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Dobson43:
Wow. So much passion here. Your points are valid

rockstarB:
A married man that comes to a YOUNG girl with the intent of lying to her is different from a married man that comes to a YOUNG girl with the intention of marriage, already making it clear he is married and looking for a new wife. It is up to the YOUNG girl to accept the proposal or not.
It's two different scenarios please dont mix them up.
And ladies going after married men deliberately is off topic. You can create your own thread and talk about that.
This thread is for ladies to share their experiences with married men that pretended so well to be single.

OBelz:
Thank you for kind words. You have the impression with what other people think about Escort Business are lowlife and amount to nothing.

I am very careful of HIV/STD's. Just so you know. I have my own place built by me.

Zoie:
I am a very passionate person.

Zoie:
Fvck him.
That's how one guy kept disturbing me from 100l to 400l that he likes me, want to marry me. Found out in 300l that he's married with a child.

If you want a babe, you'll get a babe, married or no. Why lie? Some ladies don't even care. But these fvckers go for decent ladies, probably virgins, lie that he's still single because he knows she'll not date a married man.
Scum of the earth, I tell ya.

luminouz:
Lol...Oya come here,make I show u true love. I no dey lie ok?

Zoie:
Shift

humilitypays:
There's nothing bad in a married man having a mistress, that is why there are English names for it:

Mistress
Concubine


Every rich and successful man deserves hot looking mistresses, it's not a crime, all great men in the world even in the Bible had mistresses. No one woman can satisfy the sexual desires of a rich man till death do them part.


My advice to married men is, before you start having mistresses, please make sure you are doing well financially and you are taking very good care of your wife and kids.

Also don't hide your marital status, many ladies don't mind so long as you are also helping them grow in their life and not being clingy and stopping her from finding her own future husband.


Ladies listen, there is no crime in being a mistress to a good and caring married man you like, don't demonise it, this thing is as old as human, it didn't start today and won't end tomorrow.

No single guy can give you the kind of favor and help that will help you grow and attain your dream point in life like married men. How many single men are Governors, President, Senators, Ministers, MDs and CEOs, or own big businesses and companies that can employ Ladies use your brain, don't mind all these boys condemning ladies for dating married men, if they see opportunity to date Aisha Buhari, Regina Daniels, Omotola, etc they will jump at it, they marry old white grannies too for papers, I repeat, ladies use your brain, this life if you follow what people say you may end up wretched for life


How many single guys can give you a good job, or fly you abroad or buy you a car or a house or sponsor your education or help your family financially whenever you call I can tell you none because most single guys are struggling, the ones that are doing well financially are playboys with more than 30 sexier girlfriends, so what's the difference


My sisters if you follow life with wisdom, you will never lose. Don't follow the crowd to condemn being a mistress to a caring, good married man, live your own life, don't let the rules others set define your life, peace

oyetpel:
Why do we always gets emotional?
All the advices the guy wrote is reality, but does that mean he wants the same for his daughters?
If a lady is not well to do, and a married man is ready to finance her and get out of lack, what's wrong there?


Most of our great grandmothers are first wife, 2nd wife, 3rd wife e.t.c.

Some women are big today because they were financed by rich married men, some of them might not want their daughters to do the same, and their daughters can even choose because they don't lack money to go through what their mother did.


Everyone is trying to secure their future man.

boyjo:
No need to argue. Both of una daughters go see una advice for this thread, take am.

ImaIma1:
I met him close to my office. He pretended to be single and his friends even joined the pretense. I noticed how protective he was of his phone. But men, this guy had my time. He could call and call, take me out, treating me like I was his whole family.

Long story short, I was suspicious so I went to his friend's list on fb and sent a friend request to a female friend of his. She told me he was married with children. When I confronted him, the idiot knelt down to propose. I just thought he was a sick person.

thatsleepboy1:
You always have a lie or two to tell on every thread here. Na wa o. Ndi uwa dikwa egwu. Eziokwu ga pita nihe otu ubochi

OBelz:
Nna ke di if e o

Bossjakande:
if I tell u am not angry wit u am a lier. u Neva saw me in d rooms and Neva ask of me.not fair. how is baby

ZINIBANKS:
You too see wetin you carry for back
If am married and I see you that very moment am not married again

akdjr:
You're a genius! You're smart!! But don't carry such smartness to ur marital home sha. Once you're married just don't go into ur husband phone trying to check who and who he had convo with cos ur kind of smartness will push u to do that once u start suspecting ur husband. I know u may say "I reject cheating men" but my sister 99% of married men cheat and still love their wife deeply. u will remember this my piece of advice later in life. I wish u all the best in life and ur marriege shall be fruitful by the infinite blessing of the Almighty God. [quote author=QuinModah post=90469480]It was back then in 2013 while I was still in school. I asked this guy if he was married, he said no but my spirit kept telling me he's married.

So one day, I used my lodge mate's phone number to put a call across to him telling him am mama Ada that I want to speak with his wife that her line isn't reachable and I really need to repay the loan she gave me before I squander the money, on hearing that he started screaming ''Mummy mummy bia onwere Onye na akpo gi'' (mummy mummy come someone is calling u). I quietly switched off the phone . I later asked him if it was worth denying your wife and kids because you want what you may never get, and he couldn't answer.

Mexyz:
.... This is a master plan, I'm sure some married men reading this won't be happy with you for revealing a good tactic like this to other ladies here

angelfallz:
Ladies like you are rare

golddare:
I will recommend this to every lady who is not sure of the status of his man. You can even record it sef. Good job my sister.

LegendaryLover:
he didn't recognise ur voice?
smart anyway.

Chicastle:
There are different type of Chelsea matches may be she would have explained.

Thank God for her though

Meanwhile , you look good though

Saintmary:
Thank you for sharing

QuinModah:
There is an app for it.

akdjr:
Let diplomacy be your guide when handling such issues and if possible focus on building ur home and ignore every other lightweight outside interference in ur marriage. quote author=QuinModah post=90722902]

PrimadonnaO:
You’re buttressing my point!

If a grown ass man is scared of obligations, then there’s a problem.

If he can’t be committed and wants all the time to be spiritually, emotionally, etc ready, he should do that in his single state... not propositioning a young girl for a relationship when he has inherent problems he needs to sort out first.

ImaIma1:
Lol...sorry.
I have been off and on.
Hope you good.

Luckygurl:
Yeah!
We met in February at my former ppa. We got talking and he said he likes me and would want us to date. I visited him once. I just found it hard to believe that a handsome comfortable guy like him was single, asked him a couple of times and he insisted he was single.

Just as I was about saying a yes to him, the FBI part of me decided to ask questions and dig deep. My informant told me he was married with two kids abroad. I confronted him and he says he got married to a white for papers during his school days and he has a daughter from the union.

I halted everything at once. Not cos he was once married or had a child but because he kept away that info from me and even when I had to ask he didn't see it as a big deal.

[/b]So now! I'm back to the drawing board

Atlanticfire:
Do you really blame the men?

With what you are packing in that your profile picture even some men with 4 wives may claim that they are single just to get you.

Hanty just get married so that married men will have less temptation