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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by kushercain: 2:24pm On Jun 22, 2020
pansophist:
1. Lions are called the king of the jungle because Tigers (and other stronger formidable predators) do not live in the jungle. In other words, the people who look down on you do so because you haven't assumed your throne and shine in your glory. Go be a king in your domain.

2. Resurrect your inner b!tch. The world is a jungle, and being Mr nice guy will not take you far. The unrelenting you are to exhume your inner b!itch, the farther you go.

3. Formal education will make you a living, but self-education will make you a fortune. True life's education is experienced outside the classroom.

4. Being nice and incapable of inflicting harm is not a virtue. It is a weakness. The ability to inflict an untold amount of damages, but chooses not to, is a virtue.

5. If they stand behind you protect them. If they stand beside you, respect them. But if they stand against you, destroy them.

6. Be aware of your vices, and do not let it destroy your life. A typical vice for men is philandering, negative aggression, greed, alcoholism, etc. For women, it is prostitution, chaos, vindictiveness, narcissism, and dissatisfaction.

7. The antidote to suffering in life is responsibility. pursue what is worth dying for, and every other suffering you pass through shall be insignificant.

8. Never be afraid to walk alone, instead be afraid to walk mindlessly with the crowd. Your mind can be your greatest asset, and your greatest liability, depending on if you nourish it well.

9. As a man, your superpower lies in being masculine, and for women, being feminine. Understand this and accentuate it to the best of your ability.

10. The ability to express yourself eloquently is power. The power of speech can move mountains, bring down standing armies, and give meaning to life. Be eloquent. The content of your speech speaks more about the speaker, as opposed to the subject. The formation of your mental sophistication is expressed through the content of your words.

11. The weaker you are, the more fight you will get into. The stronger you are, the less fight you will get into either. To thrive is to be tough.

12. Anyone that loves you in the truest meaning of love is your family. Love unites people not blood, though love coming from blood relation is thicker. To understand the true meaning of love, substitute the word ''love'' with responsibility. Love without responsibility is not love, it is infatuation.

13. the natural mandate is that anything valuable comes from the inside. If an egg is broken by an outside force, life ends. If it is broken by an inner force, life begins. Do not let external forces suppress your inner voice.

14. Approach every human relationship and connections with a sense of mutualism, conversely, do not entangle with someone who does not understand this timeless rules. Mutualism is growth, parasitism is death. The tree provides shelter for the bird to nest, and the birds help the tree by spreading its seeds to fertile ground. to germinate.



This is why I follow you chief cool

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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by Hezmatosky: 2:25pm On Jun 22, 2020
Number 12, say no to pdp
Number 13, find ur way out of Nigeria
Number 14, education has no value in Nigeria
Number 15, learn something during and after sch
Number 16, believe, Nigeria govt can ruin your dreams grin

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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by Exmilitant(m): 2:26pm On Jun 22, 2020
How about trick and pretence?
Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by abayimi567: 2:27pm On Jun 22, 2020
hmmm dis write up just be like say no2, 3,4 ,7,8,9 ehnnn jst dae talk about my own personal principle
Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by golddare: 2:27pm On Jun 22, 2020
olabrinks:
1. Maintain your weight whilst your young. Not watching your weight will give you series of problem later on in life. Exercise and eat properly.

2. Dont be with someone who’s family do not like you. It is an everlasting battle that you will eventually lose.

3. You will not gain respect trying to please everyone. Stand up for yourself and always speak your mind.

4. Only share things when you are established. People are envious and will try to destroy your plans if you share too quickly.

5. Listen more than you talk.

6. Social skills are paramount for getting further in life. You must learn how to make solid connections.

7. Elders do not know it best

8. Confidence is more valuable than looks

9. Your family doesn’t always want the best for you

10. No one will values you until you hit it big.

11. Be careful with alcohol. It is addictive and very accessible, probably the worst drug out there.

These are just some of mine, feel free to contribute some of yours.

Try as much as possible to mind your business.
Avoid verbal and physical fights like a plague.
Never look down on people.
Have time for God.

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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by jojothaiv(m): 2:28pm On Jun 22, 2020
grin grin grin
Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by jojothaiv(m): 2:29pm On Jun 22, 2020
Karma is not always true.

Listen to Mr. Cosmas from 225 KataKata Street.

You will learn a thing or two from Erigga's TL.


grin grin grin
Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by Starboytwo(m): 2:29pm On Jun 22, 2020
pansophist:
1. Lions are called the king of the jungle because Tigers (and other stronger formidable predators) do not live in the jungle. In other words, the people who look down on you do so because you haven't assumed your throne and shine in your glory. Go be a king in your domain.

2. Resurrect your inner b!tch. The world is a jungle, and being Mr nice guy will not take you far. The unrelenting you are to exhume your inner b!itch, the farther you go.

3. Formal education will make you a living, but self-education will make you a fortune. True life's education is experienced outside the classroom.

4. Being nice and incapable of inflicting harm is not a virtue. It is a weakness. The ability to inflict an untold amount of damages, but chooses not to, is a virtue.

5. If they stand behind you protect them. If they stand beside you, respect them. But if they stand against you, destroy them.

6. Be aware of your vices, and do not let it destroy your life. A typical vice for men is philandering, negative aggression, greed, alcoholism, etc. For women, it is prostitution, chaos, vindictiveness, narcissism, and dissatisfaction.

7. The antidote to suffering in life is responsibility. pursue what is worth dying for, and every other suffering you pass through shall be insignificant.

8. Never be afraid to walk alone, instead be afraid to walk mindlessly with the crowd. Your mind can be your greatest asset, and your greatest liability, depending on if you nourish it well.

9. As a man, your superpower lies in being masculine, and for women, being feminine. Understand this and accentuate it to the best of your ability.

10. The ability to express yourself eloquently is power. The power of speech can move mountains, bring down standing armies, and give meaning to life. Be eloquent. The content of your speech speaks more about the speaker, as opposed to the subject. The formation of your mental sophistication is expressed through the content of your words.

11. The weaker you are, the more fight you will get into. The stronger you are, the less fight you will get into either. To thrive is to be tough.

12. Anyone that loves you in the truest meaning of love is your family. Love unites people not blood, though love coming from blood relation is thicker. To understand the true meaning of love, substitute the word ''love'' with responsibility. Love without responsibility is not love, it is infatuation.

13. the natural mandate is that anything valuable comes from the inside. If an egg is broken by an outside force, life ends. If it is broken by an inner force, life begins. Do not let external forces suppress your inner voice.

14. Approach every human relationship and connections with a sense of mutualism, conversely, do not entangle with someone who does not understand this timeless rules. Mutualism is growth, parasitism is death. The tree provides shelter for the bird to nest, and the birds help the tree by spreading its seeds to fertile ground. to germinate.

15. The gentle walk of a tiger is not foolishness, but strategic. In life, know when to give up, preserver, and what deserves your energy and resources, to avoid falling deep into the "sunk cost effect".


Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by kilimanjaro(m): 2:31pm On Jun 22, 2020
paulolee:
good..mine is good people dnt last long and they is no riches made without going illegal
You have to change your mindet
Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by Goldenfinger: 2:31pm On Jun 22, 2020
I jst bookmark this thread,i might not need it now but i will use it in the coming years...am still young(21) n i have a lot life ahead of me.LORD HELP ME

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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by kunletech: 2:32pm On Jun 22, 2020
If you want to be great do what no one has ever done

If you want fame, shine your uniqueness.

Until you believe in your ability, you will never be bold.

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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by SavageBoy: 2:32pm On Jun 22, 2020
oglalasioux:
Good one. But always try to acknowledge your source which in this case you lifted verbatim from Quora.

Mad ohgrin

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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by steve6: 2:33pm On Jun 22, 2020
Spot on !
Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by pansophist(m): 2:39pm On Jun 22, 2020
kerny:
The volume of the words you type here is astronomical.

No vex cry
Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by Emma1Oj(m): 2:40pm On Jun 22, 2020
SESARS:
These ones affected me directly
I strongly believe to be secretive 99% to both friends and families.

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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by onatuntun: 2:40pm On Jun 22, 2020
Nice. Please I have copied lt.

olabrinks:
1. Maintain your weight whilst your young. Not watching your weight will give you series of problem later on in life. Exercise and eat properly.

2. Dont be with someone who’s family do not like you. It is an everlasting battle that you will eventually lose.

3. You will not gain respect trying to please everyone. Stand up for yourself and always speak your mind.

4. Only share things when you are established. People are envious and will try to destroy your plans if you share too quickly.

5. Listen more than you talk.

6. Social skills are paramount for getting further in life. You must learn how to make solid connections.

7. Elders do not know it best

8. Confidence is more valuable than looks

9. Your family doesn’t always want the best for you

10. No one will values you until you hit it big.

11. Be careful with alcohol. It is addictive and very accessible, probably the worst drug out there.

These are just some of mine, feel free to contribute some of yours.
Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by DexterousOne(m): 2:44pm On Jun 22, 2020
OBku4:
angry

All these inspire to expire people.
Abeg, make we hear word!

These principles are valid and can improve life

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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by Nobody: 2:44pm On Jun 22, 2020
francis247:

After the first two points, you started speaking from your ass.

Even the devil acknowledges GOD. Be wise

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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by akigbemaru: 2:47pm On Jun 22, 2020
pansophist:
1. Lions are called the king of the jungle because Tigers (and other stronger formidable predators) do not live in the jungle. In other words, the people who look down on you do so because you haven't assumed your throne and shine in your glory. Go be a king in your domain.

2. Resurrect your inner b!tch. The world is a jungle, and being Mr nice guy will not take you far. The unrelenting you are to exhume your inner b!itch, the farther you go.

3. Formal education will make you a living, but self-education will make you a fortune. True life's education is experienced outside the classroom. know the difference between to be schooled and to be educated.

4. Being nice and incapable of inflicting harm is not a virtue. It is a weakness. The ability to inflict an untold amount of damages, but chooses not to, is a virtue.

5. If they stand behind you protect them. If they stand beside you, respect them. But if they stand against you, destroy them.

6. Be aware of your vices, and do not let it destroy your life. A typical vice for men is philandering, negative aggression, greed, alcoholism, etc. For women, it is prostitution, chaos, vindictiveness, narcissism, and dissatisfaction.

7. The antidote to suffering in life is responsibility. pursue what is worth dying for, and every other suffering you pass through shall be insignificant.

8. Never be afraid to walk alone, instead be afraid to walk mindlessly with the crowd. Your mind can be your greatest asset, and your greatest liability, depending on if you nourish it well. Be a solitary Tiger if needed, not a mindless sheep.

9. As a man, your superpower lies in being masculine, and for women, being feminine. Understand this and accentuate it to the best of your ability.

10. The ability to express yourself eloquently is power. The power of speech can move mountains, bring down standing armies, and give meaning to life. Be eloquent. The content of your speech speaks more about the speaker, as opposed to the subject. The formation of your mental sophistication is expressed through the content of your words.

11. The weaker you are, the more fight you will get into. The stronger you are, the less fight you will get into either. To thrive is to be tough.

12. Anyone that loves you in the truest meaning of love is your family. Love unites people not blood, though love coming from blood relation is thicker. To understand the true meaning of love, substitute the word ''love'' with responsibility. Love without responsibility is not love, it is infatuation.

13. the natural mandate is that anything valuable comes from the inside. If an egg is broken by an outside force, life ends. If it is broken by an inner force, life begins. Do not let external forces suppress your inner voice.

14. Approach every human relationship and connections with a sense of mutualism, conversely, do not entangle with someone who does not understand this timeless rules. Mutualism is growth, parasitism is death. The tree provides shelter for the bird to nest, and the birds help the tree by spreading its seeds to fertile ground. to germinate.

15. The gentle walk of a tiger is not foolishness, but strategic. In life, know when to give up, preserver, and what deserves your energy and resources, to avoid falling deep into the "sunk cost effect".

16. Have boundaries. A hen is harmless, but as soon as it hatches, its mouth used for eating becomes a weapon to defend and protects it chick, regardless of the aggressors size.


Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by philipstanley(m): 2:48pm On Jun 22, 2020
Interesting thread.







All saved!!!
Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by Brushstrokes20: 2:55pm On Jun 22, 2020
Love all, TRUST NONE


hope for the best, PREPARE for the worst


BEWARE of friendly enemies a.k.a FRENEMY
Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by OgbeniSamm(m): 2:55pm On Jun 22, 2020
pansophist:
1. Lions are called the king of the jungle because Tigers (and other stronger formidable predators) do not live in the jungle. In other words, the people who look down on you do so because you haven't assumed your throne and shine in your glory. Go be a king in your domain.

2. Resurrect your inner b!tch. The world is a jungle, and being Mr nice guy will not take you far. The unrelenting you are to exhume your inner b!itch, the farther you go.

3. Formal education will make you a living, but self-education will make you a fortune. True life's education is experienced outside the classroom. know the difference between to be schooled and to be educated.

4. Being nice and incapable of inflicting harm is not a virtue. It is a weakness. The ability to inflict an untold amount of damages, but chooses not to, is a virtue.

5. If they stand behind you protect them. If they stand beside you, respect them. But if they stand against you, destroy them.

6. Be aware of your vices, and do not let it destroy your life. A typical vice for men is philandering, negative aggression, greed, alcoholism, etc. For women, it is prostitution, chaos, vindictiveness, narcissism, and dissatisfaction.

7. The antidote to suffering in life is responsibility. pursue what is worth dying for, and every other suffering you pass through shall be insignificant.

8. Never be afraid to walk alone, instead be afraid to walk mindlessly with the crowd. Your mind can be your greatest asset, and your greatest liability, depending on if you nourish it well. Be a solitary Tiger if needed, not a mindless sheep.

9. As a man, your superpower lies in being masculine, and for women, being feminine. Understand this and accentuate it to the best of your ability.

10. The ability to express yourself eloquently is power. The power of speech can move mountains, bring down standing armies, and give meaning to life. Be eloquent. The content of your speech speaks more about the speaker, as opposed to the subject. The formation of your mental sophistication is expressed through the content of your words.

11. The weaker you are, the more fight you will get into. The stronger you are, the less fight you will get into either. To thrive is to be tough.

12. Anyone that loves you in the truest meaning of love is your family. Love unites people not blood, though love coming from blood relation is thicker. To understand the true meaning of love, substitute the word ''love'' with responsibility. Love without responsibility is not love, it is infatuation.

13. the natural mandate is that anything valuable comes from the inside. If an egg is broken by an outside force, life ends. If it is broken by an inner force, life begins. Do not let external forces suppress your inner voice.

14. Approach every human relationship and connections with a sense of mutualism, conversely, do not entangle with someone who does not understand this timeless rules. Mutualism is growth, parasitism is death. The tree provides shelter for the bird to nest, and the birds help the tree by spreading its seeds to fertile ground. to germinate.

15. The gentle walk of a tiger is not foolishness, but strategic. In life, know when to give up, preserver, and what deserves your energy and resources, to avoid falling deep into the "sunk cost effect".

16. Have boundaries. A hen is harmless, but as soon as it hatches, its mouth used for eating becomes a weapon to defend and protects it chick, regardless of the aggressors size.




I knew you would always be on point. You ways go deeper. Since last year, you're yet to reply to my email when I asked you to drop your WhatsApp digit. I want to be closer and tap from your wisdom. check your mail with gboyega05@gmail.com
Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by Origin(f): 2:55pm On Jun 22, 2020
It's mainly God, God and God....

When you hear some people's stories, you'll understand...


So never forget the God factor, run your own race. Be patient , be content. Be yourself.

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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by MrDebonair: 2:56pm On Jun 22, 2020
Life has thought me that: A breast in hand is worth more than two in the Bra.

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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by Lifepodcastng: 2:59pm On Jun 22, 2020
pansophist:
1. Lions are called the king of the jungle because Tigers (and other stronger formidable predators) do not live in the jungle. In other words, the people who look down on you do so because you haven't assumed your throne and shine in your glory. Go be a king in your domain.

2. Resurrect your inner b!tch. The world is a jungle, and being Mr nice guy will not take you far. The unrelenting you are to exhume your inner b!itch, the farther you go.

3. Formal education will make you a living, but self-education will make you a fortune. True life's education is experienced outside the classroom. know the difference between to be schooled and to be educated.

4. Being nice and incapable of inflicting harm is not a virtue. It is a weakness. The ability to inflict an untold amount of damages, but chooses not to, is a virtue.

5. If they stand behind you protect them. If they stand beside you, respect them. But if they stand against you, destroy them.

6. Be aware of your vices, and do not let it destroy your life. A typical vice for men is philandering, negative aggression, greed, alcoholism, etc. For women, it is prostitution, chaos, vindictiveness, narcissism, and dissatisfaction.

7. The antidote to suffering in life is responsibility. pursue what is worth dying for, and every other suffering you pass through shall be insignificant.

8. Never be afraid to walk alone, instead be afraid to walk mindlessly with the crowd. Your mind can be your greatest asset, and your greatest liability, depending on if you nourish it well. Be a solitary Tiger if needed, not a mindless sheep.

9. As a man, your superpower lies in being masculine, and for women, being feminine. Understand this and accentuate it to the best of your ability.

10. The ability to express yourself eloquently is power. The power of speech can move mountains, bring down standing armies, and give meaning to life. Be eloquent. The content of your speech speaks more about the speaker, as opposed to the subject. The formation of your mental sophistication is expressed through the content of your words.

11. The weaker you are, the more fight you will get into. The stronger you are, the less fight you will get into either. To thrive is to be tough.

12. Anyone that loves you in the truest meaning of love is your family. Love unites people not blood, though love coming from blood relation is thicker. To understand the true meaning of love, substitute the word ''love'' with responsibility. Love without responsibility is not love, it is infatuation.

13. the natural mandate is that anything valuable comes from the inside. If an egg is broken by an outside force, life ends. If it is broken by an inner force, life begins. Do not let external forces suppress your inner voice.

14. Approach every human relationship and connections with a sense of mutualism, conversely, do not entangle with someone who does not understand this timeless rules. Mutualism is growth, parasitism is death. The tree provides shelter for the bird to nest, and the birds help the tree by spreading its seeds to fertile ground. to germinate.

15. The gentle walk of a tiger is not foolishness, but strategic. In life, know when to give up, preserver, and what deserves your energy and resources, to avoid falling deep into the "sunk cost effect".

16. Have boundaries. A hen is harmless, but as soon as it hatches, its mouth used for eating becomes a weapon to defend and protects it chick, regardless of the aggressors size.


I love what you wrote but it appears you’re too crude. It’s ok to live life like it’s survival of the fittest but you’re not different from animals. Life is not really survival of the fittest, life is when we help even the weakest survive.
I’d like to correct the notion that the lion is king bc the tiger doesn’t live in the jungle, that’s not correct, these are just two reasons I picked and will pick other as time goes
1. The lioness who’s the mother and the disciplinary figure in the jungle respects the lion and every fucking animal has to. It’s not like that for the tiger, it’s a barbarian lineage where the tigress does not respect the lion and can fight it at any chance
2. The lion is truly the king as it demonstrate wonderful leadership animalistic behavior
It’s not greedy
It’s a family guy
It’s forgiving (tiger is vengeful)
It’s easily Satisfied
The tiger does have these qualities and not fit to rule less if it has a problem with the lion being king then it should go Bleep itself in another place

Another reason why I’m against your post is that you think people should destroy their enemies(People against them). Don’t you think that’s shallow minded? Considering you’re probably someone’s enemy right now. Love everyone equally and you probably won’t have enemies and even if you do, love them still, that’s the only way to live. Considering even those you protect can kill you someday

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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by Brushstrokes20: 3:00pm On Jun 22, 2020
pansophist:
1. Lions are called the king of the jungle because Tigers (and other stronger formidable predators) do not live in the jungle. In other words, the people who look down on you do so because you haven't assumed your throne and shine in your glory. Go be a king in your domain.

2. Resurrect your inner b!tch. The world is a jungle, and being Mr nice guy will not take you far. The unrelenting you are to exhume your inner b!itch, the farther you go.

3. Formal education will make you a living, but self-education will make you a fortune. True life's education is experienced outside the classroom. know the difference between to be schooled and to be educated.

4. Being nice and incapable of inflicting harm is not a virtue. It is a weakness. The ability to inflict an untold amount of damages, but chooses not to, is a virtue.

5. If they stand behind you protect them. If they stand beside you, respect them. But if they stand against you, destroy them.

6. Be aware of your vices, and do not let it destroy your life. A typical vice for men is philandering, negative aggression, greed, alcoholism, etc. For women, it is prostitution, chaos, vindictiveness, narcissism, and dissatisfaction.

7. The antidote to suffering in life is responsibility. pursue what is worth dying for, and every other suffering you pass through shall be insignificant.

8. Never be afraid to walk alone, instead be afraid to walk mindlessly with the crowd. Your mind can be your greatest asset, and your greatest liability, depending on if you nourish it well. Be a solitary Tiger if needed, not a mindless sheep.

9. As a man, your superpower lies in being masculine, and for women, being feminine. Understand this and accentuate it to the best of your ability.

10. The ability to express yourself eloquently is power. The power of speech can move mountains, bring down standing armies, and give meaning to life. Be eloquent. The content of your speech speaks more about the speaker, as opposed to the subject. The formation of your mental sophistication is expressed through the content of your words.

11. The weaker you are, the more fight you will get into. The stronger you are, the less fight you will get into either. To thrive is to be tough.

12. Anyone that loves you in the truest meaning of love is your family. Love unites people not blood, though love coming from blood relation is thicker. To understand the true meaning of love, substitute the word ''love'' with responsibility. Love without responsibility is not love, it is infatuation.

13. the natural mandate is that anything valuable comes from the inside. If an egg is broken by an outside force, life ends. If it is broken by an inner force, life begins. Do not let external forces suppress your inner voice.

14. Approach every human relationship and connections with a sense of mutualism, conversely, do not entangle with someone who does not understand this timeless rules. Mutualism is growth, parasitism is death. The tree provides shelter for the bird to nest, and the birds help the tree by spreading its seeds to fertile ground. to germinate.

15. The gentle walk of a tiger is not foolishness, but strategic. In life, know when to give up, preserver, and what deserves your energy and resources, to avoid falling deep into the "sunk cost effect".

16. Have boundaries. A hen is harmless, but as soon as it hatches, its mouth used for eating becomes a weapon to defend and protects it chick, regardless of the aggressors size.


# WORDS ON MARBLE....thumbs up!

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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by Heavensent01(m): 3:01pm On Jun 22, 2020
kudos Op


in addition

1) learn to take responsibility for your past mistakes or wrong decision.

2) don't dwell in past regrets, it distract self objective

3) don't invest your time on something that won't last e.g flirting, watching ball and others

4) try to relate with people that are above you, in the attempt to roll with people below or in your level, you will never grow


5) for hustling man don't date unambitious and entitled/dependent lady, for the lady don't settle for less


6) for the graduates, If you didn't graduate from the street before going to school, relate with the street now. for undergraduate try to graduate from the street before leaving school and for jambite graduate from the street first before going to school


NB: street graduation doesn't mean drugs or illegal things indulgence perse, I mean be streetwise

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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by mayor1814: 3:02pm On Jun 22, 2020
In this wicked world, any bad or good can happen at any time. so one must be humble at all times. Have God in your life as number 1 thing. Have cotnentment or satisfaction with whatever u have. work hard at having good health. with all dis in mind, u have everything.

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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by jelel6: 3:04pm On Jun 22, 2020
In a country of chronic law breakers, it's a bit rich to talk about personal 'principles'. Just follow the damn laws and we'll all be alright.

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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by Goalnaldo(m): 3:06pm On Jun 22, 2020
Pansophist I followed you for a reason. You have content.

Well here are mine.

* No matter how good and nice you are, there will be people who will still hate.
* Showing off brings jealousy and hatred.
* Ten Naira earned is of far more value than 200 Naira found.
*The multitude is not always right.
* Poverty brings despair, too much riches brings pride and arrogance.

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Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by Karlifate: 3:06pm On Jun 22, 2020
bytehead333:

no 2 and 9 seem contradictory.
How?

Re: Hidden Life Rules That I Learned Too Late In Life by Joyfulgal: 3:08pm On Jun 22, 2020
olabrinks:
1. Maintain your weight whilst your young. Not watching your weight will give you series of problem later on in life. Exercise and eat properly.

2. Dont be with someone who’s family do not like you. It is an everlasting battle that you will eventually lose.

3. You will not gain respect trying to please everyone. Stand up for yourself and always speak your mind.

4. Only share things when you are established. People are envious and will try to destroy your plans if you share too quickly.

5. Listen more than you talk.

6. Social skills are paramount for getting further in life. You must learn how to make solid connections.

7. Elders do not know it best

8. Confidence is more valuable than looks

9. Your family doesn’t always want the best for you

10. No one will values you until you hit it big.

11. Be careful with alcohol. It is addictive and very accessible, probably the worst drug out there.

These are just some of mine, feel free to contribute some of yours.

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