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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Nobody: 5:15pm On Jun 14, 2020
She lost her mood,same way she lost her virginity. You know women lose their virginity every now and then.


Davash222:
But what if the woman is not in the mood for sex or tired and the husband forces himself on her by taking it by force, is it not marital rape?



Yes it's rape, we know, but going to report to police or other agencies is what I don't understand.

Imagine the scenario you walk into any Nigeria police station and you start telling the officer in charge, I was not in the mood, was weak and tired yet my husband had sex with me. The officer will first ask you, what happened to your mood?
Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Openbusiness: 5:15pm On Jun 14, 2020
This indomie generation are funny oh. See them condemning her for speaking a cogent fact. So you expect husband to be seeking permission or asking for consent every time he wants to have sex? It's like this generation don't know the real meaning of marriage. No wonder their marriage keep crashing all the time like naira currency

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Nobody: 5:16pm On Jun 14, 2020
On a more serious note, there is actually something like marital rape. Marriage isn't consent. For fvcks sake, you men should stop looking at you wives as one material bought at a sex fair (judging from the bride prices of some women, I am forced to be sympathetic) Imagine your sister being terminally ill and some crazed motherfather forcefully goes down on her just because she is his property? Damn!!!

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jun 14, 2020
Discussing with her husband or her house boy?

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Sterope(f): 5:18pm On Jun 14, 2020
In Nigeria, you cant.

In saner climes, you can!

FYI, men use rape to punish their wives. If a woman you claim to love and respect says no, you don't go ahead to have sex with her knowing how painful the experience would be for her.

It is no different from saying no to other men and even a bf. Marriage doesn't mean a woman cannot say no. When you stop treating your women as properties and second class citizens, you would realise that she can bloody well say no when she doesn't want sex!


hammer3:



Legally u cant be raped by your husband.


If your husband can rape you, y are u married?


Wat any reasonable court of law should uphold is acts of physical or domestic violence, that falls under assault, battery, abh and gbh.


If u come before a court and say your husband hit you and then had sex with you forcefully, then we can bill him for the above.


U cannot tell a court, your husband did not take permission before romancing u and that is rape.


I will throw the case out, it is all about how u present it.

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Heavensent01(m): 5:18pm On Jun 14, 2020
once I have paid the bride price and do the marital rites, I have the right to sex you. call it marital rape or conjugal sex



it's rape when haven't pay your bride price but once that is paid then I've patronise the consent

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Sterope(f): 5:19pm On Jun 14, 2020
It is still assault under our law. In other climes, once they can prove it. He should be ready to become a sex offender grin.

WOMEN ARE NOT PROPERTIES!

Davash222:
But what if the woman is not in the mood for sex or tired and the husband forces himself on her by taking it by force, is it not marital rape?



Yes it's rape, we know, but going to report to police or other agencies is what I don't understand.

Imagine the scenario you walk into any Nigeria police station and you start telling the officer in charge, I was not in the mood, was weak and tired yet my husband had sex with me. The officer will first ask you, what happened to your mood?

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Nobody: 5:20pm On Jun 14, 2020
There is nothing like marital rape. The man paid for it that is why she became your husband. It is the duty of the man to say when to do it and when not to do it. The woman has no objection to the choice of the woman when it comes to sex. So anyone coming with the ideal of marital rape should think twice before raising such alarm. You were ready that is why you accepted to marry. Why are you running from your duty

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by HazzanTazzan(m): 5:20pm On Jun 14, 2020
MoodyQueen:
Marriage isn't consent.
This old woman should stop promoting evil.

Lwkmd...

So you are happily married and one night, your husband wants to have sex and you say NO and he had his way nevertheless...

You gonn repory it as a rape case ?

Una no even know whats wrong with you anymore...

Firstly, its absurd to tell anyone abt it if your husband isnt gentle with you while trying to have sex even when you resist.

Secondly, the law doesnt see rape in marriage... Nothing like rape exists in marriage...

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by fireback: 5:20pm On Jun 14, 2020
everybody talks about rape, nobody is talking about Harassment... do you know that when a woman ask her husband money, knowing well that he does not have, it's called Financial Harassment... but nobody is talking about that one.
and when you shout at your husband for not giving you money, it's called Marital Harassment too...
una think say na only una get sense.

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Princedapace(m): 5:21pm On Jun 14, 2020
Kizzygentle:
Rape is rape. And the definition remains the same be it Marital or not. If she is not in the mood let her be. If taken by force it is RAPE.. Married or not it is RAPE and there should be a penalty for it.
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send ur husband to live in prison ? grin grin grin

And u divorce and marry another man?

Religious wise and traditional wise which are the bases of our marriage, when u get married, u both have submitted ur bodies to one another. It becomes the duty of both the man and the woman to meet their sexual needs. It is easier for women to seduce a man else, we could also be talking about women raping men! But it will be tagged seduction!

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by LilMissFavvy(f): 5:24pm On Jun 14, 2020
Jokers......
Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Pauladex(m): 5:24pm On Jun 14, 2020
Rape is when sexual intercourse is non-consensual (not agreed upon), or a person forces another person to have sex against his or her will. Either your wife or not, if she say No, don't do it.

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by CzarChris(m): 5:24pm On Jun 14, 2020
Look, this issue of marital rape is dicey, I once dated a girl that her sexual libido was no where close to mine. She knew I wanted to marry her, so she would sometimes want to use sex as a bargaining chip to get whatever she wanted from me. Then this continued for a while, the last straw was when she came to spend the week with me, she didn't let me touch her for three days, I had to masturbate to free myself one of those nights.
I broke up with her the very next day, she said "so it's because of sex you are breaking up with me", imagine the ungrateful heediot I was helping pay her bills back then. I replied "YES" this stuff is definitely not going to work, get your broke azz out of my house.

Now imagine you as a man have that kind of person as a wife at home, you are completely finished. Na so we go dey settle your marital rape matter for nairaland upandan.

I never marry o, but please if you are crazy, find who is as crazy as you and marry. If you are cool, find iceblock like you marry. Don't go and marry crazy and hope to turn the individual to iceblock na you go taya and vise versa.

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Mayng01(m): 5:24pm On Jun 14, 2020
Davash222:
But what if the woman is not in the mood for sex or tired and the husband forces himself on her by taking it by force, is it not marital rape?



Yes it's rape, we know, but going to report to police or other agencies is what I don't understand.

Imagine the scenario you walk into any Nigeria police station and you start telling the officer in charge, I was not in the mood, was weak and tired yet my husband had sex with me. The officer will first ask you, what happened to your mood?


But what if the woman is not in the mood for sex or tired and the husband forces himself on her by taking it by force, is it not marital rape?


No! Marital right, not marital rape, the husband only took what is his marital rite by force because the wife is denying him of his rights. As far as l know about Nigeria, there is no such thing as marital rape. Thank you.

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by fykes(m): 5:24pm On Jun 14, 2020
Me wey deyt tear clothe for my wife body anyhow....


Does it mean I now have rapist tendencies

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Sterope(f): 5:25pm On Jun 14, 2020
No, you don't make vows to submit your body for better or for worse. You could as well tell us she could be murdered too. What next, you can rape your children too because you own them. Many pervert parents use same arguments to rape their children.

techmo:
Legally Your Husband cant rape you if you read your marital vows and made the promise to submit your body to him for better for worse

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by luminouz(m): 5:25pm On Jun 14, 2020
MoodyQueen:


And who made those laws?

People like her.
Same people who trivializes rape.

Take it up with the appropriate authorities if you feel aggrieved.

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by hammer3: 5:26pm On Jun 14, 2020
fykes:
Me wey deyt tear clothe for my wife body anyhow....


Does it mean I now have rapist tendencies

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Openbusiness: 5:26pm On Jun 14, 2020
Davash222:
But what if the woman is not in the mood for sex or tired and the husband forces himself on her by taking it by force, is it not marital rape?



Yes it's rape, we know, but going to report to police or other agencies is what I don't understand.

Imagine the scenario you walk into any Nigeria police station and you start telling the officer in charge, I was not in the mood, was weak and tired yet my husband had sex with me. The officer will first ask you, what happened to your mood?
Nothing like rape in marriage. It is one of your sacred duty as a married couple to satisfy each other's sexual needs. Nothing like consent. The marriage itself is the consent, a permanent consent.

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Igbodicool(m): 5:27pm On Jun 14, 2020
Davash222:
But what if the woman is not in the mood for sex or tired and the husband forces himself on her by taking it by force, is it not marital rape?



Yes it's rape, we know, but going to report to police or other agencies is what I don't understand.

Imagine the scenario you walk into any Nigeria police station and you start telling the officer in charge, I was not in the mood, was weak and tired yet my husband had sex with me. The officer will first ask you, what happened to your mood?
Hahahahahaha
Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Sterope(f): 5:28pm On Jun 14, 2020
You don't rape your wife and call it marital right. It is not a right that you forcefully take. Her body still remains her body. You don't lose autonomy because you decided to marry a beastly, disrespectful wicked human being.

It is not marital rape but it is still assault.



Mayng01:



But what if the woman is not in the mood for sex or tired and the husband forces himself on her by taking it by force, is it not marital rape?
No! Marital right, not marital rape, the husband only took what is his marital rite by force because the wife is denying him of his rights. As far as l know about Nigeria, there is no such thing as marital rape. Thank you.

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by ajbf: 5:28pm On Jun 14, 2020
MoodyQueen:
Marriage isn't consent.
This old woman should stop promoting evil.
Can husband be charged for raping his wife in Nigeria?
https://allafrica.com/stories/202003030478.html

https://punchng.com/marital-rape-under-nigerian-law/?amp=1

However, when husband forcefully has sex with his wife, the highest he can be charged for is assault provided there is enough evidence to suggest such.

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Angeldada55(m): 5:28pm On Jun 14, 2020
" That tweet where that lady was calling anita a fool is too outrageous, all i see in the tweet is hatred. So much hatred. "

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" We put more concern and so much energy on some less meaningless things... "


No be lie o, plenty things don dey happen for this part of the world and we feel say e normal. So, you go report your husband, come lie say he rape you join JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT IN THE MOOD. Wetin fes do your mood ? And UNA never reason say *SEDUCTION* sef dey !!! Abi no be RAPE he dey rApe you since ? ( even before una marry )

" Wife should be submissive to the husband. It's simple as abc, if you know you cant, why say i do in the first place? "

I'm not sure they understand, so dem go *HATE*

" I mean we should be more concern that Nigeria is heading to doom. Imagine tinubu and atiku contesting again for presidency? "

Ok...see matter !!!
Una dey there dey reason matter wey matter no dey �

...dis kind thing go happen and *MUGUs* go sti vote �

Make I begin pack my bags...choi �

Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by holacorp(m): 5:28pm On Jun 14, 2020
I won't even listen to those that aren't married on this issue.. There is nothing like rape in marriage. If you don't want to do then divorce me. What the hell!. What the Bleep am I doing with you if I don't have access to you at whatever time I want and what are you doing with me if you don't like that I always want your body... Bleep off!

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by luminouz(m): 5:28pm On Jun 14, 2020
Mayng01:



But what if the woman is not in the mood for sex or tired and the husband forces himself on her by taking it by force, is it not marital rape?
No! Marital right, not marital rape, the husband only took what is his marital rite by force because the wife is denying him of his rights. As far as l know about Nigeria, there is no such thing as marital rape. Thank you.


Good points. You speak facts!!! And even though naturally,it is a forced sex but nowhere under the law is it recognized as marital rape,at least here.

I wish people could be as logical here like you but nope. They go all emotional and muddle things up.

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by hammer3: 5:28pm On Jun 14, 2020
Sterope:
You don't rape your wife and call it marital right. It is not a right that you forcefully take. Her body still remains her body. You don't lose autonomy because you decided to marry a beastly, disrespectful wicked human being.

It is not marital rape but it is still assault.




F9!


It is one body not her body.

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Hathor5(f): 5:29pm On Jun 14, 2020
She is disgusting.

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Hathor5(f): 5:29pm On Jun 14, 2020
hammer3:


F9!


It is one body not her body.

So you feel her menstrual cramps when she is on her period I guess. undecided

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Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by Goalnaldo(m): 5:30pm On Jun 14, 2020
Oh I see, so her name is Anita. She's the big ass lady I wrote about in my blog few days ago.
Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by holacorp(m): 5:30pm On Jun 14, 2020
I won't even listen to those that aren't married on this issue.. There is nothing like rape in marriage. If you don't want to do then divorce me. What the hell!. What the fuxking hell am I doing with you if I don't have access to you at whatever time I want and what are you doing with me if you don't like that I always want your body... Bleep off!. You have a problem with my opinion?.. Indaboski kee you dia...
Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by hammer3: 5:30pm On Jun 14, 2020
Hathor5:


So you feel her menstrual cramps when she is on her period I guess. undecided


U NO SAY I DO?

ABI U WERE NOT LISTENING? IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH, U SAID...

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