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Luckygurl:
Yeah!
We met in February at my former ppa. We got talking and he said he likes me and would want us to date. I visited him once. I just found it hard to believe that a handsome comfortable guy like him was single, asked him a couple of times and he insisted he was single.

Just as I was about saying a yes to him, the FBI part of me decided to ask questions and dig deep. My informant told me he was married with two kids abroad. I confronted him and he says he got married to a white for papers during his school days and he has a daughter from the union.

I halted everything at once. Not cos he was once married or had a child but because he kept away that info from me and even when I had to ask he didn't see it as a big deal.

So now! I'm back to the drawing board

QuinModah:
It was back then in 2013 while I was still in school. I asked this guy if he was married, he said no but my spirit kept telling me he's married.

So one day, I used my lodge mate's phone number to put a call across to him telling him am mama Ada that I want to speak with his wife that her line isn't reachable and I really need to repay the loan she gave me before I squander the money, on hearing that he started screaming ''Mummy mummy bia onwere Onye na akpo gi'' (mummy mummy come someone is calling u). I quietly switched off the phone . I later asked him if it was worth denying your wife and kids because you want what you may never get, and he couldn't answer.

Incel:
Go through some of her threads.
During this lock down, she gave out money to some people.
Boys weh de always troll her na them de rush drop account number. Nairaland boys are so shameless. Shame catch me for them that day. They come online to form millionaires and redpill, offline, they beg for money and love.

pocohantas:
A married man that has been hitting on me just named his newborn child after me.

I guess he wants me to know how much he “loves” me, but I am very concerned and worried about the number of women calling their daughters the name of their husband’s sidechick.

May God help us in this marriage something.

They keep taking this thing to the next level.

femmyapson:
martyns303
osazsky
Okoroawusa

I know you ve lied somewhere but all the same I will like to satisfy my curiosity if you would answer my question. At a time here you wrote that you love dating older men and u gave ur reason for saying that; and at d end of d sentence u said dat u re 20..Wit d tins u wrote up here that means u graduated from uni at age 14 which is not possible. You ve posted job vacancy for people to apply on this forum more than 6 times and u are saying u dont have a job with ur first class certificate. .. is it that u re dating this older men while with ur fiancee or what.I saw a thread where u said ur fiancee mum told u dat u can't marry his son..
Since u re not shy bou ur runs work, why do u ve to lie bou some stuff here. a faceless forum for dat mara

luminouz:
Lol..your head don swell gan abi?

Okoroawusa:
mmmm.... thanks for giving me this mention.
Are u sure it's this same lady?

extremelygolden:
Brother in-law

femmyapson:
Yes the same OBelz

luminouz:
Nwanne!!!


Hope I got it right

QuinModah:
It was back then in 2013 while I was still in school. I asked this guy if he was married, he said no but my spirit kept telling me he's married.

So one day, I used my lodge mate's phone number to put a call across to him telling him am mama Ada that I want to speak with his wife that her line isn't reachable and I really need to repay the loan she gave me before I squander the money, on hearing that he started screaming ''Mummy mummy bia onwere Onye na akpo gi'' (mummy mummy come someone is calling u). I quietly switched off the phone . I later asked him if it was worth denying your wife and kids because you want what you may never get, and he couldn't answer.

extremelygolden:
Beni, Oremi atata. E try gan.

OBelz:
Yes Detective Martin's,
4yrs with a first class in Biochemistry no job for 6 yrs, mother died of cancer my fiancee scammed of �. Thank you I am in the Escort Business and am not ashamed of it.

FYI I also on www.exoticnigeria.com

luminouz:
Damn u smooth with the Yoruba lines...nice..


I suck at Igbo dou.. Na only ewu I fit pronounce well...cuz I eat it most times in form of isi-ewu

OBelz:
Hmmm 2years back, when I went to look for a job oo so he called me and said he will pick me cos he like me and want to have a relationship with me, I now ask him what type of relationship do u really want to have with me ,marry me or side chick cos it obvious that his married, the man said , I'm not marry ooo, am single, if you have a good character that will be determined if I will marry you and be the lucky one I said okay but let have a deal
I said any day I know you have wife and children I will kill them all. Omo see the man ooo he started calling me names ashawooo am not doing again, so you are a devil , so you can kill am not doing again, he even said he will go and report me in police station hahahahahhaha













During my undergraduate days Yeah and my God he was handsome, dark , fresh , Rich and Romantic asf... I mean he was 48 and doesn't look a day like it. ( I only found out after we broke up)

He was always sending his driver's to bring me lunch and snacks at work during break time. My folks Adores him. We even created an Instagram page for ourselves to document our daily lives and memorable events. And he was a big spender, he Pampered me lot. I miss that life�.

Sha how did I find out, he told me to block someone on face book and Instagram without giving me a reason. Oh well, I had actually blocked the person but then out of curiosity I decided to check her out only to find out she was his wife , she is a Medical Doctor based in Canada and with three kids . I was so heart broken. Me that I was already seeing mysef as madam of the house.

He has a beautiful house in Magodo and the cook and gateman could not even tell me that my egungun was entering express even when I was nice to them.

extremelygolden:
How are you sure I am from Igbo?

In-law mi, let's not derail this post further.
Be good and check your mailbox.

luminouz:
On it!!!

martyns303:
Belema, are you aware that a reverse image search of your NL profile picture directs to a runs site known as codedruns?

tot:
Permanent night call, like how?! Hilarious. That statement is the first red flag.

Hopefully one day, people will realise that “If you tell the truth you don't have to remember anything - Mark Twain” meaning if you tell a lie you have to remember what lie you told and to who.

OBelz:
Hmmm 2years back, when I went to look for a job oo so he called me and said he will pick me cos he like me and want to have a relationship with me, I now ask him what type of relationship do u really want to have with me ,marry me or side chick cos it obvious that his married, the man said , I'm not marry ooo, am single, if you have a good character that will be determined if I will marry you and be the lucky one I said okay but let have a deal
I said any day I know you have wife and children I will kill them all. Omo see the man ooo he started calling me names ashawooo am not doing again, so you are a devil , so you can kill am not doing again, he even said he will go and report me in police station hahahahahhaha

This story torched me ...













During my undergraduate days Yeah and my God he was handsome, dark , fresh , Rich and Romantic asf... I mean he was 48 and doesn't look a day like it. ( I only found out after we broke up)

He was always sending his driver's to bring me lunch and snacks at work during break time. My folks Adores him. We even created an Instagram page for ourselves to document our daily lives and memorable events. And he was a big spender, he Pampered me lot. I miss that life�.

Sha how did I find out, he told me to block someone on face book and Instagram without giving me a reason. Oh well, I had actually blocked the person but then out of curiosity I decided to check her out only to find out she was his wife , she is a Medical Doctor based in Canada and with three kids . I was so heart broken. Me that I was already seeing mysef as madam of the house.

He has a beautiful house in Magodo and the cook and gateman could not even tell me that my egungun was entering express even when I was nice to them.

khatea:
I taya oooo. He probably tot that would fool me cos I never told him my mom is a nurse for him to know dt no call duty story would be new to me. He's jes a mumu sumbodi jare

Leezah:
Honestly ladies have seen hell, this is what girls must pass through before ending up been Mrs ?? But its well.

You will never notice they're married because there's nothing suspicious even in their home.

First one.... The wife was far from him where she's working, and his home looks so much like bachelor's home and I find out through my friend who saw his pictures on my phone one day. I confronted him,he denied it till date.

Second one, The man even promised to marry me not knowing he's already engaged. I found out through his ex gf whom I suspected he was cheating on me with on Facebook. The good aunty revealed everything to me. The funny part is he never posted his so called wife on social media, nor have her pics on phone. He's also single on social media. The ex told me he married the lady because of her money and only go to visit her once in a while because he's still living in his bachelor's house.

Third one, His brother he introduced to me one day started developing feelings for me ooo. Even went to the extent of revealing his brother's secret of being married to one village girl with a kid so I should leave his brother and come to him. I confronted his brother and he didn't even deny it just and also told me that he wish he meet me before the girl and that he's ready to leave her for me. Mehnnnnn I gave up on men since those experience. It really hurts

All of this three are still looking fresh and young. U will never suspect them being engaged let alone married. May God help we ladies oooo

Bola146:
Yes especially on this nairaland, I met a guy, he lied that he is a single father of one, until i found out that he has 4 daughters

Legitdimple:
Yes. Dude said he was divorced,oya what happened? "Sorry I don't want to talk about it my mood will spoil"
I insisted he still refused to talk about it,I sha carry one eye dey look am.

Since he wanted something serious,oya let me know your house oga said no his mother stays with him.

I followed my instincts and didnt take him serious just few dates in an open bar.
Until boom! I heard he lost his wife to cancer and she's been leaving with him all that time,I felt for the poor woman even though she's resting now.

I felt bad because he lied about having just a daughter even though he has 3kids,the last being 2yrs. Seriously who lies to that extent?
I dey my own jeje when he came to ask me out and I can't remember telling him I was desperate for marriage.

Incel:
Hahahaha
From the comments so far, most ladies found out through social media.
Me I'm deactivating my Facebook immediately after wedding.

PrimadonnaO:
A very simple word of advice to young girls.

If you’re not at a marriageable age, forget about dating way older guys. Most of them are only looking to catch fun, and already have a serious relationship going on somewhere.

Generally, avoid guys who are too old to be single. They are either married... or deeply involved in a relationship. If they are absolutely single, chances that something’s inherently wrong with them. Let them just remain single forever.

But of course, with every rule, there’s an exception. Just be very discerning.

pocohantas:
A married man that has been hitting on me just named his newborn child after me.

I guess he wants me to know how much he “loves” me, but I am very concerned and worried about the number of women calling their daughters the name of their husband’s sidechick.

May God help us in this marriage something.

They keep taking this thing to the next level.

OBelz:
Yes Detective Martin's,
4yrs with a first class in Biochemistry no job for 6 yrs, mother died of cancer my fiancee scammed of �. Thank you I am in the Escort Business and am not ashamed of it.

FYI I also on www.exoticnigeria.com