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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Kingmaduka(m): 11:36pm On Jun 29, 2020
Baba, the problem is you, from the first day you invited your prophet pastor to see vision for you and he/she couldn't drop a solution.
Nothing dey do your marriage, leave all those spiritual counselling and be your own spiritual counselor.
For the sex part, do body like you no want ham again, cuz the more you let her know you need it more than ever, the more she forms hard to enter.

My 0.001% of advice

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Martinez39s(m): 11:36pm On Jun 29, 2020
osazsky:
then where did u get ur own conclusion that the prob is from d girlfriend..
I never said the problem is from the girl. I simply advocated divorce. If you are not happy with your wife, and you think she is toxic, divorce is proper thing. As simple as that; I am not here to attribute blames. The problem is women and simps, you inclusive, who are hell bent on always seeing men as the faulty party no matter what.

have u heard from the girls family...this is d greatest disrespect in life...he had to wait for 10 years so that the girl parents will die in order not to do marriage...is he the court he got married to...kid here dont know anything..when u marry a girl u marry her family
You are jumping into conclusions for no cogent reason. We can agree to disagree. Good night.

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by okcharles(m): 11:37pm On Jun 29, 2020
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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Nobody: 11:38pm On Jun 29, 2020
Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

Hello Sir, this is a pure spiritual matter so don't expect her to yield to your plans of deliverance. It is clear that she's possessed by a spirit being and controlled by it. She's not in her right mind. Forget about the spending you are making , you are the man of the house. You are spending for your own family. You don't need to divorce her. Your write up shows you are not strong spiritually. She hates sex and won't go for deliverance because of her spiritual husband. Call up a real pastor , he will help you out

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by CAPSLOCKED: 11:39pm On Jun 29, 2020
osazsky:
-he had to wait for 10 years so that the girl parents will die in order not to do marriage

-when u marry a girl u marry her family

THIS IS MADNESS. THERE'S NO ARGUMENT THAT MOST OF YOU ARE UNDER UNBREAKABLE SPELLS OF INSANITY.

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Funkyswagzz(m): 11:40pm On Jun 29, 2020
Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

This story is fake.. I don't believe anything u wrote here

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Liposure: 11:40pm On Jun 29, 2020
victorian:






And later they will say no wife material. All they see is gfs.

In my father's days, back in the olden days my dad single handedly took care of the house rents for all his 5 wives and 17 Children. Trained all the 17 children in schools to university level, sent some abroad while my mom had to stay back Cos he felt insecure taking her abroad as the others due to his extra possessiveness.
He opened a thriving business for any of his wives who wants to work while the others who prefer to stay home, stayed back to train and take care of her kids.

But these days, most men are wailing to be the wives At home than taking the lead role to be the man. And one wonders why divorce rate is very high.

Sighs May God help the men in this category to become real men again.
your father is da real G. He deserves an accolade

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Nobody: 11:45pm On Jun 29, 2020
Don't divorce your wife. Fight the battle together to get rid of whatever spirit troubling her. You are doing it for your children, you will laugh last.

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by UndauntedYOCA(f): 11:46pm On Jun 29, 2020
Fuckingmallam45:

I'm just joking my own ni oo grin, pay no serious mind please
You weren't joking when you typed those but then, it's okay. I am not offended.
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by EgunMogaji2: 11:47pm On Jun 29, 2020
Yes, as soon as possible so you can start a fresh life.

I didn’t read your epistles by the way. No need.

Good luck.
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Oluromantic: 11:50pm On Jun 29, 2020
chlowi:


Actually , it doesnt have to be necessary to give me a good laugh .

on doing what is right ... A man who is yet to perform the traditional marriage right of his union? afyer 10 solid years of co-habiting ? ya all Holies ... That is the Only union btween a man and a woman that God recognizes ... so why dont you start with that as the right thing ? which one be pray about it ? Omo God dey try ooo
Your talk is out of line already
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by content208: 11:52pm On Jun 29, 2020
vikkimimi:
Marriage is for better for worse, but it doesn't mean you should kill yourself...but how come you never for once notice these traits before...untill now you've got children everywhere...it's waoh...stuffs like this can't make be scared if marriage sha...

Yes, you are beautiful.
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by DedeNkem: 11:52pm On Jun 29, 2020
Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

Immediately I read the bolded area, I stopped reading.

You and your st*upid pastor are the problem! I have no respect for anyone whose marriage is controlled by a pastor!

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by content208: 11:53pm On Jun 29, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:
Truth is, the pastors ruined your marriage.

You started seeing all these things only when a hungry person came to deliver a message he wasn't sent.


And your story reeks of hypocrisy. In this story, she is a complete villain. But no one is a complete villain

Oga wake up.

Spirit husbands are real.

Most of you guys are annoyingly ignorant. There is more to life than those things you read in books.
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by content208: 11:55pm On Jun 29, 2020
Judybash93:
You lost me when you started with spirit husband and shiii.... How can you demonstrate this?

Spirit husbands are real, same with spirit wives. It is not everything that science can explain.
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Stephengee4all(m): 11:55pm On Jun 29, 2020
just do what we called Separation... don't divorce her but separate with her by finding somewhere else to stay for now... she will realize Her mistakes and call for peace
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Kobicove(m): 11:57pm On Jun 29, 2020
We need to hear the other side of this story undecided
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by content208: 11:59pm On Jun 29, 2020
LadySarah:
Useless prophecy! What stops the seer from coming to pray at ur house since she won't go.

Take charge of your home. Pray for your family yourself. Sit down and have a heart to heart talk with your wife and you are talking yen yen yen.

Spirit husband my foot.she went against her family to do court marriage alone and she wasn't disrespectful then. Go n pay her bride price, oga.

And who told you the seer doesn't have other things to do than to be visiting his home?

Is he the only person the seer attends to? You know nothing.
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Naijaarchive(m): 12:00am On Jun 30, 2020
Yenyenyenyen
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Ladboy(m): 12:07am On Jun 30, 2020
Yes divorce her
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by knowhowk: 12:07am On Jun 30, 2020
Follow your Heart .
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Nobody: 12:08am On Jun 30, 2020
content208:


Oga wake up.

Spirit husbands are real.

Most of you guys are annoyingly ignorant. There is more to life than those things you read in books.
So because "spirit husbands" are real. What the pastor said is automatically true ?



It is you who should wake up from your delusions
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:10am On Jun 30, 2020
Martinez39s:
Who told you he disrespected the girls family? Who told you he deliberately waited for the parents to die in order to skip bride price? undecided undecided Where are you getting all these conclusions from?

I didn't understand what this guy said earlier until I reread the Op post. He really didn't do traditional marriage which would explain why the in-laws are against him as well. He was asked to bring cow but he decided against it entirely and went to do court marriage. I know that if it's an Igbo tribe, his action would be viewed as disrespectful and the lady's family will turn against her for marrying him. Now 10 years later and she's still 'unmarried'. Definitely sure her 'behaviour' is as a result of the marriage thing. Her family must be on her neck to get him do the needful yet he refuses to get the sign. Hence, the woman disrespecting him so blatantly is cause she has backing.

Tbh, Op knows the right step to take to remedy the situation but he wants to validate himself online.

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Judybash93(m): 12:10am On Jun 30, 2020
content208:


Spirit husbands are real, same with spirit wives. It is not everything that science can explain.

At least demonstrate it, you don't necessarily have to explain it..
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Nairaboi(m): 12:10am On Jun 30, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:
Truth is, the pastors ruined your marriage.

You started seeing all these things only when a hungry person came to deliver a message he wasn't sent.


And your story reeks of hypocrisy. In this story, she is a complete villain. But no one is a complete villain
You dey mind am? one sided jare
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by LasoulMacuby(m): 12:12am On Jun 30, 2020
Nairaboi:
You dey mind am? one sided jare
I agree
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:13am On Jun 30, 2020
One4me:


This is pure PROSTITUTION and should never happen in a marriage!
If your wife would not love you until you do the bolded, then you are better just hopping around with prostitutes, on Pay-As-You-Go basis.
Material things should not be the pivot on which Love revolves, marriage is about love, not about Iphone -99 and the likes. undecided

How do you show love?
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Nobody: 12:14am On Jun 30, 2020
vikkimimi:
Marriage is for better for worse, but it doesn't mean you should kill yourself...but how come you never for once notice these traits before...untill now you've got children everywhere...it's waoh...stuffs like this can't make be scared if marriage sha...
The level been dey sweet am then.
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by content208: 12:15am On Jun 30, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:

So because "spirit husbands" are real. What the pastor said is automatically true ?



It is you who should wake up from your delusions

Delusion my foot.

The op said someone fights him in the dream.

He also said someone bites his penis after having sex with his wife.

Do you think all those are mere coincidences?

You guys think everything is just black and white. There is more to life than just the physical. Wake up and stop being stupid

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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by content208: 12:16am On Jun 30, 2020
Judybash93:


At least demonstrate it, you don't necessarily have to explain it..

Demonstrate? And how do you expect me to demonstrate something by words?
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Judybash93(m): 12:18am On Jun 30, 2020
content208:


Demonstrate? And how do you expect me to demonstrate something by words?

Break it down on how the spirit husband thingy works if you have enough evidence.
Just give points...

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