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Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by OdefaGirl(f): 12:17pm On Jun 13, 2020
Davash222:
That one already dey body.. The love is there.. Na follow come.
You've not found a stranger (not a family member) to show such love to?......if you really find one, it's really an experience that makes you believe in love without doubts cool
Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by Davash222(m): 12:21pm On Jun 13, 2020
OdefaGirl:
You've not found a stranger (not a family member) to show such love to?......if you really find one, it's really an experience that makes you believe in love without doubts cool
Most successful marriage or relationship ain't all about Love. It takes more than love. Love is just a word used overtly by humans to deceive themselves.
Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by Ebowo(f): 1:40pm On Jun 13, 2020
post=90603616:
Fightung is part of the love na.. lol..

Anyway I have kids educational tablets at very affordable price .. let the kids learn as they play
how much pls?
Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by loadedvibes: 1:54pm On Jun 13, 2020
Where is your location ? The delivery cost impacts on the cost
Ebowo:
how much pls?
Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by SavageMaster: 2:23pm On Jun 13, 2020
ayomilore:
The only way to keep marriage as peaceful as possible is for couple to always pray together and respect each other.

The fight among couples in not ordinary. little things that could be overlook are most times the cause of the fights. it's only God that can make our homes peaceful.
You nailed it. Thanks
Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by Clinghton: 2:44pm On Jun 13, 2020
You get result when you do the opposite.
Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by OdefaGirl(f): 4:11pm On Jun 13, 2020
Davash222:
Most successful marriage or relationship ain't all about Love. It takes more than love. Love is just a word used overtly by humans to deceive themselves.
Love makes every other spices of marriage fall in place....if there's no love, submission will be difficult..... every other thing will be based on pretence... which makes couple hate each other and fights... some end up divorcing for their sanity sake.
Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by CurvyDestiny7: 5:15pm On Jun 13, 2020
Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by besttbabe1(f): 6:07pm On Jun 13, 2020
No love no submission





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Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by apatheticme(f): 6:21pm On Jun 13, 2020
extol1:
the truth is many people lack the understanding of how to handle things which is called maturity. no matter how you love your husband or wife, a time will come where you will dislike your spouse for no reason or irritate you. the ability to handle to it is what many people lack
You have spoken well!
Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by angelEmade: 6:31pm On Jun 13, 2020
ProfDview1:
Yes fight but physically hitting her is too much




Onyi22 millenniumlady angelEmade paxie55 Dande55

He said it's normal couples fight physical fight.....
The test have begun! You have to tell me ten things about me.
My real names (angel imade is a pet name)
my age
the schools I attended
my surname
My hobbies
Closest family member to me
My stand on sex
my virginity status
my choice between cuddling and kissing
my biggest fear!

Very hard oh yeah? I think so. Please don't beg me to cancel the test...m a classic girl.
You have three days sire.
@ ProfDview1
Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by Nobody: 7:07pm On Jun 13, 2020
angelEmade:
The test have begun! You have to tell me ten things about me.
My real names (angel imade is a pet name)
my age
the schools I attended
my surname
My hobbies
Closest family member to me
My stand on sex
my virginity status
my choice between cuddling and kissing
my biggest fear!

Very hard oh yeah? I think so. Please don't beg me to cancel the test...m a classic girl.
You have three days sire.
@ ProfDview1
Noted... Gimme few minutes.. I dey road
Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by zexy2030(m): 7:13pm On Jun 13, 2020
angelEmade:
The test have begun! You have to tell me ten things about me.
My real names (angel imade is a pet name)
my age
the schools I attended
my surname
My hobbies
Closest family member to me
My stand on sex
my virginity status

my choice between cuddling and kissing
my biggest fear!

Very hard oh yeah? I think so. Please don't beg me to cancel the test...m a classic girl.
You have three days sire.
Let me give it try from observation, can I get a date for this try?
name & Surname: Imade Nosakhare
2. Age: 22
3. schools attended: Caleb international school(primary &secondary) University: Covenant university.
4.Hobbies: Gaming, Programming and music ( keyboard playing)
5. Your father
6. Bi sexual
7. virgin but weird( no male penetration until lately)
8. Kissing
9. Failing Marriage
DM if I'm 50% correct. I love you.
Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by Blessing705(f): 8:30pm On Jun 13, 2020
True .my dad have never beaten my mom since 36 years of marriage.I ask my mom how was that possible she told me "tame your tongue" .don't talk back to him when he is angry.
Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by zedman1(m): 8:40pm On Jun 13, 2020
angelEmade:
I have done this several times...that's why i have a big circle of friends. There is a young man who calls me his second wiffey and his wife calls me my wife. In the first year of their marriage they had issues and the man was of the point that he was no longer interested. She told me about everything on phone and i opt to speak to the man. Good thing he opened up and i was able to advice the wife on her shortcomings. The simple thing causing issues between them is that the man was in the seminary preparing to get ordained as a pastor. the wife however loves to make exploits in bed. The husband feels things like mouth action or crazy styles aren't Godly. I told him doing such things and keeping his marriage is much godlier than sending a married woman packing...everyone have their own secrets and when God created sex he didnt mandate any style. Furthermore he sees all those things before he married her so why should he back off now?
Both parties are my good friend till this moment.

If only you see the way they display their love and affection now, you will be amused! the man is about 29yrs now while the lady is 25
These ones aren't the fighting type I was referring to. Your friends are ajebos. I mean the ones who fight physically as described by the OP, the kpako fighters.
Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by angelEmade: 9:59pm On Jun 13, 2020
zexy2030:
Let me give it try from observation, can I get a date for this try?
name & Surname: Imade Nosakhare
2. Age: 22
3. schools attended: Caleb international school(primary &secondary) University: Covenant university.
4.Hobbies: Gaming, Programming and music ( keyboard playing)
5. Your father
6. Bi sexual
7. virgin but weird( no male penetration until lately)
8. Kissing
9. Failing Marriage
DM if I'm 50% correct. I love you.
noo penetration at all and that is not my surname sir
Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by Lolliemma(f): 12:55pm On Jun 14, 2020
A person that lays his hands on you to beat you, doesn't love you, love is about wanting your spouse or partner to be happy all the time. There's a difference between OBSESSION, INFATUATION, LUST AND LOVE....

Moreso, it's only because such person accepts to be beaten that's all.

Say no to physical abuse!!! Or abuse of any form.

To me, the day a man tries to beat me, is the day we say Goodbye Forever!!!��
Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by bigcasava1(m): 7:55am On Jun 15, 2020
ProfDview1:
Olodo, na near my room n their fight is always in the late night like 10,11... Who no go hear when everywhere is silent
mumu so u no deh separate fight. Don't worry ur turn is near!
Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by PhilipEboh: 1:53pm On Sep 10, 2025
Am surprised no one mentioned "financial lack"?
Nothing brings quarrel, argument and fight between couples more than lack of money to go to market or pay children's school fees or rent. Money issues causes 90% of fight between husband and wife.
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