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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Nobody: 11:14am On Jul 06, 2020
Kenny9857:

Awon space booker
Ma je ko dun e
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Untouchable01: 11:14am On Jul 06, 2020
grin
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by ukaface(f): 11:14am On Jul 06, 2020
I don't know too
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by yanabasee1(m): 11:14am On Jul 06, 2020
ImaIma1:
Falling in love with your friend is awesome and makes life and marriage easier.

I am a beneficiary of this cheesy



But friends do turn enemies and enemies become friends....

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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by davidtemi(m): 11:14am On Jul 06, 2020
My ex married her friend. Like play like play d guy chuk prick inside her and she born shocked sad

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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by DoubleEngine007: 11:15am On Jul 06, 2020
bukatyne:
Your friend is your friend.

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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by dumininu01(m): 11:15am On Jul 06, 2020
grin grin
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Ketone01(m): 11:15am On Jul 06, 2020
bukatyne:
Your friend is your friend.
your friend is the enemy of your enemy

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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by IceQween(f): 11:15am On Jul 06, 2020
Marriage is beyond physical appearance. Just marry the person you feel at peace with anytime you are together or better still that person you first call when good or bad thing happens to you aside your blood relatives!

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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by ofiko123(m): 11:16am On Jul 06, 2020
I came to read comments..
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Gadafii: 11:17am On Jul 06, 2020
A friend is someone u can call ode, mumu, fish ,cow, nyama nyama girl/boy, without them raising dust

A friend is someone that got u in ur absence and won't still tell u, until u realizes it.

A friend is someone u can discuss anything with

A friend is someone that can help u grow /develop personal

A friend is someone u can learn from

A friend is someone that u understand their silence/rage

A friend is some that u are free with, someone that makes ur presence and happiness their priority, a friend will tell u the truth even if it will hurt u, but he/she will still be there to console u while hurting

Ur friend should be financially independent from you, but when need for help arises, he/she can freely reach out to u

If u must marry, please ensure %80-90 of these boxes are ticked, else remain single and enjoy ir life

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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by SmartPolician: 11:17am On Jul 06, 2020
Everyone is screaming marry your friend, but they are forgetting something. The way a girl treats a friend is not the same way she treats a lover.

A girl may seem veryyyyyyyy nice when you guys are just friends, but you will see a different girl when you start "entering the place". grin

Then, she will make you to understand that for the fact that you didn't have any responsibilities to her as a friend that cannot be the same as a lover. You will start wondering if she's really the same person you once had as a friend.

My point is, while the idea of marrying a friend is good, there's always a huge cleavage between a friend and a lover.

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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Simieoni2: 11:17am On Jul 06, 2020
akaahs:
Ur friend in marriage is someone U have real affection, someone U re fond Of or U like, someone U have strong bond, someone that support and feel deep connection.
Summary ur friend is someone U can play, pray, or eat together.
what if the person doest have strong feelings for u unko?

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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Enn214(m): 11:17am On Jul 06, 2020
It's not about marrying yr friend. As a guy, I have so many ex-guy friends. Anything can change that closeness at any point in life

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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Mynd44: 11:19am On Jul 06, 2020
Some friends are not good for marriage ooo.

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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Asadujames202(m): 11:19am On Jul 06, 2020
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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Openbusiness3: 11:19am On Jul 06, 2020
Mtchwwwwwww. Come an buy my market ooooo grin
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Nobody: 11:19am On Jul 06, 2020
What of us who don't have friends?

See ehn... I think its best to marry Someone who's friendly. If you know what I mean. Cos me I don't have friends let alone male friends.

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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by mrkings84(m): 11:20am On Jul 06, 2020
Kenny9857:

Awon space booker

Na your booking??
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by phemmyfour: 11:20am On Jul 06, 2020
HembaqMbk:
Marriage counsellors keep advising singles to always marry their friends. My question is - who really is your "Friend" ?. I believe answer to this question will help us understand all these "Marry your friend" preaching.

See thread where such advice was give - https://www.nairaland.com/5971268/marry-best-friend-bishop-chris


Please I implore married men and women on this forum to tell us what it means to marry your friend and who your friend is in the context of marriage.


Thanks.
your friend is that person that you relate to like brother or sister. No secret, no mischievous act

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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by lexy2014: 11:20am On Jul 06, 2020
ImaIma1:
Falling in love with your friend is awesome and makes life and marriage easier.

I am a beneficiary of this cheesy

D question is who is ur friend?
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by SmileDance(f): 11:20am On Jul 06, 2020
emmabest2000:
Police is your friend

Marry police grin
sense no go kill you

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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by lexy2014: 11:21am On Jul 06, 2020
Eulalia:
What of us who don't have friends?

See ehn... I think its best to marry Someone who's friendly. If you know what I mean. Cos me I don't have friends let alone male friends.

Are u friendly?

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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by EXLOVER(m): 11:21am On Jul 06, 2020
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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Missyajoke(f): 11:22am On Jul 06, 2020
Boss13:
@OP ignore this new breed of marriage counselors that know nothing about marriage but keep repeating talking points created by Hollywood, American Advert Companies, and Fantasy writers.

These people have sold a deception and got a lot of people confused about marriage.

Marriage has nothing to do with love.


Says who
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Nobody: 11:22am On Jul 06, 2020
lexy2014:


Are u friendly?

Mmmm.... Let me check. Brb tongue
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by obowunmi(m): 11:23am On Jul 06, 2020
"Friend" is a term used very loosely here.


It just simply means marry someone who allows you to be yourself and accepts you for who you are.

The issue however is that many people have FRENEMIES and not friends.

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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Champneys: 11:23am On Jul 06, 2020
ImaIma1:
Falling in love with your friend is awesome and makes life and marriage easier.

I am a beneficiary of this cheesy

Ma tan ara e.
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Nobody: 11:24am On Jul 06, 2020
Righteousness89:
Before Marriage, seek God's Face for Direction. Very Important

As Humans, we are Extremely Limited..

God Speaks! God Directs! God Reveals! All you need is to seek Him with a Honest Heart!

Don't seek God Almighty with a Choice in mind! If not devil will give u a dream...

It's what God Gives that He is committed to!



righteousness
the Bible says, "he who has found a wife has found a good thing and obtained favor from the Lord".. "found" not "revealed" open ur eyes b4 u pick, u will not see her in ur dreams believe me. Open ur eyes and pick and pray over the person u are choosing...

SUMMARY .........don't expect God to show u who to marry in ur dreams.....

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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Munzy14(m): 11:25am On Jul 06, 2020
GboyegaD:
Whoever you choose to marry, beyond the love, make him/her your friend. Be interested in what s/he is interested in, be willing to be that person s/he looks to spend quality time with.
Deep words.

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