I need the courage to be able to write this...

How much for Pregnancy test strips? I asked the pharmacist putting on a brave face and demeanor that really wasn't even needed... 150, 250 or thereabout, I don't remember.

I got 4, I don't know why... Hurriedly paid and hurriedly left the pharmacy, all this I did avoiding eye contact with everyone in the pharmacy (they were just 3 people including the pharmacist, which seemed like a crowd at that time)

Coming to terms with reality...

Is this a fiction or reality?

You are so much more courageous than you think!
Your courage would also be strength to others having same guilt.

You've done it,you need to forgive yourself,make peace with God and move on.
Learn how to use proper contraception if you still want to be sexually active.

My dear you took the best decision..you will get over the guilt with time.Im a single mom and I deeply regret not having an abortion, I’m so depressed .The shame and stigma on single moms Is too much, Abortion will save you from the abyss of depression called single motherhood

Ifyyy25:
My dear you took the best decision..you will get over the guilt with time.Im a single mom and I deeply regret not having an abortion, I’m so depressed .The shame and stigma on single moms Is too much, Abortion will save you from the abyss of depression called single motherhood

Look, you alone can make yourself happy. Stigma? Shame? You need to be strong. Draw strength and joy from ur kid.. Let others go fvck demselves

Ifyyy25:
My dear you took the best decision..you will get over the guilt with time.Im a single mom and I deeply regret not having an abortion, I’m so depressed .The shame and stigma on single moms Is too much, Abortion will save you from the abyss of depression called single motherhood

As in??
You sincerely wish you had killed the baby in your hands?

No go kill our president o

Ifyyy25:
My dear you took the best decision..you will get over the guilt with time.Im a single mom and I deeply regret not having an abortion, I’m so depressed .The shame and stigma on single moms Is too much, Abortion will save you from the abyss of depression called single motherhood

Take the child to the father na

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Ifyyy25:
My dear you took the best decision..you will get over the guilt with time.Im a single mom and I deeply regret not having an abortion, I’m so depressed .The shame and stigma on single moms Is too much, Abortion will save you from the abyss of depression called single motherhood

The people judging you are no better than you. Ignore them and enjoy your Child!

Sorry

We all always think the grass is greener on the other side.

Many have had the baby and felt so overwhelmed that they abandoned the baby and ran. Some even killed the baby. Many didn’t want the baby but when baby came, it brought them happiness.

Many have aborted and felt the loss for life while many have aborted and felt free.

Whatever decision you made, I am sure you thought long and hard about it. Don’t let any person convince you that you made a bad decision. At the time and in your circumstances you made the right decision for you. Find it in your heart to move on.

Ifyyy25:
My dear you took the best decision..you will get over the guilt with time.Im a single mom and I deeply regret not having an abortion, I’m so depressed .The shame and stigma on single moms Is too much, Abortion will save you from the abyss of depression called single motherhood

My dear, if your baby is giving you so much negative thoughts you can leave it with an older family member you know will take good care of it and, make sure you send the person money and check up on baby regularly. Or you can give the baby up for adoption.

The baby does not deserve to suffer for something it doesn’t know about. You made the decision to have your baby so do everything within your power to make sure it has a good life including ensuring the father contributes. The baby is blameless here.

I also understand your feeling, it’s not easy for two parents to take care of a child not to talk of 1. It’s very tough. Kids are cute but can be full of trouble and very expensive.

Just be easy on yourself and take time to enjoy yourself or do things that make you happy as long as it doesn’t jeopardize the child’s life. Be careful bringing strange men and women around the child because of abuse. Even family members abuse.

Children who people think they are unwanted are abused 10x more. So be careful what you project to outsiders about your feelings towards your baby or being a single mum. If you can say it here, I am sure people know you are not very happy.

you feel guilty because religion has brained washed you that abortion is sin.


look at it this way

would you rather raise a child you cannot raise
and watch the child starve ?

how will you feel if your child insults you for not been able to provide for him.

Overpopulation is number one problem in this country. would you like to add to it or subtract from it.

you made mistake by having unprotected sex. next time ensure you use condom

My dear it’s too much, the nasty things I read online about single moms depresses me, red pill and the rest, I’m doing very well, I’m from a comfortable background and my family gives me a good support system, but mentally and emotionally the negative things I read online drains me

SweetCunt97:
Look, you alone can make yourself happy. Stigma? Shame? You need to be strong. Draw strength and joy from ur kid.. Let others go fvck demselves

baby124:

My dear, if your baby is giving you so much negative thoughts you can leave it with an older family member you know will take good care of it and, make sure you send the person money and check up on baby regularly. Or you can give the baby up for adoption.

The baby does not deserve to suffer for something it doesn’t know about. You made the decision to have your baby so do everything within your power to make sure it has a good life including ensuring the father contributes. The baby is blameless here.

I also understand your feeling, it’s not easy for two parents to take care of a child not to talk of 1. It’s very tough. Kids are cute but can be full of trouble and very expensive.

Just be easy on yourself and take time to enjoy yourself or do things that make you happy as long as it doesn’t jeopardize the child’s life. Be careful bringing strange men and women around the child because of abuse. Even family members abuse.

Children who people think they are unwanted are abused 10x more. So be careful what you project to outsiders about your feelings towards your baby or being a single mum. If you can say it here, I am sure people know you are not very happy.

If it where in a more saner clime like America I would have given it up for adoption

People always cringe at the mention of Abortion but slut shame and condemn single mothers why?

Tadeknkeepcalm:

As in??
You sincerely wish you had killed the baby in your hands?

Ifyyy25:
People always cringe at the mention of Abortion but slut shame and condemn single mothers why?

That's a lie. That's the narrative pro choice people choose.

What I'm asking is not even about abortion.
I'm asking you, if after giving birth already, feeling the warmth of the baby, feeling him latch onto your breast, hearing the baby's cries, you wished you had killed him or her?



PS: you make it seem like you only have two choices—be a single mother or abort. What about maintaining your chastity?

All the online holiness evangelist have littered this thread with their online Holiness.

Allow the poster to share her experience. No.

Unsubscribe counselors.

Ifyyy25:
My dear it’s too much, the nasty things I read online about single moms depresses me, red pill and the rest, I’m doing very well, I’m from a comfortable background and my family gives me a good support system, but mentally and emotionally the negative things I read online drains me

Please don't believe on what you read always online. Many people are fake on social media and are quick to judge. You made the right decision by not aborting and try to find happiness in your decision and not on what people say.
We all made a mistake in life. We were all general children of disobedience. It is only the mercy of God through Jesus Christ that makes us righteous.

Ifyyy25:
My dear you took the best decision..you will get over the guilt with time.Im a single mom and I deeply regret not having an abortion, I’m so depressed .The shame and stigma on single moms Is too much, Abortion will save you from the abyss of depression called single motherhood

Sweetie, if it’ll make you feel any better,can I have that baby please?
You can come visit once in ten years if you wanna....or not....

Ifyyy25:
My dear it’s too much, the nasty things I read online about single moms depresses me, red pill and the rest, I’m doing very well, I’m from a comfortable background and my family gives me a good support system, but mentally and emotionally the negative things I read online drains me

Forget the rantings of frustrated people online OK. You'll be fine

Houseofglam7:

Sweetie, if it’ll make you feel any better,can I have that baby please?
You can come visit once in ten years if you wanna....or not....

U funny

Tadeknkeepcalm:

That's a lie. That's the narrative pro choice people choose.

What I'm asking is not even about abortion.
I'm asking you, if after giving birth already, feeling the warmth of the baby, feeling him latch onto your breast, hearing the baby's cries, you wished you had killed him or her?



PS: you make it seem like you only have two choices—be a single mother or abort. What about maintaining your chastity?

chastity is water under d bridge Mr Man.

SweetCunt97:
U funny

I totally ain’t kidding tho.
We’re all wired differently, I love kids.
Raising 2 that ain’t mine and loving every bit of it

Houseofglam7:

I totally ain’t kidding tho.
We’re all wired differently, I love kids.
Raising 2 that ain’t mine and loving every bit of it

Wow. That's something

SweetCunt97:
chastity is water under d bridge Mr Man.

No dear, its not. Values are still being upheld by individuals who know that the main aim of living isn't just for self indulgence nor giving in to every sensual craving but self control and responsibility.

The former only tends to animalism and catastrophe.

VLTA:


No dear, its not. Values are still being upheld by individuals who know that the main aim of living isn't just for self indulgence nor giving in to every sensual craving but self control and responsibility.

The former only tends to animalism and catastrophe.

The ability to give in to one's animalistic side without feeling guilt or remorse is bliss. Having sex doesn't not degrade one's values, it simply how one goes about it.

Anyways pastor, na u sabi.