Mehhh friends dsame thing really happened to me about few weeks ago is not easy, you will lose weight overnight even my mom called me ask what is going on with me I don't know what to say including my friends. Is not easy to move on because you see her as your future. I really pass many things but now I'm getting myself back a little. My friends warned me I refuse now I'm seeing it but thank God I'm alive. I will never again try such

Kai some of these young gangster pastor are nothing to talk about.
You see them on the campus messing around anyhow.
Look at how he practically destroyed such a flourishing relationship witb ease.(assuming this story is even true)
My wife must not consult any pastor without my FULL knowledge and approval.
I can divorce her for it.

indeed a love story you lost all you genuinely loved, thank God you have kids to hold on to.
I can't consult any pastor for my relationship some of them are home breakers

Hmmmm breathtaking

ZAWs:
Kai some of these young gangster pastor are nothing to talk about.
You see them on the campus messing around anyhow.
Look at how he practically destroyed such a flourishing relationship witb ease.(assuming this story is even true)
My wife must not consult any pastor without my FULL knowledge and approval.
I can divorce her for it.

The story is true and I am living with it.
The chances that went begging and all.

stella55:
indeed a love story you lost all you genuinely loved, thank God you have kids to hold on to.
I can't consult any pastor for my relationship some of them are home breakers

Thank you.

I have been in your shoes Man. It really changed or misdirected my journey. I doubt I will ever genuinely ,or rather deeply love or care for anyone ever again.

Life is truly not fair and Love can as well ruin you

Some broken hearts never mend..

Some memories never end...

Sad

StarOnEarth:
This story is quite similar to mine.
My girlfriend of 2years just broke up two days ago, she said a pastor saw a message that after ill make it very big soon and ill will dump her.

The thing just shock me.. someone i could die for.
For the past 3 days now no calls nothing nothing

This life no just balance because i really took this relationship serious, and it just ended like this.

I just hope this covid19 shit just leave so i can get back to work very soon cos the thought sef is just vexing me.

my brother u should be happy and pray that prophesy comes to pass,

coz he said "u will make it big"...



that girl na mumu

I don't concur to dz men of da pulpit when it comes to relationship & who one is to be with.

1. most of them have poor relationship with their spouse

2. they basically use psychology to woo da person to themselves or someone they want that person to be with

if ur relationship won't work, there should be pointers.

it's funny that even in dz 2020, people still end their sweet relationships because someone on da pulpit said so

i have a friend whos girlfriend of almost 3years was stolen by their pastor and mentor to my friend. a deeper life guy nd pastor for that matter. It crushed my heart to hear the news. i hate all pastors because of that. i hate them all. The pastor about twice as old as her found a way to get into the girls life by meeting her parents. she was manipulated by the pastor and her parents to break my friends heart on the notion that the pastor would take her 'far' in life.
i was happy for my friend, she was really beautiful. i liked her the first day i saw her. id imagined she would be with us when we go for picnics and stuff. i hate pastors. i hate pastor and i hate the church. should the Devil give me the chance to become a political figure in this world of his i shall betray him by destroying his church and his pastors.

touchy and pathetic. But Op, I hope your current wife is getting the love she deserves. Because from your last paragraph, it seem you never let go of the pass..

It's hard not to love with your whole heart for those who thoroughly want to love, but when they came crashing most of them hardly recover from it... My one cent

@ op.
The earlier u move on with life with ur wife, the better for everyone, ur family inclusive.
I see no reason why u will be wasting time thinking about someone that dropped u like hot charcoal just cos a student plaster said so. And eventually married the pastor? After meeting her in church, y didn't she bother looking or fighting for u since she claimed she knew the truth at that point? Or are u the only one designated to fight for relationships?
Pls snap out of it and move on now.
Ur next regret many years from now will be the time u wasted thinking about her instead having the best with ur family.

We all have that part if us that longs for people we cant be with. It's NEVER a mistake. It's part of life....

StarOnEarth:
This story is quite similar to mine.
My girlfriend of 2years just broke up two days ago, she said a pastor saw a message that after ill make it very big soon and ill will dump her.

The thing just shock me.. someone i could die for.
For the past 3 days now no calls nothing nothing

This life no just balance because i really took this relationship serious, and it just ended like this.

I just hope this covid19 shit just leave so i can get back to work very soon cos the thought sef is just vexing me.

She for wait until u make it big na and see how things work out

Mtchew

Lol...we already know the end before you finish, it always end in tears. I almost have a similar case but I told my ex to cut it off with that fake a$$ nigga student pastor which she did...guy I hate dem pastors with passion; they've done more harm than good...they lie by using the pulpit for camouflage...

Okay nice one

You did the right thing by ignoring her. The fact that she still married the pastor shows that you meant nothing to her . She chose him over you and doesn't deserve you. I don't understand why you are behaving like a Simp, regretting that you dodged a bullet. Women like that don't deserve real men

anthonyuncle:


my brother u should be happy and pray that prophesy comes to pass,

coz he said "u will make it big"...



that girl na mumu

Honestly
The thing just weak me
Abi who wants to leave a guy thats about to make it.

SweetCunt97:
She for wait until u make it big na and see how things work out

I wonder ooo

MisterGrace:
I won't bore you with how I met her.
But the very first time I set my eyes on her, my soul was lit with fire.

Once she accepted to be my girl, my life never remained the same.
It was in 2008, I was a final year student and she was in her first year in the university.

The thought of her alone drove my zeal to learn harder and come out with good grades.
I was floating.
...I was flying.

Even if someone deliberately insulted me or even stepped on my foot, a mere thought of her and I would walk away,
knowing that I would see an Angel sooner.

We never got bored of each other.
We would go to the class and read together.

My CGPA improved greatly when the first semester exams result came out.

I discovered a lot of hidden skills and talents lying deep asleep in me.

I started to sell ideas to few companies by doing feasibilty studies about likely challenges they were facing.
I would test hypotheses, suggest possible tailored solutions and all.

I started to save. It helped me to define my career path.

For almost two years, we never for one day quarreled.
There was never a cause for suspicion.

I woke up each day grateful and all fired up to achieve more.

I relocated to Abuja to explore more, while I was waiting for NYSC.

And then came the sleeky pastor.

One evening, she called to inform me of her reunion to a primary school mate whom after secondary school decided to join the Nigerian Army
and went ahead to become a pastor.

She said the supposed pastor wanted to talk to me.
She said the pastor advised that we commit our relationship to God.

I told her I wasn't comfortable with the pastor thing.
She would go ahead to persuade me.

After few days, I gave in and the supposed pastor called me on the phone.
He asked what I did that made her so fond of me.

I told him the truth; constant communication.
That was it....

I and my system were so used to doing MTN extra cool with her.

That night, @ 12:30am, I dialed her line, she was on another call. Strange.
I continued dialing at interval for hours, but she won't drop the call to return mine.

It continued like that until 40:30am.
By 4:31am, she called and told me that she was on the phone with pastor snaky (let's call him that).

The following night, the same thing ensued.
Unfortunately, sleep won't come. I was rolling in the bed till morning.

...I will continue later.
Gotta go back to my workstation.

Guess we all have a painful story to tell about falling im love. Love will always destroy us and its d same love that will heal us. Sometimes tje past makes us cry and we always find that special person who will finally love us more than we love them. We all have a bitter story about love and been dumped.

Are they still married yet?? Has she tried to contact you once again??