ImaIma1:


Seriously, I am not getting emotional. But you have taken to long to land or to make your point.

You keep asking questions like "who is a friend" that you should know. And the back and forth was beginning to make me dizzy.

There's nothing I said that I didn't understand. Point out one thing I said that I didn't understand.

honest1480:
Marrying your friend means getting married to a lady or a man you both started without marriage intention at the initial point, but along the line you found that person to possess the qualities you desire in your future partner. It is not advisable to marry a stranger because the understanding you both need to live together as husband and wife might not be available. Meanwhile, to a greater extent, you understand your friend. I got married to my wife whom I met as a friend during our 200 level back then in Uniabuja. To the glory of God, we are living so happily as best of friends because we so much understand each other.

joseph1832:
Lol. I'm waiting to have money like Dangote because there's "no romance without finance".

Komu1048:




Please, help and explain further on how he show u, I’m seeking his face for a while now n I’m not seeing dream or speaking to me. Though he used to sometimes through dreams. And if u can help me with some scriptural passage to engage I will be very grateful

vickydevoka:
Marry ur beat friend is good wen u both share same Vision.
For Igbo land na who get money pass go marry gal way fine pass.

ImaIma1:


Please de-mobilize them

Righteousness89:


If you claim God gave her to you, Go back to the God and tell him.

God I know Cannot direct you to her and you put you in a mess! It is impossible!!

mrkings84:
My friend is my friend na...
Abi my friend na your friend??


On a serious note, the only advice I will give to couples or intending couples is, LOVE SOMEONE YOU MARRY, DONT MARRY SOMEONE YOU LOVE.

Don't be confused about that statement. It means, even if it's an unavoidable situation that made u both become husband and wife just love yourselves cos that's the only way your marriage can be successful.

Saying u should not marry someone u love doesn't mean u should marry someone u hate..NO, but u will agree many people were lusting cos of maybe the current qualities their spouses had then, so what happens when those qualities are no longer available Hatred sets in, and the family is torn apart.... Love your wife, love your husband!

gbolly1151:

Most Christian trust their pastor more than God

ImaIma1:
Falling in love with your friend is awesome and makes life and marriage easier.

I am a beneficiary of this

seanwilliam:
lol.. and I hate that shit ehn.. congregation go dey do hmmmm, hmmmmm.. ...

One motivational speaker posted the picture below on my whatsap.. I curse am ehn

akaahs:
Ur friend in marriage is someone U have real affection, someone U re fond Of or U like, someone U have strong bond, someone that support and feel deep connection.
Summary ur friend is someone U can play, pray, or eat together.

joseph1832:
One would think they're promoting homosexuality. Lol. Then again, hardly have I seen a man having a woman as his best friend and hardly have I seen a woman having a man as her best friend.

Ishilove:

No need to have money like Dangote. Just pay my bride price and we will drink gari' together. Money is not everything

millionboi:
hmmmmm

Finally u don tire to form virgin

niyidenrele:
And if you don't have best friend from the opposite sex , what should you do ? Befriend them by force, mtchewwww

ifko:

That s how one of my ogs go marry fine retired olosho

delkuf:
I did, but what I am getting out of this marriage is killing me. I don't know if God really answered my prayer

Righteousness89:


Brother the condition of your heart is important..
See Jere 29:13
Is God Almighty Yyour Cchoice or just a Cchoice..

Discuss with BABA just as you talk to your father.
Let HIM know that you Ddepend Aabsolutely on HIM. iIt is HIS Choice or nothing..

Live Rright!
Pray the right prayers! And Bbelieve what you pray!
John 14:13-14, Mark 9:23, Mark 11:24

Be sensitive to hHis leading..

He could talk to you audibly
He could reveal to you by dreams / Vvisions
He could give u signal through the Holy Spirit in you.

Keep your mind fertile for God.. in Rrighteousness and holy living..

Read your Bible daily: this is one of the seasons of revelation

Pray always and be sensitive, his voice can come anytime..

I have been privileged to Hhear the Aaudible 3 times in my entire life.

Other times it comes through dreams/revelations

Other times through hHis sSpirit in me..

Being sensitive is key! The Holy Spirit is as hHis nName is. He is Hholy! He does Sstand sin!

DelphiOracle:
what if u have a friend who is not well to do n u have a sincere admirer who is rich. Which one will you choose?

If u don't know FTC dey give joy.

wonder233:
Scam of the century: in Nigeria marriage is by criteria : especially religious, tribal and economic criteria. But we will be collectively deceiving ourselves with these hackneyed cliches "marry your friend".Mtcheeew

niyidenrele:
And if you don't have best friend from the opposite sex , what should you do ? Befriend them by force, mtchewwww

Righteousness89:


Like I said, I told God in Prayers, that if I don't hear from Him, I would not get Married. And that was it. In fact marriage was not even on my mind..

Sometime in 2014, very early in the morning! I was still on bed and I heard Clearly, " You are Going to soooo"

The place I was told , I had nothing to do with the place.. there was no way I would go there ' nothing connected me there! But I know I heard Clearly! It was not a dream! Very Clear bold voice!

Now the problem I had was , how will get to this place?

Few months later, a friend called me one morning and asked me to come to his office, that he had something to show me!

In the course of checking out what he showed me, I got connected to a lady.

The Mystery there is that this lady is from the Country I was told..

It's a long story cos there were series of confirmations, series of battles but the will of God was finally done in 2017 on the exact day and date HE gave..

Send me a pm if u will, I will tell you ..

alramon:


any definition but not revealed

ndcide:


Okay that's interesting. You know sometimes we may feel we heard from God and then set out with such believe or in some Cases assumption and then meet with things that shouldn't be.

alramon:




righteousness
the Bible says, "he who has found a wife has found a good thing and obtained favor from the Lord".. "found" not "revealed" open ur eyes b4 u pick, u will not see her in ur dreams believe me. Open ur eyes and pick and pray over the person u are choosing...

SUMMARY .........don't expect God to show u who to marry in ur dreams.....

AfroKnight:


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