u guys dating girls that are always bothering about stuff like send me airtime
my iphone is damaged send me money to buy new iphone
my rent is due i need money
my school fees is due i need money
una dey try oooo
as soon as a girl starts bringing up issue of money and stuffs i don lost interest
she should go bother her sugar daddy about stuffs

I don't see anything wrong in clearing her loan with her subscriber and loading her line with maybe #500 to see who she really is

Don't tell me that as rich as you claim to be, you can't forego #1500 to find out the truth about a girl you want to start serious relationship with. Come on mate. Even Peter Obi no dey that stingy

Chidonc:

Stupidity is when you ask a jobless young girl out yet you expect her to behave like a working class lady. Fool.

Being jobless doesn't stop ha from calling.... Stop justifying what's nt
If she can be online she can call too
Not necessary long cal but at least she makes call

If I were op I then send ha 1k card or xo
That shld clear ha network debt n she Wil sure av extra
Then u see things from there
Don't rush to judge

Chidonc:

Ask her how much she's owing and clear it. Atmost is 1k. Add #200 card then observe if she calls you or not. From there, draw your conclusion, remember different people and different experiences. The current lady am dating, when we started, she was working. But she do flash and most times her phone is on minus. I cleared her debt, and started sending her airtime occasionally, I realize, if for instance I sent MTN #200, she do call me over 30mins, which u know that she used all the card on me. Gradually her confidence came back and she started recharging just to talk to me. The day I lie I don't have card, she recharges me. Don't be in a haste to call her broke. Let her fall for you also.

Chidonc I like the fact that you don’t let toxic masculinity rule over your relationships. You will have a happy marriage. We don’t have many men who are leaders. Your response to that question shows maturity, leadership and provision. You are not a simp as the other commentator stated. Not many good men are left

Run faster...how can a working class babe dnt ve airtym to make calls.Could be she is not in to u or she has a boyfrd.Cheers!

fuwaski:

I noticed that the way u begin a relationship tells how it may be. She works and has been working for years. That's y am worried.

Wic one be customized tears biko?

Dicktion:
All these things wey una dey write here.... It will end in customized tears

There is nothing bad in helping here pay off her debt bro . Since it's still a brand new relationship, she may not have had the time/privilege to tell you how she spends her money . One thing obvious is that she spends her money on something very important to her that she hardly have enough for recharge card.

My humble opinion...

OP with which credit did she reply your sms if she is owing her network?

There's always whatsapp call.

mmars:

You are a very big idiot.
Relationship should be a thing of mutual benefits to both man and woman, not send card to me today recharge for me tomorrow. it is girls like this that have nothing but sex to offer in a relationship
but what do i expect from A female asslicking simp

Shut up kid. You can't expect a jobless girl to start behaving like a working class girl. You want birthday gifts, constant calls, and all, date a working class girl not a girl that is jobless.

Btw that guy is 10X more alpha than you can ever be but Nairaland has give broke boys a new language they chant everyday.

mmars:

You are a very big idiot.
Relationship should be a thing of mutual benefits to both man and woman, not send card to me today recharge for me tomorrow. it is girls like this that have nothing but sex to offer in a relationship
but what do i expect from A female asslicking simp

Shut up kid. You can't expect a jobless girl to start behaving like a working class girl. You want birthday gifts, constant calls, and all, date a working class girl not a girl that is jobless.

Btw that guy is 10X more alpha than you can ever be but Nairaland has given broke boys a new language they chant everyday.

HeavenlyCherub:


Chidonc I like the fact that you don’t let toxic masculinity rule over your relationships. You will have a happy marriage. We don’t have many men who are leaders. Your response to that question shows maturity, leadership and provision. You are not a simp as the other commentator stated. Not many good men are left

Thank you. I actually don't take their comments to heart. Do I blame them, NO. When you are raised by healthy parents you turn out great. When you are raised in a toxic family you most times turn out toxic. If your father always beats up your mum, it won't be a surprise if you do same to your wife and vice versa. From most of the comments, you can deduce the kind of family they are coming out from.

Warlord2012:
Baba back off...but if u want help her ministry as a friend,you can do.

Relationship this day supposed be 50/50 after all na them they clamor for gender equality.

Gender equity

Chidonc:

Ask her how much she's owing and clear it. Atmost is 1k. Add #200 card then observe if she calls you or not. From there, draw your conclusion, remember different people and different experiences. The current lady am dating, when we started, she was working. But she do flash and most times her phone is on minus. I cleared her debt, and started sending her airtime occasionally, I realize, if for instance I sent MTN #200, she do call me over 30mins, which u know that she used all the card on me. Gradually her confidence came back and she started recharging just to talk to me. The day I lie I don't have card, she recharges me. Don't be in a haste to call her broke. Let her fall for you also.

so because you did that and it worked for you ....you think that will work for him??
He should clear her debt ....like seriously.
you think every lady is like your babe.....wat worked for you might not work for him bro.

Chidonc:

Thank you. I actually don't take their comments to heart. Do I blame them, NO. When you are raised by healthy parents you turn out great. When you are raised in a toxic family you most times turn out toxic. If your father always beats up your mum, it won't be a surprise if you do same to your wife and vice versa. From most of the comments, you can deduce the kind of family they are coming out from.

lol raised by healthy parent.... and could insult someone else mother and siblings abi....how so unhealthy bro.
bro u are toxic yourself......only fools insult other people mother..no brainer

Godoverevery:

so because you did that and it worked for you ....you think that will work for him??
He should clear her debt ....like seriously.
you think every lady is like your babe.....wat worked for you might not work for him bro.

Then he should let her be. You can go over to someone and decide they should change their way of life immidiately you came. If he can't afford to clear her debts and she is not ready to clear it herself probably due to some issues, he should continue calling or end it. The fact that she's working doesn't mean she has enough. He's the person seeking for a relationship with her not vice versa.

HeavenlyCherub:


Chidonc I like the fact that you don’t let toxic masculinity rule over your relationships. You will have a happy marriage. We don’t have many men who are leaders. Your response to that question shows maturity, leadership and provision. You are not a simp as the other commentator stated. Not many good men are left

for real maturity....I guess you don't see where he insulted someone mother and sister over just an argument.
he is not near what you wrote.....no mature man insult anyone mother

mmars:

simp

You wey no be simp shatapp

Chidonc:

Stupidity is when you ask a jobless young girl out yet you expect her to behave like a working class lady. Fool.

Aswrrr..

Crazy wannabe alpha males....

Godoverevery:

for real maturity....I guess you don't see where he insulted someone mother and sister over just an argument.
he is not near what you wrote.....no mature man insult anyone mother

It's obvious you are trying to turn the tables. How you treat others is a product of how your family looks. If you believe a woman is a sex tool and can only offer sex, what about your mom and sisters. Are those ones male. Let be realistic

Chidonc:

Then he should let her be. You can go over to someone and decide they should change their way of life immidiately you came. If he can't afford to clear her debts and she is not ready to clear it herself probably due to some issues, he should continue calling or end it. The fact that she's working doesn't mean she has enough. He's the person seeking for a relationship with her not vice versa.

the least she could do is recharge her phone herself... come on.
the debt on her phone did she use the credit to call the guy....why will he pay for something he didn't even benefits from.

Chidonc:

It's obvious you are trying to turn the tables. How you treat others is a product of how your family looks. If you believe a woman is a sex tool and can only offer sex, what about your mom and sisters. Are those ones male. Let be realistic

everyone is entitled to there opinion bro...... bring the mum and sister into it is way out of line.
face him directly

Chidonc:

It's obvious you are more stupid. Do I blame you, no, since the only thing your mother contributed to your Dad's life is sex and the reason why your sisters are still at home is because the only thing they can offer to a man is sex. Why should I be surprised at your frustrations.

Aswrrr......

He thinks a women have only sex to offer......


You get from women what you seek

Xavfra:



Aswrrr..

Crazy wannabe alpha males....

Just imagine. Na you carry your leg go meet person wey dey manage him life, you come dey expect just maybe one week into the relationship, make she start to use all her salary dey buy card just to talk to you. Some people funny sha. One even get mouth say some na sex object only, I don ask am about him mama and sisters for house, him no fit take

Chaii, people just dey avoid broke people now as them been dey avoid people with leprosy those days.

Stephenmoka4:
It is up to you to decide, she seem financially down and I can't say it's her fault. If you like her you may keep her. It is tough time for her, if you are not interested in her due to her financial situation; you may leave her or just be friends with her.

If he likes her, he could get her a business or job.....

Chidonc:


Just imagine. Na you carry your leg go meet person wey dey manage him life, you come dey expect just maybe one week into the relationship, make she start to use all her salary dey buy card just to talk to you. Some people funny sha. One even get mouth say some na sex object only, I don ask am about him mama and sisters for house, him no fit take

I just dey laugh them.....

But most of them are begging for a quickie from mama nkechi daughter.......


A real alpha male should take care of his babes debt

Samakus:
I don't see anything wrong in clearing her loan with her subscriber and loading her line with maybe #500 to see who she really is

Don't tell me that as rich as you claim to be, you can't forego #1500 to find out the truth about a girl you want to start serious relationship with. Come on mate. Even Peter Obi no dey that stingy

You get sense abeg.....

He should show her love by clearing her debts

BoboKush:


Being jobless doesn't stop ha from calling.... Stop justifying what's nt
If she can be online she can call too
Not necessary long cal but at least she makes call

If I were op I then send ha 1k card or xo
That shld clear ha network debt n she Wil sure av extra
Then u see things from there
Don't rush to judge

I agree somehow......

At least a better opinion from a well reasoning man...

People like you are the real alpha males

HeavenlyCherub:


Chidonc I like the fact that you don’t let toxic masculinity rule over your relationships. You will have a happy marriage. We don’t have many men who are leaders. Your response to that question shows maturity, leadership and provision. You are not a simp as the other commentator stated. Not many good men are left

True..

He's the real alpha male.......

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Chidonc:
Is she a student, is she working or totally dependent on her parents? You can't be expecting a girl totally dependent on her parents and not really milking men to always have call card to call you. If she is owing, why not clear the bill first then add her more card to see how long she calls you with it. The fact you are bothered shows that you yourself is broke. Enough of all those stories of if she truly love you ,she will find a way to call you. The only woman that will do that just weeks into a relationship is your mother.

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Trash simp talk

Chidonc:

Stupidity is when you ask a jobless young girl out yet you expect her to behave like a working class lady. Fool.

.shut up