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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by frozen70(f): 9:55pm On Jun 29, 2020
Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.



Yes you can stay for your kids, what about your happiness

Well if you can't cope, get another accommodation to stay away from her troubles

Her family knows alot and they are not even helping matters

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by omooba969(m): 10:03pm On Jun 29, 2020
Divorce her joor, who marriage epp! angry angry angry
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by ELgordo(m): 10:03pm On Jun 29, 2020
ovoko....use your tongue to count your teeth.....

Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Nobody: 10:04pm On Jun 29, 2020
Fountainofyouth:
Endurance is very important in marriage, I know of a distant distant distant uncle who endured all manner of things in his marriage, and he's still there enduring, infact, his daughters always pray to have a husband like their father, becos of his high level of prayer and endurance, so Op pray very well ehn, you will be fine.
grin grin grin

There's nothing Endurance can not change. grin

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Onyi22(f): 10:05pm On Jun 29, 2020
Follow your heart nigga

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Lovelyn451(f): 10:06pm On Jun 29, 2020
The world is tired of weaklings like you, even them give you all the advice for this world, you'll still fail in marriage. Divorce her!!!

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by DenreleDave(m): 10:07pm On Jun 29, 2020
Dande55:

Is she suppose to pay school fees and house rent? Why are you complaining about paying bills in the house? So that jobless men here can call her names or what exactly is your point?
Back to your issue: Why can't you work on your marriage? Maybe you should try dressing well and looking nice. Do you have pot belly? How's your sex game like?

My love, u r back from ban grin
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Martinez39s(m): 10:07pm On Jun 29, 2020
Dalil8:
Don't stress it man. Divorce her and move on.

Life's too short.

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Dannyfan(m): 10:09pm On Jun 29, 2020
All I see is, you're fedup. God will strenghten you.
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Martinez39s(m): 10:10pm On Jun 29, 2020
Dicktion:
What a crooked story. OP call your wife here let's hear her own part of the story undecided
Why do you think the story is crooked?
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Vlibray: 10:10pm On Jun 29, 2020
Do whatever makes you sleep at night
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by GeneralPula: 10:11pm On Jun 29, 2020
We go look into the matter..
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Champneys: 10:11pm On Jun 29, 2020
Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.


Ok
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Nwaonyishi69: 10:12pm On Jun 29, 2020
Why do people come to nairaland to try fictions and lies? Was liar Moha a nairalander before?
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Futuragetty: 10:12pm On Jun 29, 2020
I don't believe this shit but I'll go ahead and offer my advise.
Oga, I feel you complain a lot. don't believe cooked up stories from any pastor. No genuine man of God will actually want to break up something as sacred as marriage.

"Ndi igbo si na uzor maa mma, Aga ya Ugboro abuo" You see, Traditional marriages are meant to be completed in full. From your post, it seem you turned her against her people and she married your dumb ass Yet you won't let her be.

She doesn't like sex", Who told you that? You see eh, Women likes good Sex a lot but they have their way of hiding it.

The thing is, it's appears she doesn't love you anymore like she used to. but all hope is not lost. You can fix this.
I believe you still share your matrimonial bed with her.
Get up at night, and ask her to join your in morning devotion.
Check in on her during the day to see how her day is going.
after work tomorrow, get her an ice cream or anything she thing she likes.
Buy her new panties for her. Help her in house chores, I don't know your age but I won't hurt.

a woman man will stay with you not because one chief priest
commanded him to stay, she will stay because it was God who brought her to you in the first place.
Find the emotional side of your woman, and keep pampering it.

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Dshocker(m): 10:12pm On Jun 29, 2020
Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

Your basis for divorce does not hold water... Marriage is like a piggy bank,when broken,what you see is what you take...... Oga try and manage your home,no marriage is perfect

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Nobody: 10:12pm On Jun 29, 2020
Mathscum:
Same story again.
Married woman hate sex.

That's the beginning of problem in the family.

Even if you stubborn but she day fvck die, when time to fvck come.
You go no go reason her stubborn attitude
she has spiritual husband who is fuccking her steady. I normally don't believe in this crap but last week, a girl in my compound told me about her spiritual husband, she said before she went for deliverance, she doesn't even enjoy physical sex at all. But once she is sleeping the demon will come and be fuccking her and she will be moaning, cum etc and once she wakes up she'll be very wet. These women have big big problems

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by AfroSEXstories(f): 10:13pm On Jun 29, 2020
no pass her to your gateman
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Oduok(m): 10:13pm On Jun 29, 2020
Humans won't cease to amaze me. You will be in relationship. Enjoy all the intimacy and warmth. Later you come with problem to share with the public.

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Frankyboy1(m): 10:13pm On Jun 29, 2020
PS do
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by iLegendd(m): 10:14pm On Jun 29, 2020
Mtcheew. Enjoy your suffering in peace. The moment you people see a beautiful woman, you ignore all the red flags and marry her. Later, you come back crying like a baby.

Please, enjoy your tears in peace. It's not every time we love giving people solutions — at times, we love seeing them suffer so they can learn from experience since they refused to learn from others (in books).

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by erutoria: 10:15pm On Jun 29, 2020
He who wear shoe know how it's pinches.
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by BOOKWORMLUX(m): 10:15pm On Jun 29, 2020
NOOOO
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Kpartners: 10:15pm On Jun 29, 2020
And it took you 12 years to see this things,

There is God ohhh
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by richidinho(m): 10:15pm On Jun 29, 2020
HarunaWest:
See vacuous story.. Very incoherent write up. A poor and shoddy synopsis . Why wouldn't your marriage be jeopardy.

Mr. Perfect indeed

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by One4me: 10:15pm On Jun 29, 2020
Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

She does not love you anymore, hence the frigidity, the disrespect and carefree attitude IN MARRIAGE.
Just divorce her NOW or do you want to wait till she poisons you? The fact that her brothers have joined in the wahala, puts your life in greater danger. "A bad wife is manageable but bad in-laws are a grave danger to any husband"
Divorce her, come to an arraingment to take care of your Kids with her or with you. Kids wil "live and leave" you later, whether you live or die

Start your life all over again and marry a woman who truly loves you (if you have not had enough of marriage or still very young).
Life is too short to be dragging hatred, anger and something bitting your Pr!ck three times in a year, UNDER THE SAME ROOF, if the Spirit husband decide to descend on you, dont blame anyone o.! angry angry

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by ugochukwufrenzy: 10:16pm On Jun 29, 2020
with the way marital problems and divorce cases hit fp ,one has to be careful when selecting a life partner...to avoid stories that touch..God help us singles and yet to wed to make the right choices

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jun 29, 2020
If you ask me, na who I go ask
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by saajus: 10:17pm On Jun 29, 2020
Your mental health is very important. If this stress you out to the extent of breaking down or depression, you will hate yourself.
We take everything Spiritual in this part of the world. Why can't you try a Counsellor first? Not a Church/Mosque Counsellor, I mean a Professional Counsellor. The Counsellor will let you know if she needs a Psychiatrist evaluation. I am not disputing Spiritual problems, but I am just letting you know that it could be a physical problem.

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by osazsky(m): 10:18pm On Jun 29, 2020
So because u did introduction with 80 thousand naira..she is now ur wife...na wah o...in the first place u dont have any moral right to call her ur wife .she should be the one divorcing u not u divorcing her.the sibling will nerver respect u until u do the traditional marraige....uncles..aunt..maternal family too...oga go and marry..what is the meaning of court marraige..chc marriage..na paper them they sign there na..men nerver chop kolanut..palmwin and kin kin for ur head.. oga go marry.sorry to say u are still single..so no need for divorce..who did this to us

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by UndauntedYOCA(f): 10:18pm On Jun 29, 2020
So if Muhammed refuses to go to the mountain them mountain must go see Muhammed (I hope that's how it's said sha), take a real pastor to your house and deliver her there. Ensure you lock the house oooo grin grin grin grin. Anyways, if she doesn't change her attitude I believe the best thing is to let her be, as much as I dislike broken homes, I'd suggest you not kill yourself over a woman who is not only draining you physically but also spiritually. You also have to go for deliverance o with the dreams you've been having and what's happening to your dick before it'll get chopped off one day.

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