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Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by familier(m): 6:38pm On Jun 16, 2020
Please someone should teach me how to post on Nairaland
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by RiskyJoint95(m): 6:41pm On Jun 16, 2020
Blackmoran:
My experience with girls through out my life only asked a girl out once and that was when I was in jss3 junior secondary school days and I can remember her name vividly "Mildred". I always have this luck with girls I have this natural instinct to know when a girl Is interested in me and I do play it to my advantage... First of all I don't ask them out but I know they want me probably due to nature I am good looking so I have Providence to thank for..... Till today I can't remember me chasing a girl but one way or the other I have them evading my circle and I can tell which one is a prey to hunt...

Guy
na Portharcourt you go school?
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Albertone(m): 6:48pm On Jun 16, 2020
miracood:
I told her I'm 21 angry

Oga I no fit loose that fresh babe cuz of age ish

Sharp guy!!

You guys should enjoy yourselves...
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Rafoski: 6:50pm On Jun 16, 2020
Recently, I never fit talk to any girl, I no want Corona and make another person think say I wan give am Corona. But, once in a while, I dey find their trouble for road.
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by proddey(m): 7:18pm On Jun 16, 2020
HazardMan:
Mine was very shameful sha. I couldn't approach her myself as i was a little bit nervous.

Stepping out of the church compound with my friend and i saw her discussing just in front of the gate with her female friend. I took a step back and told my friend to go call her for me.

He did, but she said i must come myself if i want to talk to her. Well i couldn't go to her because my legs were already shaking with a beating heart for just no reason.

I and my friend decided to use the back gate as i didn't have the courage to pass through where she was standing with her friend.

Anyway, my guys for area use me entertain themselves for complete one week after the incident


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Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Ensquare(m): 7:25pm On Jun 16, 2020
boyjo:

Why this thing come be like fiction for my eye??
fiction ke. .abi you want make I connect you to her? She is married now
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Ralph1075: 7:27pm On Jun 16, 2020
As for me I have the courage to approach you,but don’t know what to tell you as my outdated format isn’t impressive enough

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Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Albertone(m): 7:48pm On Jun 16, 2020
sheyitokz:
Oga poster i was once like you but when i gained admission into laspotech my story changed for better
How did you change?
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Depressedkidd: 7:53pm On Jun 16, 2020
tuzle:
i am so shy that I saw the same girl a week later and I couldn't even say hi. Although I have improved small, but I wouldn't just approach a girl on the road no matter what. I hate embarrassment and insult, so I just stay on my lane.
Bro we're the same. Some years back we had classes and this fine girl came and sat beside me and told me to keep the seat for her while she went somewhere. My guys begin de ginger me say make I get her number. She came back and I just started random convo, I de shake de sweat but as class was about to end I asked for her number and she gave it to me. Called twice the next day and she didn't pick so I left it there. So me and another set of my guys bumped into her and the other guys knew her. They tried introducing us and she was like she knows me I just said yeah and didn't know what else to say and started looking at random objects on the ground. I just stay in my lane.

I've improved a little bit, before even if we're in a group and guys are just gisting with fine girls, I'll freeze, I'll not even be able to add points to what others are saying. Now at least if it's group I can flow well, but if the other guys leave so it will be one on one convo, woe is me. One day sha we go improve.

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Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by sheyitokz(m): 7:57pm On Jun 16, 2020
met lot's of giran friends who has more beards when I neva even get chichi beards till now on campus from my dept nd other dept so the fear pick race comot my body
Albertone:
How did you change?
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Albertone(m): 8:11pm On Jun 16, 2020
sheyitokz:
met lot's of giran friends who has more beards when I neva even get chichi beards till now on campus from my dept nd other dept so the fear pick race comot my body

Nice one
E be like say having razz friends get advantages gan.

Na that way I go follow,I'm too gentle for a man that I am

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Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by sheyitokz(m): 8:21pm On Jun 16, 2020
Albertone:


Nice one
E be like say having razz friends get advantages gan.

Na that way I go follow,I'm too gentle for a man that I am
lol nt all razz padiis all i was saying wz campus life changed my story
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Albertone(m): 8:25pm On Jun 16, 2020
sheyitokz:
lol nt all razz padiis all i was saying wz campus life changed my story
Sure I know.

I'll use my head too now lol

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Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Depressedkidd: 8:27pm On Jun 16, 2020
Drizzy5001:
Let me share my own experience, when I was still a teenager there's still girl I always admire each time she passes, very fair and beautiful Calabar girl ,with 2 big oranges on her chest and Big nyash...Her name was Effiong, from then I started preparing to woo her after which I showed her to my friends secretly, trust niggars they started pushing me to confront her but the problem was how best to approach her and do the wooing tricks.

Two weeks later of cramming some lines and tricks, I wore better clothes with my neighbor's perfume. Minutes later I was standing at their street and it wasn't too long when she came out I guessed to buy something, I swear the more she approached was the more my heart beat increased, sweating profusely even it got to some extent that my legs wasn't steady anymore, so I pretended I didn't see her as she passed.

Oh my God, my urine was hot as I rushed to the gutter to ease myself I don't even know if removed smoke sef.. that one passed, months passed still I was not able to approach her.

One day I made up my mind to approach her. It was more like do or die, I wore my clothes dressed casually this time and memorized things again both how to greet her and all that, God made it easy as I saw her before I got to her street, she was walking and gisting with a female friend. I began to feel cold inside as I approached but I kept walking towards the due.. her friend stopped a bike and bade her good by so she turned and started walking to her street.

I quickly walked up to her and said Hi! She turned and stared directly into my eye.. Jesus I froze instantly, my people I said hi to this girl like four good times, every down thing I memorized had now flashed off, my head was empty in fact I regretted ever confronting her she stood for a while trying to figure out who I was cos the expression on her face showed it all, emm please can we be friends? That was what I heard myself say, immediately she heard that she hissed loudly and crossed to the other side of the road and walked away.. I swear I couldn't sleep that night.. I was so ashamed of my self, when my mates dey toast girls anyhow , I no fit do am.
Until my guy Efe , introduced me to weed , after Smoke 3 rolls , I became high and toasted her and it worked . The rest na history angry grin
Lmao. My dealer, I don't like seeing his face, but his face makes me happy cos I know strong kush is around the corner.

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Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:29pm On Jun 16, 2020
omoburuku:


Oga mi, i be small pikin dat time....infact I was still in primary sch, when I first saw her,and till I finish for secondary sch,man still no get d liver, She just has ds effect on me,I fit don plan all punchlines wey I wan drop, but ones I see her like this, my brain go[b] just dey misbehave oninown.[/b]
And this girl dey feel me die,I just don't know why...

grin grin grin

Sorry bro. I know as e be. wink
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by brainiac228(m): 8:58pm On Jun 16, 2020
In my case I have never toast any lady not because I'm shy, though I was shy in secondary school.
The main reason I had never toast any lady was because I don't want to break any ladies heart. I had crush on some while so many had crush on me back then in the University (I took tutorials and also handsome). I never toasted or asked anyone of them out. My friends do make jest of me, I just smile cause I know who I am.
I snubed alot of ladies embarassed
Though sometimes I wished I had dated one of them.
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Dami12345: 9:11pm On Jun 16, 2020
tydi:


Lol, your second statement got me. How can one have a magic blood? But I think dey is atom of truth to it though cus even in my working place, I'm easily liked by people even strangers I have never met before easily pick interest in me. which I know its the Grace of God upon my life. But Funny thing was that my boss noticed that I'm easily liked by people and suspected me of using black magic like they call it here which I brought in from Africa cus I don't stay in Nigeria. But its all good though cus the attention most times really portrays to me that I have a good spirit that attracts people and a brighter future ahead of me.

Awesome. Shine brightly .
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Dami12345: 9:13pm On Jun 16, 2020
NigPatriot:

Wow really? Would he have to pay or what, o don't understand

Pay grin grin
At all, jusy that the odds are better here,girls go Bleep u, feed you sef...
Just walkup to a girl and complement her hair.
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Jayrockk: 9:26pm On Jun 16, 2020
Approaching a girl as a shy guy is a bummer sha, but what I tell myself is it's now or never. It's better you approach a girl and she rejects you than to avoid her and not know the result at all
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by raphy(m): 9:41pm On Jun 16, 2020
my type don't do toasting i was a love letter freak during my secondary sch days.

i know how to write love letters n send it to the girl i like in sch.i was the quiet type i grew up among white children.the way i talk sound so foreign in people ears.

all guys in class knows me for that n i write for my friends too as no phones during our sch days.

i once wrote a love letter n tell the girl to wait after sch so we can go home together. but she show all her females friends n they end up waiting for me i HV to go home wit 3girls n my male friends will tell me in class pls teach us how to toast girl. cus they saw me with 3_girls after sch.

i still HV my love letter talent wit me and am a poet too..
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by boyjo: 12:23am On Jun 17, 2020
Ensquare:
fiction ke. .abi you want make I connect you to her? She is married now
Try read wetin you write againgrin
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by boyjo: 12:23am On Jun 17, 2020
myles16:



She didn't see me sef, I didn't pick her calls even tho I was looking at her on stage where she was sitted...if she gives me the chance Sha after 8 years I can still right my wrongs
Brotherly.
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Nobody: 1:08am On Jun 17, 2020
familier:
Please someone should teach me how to post on Nairaland


Your own shyness get another level

Anyway you just select from section you want to post in

For example let's say you want to post in the religion section, you fess click Religion on the website homepage

You should see create a new topic at the top and down of the list of pages.

I hope this helps

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Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Nobody: 1:12am On Jun 17, 2020
I once asked out my crush that was above 24 while i was 16 out on phone


I was too shy to do it in person after i had gotten close to her and all her friends for over a year.(Plus constantly stalking her codedly)

She did not insult me as i was expecting (She even encouraged me) but still told me a NO!

I kept asking her why she wouldn't say Yes and she never game me a straight answer.
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Haykins2115(m): 7:15am On Jun 17, 2020
there was this girl I liked right from my jss1 class but due to my shyness I couldn't talk to her throughout my secondary school days even tho I later discovered that the feeling was mutual then,but still I couldn't say anything due to shyness. so after we finished for sec sch,I chatted her up which we normally do since sec sch days cause I can't stand in front of her nor look into her face talk less of starting a conversation with her,but I chat with her normally on social media.so as time went on I tried to profess my feelings for her since I've noticed that she has been given me green light long time ago,so I started with "I want to tell you something, hope you won't insult me if I do?" and she said not at all.Naso I tell the girl I love her but she replied me with "thanks" which I wasn't expecting cos what I said no be compliment na.Naso this girl no reply my messages and no talk to me like we normally do again o,I tried asking her what happened but she always say nothing...How I wish she can be together till now,but that has given me low self esteem uptil now that I can't even talk to girls talk less keeping them as friends till now
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by familier(m): 9:07am On Jun 17, 2020
kelvinrhs:



Your own shyness get another level

Anyway you just select from section you want to post in

For example let's say you want to post in the religion section, you fess click Religion on the website homepage

You should see create a new topic at the top and down of the list of pages.

I hope this helps
. Tankio
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by NigPatriot(m): 3:30pm On Jun 17, 2020
Dami12345:


Pay grin grin
At all, jusy that the odds are better here,girls go Bleep u, feed you sef...
Just walkup to a girl and complement her hair.

AHH if it's that easy. Why do Abuja guys still come to Lagos to find babes
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by ridwanlawal: 6:43pm On Jun 17, 2020
tuzle:
i am so shy that I saw the same girl a week later and I couldn't even say hi. Although I have improved small, but I wouldn't just approach a girl on the road no matter what. I hate embarrassment and insult, so I just stay on my lane.
U're my type
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by jakizio42(m): 7:57pm On Jun 17, 2020
boyjo:

Lol, the story just dey anyhowgrin
The thing just jaga jaga
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by jakizio42(m): 8:16pm On Jun 17, 2020
Haykins2115:
there was this girl I liked right from my jss1 class but due to my shyness I couldn't talk to her throughout my secondary school days even tho I later discovered that the feeling was mutual then,but still I couldn't say anything due to shyness. so after we finished for sec sch,I chatted her up which we normally do since sec sch days cause I can't stand in front of her nor look into her face talk less of starting a conversation with her,but I chat with her normally on social media.so as time went on I tried to profess my feelings for her since I've noticed that she has been given me green light long time ago,so I started with "I want to tell you something, hope you won't insult me if I do?" and she said not at all.Naso I tell the girl I love her but she replied me with "thanks" which I wasn't expecting cos what I said no be compliment na.Naso this girl no reply my messages and no talk to me like we normally do again o,I tried asking her what happened but she always say nothing...How I wish she can be together till now,but that has given me low self esteem uptil now that I can't even talk to girls talk less keeping them as friends till now
But i hope say u fine lol.1 rejection does not mean anything at all see it as a motivation it may be u didn't have what she wanted for a boyfriend and another girl may want what u have so go out there and find urself a chic i bet so many girls are looking for a guy like you and they can't find you if you are in the comfort of ur home.life goes on with or without her my point being that u should forget her and move on
Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Haykins2115(m): 8:27pm On Jun 17, 2020
jakizio42:

But i hope say u fine lol.1 rejection does not mean anything at all see it as a motivation it may be u didn't have what she wanted for a boyfriend and another girl may want what u have so go out there and find urself a chic i bet so many girls are looking for a guy like you and they can't find you if you are in the comfort of ur home.life goes on with or without her my point being that u should forget her and move on
thanks bro,I understand you clearly

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