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Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Hathor5(f): 2:02pm On Jun 14, 2020
Mariangeles:
...with deliciously hilarious comments grin tongue
I love it. grin
I have seen some comments you shared and I like how this thread captures that nothing is set in stone in life. Sometimes we limit ourselves way too much by following unnecessary conventions.
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by boyjo:
NockMedia:
Age ain't nothing but a number, but when you grow old as a man, you will understand the advantage of marrying a younger woman.
When you become weak and frail and your wife is also weak and frail because she is older than you...how do you cope if you don't have money to hire a nanny or your kids are gone?
And when he marries a young wife, while her hormones are red hot, his are probably cold dead. How she wan take cope?
You need to think both ways and not just be selfish in your thinking
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Mariangeles(f): 2:38pm On Jun 14, 2020
PattyMike:
My fiancee senior me 2 years, cus she was always saying she can't date a guy younger than her so I told her I was a year older than her. Well, 3 years later nah my mama gan gan cast me. "He said he's how old? He's not 30 anything o, he's 27". Well Glory be to God she didn't even think of that but just smiled and today we are getting ready. Age is actually just a number, it's whoever you're with that matters. Btw my babe can easily pass as 21, tankolo somebody like this cheesy grin cheesy
Your mum is so cool grin grin grin
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Mariangeles(f): 2:40pm On Jun 14, 2020
Hathor5:
I have seen some comments you shared and I like how this thread captures that nothing is set in stone in life. Sometimes we limit ourselves way too much by following unnecessary conventions.
...that we ourselves create.
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Nobody: 2:41pm On Jun 14, 2020
They day I found out that age is nothing but number in marriage was d day my friend told me his Mummy is 10 yrs older than his father
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Hathor5(f): 2:54pm On Jun 14, 2020
Mariangeles:
...that we ourselves create.
smiley wink
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Nobody: 2:58pm On Jun 14, 2020
boyjo:
And when he married a young wife, while her hormones are red hot, his are probably cold dead. How she wan take cope?
You need to think both ways and not just be selfish in your thinking
Seen.
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by cooooooks(m): 3:03pm On Jun 14, 2020
No, it is not.
angry

nickvanilla:
True. But it's more painful for the man if the lady is older.
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by ussy09(m): 3:09pm On Jun 14, 2020
Age is just a number
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by LINTUNE(m): 3:14pm On Jun 14, 2020
Petyprincess:
Wow!! The truth is most ladies like being younger to their partner which I'm inclusive.
I can't date a guy I'm 1 day older than him so i do understand how she feels.

As long as the guy will respect her there shouldn't be a problem bt I'm doubting because most Nigerian horseband always want to feel superior nd authoritative.
spell husband properly, i hope u aren't trying to be sacrcastic
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Jun 14, 2020
Mariangeles:
To me Justin Timberlake was/is just way too playful to be cute cheesy

As for Megan and Harry, she mummys him too much. Even during interview breaks...I think that is why he loves her so much (she filled up that void of a mother he lost at a very young age) and I think she enjoys caring for him that way. Some women are like that sha
Lol @ Justin
I liked them, they were deliciously goofy together, I didn’t see any mothering which for some reason, doesn’t do me at all.
@ bolded, I am sure you are right, even though I cannot relate. Mu na onwem cholu onye ga e mem nwa sef! shocked
I just prefer older sha (translation of my Igbo, kinda)
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by paulolee(m): 3:27pm On Jun 14, 2020
LordOfTheGame:
Sugar mummy things.... nd hitting a married woman?
i swaer....its nt shugar mumy, it wasnt intentional....was dating her and she lied dt shes single...letter found out dt i was played n just her sex doll and i ran for my life
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Nobody: 3:45pm On Jun 14, 2020
brightdestiny96:
Even from my father's generation (my dad was born in 1939), some of their contemporaries were younger than their wives. I am younger than my wife. You ladies swearing you will never, never, don't die single o...
cheesy
What if they would rather live and die single than marry someone younger? Thought about that?
You should. It’s not like people can help their preferences in the other (or same) sex?
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by networkrecharg: 3:48pm On Jun 14, 2020
NockMedia:
Age ain't nothing but a number, but when you grow old as a man, you will understand the advantage of marrying a younger woman.
When you become weak and frail and your wife is also weak and frail because she is older than you...how do you cope if you don't have money to hire a nanny or your kids are gone?
U are correct ... Man need to senior his woman.
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by LordOfTheGame: 4:00pm On Jun 14, 2020
paulolee:
i swaer....its nt shugar mumy, it wasnt intentional....was dating her and she lied dt shes single...letter found out dt i was played n just her sex doll and i ran for my life
If true then, good for you. What you don't know cannot kill you.
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Lonelyloner: 4:16pm On Jun 14, 2020
Trayceey:
A friend of mine just opened up to me about her relationship. She said when she met her man, she assumed she was younger than him because he looked so big and more mature than her and he also acts mature than her.

One day, they were discussing their age and she found out she was older, so she had to lie about her age. The relationship went on and the love grew stronger, then a day came, she asked him if he can marry a lady older than him, he said 'never' she asked what if it's just one year? He still said ' never'. Then she asked him that what if he later found out that his girlfriend is older, what would he do? He said he would end the relationship.

She said she couldn't bear it any longer and so she opened up to him about her age. That she's a year older than him. She wants him to know before it's too late. After opening up to him, she was expecting him to end the relationship but he didn't. He's still coming for her, he still loves her and wants to marry her. But she's withdrawing from the relationship because of what the guy said earlier.

Please advise her. I will show her your comments
Please tell her run for her life. What he said, he said what his head and not his nethers.

When love reduces, he will remember she's older than him.

The love is still blinding him now.
Note, I'm a guy.
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Mariangeles(f): 4:35pm On Jun 14, 2020
Crochet:
Hmmm well If you marry a lady older than you, you won't feel the impact now by the time she get to 85 and 99 that is when you would know if you have made the right decision or not. Love is not blind but your emotions and moreso your feelings that ain't thinking straight at the time due to her beauty, character and those things you can never resist from a woman
At that age, would it matter? They'd even be fortunate to still have each at that point
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Mariangeles(f): 4:37pm On Jun 14, 2020
paulolee:
i swaer....its nt shugar mumy, it wasnt intentional....was dating her and she lied dt shes single...letter found out dt i was played n just her sex doll and i ran for my life
Did she not look married?
Did she have kids then?
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Everrest9(m): 4:43pm On Jun 14, 2020
That lady should be careful because that guy might have another intention of dumping her after using her to surf time.
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by paulolee(m): 4:46pm On Jun 14, 2020
Mariangeles:
Did she not look married?
Did she have kids then?
yup she was married wit kids bt she lied n hid dm from me till i leta found out n ran
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by omotolsy(m): 4:48pm On Jun 14, 2020
You think age is just a number?

You think Love is all that matters?

When you get into the real action called Marriage then you will realise Age is not just a number.

Get it right before you step into Marriage.

You need to talk about your relationship(courtship)?

You need someone who will understand and guide with God's wisdom?

We can chat: 07030771728.
*strictly matured minds(those eligible for marriage)*
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Mariangeles(f): 4:56pm On Jun 14, 2020
paulolee:
yup she was married wit kids bt she lied n hid dm from me till i leta found out n ran
That was very bad of her. angry
She used you.
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Munzy14(m): 4:58pm On Jun 14, 2020
Kiddo01:
[quote author=Munzy14 post=90645421]If it is me, I will withdraw gradually... I don't like when people aren't open from the onset in a relationship... It is a clear case of insecurity on her.


Be open to me, as I will be open to u chikina... Starting with lies puts a knife slowly on the trust.

And for me, I can't even marry a lady am 2yrs older than not to talk of age mate.

8-9yrs gap is Ideal for me.

What ever your heart desires do it, but as for me, I CAN NOT AND WILL NEVER MARRY ANY LADY OR WOMAN OLDER THAN ME
she should look for her mate and marry[color=#006600][/color]
Your bolded got me cracking up... grin


sounds like a riot act.


Ones I almost dated a lady 4yrs older... She was so obsessed abt me, but the age thing made me cold towards her... las las I dated her younger sis for 2yrs before we call it a quit because I moved out for studies etc...

Taste changes with age.
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Zinpat: 5:03pm On Jun 14, 2020
Since d guy doesn't mind, she can go ahead. I know a lady dat senior her husband with 5yrs.
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Hathor5(f): 5:27pm On Jun 14, 2020
ahaika23:
When I went for door knocking, my Girl’s dad asked my age and when I told him, he said that his daughter is older than me. Man walked me out of his house. Never been that embarrassed my entire life.

We still got married and yea she’s older than I am but she’s just an angel! Seven years on, were still glowing together! Age shouldn’t hinder true love.
grin
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Mypeople2(m): 5:38pm On Jun 14, 2020
dingbang:
I am tired abeg
You join them too ? I also said the same thing before I met my babe .Now, to breakup the relationship hard like concrete blocks
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Mypeople2(m): 5:44pm On Jun 14, 2020
Mariangeles:
At that age, would it matter? They'd even be fortunate to still have each at that point
Forget that guy, how many persons live up to 70 years,not to talk of 85 - 90 years ? We all like younger ladies but if you find love in a older lady what will you do ? To break up when there is love between both of you is not easy at all .It is easier said than done
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Mypeople2(m): 5:46pm On Jun 14, 2020
Manpoly:
They day I found out that age is nothing but number in marriage was d day my friend told me his Mummy is 10 yrs older than his father
Aru takpataka! Wow! What you said now shocked me to my bones
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by paulolee(m): 5:49pm On Jun 14, 2020
Mariangeles:
That was very bad of her. angry
She used you.
yup she did...later found out, took some moni from her, and ran away with the huge sum..
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Sivou1(m): 5:56pm On Jun 14, 2020
There is nothing bad in the age difference if the guy is ok with it. I fell in love with my wife without knowing her true age, though something inside me told me she is older than the age claimed as a friend, the day I asked her out she came out with her real age, which makes her 4 years older than me. We got married years ago and blessed with kids and still enjoying our marriage till date. My conclusion is, age is a thing of the heart, it doesn't determine wealth, maturity, wisdom, knowledge not even death. It is just a number. Both of you should iron it out and clear your doubt about his statement.
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by dingbang(m): 6:10pm On Jun 14, 2020
Mypeople2:
You join them too ? I also said the same thing before I met my babe .Now, to breakup the relationship hard like concrete blocks
my brother, the matter just tire everybody grin but one thing i am certain about your rship is that the break up will eventually happen someday so dont stress yourself because she will finally read the handwriting on the wall and emancipate herself.
Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by Nobody: 6:59pm On Jun 14, 2020
kalufelix:
Audio friend... You will show her our comments indeed... Since he has unknowingly confessed his deepest thoughts its unwise to force yourself on him even though he might try to act otherwise.. Same way you dont disregard what a man says when he is angry ...Even after the anger..
why are you angry and why do you think she is forcing her self on him.
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