Dicktion:

That lady is not as black as he painted. Dude is only hyperbolizing the story to his advantage in other to gain favor and the typa validation he so much crave for on NL folks.
Why he couldn't state even a single happy memory they shared in his narrative. Or did he meet her like that and got married

This is ludicrous. You know all these because... you are a mind reader? Dude is complaining of a toxic wife, and you are expecting an account of a single happy memory before you judge the story as valid. You no well.

I can't stop you from seeing the OP as the faulty party, that's where your emotions are invested. Good night.

Bro apply GIGO method, you will enjoy your life and your family without problem.

Openbusiness:

No woman hates sex. It's just that when a woman starts sleeping with some else, sleeping with her husband starts to irritate her. This is true 95% of the time

who told u the lady in question is his wife they are only cohabiting as boyfriend and girlfriends

Nuel4:
she has spiritual husband who is fuccking her steady. I normally don't believe in this crap but last week, a girl in my compound told me about her spiritual husband, she said before she went for deliverance, she doesn't even enjoy physical sex at all. But once she is sleeping the demon will come and be fuccking her and she will be moaning, cum etc and once she wakes up she'll be very wet. These women have big big problems

women don suffer

Dalil8:
Don't stress it man. Divorce her and move on.

Life's too short.

Guys pls whenever you're ready to have kids, go for surrogacy and enjoy your life to the fullest.

We only live once.

Are you sure you can do it?

osazsky:
ignore him..from what he typed the guy is 100000 percent irresponsible...he didn't marry her for 10 years and was waiting for her parent to die so that he can dodge marraige expenses now he is looking for respect cuz he paid 10 thousand naira to sign oredo local govt papers

But that's not even my own there. He literally labeled her as an enemy in his story. Oga Saint

Martinez39s:
This is ludicrous. You know all these because... you are a mind reader? Dude is complaining of a toxic wife, and you are expecting an account of a single happy memory before you judge the story as valid. You no well.

I can't stop you from seeing the OP as the faulty party, that's where your emotions are invested. Good night.

nor be who first report matter they dey right...he disrespected the girls family and shouldnt expect either the girlfriend or her family to respect him...he waited for the girl parents to die in order to dodge marriage expenses.who does that..the guy needs to b hanged by his balls

Do anything you want legally but think of the future.meanwhile hunger is killing me and I want to go to my Vila and farm now that interstate movement has been lifted.help oh. 00 35 32 59 79....access bnk

victorian:






U are asking again?

That's what most men expect from their wives, to pay house rent and school fees and also feeding.

So they ask those their silly questions : What are u bringing to the table?

I ask : Really?

Guys of these days ehn? Even the devil himself fears them and their liability mentality..

Thank God I don't need to deal with such mentality anymore.


Then encash , you are not serious! Only u said her spiritual husband is chasing u in dreams and also biting your dick!
And only u is still complaining she doesn't like sex. What exactly is your problem? The spirit husband chasing u in dreams after having sex with her or she not wanting sex anymore?

Sighs some men sef! Una case study Taya me.

my sis not only you the thing tire o lol

Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

i saw 10 years. why did u wat this long before thinking of divorce?
bro there is nothing like spiritual husband. talk to your wife threat her well and all will be fine

If u want to have a happy marriage AVOID PROPHECIES. 99% of those so called prophets see nothing, they cook up lies to rob u of ur hard earned money.
Ur wife may not have any spiritual husband as alleged by the prophet.
Talk with ur wife to Know why she behave the way she does, if there's anything u are doing wrong , adjust.

Samfloxin:

Are you sure you can do it?

Definitely. It'll cost you alot ($80 - 100k) but trust me it's worth it.

MrSensor:

shut up girl respect and behave your self. At 16 whom do you want to advice and what do you know? He is your father's mate.

you must be mad for saying that,oh you think I'm like you and your family that look older than dere age?I am proud to look younger than my age.

how many weeks/months was the courtship before jumping into marriage??
so you didn't notice her disrespectful attitude during the courtship?
Cow was part of the dowry? is there daughter an angel??
It seems you're a Christian, let's your pastors intervene in the matter.

I don't know why I hate court marriage, I can't advise my enemy to do court marriage

osazsky:
nor be who first report matter they dey right... he disrespected the girls family and shouldnt expect either the girlfriend or her family to respect him... he waited for the girl parents to die in order to dodge marriage expenses.who does that..the guy needs to b hanged by his balls

Who told you he disrespected the girls family? Who told you he deliberately waited for the parents to die in order to skip bride price? Where are you getting all these conclusions from?

vikkimimi:
Marriage is for better for worse, but it doesn't mean you should kill yourself...but how come you never for once notice these traits before...untill now you've got children everywhere...it's waoh...stuffs like this can't make be scared if marriage sha...

who dey marry for better for worse....story for the gods!

Martinez39s:
This is ludicrous. You know all these because... you are a mind reader? Dude is complaining of a toxic wife, and you are expecting an account of a single happy memory before you judge the story as valid. You no well.

I can't stop you from seeing the OP as the faulty party, that's where your emotions are invested. Good night.

I know how embittered you always are towards these ladies and yes most of them deserve worse but like someone already said up there
"No one is a complete villain" But he made her one in his story
Sweet dreams

chlowi:


i dont know why i laughed out loud at the bolded. sounds like what Men usually advice women to do when faced with infidelity in their marriage

@Op... do what pleases you. i dont support adults acting incorrigable over issues they ought to act responsibly for. If all you said is true and madam has remained adamant , refusing to seek help ... pls by all means..... do what pleases you... But wait a minute ... u actually mean ur dick is bitten 3 times yearly ? this one loud gannnnnnnnnnnnnn

I don't see how the bolded is necessary. A point was made and that's what for better for worse is about.

@op what pleases you may not be what is right. Don't act out of anger, anguish or retaliation. I gave that advice cus I see from your write up that you believe in prayer. So my advice was simply commonsensical. Do what is right not what pleases you.

You guys should stop insulting and castigating him.

Women can be very terrible, you know.

Women who doesn't listen to their husbands and being stubborn, are worse than witches.

The man is being factual and on point.

Pronto!

Kemimarch16:
you must be mad for saying that,oh you think I'm like you and your family that look older than dere age?I am proud to look younger than my age.

go and sleep.

We many when dey view this topic now and about 60% of us na married people or about to marry. They will have something to say like guy above me

MrSensor:
go and sleep.

I can see that you lack manner and home training

Do u rily luv her? If yes den take up dat battle spiritually n fight..jst like women fight spiritual battles for dia husbands now is ur turn to fight dat battle spiritually for her cos if she is possessed by whatever u think,then she does nt even knw wat she is doing..sex is nt just sleeping with a woman it has a spiritual connection so nt jst her u too need prayers..so do d needful n seek for solutions.may God help u

Divorce for your sanity and peace of mind Mr Op.

Respect for offering to handle 80% of the expenses for ten years.

If not u go suffer.

Kemimarch16:
my sis not only you the thing tire o lol

And later they will say no wife material. All they see is gfs.

In my father's days, back in the olden days my dad single handedly took care of the house rents for all his 5 wives and 17 Children. Trained all the 17 children in schools to university level, sent some abroad while my mom had to stay back Cos he felt insecure taking her abroad as the others due to his extra possessiveness.
He opened a thriving business for any of his wives who wants to work while the others who prefer to stay home, stayed back to train and take care of her kids.

But these days, most men are wailing to be the wives At home than taking the lead role to be the man. And one wonders why divorce rate is very high.

Sighs May God help the men in this category to become real men again.

Kemimarch16:
I can see that you lack manner and home training

I wonder the kind of advice you have.
good night my daughter and don't reply me again. Bye my child.

osazsky:
ignore him..from what he typed the guy is 100000 percent irresponsible...he didn't marry her for 10 years and was waiting for her parent to die so that he can dodge marraige expenses now he is looking for respect cuz he paid 10 thousand naira to sign oredo local govt papers

chisos!!

Divorce the woman and move on. What if you die in the process? This is what makes most men die early. Women keeps
acting anyhow after marriage.

Stay here and keep asking

MrSensor:

I wonder the kind of advice you have.
good night my daughter and don't reply me again. Bye my child.

have said it earlier that u u refused home training at home,don't ever ever in your life try any shit with me again