks later he called me and said he was really hurt bla bla...

Fast forward to when I was sick. I discovered when I was sick and recovering... I dream about him a lot even without thinking about him but I didn't take it as anything.

Then recently I decided to go to MFM church for a week deliverance to be totally free from this affliction... I fasted for a week and prayed but on the last day, the prayer was about spirit husband and behold I fell and started screaming "No No"... I was rolling up and down scattering everything.. A lot of pastors came to my side praying but I was still screaming" no no" "she belongs to me".

Then when I came back to my senses "the pastor called me and told me I still need much fasting and deliverance session because there must have been a strong covenant for him to say no" . Then he asked me about my past lifestyle. I told him I was worldly then and the only boyfriend I had that lasted long I broke up with him. Then he started praying for me and telling me to say I break every covenant with that guy and behold I was feeling very uncomfortable and shaking then I stopped.

.. After that he prayed for me and told me when the church reopens I should come back for the deliverance cuz the church is currently locked because of the corona issue.....

When I went back home I decided to pray about this guy again but I was still feeling very uncomfortable like I was going to faint then I stopped but then I began to recall everything about my ex.. I could remember he told me we should have a covenant then but I refused ... Then he told me to promise him I won't ever leave him.. I did and he also promised and that was all. Again I remembered he called when I was very sick, he greeted me fine and asked if the sickness caused some spots on my body I said no and then the day the pastor told me to pray about breaking covenant with him, my ex called me that very day to ask me how am doing.

But now am really confused right now. Have prayed about witches and wizards to leave me alone but still am not totally free and now am beginning to think towards my ex direction...

Could he be responsible for this and what about the spirit husband stuff cuz during the time I was sick I dreamt about someone having sex with me and me breastfeeding a baby in the dream.

And when the pastor called me again he said he saw a stretch on my life and he doesn't know where it is coming from that I really need to pray and gave me some prayer books.

Then I called the pastor my sister went to and asked him. He told me the attack is coming from a guy that he is very angry and because a covenant was made and I need to make amends cuz I was ungrateful to him. I was totally confused.

Am so confused and tired of everything right now how is my ex anyway connected to spirit husband.

Keep praying sister, you will be free. Not before you pay the price. You need to check, if you are really justified to leave him. Sometimes there maybe more underlying reasons which you are not being sincere about.

The next thing you do is return everything he has given you. You may need to refund some money he gave you during the courtship.

You may also need to call him and beg him for forgiveness, even if you know he won't forgive you. Do it first and mention all these steps in your prayers.

Then the kind of prayers you pray is not the regular MFM prayers. First of a you have to surrender your life totally to Jesus. Your deliverance depends on that. Don't ever go into sex before marriage or any form of sexual impurity.

There are steps you need to take. Reply if interested

Abi na your matter be the pineapple containing pictures of a male and female.



Anyway, first of all you need to do some spiritual mapping with prayer and all your intuition pinpoint where the issue is coming from. Look back do you share any food specially prepared. ( Just try to locate that)

2. You need to believe and affrim that you will be totally free.


3. Pray some specific prayers and break every covenant. God is already on your side.

You will experience your breakthrough and it will most likely be reveal through dream

AZeD1:
"On hearing this, Jesus said to them, "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick."

Even Jesus said the sick need a doctor not a pastor.

First off, what you quoted was a proverb Jesus used to illustrate a point to explain why he socialized and dined with sinners.

You can however argue that he is not against going to see a doctor.

Here is what Jesus really thinks about healing. This is a direct saying not a proverb:

" And these signs shall follow them that believe; In my name shall they cast out devils... They shall lay hands on the sick, and they shall recover." Mark 16-17-18

Ishilove:
He thinks it is everything that can be explained by science. Yeyenatu

SpaceX just delivered two astronauts to the international space station.They are planning a manned mission to the moon, then to mars.

My Nigeria brothers and sisters are still struggling with spirit wife abi husband.

This country/continent is a sad story.

Although you already attend MFM, you an ask a catholic to teach you how to pray the rosary. Pray it daily and also hang in your room. It works like magic

humilitypays:
na them. Na all those no future ambition, razz, futureless, clueless guys forming hard boys, smoking hemp, sagging trouser, frying hair and waiting to hammer by robbery, yahoo+, political thuggery, etc that go extra mile to trap any plane Jane they come across!



Why should a man hold on foolishly to a girl in this modern time and age that men are looking for ways to reduce ladies on their list



How can a guy even think of blood oath with a girl, is she Bill Gates daughter

Is she going to give you billions


Honestly, some guys need to be shot on the forehead and some ladies deserve to be flogged naked at the village marketsquare



The op's ex boyfriend is a highly fetish guy, that's the risk of dating razz, classless people

absolutely

although she never specify if it's cults groups or the occult of the spiritism

nonetheless these are manipulations of the devil.

I knew a father who did similar things to his children and believe me.... it takes grace to break blood oath.

the lady needs to be in constant prayer and fasting, cos the guy used some powers to sleep with her and so consumated the blood convenant

first she needs to destroy any of his physical presense in her possesion

go back for the deliverance and continue fervent prayers at night.

she can place salt on her bedside.

her mother most importantly can break that bond without much Ado

she should go naked place her daughter on her bossom and call on the power that bonds mother to daughter at her birth to release her from the hold.

OP, not only that you should go to the hospital, but please see a psychiatrist while you are there, because too much belief in the supernatural is a disease by itself.

HenryDion:
I read an entire epistle and nowhere did I see a mention of "Hospital."

All you said was, you were taken to 'some places' and 'church'

The mind is very powerful, in the sense that it can play according to your fears, what you hear or see.

I want to be very honest with you, what is happening to you is not spiritual, neither is your ex trying to harm you.. Leave that poor boy out of this.

The reason you started dreaming about your ex and having sex in the dream was the moment someone hinted about your ex being the cause of your problem..

Lemme tell you my life's story, so you'll learn about the power of the mind.

I was diagnosed with HIV in 2009 in a heart to heart center and immediately, I start exhibiting all the symptoms of HIV. I got thin overnight, sores started growing in my throat, and some rashes too.

I was told to begin medication immediately.. The hospital they referred me to, for my ART drugs ran another test.

Everything came out negative. They conducted more test to confirm and everything was negative. I got confused.

I went to a more sophisticated private lab here in Abia state. Still, the test was all negative. What happened? What do I have to say about the symptoms?

What am I saying? The mind is powerful, and these churches and pastors will not help you. Instead, they will play on your emotions and heighten your fears..

Dump all of them and go to a reliable hospital. Let them run some tests and know what's really wrong with you.

Hospitals are where you should go when you're sick, not the church. I don't know if this will sink, but for your sake, I hope it does.

Demiladey361

Thank you so much.
Still baffles me how people remain so ignorant in 2020.

There is confussion every where, people no longer studies the word of God. My sister if at all u are a born again, then do u knw what it means? What u need is knowledge nt that so called deliverance u are going to, or that one that calls himself prophet that is decieving u that is ur ex. Any prophecy that does nt inline with the scripture should be discarded immediately. Prophecy is for edification. Lord, bring ur church to the knowledge of truth.

Your mindset is your major. You are clearly deluded and rationally twisted. Clearly, your mind of sludge and understand that your problem is purely medical and physical. Go for a thorough medical test in an accredited medical facility. Your problem could be something as obvious and prevalent as typhoid, pollution or food poison.

In a dangerous and dysfunctional country such as Nigeria, anything can kill you, especially when your mind is trapped in the shadows. Be wise like an ant.

See what love has caused you Uh....

After so much sweet memory....now it regret.

After so much enjoying...now it had I know.

After much intercourse, anally, pussily, monthly, suckly, lickly.....now the spirit that follow has power over you now and is not letting go.

Relationship is not just I love u, u kiss and feeling happy you're having fun,,,,,NO.

When u getting all those enjoyment e get who u discuss am with, when problem arise there seek God when things is better there keep God aside.

I pray u get save...tho.

I'm surprised people are seriously commenting. Isn't it obvious this thrash piece was made up? Even the write up didn't connect .

Goldenheart:
Sometimes we have to find someone and apologize to them...

Like this woman..

Remember that you shall be judged by every idle word you speak. Matthew 12 :36
You'll do well to receive Jesus into your life, tomorrow may be too late. John 3 :16