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Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Depressedkidd: 3:21am On Jun 10, 2020 |
I hate being visited in general. Especially uninvited. I just like being alone so I understand the guy's point, idk how many times I've been home and just refused to answer cos someone paid me an unexpected visit . However, the moment you enter a relationship, just be ready to discard all those no visiting without calling first rules. While I wouldn't visit someone without calling, I'd definitely not make a scene out of my babe visiting. I'd tell her to try to call tho cos if I'm sleeping and I have to cut my sleep short to entertain you then you'd really meet a cranky and irritated version of me. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by ZooOga: 3:40am On Jun 10, 2020 |
"the lady was screaming at the top of her voice" which one be lady raising her voice in public and disturbing the peace? anoda case of failed home training, or none at all. ye-ye girl, nonsense. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by seancombs617: 3:47am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Eni to o ba'n wa iwakuwa ma rii irikuri lol If u dey find bad tin u go see bad tin |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by stonecoldcafe: 4:07am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Sermwell: What is there to hide? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Chidex2442(m): 4:09am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Dating a girl that has transport is an advantage because she can come anytime. and a disadvantage because she can come anytime 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by mattfeuter(m): 4:17am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Maybe I’m not normal but I hardly even pick calls sef, I’d rather text. . . talk more of a lady showing up to my place unannounced. . . Goodluck with that 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by InaBlack: 4:29am On Jun 10, 2020 |
callmeRich: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by oshorstan(f): 4:36am On Jun 10, 2020 |
I make it a rule and value system. if you come to my house without notice, I will not open. I need to make some adjustments to my settings to accommodate you. you cannot come n barge into my space. A simple SMS will do. we are in the era of social media. Do d right thing 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Liliantalks: 4:42am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Chidex2442: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by eddyslim(m): 4:52am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Zita55:chai this one tough oh 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by joshuaidibia(m): 4:56am On Jun 10, 2020 |
dingbang: Amaka go dissapoint u |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by dingbang(m): 5:09am On Jun 10, 2020 |
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Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by whitelotus: 5:10am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Ishilove: Has that been your experience as a woman? Do you normally drop unannounced and.get treated like a queen? Let's not oppose facts just to sound cool 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Liliantalks: 5:17am On Jun 10, 2020 |
whitelotus:so your girlfriend come unannounced n you start cautioning her , like you r not happy to see her? She should inform you , like every other stranger out there . I rather die single than having to deal with that 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Positivechick: 5:25am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Red Flag for me, We are about to own a life together. |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Positivechick: 5:31am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Correcto:good question |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by PotatoSalad(m): 5:35am On Jun 10, 2020 |
MajorOvakporaye:Sharrap. It's a simple courtesy to inform someone before visiting them. Many have visited me without calling and I gave them serious warnings. My line of work requires serious concentration and I wouldn't want any idiot to barge in cos they want to catch me doing something illegal or worse, cheating. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by favour32(m): 5:37am On Jun 10, 2020 |
That is why you should date your friend. Nobody go give you visiting time like hospital 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by whitelotus: 5:37am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Liliantalks: Many Nairalanders are children and so, they do not understand the complexities of life. Even my parents and siblings do not enter my house unannounced, not to talk of a girlfriend (back when I was dating). The only time this is allowed is during emergencies or you are doing a surprise event (eg intervention) Furthermore, many Nigerians cannot think internationally. In the winter in Europe, you would suffer if you went to someone's house unannounced because, you will wait outside in the cold before the person opens the door for you. That is if even the person decides to open the door. Europeans do not like unannounced visits. Also, personally, I am a busy man. I plan my time very well. Back when I was dating, there were few days in the week that I couldnt spare for anyone, even while I was at home. Coming in unannounced would make me treat you like a problem. Unless you are a fiancee or a wife, you have no rights to access a man's place. In a civilized country, a neighbour can even get you arrested for standing in the front porch of your boyfriend's house if you are there unannounced. The police will ask you what rights do you have to be on another person's property. God help you if your boyfriend's phone is off when police is questioning you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by sunboy(m): 5:45am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Wrong and disrespectful! Wait till you’re married to them before you start tripping! |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Liliantalks: 5:46am On Jun 10, 2020 |
whitelotus:your parent is not ur spouse, u both are planing to be one. I am not a child. And I know the true meaning of Family and togetherness . This is not how it used to be or how it should be . What’s my business with Europeans, does adding Europeans to ur posts make it correct ? Nope it doesn’t . But did u even read the post? Or u just read the topic . The babe is supposed to be his fiancée . 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Liliantalks: 5:48am On Jun 10, 2020 |
PotatoSalad:I pity the babe that will date this one 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by whitelotus: 5:58am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Liliantalks: The op never said that they were engaged. The title of this thread clearly says "dating". It is good manners to respect someone's personal space and house. Call before coming. It only shows that you have no respect and manners. I cannot date or even marry a woman with such behaviour. Even the law is clear on this issue. You shouldn't be on someone's property without permission. If police gets involved, you are in trouble. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Liliantalks: 6:03am On Jun 10, 2020 |
whitelotus:yes goes same both ways |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by whitelotus: 6:05am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Liliantalks: Please, be dropping in people's houses unannounced. It shows your personality. lol 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Liliantalks: 6:08am On Jun 10, 2020 |
whitelotus:nothing funny. Lol, that’s a major sign of unseriousness I will never ignore . I love my personality like that, we r talking of committed relationship Not people's houses 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by EzzyCarter: 6:09am On Jun 10, 2020 |
fallingsky:Which fruit? Read my comment again and show me what indicates the fact that I am a cheat. Talk about jumping to conclusions . Well, you don't know me so you're entitled to ur opinion sha |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by loswhite(m): 6:11am On Jun 10, 2020 |
ettaetta:You have to earn the trust na 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by miket2(m): 6:14am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Apart from immediate family you should not go to anyones house uninvited |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by mayor10(m): 6:15am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Leme show my babe. She's been showing up unannounced lately. |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Nobody: 6:25am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Tajbol4splend:Adult if you haven’t had a violently jealous fiancé before please come and sit at the kiddies table with me. I don’t even want anyone coming too close to me, talk more of showing up uninvited in someone’s place. If we do get married we have forever for that. |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Champneys: 6:29am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Sermwell: It is wrong, simple! |
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