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MISSCONGENIALITY:
The first thing I will ask is if he is in any kind of romantic or sexual relationship with another person let me know from the beginning that I'm a plan B. Though I can never intentionally accept to be anyone's plan B. If I can't be a plan A, then Let me enjoy my singlehood. Before one red eye woman will disfigure my beautiful face. I'm AA and I don't need to ask about genotype again.

Let marry by December

dingbang:
i swear. Op is just daft.

Watch your tongue!!!

One must not check except you want to marry.

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Youngaboy:
Please o,
I haven't checked my genotype before cos I don't even know the cost price and where exactly to go check.
Can someone please brief me .

Go to any good working lab or hospital around you to check it. It shouldn't be more than 3k depending on the area and if its a private hospital.

Klass99:
@ Topic/Original Poster,

The first thing I ask is are you married?

Genotype issues will only come up for me, when we both feel a connection and want an exclusive, committed relationship.

No be every man wey approach me or show interest, I go date or marry nah. Some relationships thrive better as friendships and not romantic ones.

I feel the need for sincere and authentic friendships more than romantic involvements.

Can't AS people marry without having children? They can adopt and damn whatever their family and friends, would think or say.

The kain mind wey I get for matters like these, is not the typical average mind I often see displayed on NL and IRL.

Abi. Marriage is not all about having children. I have seen AA married couples without children.

bluefilm:
So daft.

But for her mind, she think say she dey make plenty sense.

Kids spotted. Keep wallowing in your ignorance.

Enjoy.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
We know your location now, we will visit you soon.


After strictly telling you to avoid social gatherings, you're calling for one.

But you've been going to market, abi?

Are there more than 20 persons in her house fellowship?

Heathrow44:
Op, go and think of other things to do and stop being a leech with "Babe wats ur genotype" !!! Don't u av siblings and parents to take care of, is this ur sole problem in life to know peoples genotype so u can take dem 4 "keeps".. A very useless topic!! Keep getting useless comments that would reach 100 and it would help ur life

Buahahahahaaaa... Why are you sounding so pained dear? I know you and your lots don't like my guts but you should be diplomatic enough with your approach in dealing me a blow rather than taking it so personal like I collected your palliative .

Just simply use the exit button to save you all these hate speech. It not healthy for you and your likes.

#stopthehate.

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Klass99:
Lol , I follow you to jump and pass, too.

It's the first question I ask because I don't want anyone wasting my time or trying to fool me.

Some of these men think, if you're single you'll be down for whatever.....

True. Most of them think because you are single you should accept anything that come your way. Even a he goat that can't take care of his wife and kids.

jericco1:
They don't know. And I for one don't joke with it because it may lead to unmitigated disaster when the wrong genotype procreates.

It's not something to play with. When your love is blind and you settle down with the wrong genotype, the birth of a sickly kid will open your eyes and yummy will see the wickedness and the pain You've caused an innocent child

Olawrites:
Let marry by December

You want to marry by December and you are telling me now. How will I be able to save money and sew asebi?
Anyways, you didn't tell which of the December. May be 2030december

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MISSCONGENIALITY:
You want to marry by December and you are telling me now. How will I be able to save money and sew asebi?
Anyways, you didn't tell which of the December. May be 2030december

Nice post @OP....well done.

the first thing to ask him should be acceptance fee!

SavageMaster:
But you've been going to market, abi?

Are there more than 20 persons in her house fellowship?

Mr. Savage, bold of you to assume I have been going to the market.

thariodamaniac:
If you no won marry the guy or date am for long.... No need to ask na.... AS may not be prone to malaria but doesn't make you guys healthier.... As for the one wey dey advertise house fellowship

AA is pruned to Malaria and not AS please

Openbusiness:
My point is marrying AS gives you a 50% chance of giving birth to AS children who themselves will now have this problem this topic covers. Marrying AS means you are creating an opportunity for nature to diminish the genetic quality of your bloodline.

Just exactly what I knew you were going to say. Yes, the chances are 50 - 50 for both AA and AS. And don't get me wrong, I understand your point about the children eventually having to go through same, but who would the AS peeps rather marry? The point is, AA can still marry an AS, as that surely reduces the higher risk in an AS marrying an AS, or AS vs SS.

Therefore, AA should marry AA only. I can never marry AS. I will never allow my sons to marry AS. If you're AS, gedifok off straight. I will not weaken or allow my genetic bloodline to become tainted with bad genes.

Your sons will never marry AS, but your daughters can? (if you chose to have any) Oh I remember you made mention of bloodline so that only applies to the sons, right? Interesting!

Joycekkh:
Genotype is not the first thing I ask a guy cause I am an AA genotype, the first thing I ask a guy is his state of origin, then we can talk.

Really ? I presume you have some specific States you can't date a guy from right ?

Nehyooh:
Really ? I presume you have some specific States you can't date a guy from right ?

Yes

Eulalia:
My dear, no need to be harsh with words especially as you are trying to represent and present a Godly course .

The gentle man simply sighted a reasonable concern here and its not in any ways "trashy ". So let's observe some decorum here.

A very enlightening thread. Thank you so much. Please what is your advice to those who are told as a way of conviction that with Faith in Jesus Christ ones's AS genotype can change to AA.

Joycekkh:
Yes

Woow; that's cool !

Eulalia:
Please this an advice to all AS genotype peeps. Especially the girls.

Whenever a guy shows interest in you and wants to strike a relationship, please the first thing you should enquire is his genotype. YES! It won't make you come across as desperate but will save you a lot of brouhaha in the future in case you decide to take things to the next level. Ask ask ask. Phew!

Some might say its not necessary or its too early to do so but I tell you its not. because you do not know the day the love will crawl up on you and then you want to have this fellow for keeps only to discover very late and then to let go becomes an issue and then you have to contend with a force driving you into obvious danger. Our emotions cannot be controlled as you don't know how and when it will metamorphose into the next level hence the need to pop the question before our emotions betray us.

My advise to every AS carriers. Do not lose hope.
Don't throw caution to the wind cos it might back fire and you would wish you never did.
Don't see your genotype as a barrier or limitation. In fact, we are healthier than AA carriers according to studies as we hardly suffer malaria. I might not be able to explain the science behind that now but its true. Do your research. So no cause for alarm as with the compatible genotype, we can have healthy babies and be free from stories that touch.

This is just my two cents.

Shalom.

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Klass99:
Lol, I am a believer and preaching Christ to people within a short time of meeting or knowing them, can be a huge turn off. It's always best to let the Holy Spirit guide/lead.

You gradually ease into it, while letting your actions speak louder than words, before you do the actual preaching verbally.

The best preaching is to ensure that our actions are always, encouraging and edifying, it is not by talking o! My opinion.

Sense will not kill you

darediamond:
"Your Man Only Owe You Courtesy And Not Maintenance" Reno Omokri Throws Bombshell To Girlfriend

https://www..com/talk/topic,464850.0.html

Did you read the content of this post? I'm not sure judging by your response.

Please do read.

VickyRotex:
Your sons will never marry AS, but your daughters can? (if you chose to have any) Oh I remember you made mention of bloodline so that only applies to the sons, right? Interesting!

Yes, my sons because my children are boys. I have never had a female child, and I never will. Only Y chromosomes dey my body. I ain't gat no X chromosomes to give any baga. My offspring can only be XY. I don't want any daughter abeg, not in a trillion years

PRETTYPRINCES:
A very enlightening thread. Thank you so much. Please what is your advice to those who are told as a way of conviction that with Faith in Jesus Christ ones's AS genotype can change to AA.

You're welcome.

Hmm... To your question...my dear, there are levels of faith which every one operates. If your faith can carry it, go on the quest ( for a Change of genotype) .

I have so many AS female friends, they can fine sha; My female doctor friend comes to mind. We AA have nothing to fear then, oluwamae.......

Antichristus:
The first intelligent post of the year.

**blushing* thank you.

Openbusiness:
Yes, my sons because my children are boys. I have never had a female child, and I never will. Only Y chromosomes dey my body. I ain't gat no X chromosomes to give any baga. My offspring can only be XY. I don't want any daughter abeg, not in a trillion years

Alright. I respect your decision and opinion.