I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

single life
oga seun i hear say you dey pay ftc

The change in attitude of women once they cross the wedding border is scary. I actually don't know what to say. I don't support divorce and abortions so I'd advice you do the praying for her and hope that God changes her. You will triumph by God's grace

Same story again.
Married woman hate sex.

That's the beginning of problem in the family.

Even if you stubborn but she day fvck die, when time to fvck come.
You no go reason her stubborn attitude

Don't stress it man. Divorce her and move on.

Life's too short.

Guys pls whenever you're ready to have kids, go for surrogacy and enjoy your life to the fullest.

We only live once.

Marriage is for better for worse, but it doesn't mean you should kill yourself...but how come you never for once notice these traits before...untill now you've got children everywhere...it's waoh...stuffs like this can't make me be scared of marriage sha...

I have come to understand that one's women start giving birth dey start hating sex..

Op you are the one wearing the shoe, do what make you be at peace

Truth is, the pastors ruined your marriage.

You started seeing all these things only when a hungry person came to deliver a message he wasn't sent.


And your story reeks of hypocrisy. In this story, she is a complete villain. But no one is a complete villain

There's nothing prayers can not do, fast and pray that God touch her heart. It is well with you.

What do people see in marriage?

It has never excited me for a second.

You lost me when you started with spirit husband and shiii.... How can you demonstrate this?

Useless prophecy! What stops the seer from coming to pray at ur house since she won't go.

Take charge of your home. Pray for your family yourself. Sit down and have a heart to heart talk with your wife and you are talking yen yen yen.

Spirit husband my foot.she went against her family to do court marriage alone and she wasn't disrespectful then. Go n pay her bride price, oga.

Divorce her period.

It is just a matter of time if you guys do not divorce on paper you will leave under the same room but will still be divorced.

The three pillars of marriage are :

Sex
Communication
Money

If there is a HUGE problem with any of this three it is just a matter of time.

I hope you have been faithful to your wife? or you went to lie or slept with another women outside? Maybe problem came from there. Go for deliverance or pray very well. Fight the battle together with your wife in prayers.

See vacuous story.. Very incoherent write up. A poor and shoddy synopsis . Why wouldn't your marriage be in jeopardy.

Encash:
I had introduction.we we're about to do the traditional marriage.Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill . including a cow. We opted for a court marriage.it was done.But this woman is disrespectful.pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream . After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year.she refused to go for deliverance.she is stubborn and self centered. Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners.
Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences.Ok.Come and take your sister I won't see them.she can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending.paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this . I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

Is she suppose to pay school fees and house rent? Why are you complaining about paying bills in the house? So that jobless men here can call her names or what exactly is your point?
Back to your issue: Why can't you work on your marriage? Maybe you should try dressing well and looking nice. Do you have pot belly? How's your sex game like?

most important things in marriage
communication
money
sex
you lack good communication with your wife. how many times have you treated her like a women, you just see her like a sex object. oga go back to your wife treat her well communicate with her, the whole problem why you have not paid her bride price yet, treat her like a queen, buy her gift, watch her give you sex even when she don't want sex. when you treat your woman nicely, she will always want to please you. you're looking for excuse to divorce

What a crooked story. OP call your wife here let's hear her own part of the story

Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

If nobody insults you...I will..you deserve it.imagine as an elder brother to you,I know all you're passing Tru and you keep taking all this nonsense. Over and over again..for 10 good bloody years? And you're still asking for advice to stay or leave? ARE YOU MAD? ARE U PSYCHOLOGICALLY DERANGED?
wait..is it until dey bury your dead body and you jam her husband for hell fire nahim you go get sense and do the right thing that would have been late by then..noo...don't leave ...stay...Ewu me

Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

Yes.

I guess she’s stubborn and disrespectful because she refused to listen to your con artists AKA pastors and prophets and go for “deliverance”.

She needs deliverance alright. From you.

On a more serious note, please go for check up. We don’t know what’s bit your peniis like you described, but it might be something treatable

Endurance is very important in marriage, I know of a distant distant distant uncle who endured all manner of things in his marriage, and he's still there enduring, infact, his daughters always pray to have a husband like their father, becos of his high level of prayer and endurance, so Op pray very well ehn, you will be fine.

So you expect her to be paying house rent ? I don't know why u have to tell us that, please try to be a responsible man and that will change her character towards you

Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

You want to marry Angelina who has never met phallus, yet you want her to become a sex vixen once she sees your own.
You want a woman to think like a man, and pay money like a man, yet you don't want independence.
You want marriage to be peaceful, yet you are engaging in violence.
Mr man you are confused.

No insult I repeat no insult. Please if you know you want to insult don't bother to comment.

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All dez one side marriage story, me i no dey comment. lemme hear ur wife 1st

OP bro, you don't want to be insulted but you see nothing wrong in badmouthing and insulting your wife. Isn't that a tad bit hypocritical?

my brother, do you know what, you are in soup, a big APC soup.

Mathscum:
Same story again.
Married woman hate sex.

That's the beginning of problem in the family.

Even if you stubborn but she day fvck die, when time to fvck come.
You go no go reason her stubborn attitude

Bad guy.

I dey really feel ur pain.
divorce her & keep ur kids before she pass that spirit & attitude to them