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Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by Demiladey361(f): 4:19pm On Mar 24, 2020
I fell sick six months ago and almost died. I was taken to some places but got worst. So later I was taken to church where they did deliverance for me. Then I got better. I didn't get better totally but gradually. Till date I still experience the sickness but not like before.

But I remembered when I was still very sick, my sister told me a pastor explained to her that the attack is coming from a guy who is angry with me and I have to make amends. I didn't really bother about it since I was getting better.

I broke up with my ex around last year when we quarreled. When I found out he is a cultist. I told him never to call me anymore. We were planning to get married next year but when I found out he is a cultist I ended it and it caused a lot of confusion btw our families but at the end they respected my decision and we part ways. Weeks later he called me and said he was really hurt bla bla...

Fast forward to when I was sick. I discovered when I was sick and recovering... I dream about him a lot even without thinking about him but I didn't take it as anything.

Then recently I decided to go to MFM church for a week deliverance to be totally free from this affliction... I fasted for a week and prayed but on the last day, the prayer was about spirit husband and behold I fell and started screaming "No No"... I was rolling up and down scattering everything.. A lot of pastors came to my side praying but I was still screaming" no no" "she belongs to me".

Then when I came back to my senses "the pastor called me and told me I still need much fasting and deliverance session because there must have been a strong covenant for him to say no" . Then he asked me about my past lifestyle. I told him I was worldly then and the only boyfriend I had that lasted long I broke up with him. Then he started praying for me and telling me to say I break every covenant with that guy and behold I was feeling very uncomfortable and shaking then I stopped.

.. After that he prayed for me and told me when the church reopens I should come back for the deliverance cuz the church is currently locked because of the corona issue.....

When I went back home I decided to pray about this guy again but I was still feeling very uncomfortable like I was going to faint then I stopped but then I began to recall everything about my ex.. I could remember he told me we should have a covenant then but I refused ... Then he told me to promise him I won't ever leave him.. I did and he also promised and that was all. Again I remembered he called when I was very sick, he greeted me fine and asked if the sickness caused some spots on my body I said no and then the day the pastor told me to pray about breaking covenant with him, my ex called me that very day to ask me how am doing.

But now am really confused right now. Have prayed about witches and wizards to leave me alone but still am not totally free and now am beginning to think towards my ex direction...

Could he be responsible for this and what about the spirit husband stuff cuz during the time I was sick I dreamt about someone having sex with me and me breastfeeding a baby in the dream.

And when the pastor called me again he said he saw a stretch on my life and he doesn't know where it is coming from that I really need to pray and gave me some prayer books.

Then I called the pastor my sister went to and asked him. He told me the attack is coming from a guy that he is very angry and because a covenant was made and I need to make amends cuz I was ungrateful to him. I was totally confused.

Am so confused and tired of everything right now how is my ex anyway connected to spirit husband.

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by JunctionBox: 4:21pm On Mar 24, 2020
Lalasticlala
Help her life

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by donbachi(m): 4:28pm On Mar 24, 2020
The both

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by JunctionBox: 4:30pm On Mar 24, 2020
Lalasticlala

Mynd44

Dominique

Help her life.

This just remind me to be thankful to God that I didn't take that oath with that idiot. Where is she today? It is good to use one's head in every dealing.

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by tellwisdom: 4:36pm On Mar 24, 2020
So you didn’t know he was in cult or a cultist till the day you were to marry him.?? I hope you have big breasttt and yansh the spirit can press very well??. sad

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by brodalikeme(m): 4:37pm On Mar 24, 2020
Clearly you know where you problems are coming from but because you are not so spiritual you’re talking some of these revelations and encounters trivially. You have to break and renounce every covenant you’ve entered into knowingly or unknowingly. Yes, the will be some form of fighting for your soul but you need to pray it through and be free. You know deep within you the reason you left him, so channel that resolve into demanding your freedom.

First place to start is a prayer of salvation or rededication. Then Rom 8, 2 Cor 5:17, John 1:12 etc comes in. You can private message me if you need more guidance.

It is well with you in Jesus name-amen

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by Generalamen(m): 5:13pm On Mar 24, 2020
My dear,what u wish to know,can only be answered by God(det29:29),humans can only analyse.
Well the truth is I cannot pinpoint this ex of yours bt I can tell there's a soul-tie,that ended with a promise and soul-tie occur as a result of sex or immoral act (sin) you see everything we engage our flesh/soul/spirit in has an implications,Prov6:32
That u made a vow,with a man is enough because the man is a spirit as well as u and u gave the legal ground by ur mouth(pro18:21) and angered his spirit,thereby breaking laws (eph4:26) so u invited that spirit even though it's not ur ex physically.
That he keeps checking up on u after series of deliverances or that u feel weak or dizzy,when breaking covenants means there's is more to it than meet the eye,if u ask me my personal opinion,not from the bible and not that the holy spirit told me,i would say,the ex is fetish,full stop.
Ask God to reveal the face behind ur situation,pray at 12am
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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by HenryDion: 5:35pm On Mar 24, 2020
I read an entire epistle and nowhere did I see a mention of "Hospital."

All you said was, you were taken to 'some places' and 'church'

The mind is very powerful, in the sense that it can play according to your fears, what you hear or see.

I want to be very honest with you, what is happening to you is not spiritual, neither is your ex trying to harm you.. Leave that poor boy out of this.

The reason you started dreaming about your ex and having sex in the dream was the moment someone hinted about your ex being the cause of your problem..

Lemme tell you my life's story, so you'll learn about the power of the mind.

I was diagnosed with HIV in 2009 in a heart to heart center and immediately, I start exhibiting all the symptoms of HIV. I got thin overnight, sores started growing in my throat, and some rashes too.

I was told to begin medication immediately.. The hospital they referred me to, for my ART drugs ran another test.

Everything came out negative. They conducted more test to confirm and everything was negative. I got confused.

I went to a more sophisticated private lab here in Abia state. Still, the test was all negative. What happened? What do I have to say about the symptoms?

What am I saying? The mind is powerful, and these churches and pastors will not help you. Instead, they will play on your emotions and heighten your fears..

Dump all of them and go to a reliable hospital. Let them run some tests and know what's really wrong with you.

Hospitals are where you should go when you're sick, not the church. I don't know if this will sink, but for your sake, I hope it does.

Demiladey361

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by MRosario(m): 8:51pm On Mar 24, 2020
Thank You fo this, hope she/they listens
HenryDion:
I read an entire epistle and nowhere did I see a mention of "Hospital."

All you said was, you were taken to 'some places' and 'church'

The mind is very powerful, in the sense that it can play according to your fears, what you hear or see.

I want to be very honest with you, what is happening to you is not spiritual, neither is your ex trying to harm you.. Leave that poor boy out of this.

The reason you started dreaming about your ex and having sex in the dream was the moment someone hinted about your ex being the cause of your problem..

Lemme tell you my life's story, so you'll learn about the power of the mind.

I was diagnosed with HIV in 2009 in a heart to heart center and immediately, I start exhibiting all the symptoms of HIV. I got thin overnight, sores started growing in my throat, and some rashes too.

I was told to begin medication immediately.. The hospital they referred me to, for my ART drugs ran another test.

Everything came out negative. They conducted more test to confirm and everything was negative. I got confused.

I went to a more sophisticated private lab here in Abia state. Still, the test was all negative. What happened? What do I have to say about the symptoms?

What am I saying? The mind is powerful, and these churches and pastors will not help you. Instead, they will play on your emotions and heighten your fears..

Dump all of them and go to a reliable hospital. Let them run some tests and know what's really wrong with you.

Hospitals are where you should go when you're sick, not the church. I don't know if this will sink, but for your sake, I hope it does.

Demiladey361

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by Ishilove: 1:41pm On Jun 09, 2020
HenryDion:
I read an entire epistle and nowhere did I see a mention of "Hospital."

All you said was, you were taken to 'some places' and 'church'

The mind is very powerful, in the sense that it can play according to your fears, what you hear or see.

I want to be very honest with you, what is happening to you is not spiritual, neither is your ex trying to harm you.. Leave that poor boy out of this.

The reason you started dreaming about your ex and having sex in the dream was the moment someone hinted about your ex being the cause of your problem..

Lemme tell you my life's story, so you'll learn about the power of the mind.

I was diagnosed with HIV in 2009 in a heart to heart center and immediately, I start exhibiting all the symptoms of HIV. I got thin overnight, sores started growing in my throat, and some rashes too.

I was told to begin medication immediately.. The hospital they referred me to, for my ART drugs ran another test.

Everything came out negative. They conducted more test to confirm and everything was negative. I got confused.

I went to a more sophisticated private lab here in Abia state. Still, the test was all negative. What happened? What do I have to say about the symptoms?

What am I saying? The mind is powerful, and these churches and pastors will not help you. Instead, they will play on your emotions and heighten your fears..

Dump all of them and go to a reliable hospital. Let them run some tests and know what's really wrong with you.

Hospitals are where you should go when you're sick, not the church. I don't know if this will sink, but for your sake, I hope it does.

Demiladey361
Be there writing sermon on the mount.

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by Mariangeles: 2:40pm On Jun 09, 2020
Ishilove:

Be there writing sermon on the mount.

Ishi-ihunanya nnem grin

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by Ishilove: 2:55pm On Jun 09, 2020
Mariangeles:


Ishi-ihunanya nnem grin
He thinks it is everything that can be explained by science. Yeyenatu

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by petra1(m): 3:14pm On Jun 09, 2020
Demiladey361:
I.. I fasted for a week and prayed but on the last day, the prayer was about spirit husband and behold I fell and started screaming "No No"... I was rolling up and down scattering everything...

It’s mostly spiritual case. Probably the ministers are not very experienced . They could have questioned the spirit “who are you “ he would have identified himself . “ I Am her spiritual husband “ etc

But concerning the ex . There’s probability too . Because I have engaged such situation before . The spirit afflicting a person spoke out upon questioning that she broke his heart and he took her name to juju. And the spirit was cast out of her. But he claimed “ I am her ex”

It’s a small matter to deal with . If the challenge is still on . A mature minister should question the spirit he will identify himself . and they should cast it out by name

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by madprophet: 5:37pm On Jun 09, 2020
petra1:


It’s mostly spiritual case. Probably the ministers are not very experienced . They could have questioned the spirit “who are you “ he would have identified himself . “ I Am her spiritual husband “ etc

But concerning the ex . There’s probability too . Because I have engaged such situation before . The spirit afflicting a person spoke out upon questioning that she broke his heart and he took her name to juju. And the spirit was cast out of her. But he claimed “ I am her ex”

It’s a small matter to deal with . If the challenge is still on . A mature minister should question the spirit he will identify himself . and they should cast it out by name





Baba

This matter no be matter of experience.

Even it had mention a name which sometimes they don't or if they do could be wrong.

There is definitely a very strong hold on her.. The ex was definitely a spiritual man and must have cunningly got into a covenant albeit unknowingly to her.

With better fasting and prayer with a deliverance minister she would be free.

The lord is in control

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by petra1(m): 5:51pm On Jun 09, 2020
madprophet:


Baba

This matter no be matter of experience.

Even it had mention a name which sometimes they don't or if they do could be wrong.

There is definitely a very strong hold on her.. The ex was definitely a spiritual man and must have cunningly got into a covenant albeit unknowingly to her.


It’s still not a big deal . The purpose of questioning them is just for identification . Like medical diagnosis . The solution is still the authority of the name of Jesus . Strong hold is not bigger than the name . except she is not cooperating . As long as the determination is there for her And her will is yielded . That’s all it takes.

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by Kobojunkie: 6:07pm On Jun 09, 2020
madprophet:

Baba
This matter no be matter of experience.
Even it had mention a name which sometimes they don't or if they do could be wrong.
There is definitely a very strong hold on her.. The ex was definitely a spiritual man and must have cunningly got into a covenant albeit unknowingly to her.
With better fasting and prayer with a deliverance minister she would be free.
The lord is in control
How so? The following of the traditions and cultures of men serves to nullify the power of God in one's situation, and this is according to Jesus Christ.

@Poster, first of all, I am with the guy who suggests you go to a hospital, and I think you should maybe even see a psychiatrist while you are at it. Sometimes degunking is necessary to clear one's mind.

I don't see God in any of what you described because much of what you have described i.e. rituals, prayer books, etc., read more like pagan practices than what Jesus Christ taught His own to follow. That said, to each His own. Jesus taught people to look inside when they are being tempted or troubled in any way, so He would not have encouraged you to place blame on your ex or any spirit external to yours for that matter. And as far as fasting is concerned, Isaiah 58 is the kind of fasting that God requires.

My advice, go to the hospital and get yourself properly taken care of. Sickness happens to even the best of us, and there is nothing wrong with being sick - it does not have to be spiritual.
Afterward, you should work on figuring out what you believe so such things don't mess with your mind again.

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by madprophet: 7:02pm On Jun 09, 2020
Kobojunkie:

How so? The following of the traditions and cultures of men serves to nullify the power of God in one's situation, and this is according to Jesus Christ.

@Poster, first of all, I am with the guy who suggests you go to a hospital, and I think you should maybe even see a psychiatrist while you are at it. Sometimes degunking is necessary to clear one's mind.

I don't see God in any of what you described because much of what you have described i.e. rituals, prayer books, etc., read more like pagan practices than what Jesus Christ taught His own to follow. That said, to each His own. Jesus taught people to look inside when they are being tempted or troubled in any way, so He would not have encouraged you to place blame on your ex or any spirit external to yours for that matter. And as far as fasting is concerned, Isaiah 68 is the kind of fasting that God requires.

My advice, go to the hospital and get yourself properly taken care of. Sickness happens to even the best of us, and there is nothing wrong with being sick - it does not have to be spiritual. Afterward, you should work on figuring out what you believe so such things don't mess with your mind again.

You read where she said she has been to all kind of places before she decided to go thr church route

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by madprophet: 7:02pm On Jun 09, 2020
petra1:


It’s still not a big deal . The purpose of asking for their identity is just for identification . Like medical diagnosis . The solution is still the authority of the name of Jesus . Strong hold is not bigger than the name . except she is not cooperating . As long as the determination is there for her And her will is yielded . That’s all it takes.


Na so

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by Kobojunkie: 7:05pm On Jun 09, 2020
madprophet:
You read where she said she has been to all kind of places before she decided to go thr church route
All kind of places don't mean hospital. And believe it or not, it is hard to believe that a person goes to the hospital in this century, and comes out with no diagnosis or suggestion as to what exactly is wrong, except to say the ex may have had a hand in it. undecided

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by madprophet: 7:10pm On Jun 09, 2020
Kobojunkie:
All kind of places don't mean hospital. And believe it or not, it is hard to believe that a person goes to the hospital in this century, and comes out with no diagnosis or suggestion as to what exactly is wrong, except to say the ex may have had a hand in it. undecided

Well, I have seen cases where they have gone to the hospital and they didn't see anything wrong with the person

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by Kobojunkie: 7:17pm On Jun 09, 2020
madprophet:
Well, I have seen cases where they have gone to the hospital and they didn't see anything wrong with the person
Oh, I have too, but there is no way you come out of it without even a clearer description in your head of your symptoms. It happened to me. After a month of searching, I was sure of my symptoms and could detail them for anyone who cared to hear. By the sixth month, not only was I clued in on the possibles, but I was doing my own research and instructing my doctors on what to look into. grin

Stop trying to create a sort of pass for the @OP. She needs to invest her time and efforts into finding out exactly what it is that ails her, rather than running from one voodoo house to another(even those that pretend to be associated with the bible God) trying to find out who to pin it on. undecided

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by madprophet: 8:13pm On Jun 09, 2020
Kobojunkie:
Oh, I have too, but there is no way you come out of it without even a clearer description in your head of your symptoms. It happened to me. After a month of searching, I was sure of my symptoms and could detail them for anyone who cared to hear. By the sixth month, not only was I clued in on the possibles, but I was doing my own research and instructing my doctors on what to look into. grin

Stop trying to create a sort of pass for the @OP. She needs to invest her time and efforts into finding out exactly what it is that ails her, rather than running from one voodoo house to another(even those that pretend to be associated with the bible God) trying to find out who to pin it on. undecided

I have heard you Bros

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by streetfabulous: 8:58pm On Jun 09, 2020
It's one and the same. Covenants are spiritual but the parties must agree. Yes you did not agree to it intentionally but you may have consented through sex (especially) or by your word of promise that you will never leave him.If your ex has bonded with you in a covenant, that makes him your husband spiritually. The spirit enforcing the covenant is what you are calling spirit husband . There's no confusion about this, both pastors are correct, for instance, if the covenant is broken, the spirit husband will cease or if the spirit husband is expelled, the covenant is broken. Please don't over-rationalize spiritual issues, I mean, you even told us how you manifested during the prayers at MFM. That is enough info to take a stand in the name of JESUS through the WORD of GOD , PRAYER, and fasting. Shalom.

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by Goldenheart(m): 9:58pm On Jun 09, 2020
Sometimes we have to find someone and apologize to them...

Like this woman.. cry

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by whytediamond(m): 9:58pm On Jun 09, 2020
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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by bestman09(m): 9:58pm On Jun 09, 2020
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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by Slawormir: 9:59pm On Jun 09, 2020
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Let me grab my weed and light it up while i read comments from our spiritual elders in the house


Possiblegee:
smoke ,eat,drink,bomb,sleep,f^ck and then recycle ♻️ Every single day all for free ...I guess that’s all you know lol
Ogbeni. Na wetin i come do for life be that
Drink beer, smoke weed, bang the pussy, bombing, seek small knowledge

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by Diijerr(f): 9:59pm On Jun 09, 2020
So people believe in spirit husband

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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by moscobabs(m): 9:59pm On Jun 09, 2020
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Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 9:59pm On Jun 09, 2020
OP, Only you your ex na cultist, you cor still get spirit husband Join?

Abeg this your mata pass be careful, make I no display my madness for here. But anyways follow that guy wey talk say e get HIV 2009 advice

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