bigname23:
I see some pepo comparing sense of humor with riches...If I hear am? na American film una dey act...becos from real life experience here in my city most of d fine girls I know are either dating or looking for one rich guy to date. d reality is dat girls can hang out with u once u are funny, but if one rich and handsome guy cums along for a serious relationship ,d speed wey dem to take dump ur broke ass ehh.. at least in delta state here most of d girls will not even look at u if u are not a Yahoo boy or at least have small cash ...dem go ask u if na funny or fine boy dem won chop

DeckXavier:
I don enter wahala nau, as I no get humour, wetin man go do?

Nuulife:


It is rare to find girls that are not boring but I know some.

On the other hand, the boring ones will not be replying with stuff like "k", "lol" "hmm"

I agree with you

yazga:
Physical attraction is important to both sexes, but looks are just something that helps in the short term. If a woman starts dating a hot guy, she will be attracted to him for some time, but if he doesn’t know how to lead the conversation, to inspire her and make the relationship interesting, she will dump him. If a woman dates a guy with a sense of humor, she will not care too much about his looks, because he will make her laugh, he will always bring something fresh to the relationship. And that’s the thing women want. They want to be entertained. If you have humor, you have woman’s attention. Simple as that.

If you are a man with a good sense of humor, don’t worry. You won’t be single for long. However, if you are a funny woman, you may want to keep that for yourself, at least for a few dates. A funny guy is usually the life of the party. He can ease awkward social situations with a well-placed joke at the right time. Dating a 'wise guy' is easy and you never have to worry about leaving him alone in a room full of strangers. Funny guys know what makes people tick so he will break the ice and get them chuckling by the time you are back.

DeckXavier:
We wey no funny nko, so no hope?.
Which kind wahala be this

Nuulife:


It is rare to find girls that are not boring but I know some.

On the other hand, the boring ones will not be replying with stuff like "k", "lol" "hmm"

I agree with you

Leezah:
Humor in men is an extremely attractive trait for several reasons.

1. Humor is a sign of cognitive fitness, out of the box thinking, creativity and intelligence. Women are more likely to feel safe and protected by a man who is clever and quick thinking.

2. A good sense of humor (or GSOH) indicates that a man may try to defuse conflicts by being funny instead of escalating problems with anger or violence. Once again, making women feel safe.

3. Being funny is always beneficial when raising children. Kids love humor and are happier and healthier when raised with laughter. Women tend to look for signs in a man that may make him a good father, so the ability to make people laugh is a plus.

4. Marriages last longer when couples laugh and joke around with each other which can be assuring when women consider a life partner.

5. Finally….humor is entertaining and makes time spent with someone very enjoyable.

A man may not be the tallest, strongest or most handsome, but he can rise above other suitors with a good sense of humor.

Heloct:
Funny people are the best.


They whine you, talk to you without you wanting an end to the conversation.

MoodyQueen:
Wow. These are long serious comments.

What's happening?
Did Seun finally got rid of senseless posters?

Onyi22:
We love men that makes us laugh, happy and accommodating that's y we easily fall in love with them..
Not those frustrated, bittered and depressed ones that would wants to channel their family problem on us..
Such men are always furious, they blame everybody for their downfall, may God deliver us from such men

vanida6:
If u aint funny sef never get closed to me

Leezah:
Humor in men is an extremely attractive trait for several reasons.

1. Humor is a sign of cognitive fitness, out of the box thinking, creativity and intelligence. Women are more likely to feel safe and protected by a man who is clever and quick thinking.

2. A good sense of humor (or GSOH) indicates that a man may try to defuse conflicts by being funny instead of escalating problems with anger or violence. Once again, making women feel safe.

3. Being funny is always beneficial when raising children. Kids love humor and are happier and healthier when raised with laughter. Women tend to look for signs in a man that may make him a good father, so the ability to make people laugh is a plus.

4. Marriages last longer when couples laugh and joke around with each other which can be assuring when women consider a life partner.

5. Finally….humor is entertaining and makes time spent with someone very enjoyable.

A man may not be the tallest, strongest or most handsome, but he can rise above other suitors with a good sense of humor.

swtdrms:


Sincerely you've been sounding too intelligent that i can't help it but to check your profile, unfortunately not too comfortable with that profile. Probably because we have a different picture in our mind of intelligent girls, and the not so inteeligent ones are the very attractive ones

Leezah:
I am not average girl. I had one crazier one before but nairaland wouldn't allow me upload it again

swtdrms:


Why's that...crazier one, I've come to somehow observed that it seems the intelligent girls tend to be crazy & weird.

Anyway I'll like to see that crazy pix...is that really who you are?

Descortes:
I'm shy and soft

Let's make it work baby

Leezah:

swtdrms:


Why's that...crazier one, I've come to somehow observed that it seems the intelligent girls tend to be crazy & weird.

Anyway I'll like to see that crazy pix...is that really who you are?

Akinbahm:

Take 5

Sixfeetbelle:


The bold, in reality, isn't a test for recognising boring people. This action is made by people who find you and your conversation boring hence their short replies. "Boring people" on the other hand, would hardly reply your chats as they are never interested in chatting with anyone in the first place.

Akinbahm:


Someone not replying chat is not synonymous to someone is boring, the way people flow with chat shows how lively/boring they are and not by ignoring messages is being used in detecting a boring being...

Nuulife:


You want to give me coro

Sixfeetbelle:


I'll give you this scenario. I hate politics or anything related to government and governance cause all I see is a bunch of clowns taking the people for a ride. I hardly read up such news, preferring other things. If you're talking to me about Federal Government and plans to increase tariff on exports and I always reply with a 'K', would that term me boring or uninterested?

Akinbahm:


From my own perspective I will term u partly boring in the sense that you should be able to say one or two to lead the chat and in case u r not interested in that topic u can easily change the topic to sth of ur interest or link it up to sth else just to flow with the chat nd not by killing the chat vibe with crazy "K"

Your ability to flow with any type of topic u discussing with other people make u a lively person nd to crown it all u r that being who's highly intelligent that will make the chat super dope cause u will just be flowing from politics to religion to football to science to philosophy etc nd still make sense die...

Sixfeetbelle:


@ the bold, I shouldn't be able to say anything about something I know absolutely nothing about. I'm not a magician. Making up things about politics just to flow with you will only show me up for the fake that I am. The best bet would be to reply with "okay" or end the conversation. I'll use the former more.

Now, the ability to flow easily through conversations across different topics is termed versatility. Not a lot of people can achieve that, very few people, in reality, actually fall into this category. As such, that you're good in sports and sports analysis says nothing about your proficiency in fashion. Tbh, I seriously doubt you know what rompers or even pantaloons are, but I'll put a guess and say your best reply would probably be an "Okay" which if you're more juvenile would be written as "K". It's annoying to reply in slangs, but people act more immature when texting. It doesn't portray them are uninteresting.

In essence, you can only term someone boring when they fail to contribute to every topic you come up with, not when they reply with abbreviations. Using the correct terms is my debate here.

Sixfeetbelle:


@ the bold, I shouldn't be able to say anything about something I know absolutely nothing about. I'm not a magician. Making up things about politics just to flow with you will only show me up for the fake that I am. The best bet would be to reply with "okay" or end the conversation. I'll use the former more.

Now, the ability to flow easily through conversations across different topics is termed versatility. Not a lot of people can achieve that, very few people, in reality, actually fall into this category. As such, that you're good in sports and sports analysis says nothing about your proficiency in fashion. Tbh, I seriously doubt you know what rompers or even pantaloons are, but I'll put a guess and say your best reply would probably be an "Okay" which if you're more juvenile would be written as "K". It's annoying to reply in slangs, but people act more immature when texting. It doesn't portray them are uninteresting.

In essence, you can only term someone boring when they fail to contribute to every topic you come up with, not when they reply with abbreviations. Using the correct terms is my debate here.

Nuulife:
When girls are chatting with funny guys, they will be the one begging the guy not to go offline.

they won't be replying with "k".

But there will be one guy online wondering why a girl is online but not replying his chats or replying it so boring.

Girls beg you to come online for chats

speaking from experience ;

Akinbahm:
So to say, u didnt belong to the versatile set with the politics analogy u gave in the sense that even if you know nothing about politics u can easily tell the other being u av no knowledge about politics rather than replying with the annoying "K"....



I have to table down topics just before concluding someone would be boring when it comes to conversation?

Sixfeetbelle:


You have to have been versatile in the conversation with that person before making that conclusion. It could be on a first date, or even better, after the second date.

You can't use chats to know a person as people don't speak how they text.

Nuulife:
When girls are chatting with funny guys, they will be the one begging the guy not to go offline.

they won't be replying with "k".

But there will be one guy online wondering why a girl is online but not replying his chats or replying it so boring.

Girls beg you to come online for chats

speaking from experience ;

Dobson43:




My dear, well said. Being funny shouldn't be the main thing. You made sense pass hot Agege bread and groundnut