I won't bore you with how I met her.
But the very first time I set my eyes on her, my soul was lit with fire.

Once she accepted to be my girl, my life never remained the same.
It was in 2008, I was a final year student and she was in her first year in the university.

The thought of her alone drove my zeal to learn harder and come out with good grades.
I was floating.
...I was flying.

Even if someone deliberately insulted me or even stepped on my foot, a mere thought of her and I would walk away,
knowing that I would see an Angel sooner.

We never got bored of each other.
We would go to the class and read together.

My CGPA improved greatly when the first semester exams result came out.

I discovered a lot of hidden skills and talents lying deep asleep in me.

I started to sell ideas to few companies by doing feasibilty studies about likely challenges they were facing.
I would test hypotheses, suggest possible tailored solutions and all.

I started to save. It helped me to define my career path.

For almost two years, we never for one day quarreled.
There was never a cause for suspicion.

I woke up each day grateful and all fired up to achieve more.

I relocated to Abuja to explore more, while I was waiting for NYSC.

And then came the sleeky pastor.

One evening, she called to inform me of her reunion to a primary school mate whom after secondary school decided to join the Nigerian Army
and went ahead to become a pastor.

She said the supposed pastor wanted to talk to me.
She said the pastor advised that we commit our relationship to God.

I told her I wasn't comfortable with the pastor thing.
She would go ahead to persuade me.

After few days, I gave in and the supposed pastor called me on the phone.
He asked what I did that made her so fond of me.

I told him the truth; constant communication.
That was it....

I and my system were so used to doing MTN extra cool with her.

That night, @ 12:30am, I dialed her line, she was on another call. Strange.
I continued dialing at interval for hours, but she won't drop the call to return mine.

It continued like that until 40:30am.
By 4:31am, she called and told me that she was on the phone with pastor snaky (let's call him that).

The following night, the same thing ensued.
Unfortunately, sleep won't come. I was rolling in the bed till morning.

...I will continue later.
Gotta go back to my workstation.

hmn

pussy is very powerful, apart from money the most powerful thing on earth is pussy

PUSSYHOE:
pussy is very powerful, apart from money the most powerful thing on earth is pussy

Wrong

Fiction.

Op come finish your story.


Op achieved a lot when he was in loved because of the principle of sexual transmutation.


Google it to know more.

xxxtedyxxx:
Op come finish your story.


Op achieved a lot when he was in loved because of the principle of sexual transmutation.


Google it to know more.

I forgot to add.
There was no sex.

MisterGrace i don de wait you since wey you open this thread, come finish am

...Continuation

All the while, we never had sex. But that was the 5th thing on my agenda.
**************************************************************

Back to the main gist. The Sneeky pastor saga would not go away.
His emergence brought me a lot of distraction.
Everything seemed crazy.

I started to lose concentration.
My motivation was sliping off my grip.

...But why.

In quick succession, she started to give me cold shoulders.
What did I do wrong?

Her response came back positive. I didn't do anything wrong.

It became even harder for me to catch some sleep at night.

1. I was already used to doing MTN Extra Cool with her.

2. The thought of her and the pastor talking on the phone till in the morning.

All these made me broken and awake all nights.

This continued for weeks. I called the pastor to let him in on the development.
Behold... he said "Forget about that girl, she's not worth me".

I mean... How na? Then I knew, this guy was out for distruction.
I still asked him to talk to her for me, dude said he had no airtime to do that.
I immediately bought and sent him airtime. I think perhaps, because his conscience won't let him,
he returned my credit.

I called her the followng day to ask what was going on. ...Then came the tsunami.
She told me that "We were better off as friends than lovers".

Everywhere went dark. I started to lose weight. My appetite disappeared. My head started to ache.
My heart became heavy and then came the dull, but deep pains.

I was disorganized. I will call, but my calls went unanswered.
I became sick.
I wanted to forget everthing. I went for sleeping pills. It didn't work.
I decided to take overdose, maybe the sleep would come, then switched off.

My elder Sister went through my phone. She finally discovered the likely cause of my ordeal.
She then put a call across to her, informing her of my state.
Babe became restless and all.

When I came back alive, I saw her calls. With the thought that the nightmare was over, I joyfully returned her call.
But the coversation was dry. She maintained her stance.

I decided to accept my fate.
Months later, I went back to school to collect my result and call up letter.
I decided to check on her.

She was glad to see me.
But her friend and adviser (A NIFES Mama) kept engineering her not to see me.
Few of her friends who at some point gave me greenlight were against any possible reunion between us.

I ran into one of her friends who is not sort of liberal minded.

She would later open up to me on how things transpired and the core cause of our break up.

To be continued.

I av a frnd JCCB mama...if u know what that means mama of all mamas
Yet had a non- sex relationship
Ppl still av a decent relationship...... Maybe d pastor and the nifes mama thinks u guys will av sex one day.......
And then u r deceiver and talks like that.....
As a gal I shld know when a guy genuinely loves me and when he is just using me

I think the OP had really gone deep in love with the lady then.

You should know that what is not meant for will always leave you and what's yours will not. She left you so easily man. Imagine if you were going through some difficult situation, it would have been more embarrassing for her to leave you at that spot.

Continuation...

I won't bore you with too many details.

The reason were;

1. The pastor told her that he saw a vision about me; that I would end up a hemp smoker, wife beater, a drunkard and all sorts of vices. (He got into her head)

2. He lobbied her NIFES Mama friend and close associates to influence her to quit the relationship with me.

3. Some of these her friends who were jealous of our union took advantage of the opportunity to ruin it.

All these and more O.M (not real name) explained to me.

With her friends around in her hostel room everyday, there was little I could do.
I gave up the quest and went to the state I was posted.

Exactly one year, I completed my NYSC.
Luckily I got a three job offers and was so grateful.

That very week, I got sick. I thought it was fever, but it won't go away.
My family spent hundreds of thousands.
From one hospital to another, but all the diagnosis came back clean. No sickness was found.

I was loosing it. It kept getting worse and worse by the day.
We resorted to trying out prayer houses.

Then I started to lose the hope surviving the sickness.
I started to pray for forgiveness of any sins I might have committed.

While in that state, someone called me that Dr. Pastor Enenche would be on the school campus for a crusade.
She encouraged me to attend. Perhaps, I willl get my healing.

I asked to be taken to the crusade ground.
While on the ground. I decided to manage to walk few meters away from where we camped.

Behold! guess who I saw?
I saw her. My ex. seated alone.

But I was embarrased, because I was very sick.
Looking frail. With my breathe very short and little hope to surviving the next minute, I wished I didn't meet her.

Babe jumped down from the trunk of car on which she was seated.

She told me that she was praying deeply in her to God to see me at the ground if truly I was for her and I somehow showed up.
She had realised her mistake. She said she was influenced and misled by friends. That I already knew.

Ordinarily, it would have been a miracle.
But I didn't want her to come back into my life to be stressed or be faced with the challenge of my survival.

I foolishly dismissed any form of advances from her.

I managed to return to my spot. But my heart kept racing and I kept thinking about her. Wishing that I was healthy.

For the next two days as the crusade lasted. I did not see her again.

The healing didn't come and I travelled back home. Resigned to my fate.

Somehow, I didn't die. But it Ttook me another two years to recover without any medication or whatsover.
I lived. Life came back into me. I was always thinking about her everyday.

It was too late. I lost her to the same pastor. They were already married.

It didn't stop me from thinking about her always.

I decided to give another relationship a chance, but the fire wasn't there.
It turned out the babe wasn't true to her word. She cheated.
We broke up.

Two more relationships; I decided not to continue with one and the other left on her own.

I finally met my wife. An amazing soul. Unique in her own way. I love so much.
I am thankful to God for my beautiful guys (two smart boys). They are my motivation and strenght.

But most times, I wished, I didn't let her slip away the 2nd time.

I think about her always... Obviously, it will last for a lifetime.

This is my secret.

*****************************************

My advice is: Don't it slip away. Give it a chance again, only if it's worth it.

Many married people are alone even in the middle of love and warmt from their spouses.

Find your soulmate to hold on to her. You only live once.

nicolasakins:
I think the OP had really gone deep in love with the lady then.

we all did once or twice .

Phenomenal16:
I av a frnd JCCB mama...if u know what that means mama of all mamas
Yet had a non- sex relationship
Ppl still av a decent relationship...... Maybe d pastor and the nifes mama thinks u guys will av sex one day.......
And then u r deceiver and talks like that.....
As a gal I shld know when a guy genuinely loves me and when he is just using me

How is that their problems biko?

You see why I don't trust these apiam way pastors?

Very tricky

Inside life...

MisterGrace:


I forgot to add.
There was no sex.

You don't need to have sex to make sexual transmutation work.

In simple terms, sexual transmutation is the act of diverting sexual desires towards creative effort, like business', sportss, art, writing etc

So touching

MisterGrace:
Continuation...
I finally met my wife. An amazing soul. Unique in her own way. But most times, I wished, I didn't let her slip away the 2nd time.

are you saying that she later left the pastor and came back to you?

delugadou:


are you saying that she later left the pastor and came back to you?

No! She didn't.

You guys shouldn't quote the OP ooo.

You can make your comment without quoting the whole post

What a love story.. is that all?? Ok it is all.

Really a love story .....

But come to think of it what if you have accepted her back then, she might have left you because of the state of your health then.

You never know

This story is quite similar to mine.
My girlfriend of 2years just broke up two days ago, she said a pastor saw a message that after ill make it very big soon and ill will dump her.

The thing just shock me.. someone i could die for.
For the past 3 days now no calls nothing nothing

This life no just balance because i really took this relationship serious, and it just ended like this.

I just hope this covid19 shit just leave so i can get back to work very soon cos the thought sef is just vexing me.

Op I don't think you should have any form of regret of not settling down with her, and also you both obviously, not fated for each other.

In life we don't always get what we expect but at the end, with God direction and protection we get to meet that special rib missing and when you do, you will know instantly

MisterGrace:
Continuation...

I won't bore you with too many details.

The reason were;

1. The pastor told her that he saw a vision about me; that I would end up a hemp smoker, wife beater, a drunkard and all sorts of vices. (He got into her head)

2. He lobbied her NIFES Mama friend and close associates to influence her to quit the relationship with me.

3. Some of these her friends who were jealous of our union took advantage of the opportunity to ruin it.

All these and more O.M (not real name) explained to me.

With her friends around in her hostel room everyday, there was little I could do.
I gave up the quest and went to the state I was posted.

Exactly one year, I completed my NYSC.
Luckily I got a three job offers and was so grateful.

That very week, I got sick. I thought it was fever, but it won't go away.
My family spent hundreds of thousands.
From one hospital to another, but all the diagnosis came back clean. No sickness was found.

I was loosing it. It kept getting worse and worse by the day.
We resorted to trying out prayer houses.

Then I started to lose the hope surviving the sickness.
I started to pray for forgiveness of any sins I might have committed.

While in that state, someone called me that Dr. Pastor Enenche would be on the school campus for a crusade.
She encouraged me to attend. Perhaps, I willl get my healing.

I asked to be taken to the crusade ground.
While on the ground. I decided to manage to walk few meters away from where we camped.

Behold! guess who I saw?
I saw her. My ex. seated alone.

But I was embarrased, because I was very sick.
Looking frail. With my breathe very short and little hope to surviving the next minute, I wished I didn't meet her.

Babe jumped down from the trunk of car on which she was seated.

She told me that she was praying deeply in her to God to see me at the ground if truly I was for her and I somehow showed up.
She had realised her mistake. She said she was influenced and misled by friends. That I already knew.

Ordinarily, it would have been a miracle.
But I didn't want her to come back into my life to be stressed or be faced with the challenge of my survival.

I foolishly dismissed any form of advances from her.

I managed to return to my spot. But my heart kept racing and I kept thinking about her. Wishing that I was healthy.

For the next two days as the crusade lasted. I did not see her again.

The healing didn't come and I travelled back home. Resigned to my fate.

Somehow, I didn't die. But it Ttook me another two years to recover without any medication or whatsover.
I lived. Life came back into me. I was always thinking about her everyday.

It was too late. I lost her to the same pastor. They were already married.

It didn't stop me from thinking about her always.

I decided to give another relationship a chance, but the fire wasn't there.
It turned out the babe wasn't true to her word. She cheated.
We broke up.

Two more relationships; I decided not to continue with one and the other left on her own.

I finally met my wife. An amazing soul. Unique in her own way. I love so much.
I am thankful to God for my beautiful guys (two smart boys). They are my motivation and strenght.

But most times, I wished, I didn't let her slip away the 2nd time.

I think about her always... Obviously, it will last for a lifetime.

This is my secret.

*****************************************

My advice is: Don't it slip away. Give it a chance again, only if it's worth it.

Many married people are alone even in the middle of love and warmt from their spouses.

Find your soulmate to hold on to her. You only live once.

Now am sad.....

MisterGrace:
Continuation...

I won't bore you with too many details.

The reason were;

1. The pastor told her that he saw a vision about me; that I would end up a hemp smoker, wife beater, a drunkard and all sorts of vices. (He got into her head)

2. He lobbied her NIFES Mama friend and close associates to influence her to quit the relationship with me.

3. Some of these her friends who were jealous of our union took advantage of the opportunity to ruin it.

All these and more O.M (not real name) explained to me.

With her friends around in her hostel room everyday, there was little I could do.
I gave up the quest and went to the state I was posted.

Exactly one year, I completed my NYSC.
Luckily I got a three job offers and was so grateful.

That very week, I got sick. I thought it was fever, but it won't go away.
My family spent hundreds of thousands.
From one hospital to another, but all the diagnosis came back clean. No sickness was found.

I was loosing it. It kept getting worse and worse by the day.
We resorted to trying out prayer houses.

Then I started to lose the hope surviving the sickness.
I started to pray for forgiveness of any sins I might have committed.

While in that state, someone called me that Dr. Pastor Enenche would be on the school campus for a crusade.
She encouraged me to attend. Perhaps, I willl get my healing.

I asked to be taken to the crusade ground.
While on the ground. I decided to manage to walk few meters away from where we camped.

Behold! guess who I saw?
I saw her. My ex. seated alone.

But I was embarrased, because I was very sick.
Looking frail. With my breathe very short and little hope to surviving the next minute, I wished I didn't meet her.

Babe jumped down from the trunk of car on which she was seated.

She told me that she was praying deeply in her to God to see me at the ground if truly I was for her and I somehow showed up.
She had realised her mistake. She said she was influenced and misled by friends. That I already knew.

Ordinarily, it would have been a miracle.
But I didn't want her to come back into my life to be stressed or be faced with the challenge of my survival.

I foolishly dismissed any form of advances from her.

I managed to return to my spot. But my heart kept racing and I kept thinking about her. Wishing that I was healthy.

For the next two days as the crusade lasted. I did not see her again.

The healing didn't come and I travelled back home. Resigned to my fate.

Somehow, I didn't die. But it Ttook me another two years to recover without any medication or whatsover.
I lived. Life came back into me. I was always thinking about her everyday.

It was too late. I lost her to the same pastor. They were already married.

It didn't stop me from thinking about her always.

I decided to give another relationship a chance, but the fire wasn't there.
It turned out the babe wasn't true to her word. She cheated.
We broke up.

Two more relationships; I decided not to continue with one and the other left on her own.

I finally met my wife. An amazing soul. Unique in her own way. I love so much.
I am thankful to God for my beautiful guys (two smart boys). They are my motivation and strenght.

But most times, I wished, I didn't let her slip away the 2nd time.

I think about her always... Obviously, it will last for a lifetime.

This is my secret.

*****************************************

My advice is: Don't it slip away. Give it a chance again, only if it's worth it.

Many married people are alone even in the middle of love and warmt from their spouses.

Find your soulmate to hold on to her. You only live once.

You need to let go and move on

MisterGrace:
I won't bore you with how I met her.
But the very first time I set my eyes on her, my soul was lit with fire.

Once she accepted to be my girl, my life never remained the same.
It was in 2008, I was a final year student and she was in her first year in the university.

The thought of her alone drove my zeal to learn harder and come out with good grades.
I was floating.
...I was flying.

Even if someone deliberately insulted me or even stepped on my foot, a mere thought of her and I would walk away,
knowing that I would see an Angel sooner.

We never got bored of each other.
We would go to the class and read together.

My CGPA improved greatly when the first semester exams result came out.

I discovered a lot of hidden skills and talents lying deep asleep in me.

I started to sell ideas to few companies by doing feasibilty studies about likely challenges they were facing.
I would test hypotheses, suggest possible tailored solutions and all.

I started to save. It helped me to define my career path.

For almost two years, we never for one day quarreled.
There was never a cause for suspicion.

I woke up each day grateful and all fired up to achieve more.

I relocated to Abuja to explore more, while I was waiting for NYSC.

And then came the sleeky pastor.

One evening, she called to inform me of her reunion to a primary school mate whom after secondary school decided to join the Nigerian Army
and went ahead to become a pastor.

She said the supposed pastor wanted to talk to me.
She said the pastor advised that we commit our relationship to God.

I told her I wasn't comfortable with the pastor thing.
She would go ahead to persuade me.

After few days, I gave in and the supposed pastor called me on the phone.
He asked what I did that made her so fond of me.

I told him the truth; constant communication.
That was it....

I and my system were so used to doing MTN extra cool with her.

That night, @ 12:30am, I dialed her line, she was on another call. Strange.
I continued dialing at interval for hours, but she won't drop the call to return mine.

It continued like that until 40:30am.
By 4:31am, she called and told me that she was on the phone with pastor snaky (let's call him that).

The following night, the same thing ensued.
Unfortunately, sleep won't come. I was rolling in the bed till morning.

...I will continue later.
Gotta go back to my workstation.

Come close, I want to tell you something.

MisterGrace:
Continuation...

I won't bore you with too many details.

The reason were;

1. The pastor told her that he saw a vision about me; that I would end up a hemp smoker, wife beater, a drunkard and all sorts of vices. (He got into her head)

2. He lobbied her NIFES Mama friend and close associates to influence her to quit the relationship with me.

3. Some of these her friends who were jealous of our union took advantage of the opportunity to ruin it.

All these and more O.M (not real name) explained to me.

With her friends around in her hostel room everyday, there was little I could do.
I gave up the quest and went to the state I was posted.

Exactly one year, I completed my NYSC.
Luckily I got a three job offers and was so grateful.

That very week, I got sick. I thought it was fever, but it won't go away.
My family spent hundreds of thousands.
From one hospital to another, but all the diagnosis came back clean. No sickness was found.

I was loosing it. It kept getting worse and worse by the day.
We resorted to trying out prayer houses.

Then I started to lose the hope surviving the sickness.
I started to pray for forgiveness of any sins I might have committed.

While in that state, someone called me that Dr. Pastor Enenche would be on the school campus for a crusade.
She encouraged me to attend. Perhaps, I willl get my healing.

I asked to be taken to the crusade ground.
While on the ground. I decided to manage to walk few meters away from where we camped.

Behold! guess who I saw?
I saw her. My ex. seated alone.

But I was embarrased, because I was very sick.
Looking frail. With my breathe very short and little hope to surviving the next minute, I wished I didn't meet her.

Babe jumped down from the trunk of car on which she was seated.

She told me that she was praying deeply in her to God to see me at the ground if truly I was for her and I somehow showed up.
She had realised her mistake. She said she was influenced and misled by friends. That I already knew.

Ordinarily, it would have been a miracle.
But I didn't want her to come back into my life to be stressed or be faced with the challenge of my survival.

I foolishly dismissed any form of advances from her.

I managed to return to my spot. But my heart kept racing and I kept thinking about her. Wishing that I was healthy.

For the next two days as the crusade lasted. I did not see her again.

The healing didn't come and I travelled back home. Resigned to my fate.

Somehow, I didn't die. But it Ttook me another two years to recover without any medication or whatsover.
I lived. Life came back into me. I was always thinking about her everyday.

It was too late. I lost her to the same pastor. They were already married.

It didn't stop me from thinking about her always.

I decided to give another relationship a chance, but the fire wasn't there.
It turned out the babe wasn't true to her word. She cheated.
We broke up.

Two more relationships; I decided not to continue with one and the other left on her own.

I finally met my wife. An amazing soul. Unique in her own way. I love so much.
I am thankful to God for my beautiful guys (two smart boys). They are my motivation and strenght.

But most times, I wished, I didn't let her slip away the 2nd time.

I think about her always... Obviously, it will last for a lifetime.

This is my secret.

*****************************************

My advice is: Don't it slip away. Give it a chance again, only if it's worth it.

Many married people are alone even in the middle of love and warmt from their spouses.

Find your soulmate to hold on to her. You only live once.

A soulmate isn't necessarily your life partner.

Soul Mate: Someone who is aligned with your soul and is sent to challenge, awaken and stir different parts of you in order for your soul to transcend to a higher level of consciousness and awareness. Once the lesson has been learnt, physical separation usually occurs.


Life Partner: A companion, a friend, a stable and secure individual who you can lean on, trust and depend on to help you through life. There is a mutual feeling of love and respect and you are both in sync with each others needs and wants. 

So I think you should stop holding on to old relationships and focus on your wife

So touching, first love for that matter.
Well there's a saying that it's It is better to have loved & lost than never to have loved at all.
It serves as an experience for us.

TheSourcerer:
we all did once or twice .

You're right.