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i don't even know why some people don't believe that masturbating is bad..

Bluezy13:
1. Is false
2. Is false
3. Is non of my business.
4. Individualistic.
5. Is False
6. Superstitious.

No mind am.

Oh boy this thread is actually funny. Talk about concrete narrow mindedness. Lmfao.

Thank God for your life

Wow, devilish, demonic luuunatics have flooded the thread to discourage the testifier.

Pathetic!

You wrote those things based on your superstitious beliefs...
Not everyone is a Christian or Muslim.

Thank God for your life.

Well, maybe it has its own advantage.
Am not an advocate of Soapy, but I won't discourage those engaged from it.


Don't start if you've never tried it.
Minimise the addiction if you're in the game.

Las las something must kill a man

I don't support masturbation, but then too much of everything they say is not good.. some of you will be downloading gigabytes of porn, buying lorryload of vaseline. For why??

If you can't control your mind, get a girlfriend and practice safe sex (abstinence is advised). Look at other areas of your life like diet, exercise, rest etc. as those could also affect your sexual wellness as a man.

Masturbation has destroyed destinies...

Short cut to badluck and near success syndrome

Complete rubbish. You had a different health problem. All those things you typed (99%) is complete bullsheet! Dazzol!

You will be back,we all came back

seanwilliam:
Mastubating once in a while is good. Only addiction is bad.

If you dont have girlfriend and u no get money for olosho, I dont know how u want to do it oo. Dem never born you make you no mastubate

LMAO!!!

Day by day, nature go lead u carry soap. Dey there

Blessed are the poor

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mrniceguy98:
Hello fams
Happy Sunday
I've been a member of this great forum since 2016 or thereabout though I deactivated my first account here.
I'm not a newbie here. I'm saying it cos some people may think I came to chase clout. I'm here to share my story and experience for others to learn

Back to why I created this topic.
Okay, I've been a chronic masturbator and porn lover. I started after my secondary school and being a Virgin then, it was the easiest way to get pleasure. Lemme say this MASTURBATION AND PORNOGRAPHY are destroyers. They will ruin u and turn you to mere shafts... I masturbated for 6solid years This is what masturbation will do to u

1. It'll make it difficult for you to ever fall in love with a woman. Your relationship and sexual life will become nothing to write home about
2. You'll become withdrawn from others. It'll destroy ur social life totally
3. It'll take you far away from God. Very very far
4. You'll start having memory loss.
5. It brings bad luck. Believe this, it's very true. Things won't be going the way u planned, though not true for everyone but majority of masturbators experience this.
6. You see your d*ck. It'll no longer remain the way God gave u. Trust me, you'll start having erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation if u don't stop on time
There are more but I'll stop here.

With time I noticed that I was becoming withdrawn, depressed and always weak, I was having memory loss, I couldn't keep an information for long, I was shy and didn't really fancy women and relationships. I was a shadow of myself. I didn't have friends, I liked being alone.

Honest truth is I tried stopping severally because the negative signs were obvious but I just couldn't stop. The farthest I could go was 1week, I'd start again. It was very frustrating. .. I tried praying, it wasn't working.

Soon, it weren't those anymore, it worsened. I started observing that my dick was becoming dysfunctional. It could no longer attain maximum erection and normally I've a very long d*ck cos I'm very tall but with time I observed that it was drawing back. I was having a very weak and poor erection. It worsened then again, I wasn't having morning erections anymore. I'd wake up with a flaccid d*ck and I'd have to stimulate it before it'd weakly come up and then fall again in seconds. It was disheartening to say the least. I was becoming weak. I was defeated.

On a fateful (should I even use fateful cos it worked for my favour) morning, after getting up I was with my phone and I saw something very erotic online, the urge came again, I tried to stop it but I couldn't. I masturbated. That masturbation that day nearly ended me. Immediately I was done, it was as if I lost my mind, my head was heavy, it was like men were using hammer on it. I slept for hours and got up but instead of stopping, it worsened. I was dying, my back was aching so painfully, my legs were hurting so badly, I couldn't walk well. My stomach was paining me inside. God!, the experience was tragic. This continued for two good weeks. I couldn't eat well, I was literally dying. I prayed to God to forgive me and give me my health that I wouldn't go back to it. Eventually with time I regained myself. Glory to God, my morning erections are back and my d*ck is becoming normal. I can now have my strong erection though still not completely long but with time.

My experience was horrible and I don't wish it for anyone, even an enemy. I'm happy today that I'm free, its been a long while now and I've not watched porn or masturbated. Thinking about my experience makes me detest it so much now. I've sworn I'll never go back and I believe God will help me.

I learnt the hard way. Please don't learn the hard way, you may not live to tell the tales. MASTURBATION IS A KILLER. RUN FROM IT

Guy I thank God for your life.

As for me, nothing on Earth, In Heaven, or even in Hell will make me to stop masturbating.

Masturbation is so much fun.

Whenever you guys preach against masturbation, somehow you always find a way to make it look as if it is only guys that actually masturbate.

So if guys masturbate and get erectile dysfunction, what about girls?

Do girls get vaginal dysfunction too as a result of masturbating?

Masturbation has not in any way destroyed my social life.

I have not fallen in love with any woman quite alright but it is mainly because I have not actually come across that particular girl whose brain has sparked the urge in me to fall in love with. Nothing to do with masturbation, I tell you.

One last thing before I hand over the mic, please have you gone for COVID testing?

Those symptoms you mentioned are related to COVID symptoms.

I'll advise you to go for COVID testing as soon as possible so that if eventually you die, we can ascertain whether you died of COVID or you died of Excessive Masturbation, or both.

Thank you.

kingxsamz:
You wrote those things based on your superstitious beliefs...
Not everyone is a Christian or Muslim.

Tell them oO! Dumb Nigerian.religious hypocrites who use religion to cover their wickedness.

I hope you also believe it as bad as having extramarital sex

chudez0147:
i don't even know why some people don't believe that masturbating is bad..

Eyah sorry

Old propaganda....

cfree14:
3 months without masturbation and I don't think I'm gonna go back to that shit. Best solution to it:
1. Avoid anything porn or erotic completely at the start until you're able to withstand the urge.
2. Get a girlfriend that is readily available

Thank you for being realistic with your number 2 solution. Some people here will be forming Superman.

Boys go still soap up tonight after reading this

God bless you bro I disagree with him I fell in love with girls and I can still Bleep well

Bluezy13:
1. Is false
2. Is false
3. Is non of my business.
4. Individualistic.
5. Is False
6. Superstitious.

Millennialaku:
i can relate to every fvcking thing you wrote here. its been long i quit though......AND I AM VERY GLAD I DID

this is something a lot of men struggle with but you wouldn't even know. A lot of them don't know how to come out of it and they are afraid to seek help as well because it's a somewhat shameful situation to be in. I am glad you found your way out. I will advise you to discipline your mind as well because it seems you got whole spiritually. what happens for instance- when you're no longer in tune with God.......it will be easy to fall back. what i am trying to say is also prepare your mind to fight it without involving religion.

MASTURBATION AND PORNOGRAPHY IS A SWEET RECIPE FOR DISASTER.

it was through this same nairaland i got help .....in the sexuality section, there is a huge community of guy's there trying to kick this habit

Can u link me up with some of the stuffs that helped u?

bluefilm:
Guy I thank God for you life.

As for me, nothing on Earth, In Heaven, or even in Hell will make me to stop masturbating.

Masturbation is so much fun.

Whenever you guys preach against masturbation, somehow you always find a way to make it look as if it is only guys that actually masturbate.

So if guys masturbate and get erectile dysfunction, what about girls?

Do girls get vaginal dysfunction too as a result of masturbating.

Masturbation has not in any way destroyed my social life.

I have not fallen in any woman quite alright but it is mainly because I have not actually come across that particular girl whose brain has sparked the urge to fall in love with. Nothing to do with masturbation, I tell you.

One last thing before I hand over the mic, please have you gone for COVID testing?

Those symptoms you mentioned are related to COVID symptoms.

I'll advise you to go for COVID testing as soon as possible so that if eventually you die, we can ascertain whether you died of COVID or you died of Excessive Masturbation, or both.

Thank you.

Weyrey ni bobo yii sha..
As I see your moniker laidis....I don know say nah nonsense you wan talk...LMAO.
Wa gbayii..!!...staying true to the cause!!

My brother I tire o

Westernlove:
Lol I tell you, The way Poverty have finished Nigerians ehn. Any small thing they will direct It to Spiritual lol.....

Stopfapping:
no, you need help, I was in your shoes defending this devilish act until God saved me, I now enjoy all the positive of quitting, within this 100 days, I have 2 job offers both 6 figures after joblessness for 3 years, I have massive confidence to conquer the world, bro, instead of giving excuses, try it and thank me later

Now talk true, since you stopped Masturbating, did you stop fornicating too?

You nailed it. Africans have serious problem oo those in western world doing it has they become poor

GuyWise101:
Another load of rubbish!


Masturbation is never a destiny killer but instead it is a destiny keeper.


Impregenating a girl is more of a destiny killer than masturbation

Op while masturbation isn’t exactly best. Pls note generally speaking anything u overdo even if it’s a good thing mosttimes turns out bad, be it eating, sleeping, reading or sex. Be moderate or atleast know ur limits.

No do pass urself.

mrniceguy98:
Hello fams
Happy Sunday
I've been a member of this great forum since 2016 or thereabout though I deactivated my first account here.
I'm not a newbie here. I'm saying it cos some people may think I came to chase clout. I'm here to share my story and experience for others to learn

Back to why I created this topic.
Okay, I've been a chronic masturbator and porn lover. I started after my secondary school and being a Virgin then, it was the easiest way to get pleasure. Lemme say this MASTURBATION AND PORNOGRAPHY are destroyers. They will ruin u and turn you to mere shafts... I masturbated for 6solid years This is what masturbation will do to u

1. It'll make it difficult for you to ever fall in love with a woman. Your relationship and sexual life will become nothing to write home about
2. You'll become withdrawn from others. It'll destroy ur social life totally
3. It'll take you far away from God. Very very far
4. You'll start having memory loss.
5. It brings bad luck. Believe this, it's very true. Things won't be going the way u planned, though not true for everyone but majority of masturbators experience this.
6. You see your d*ck. It'll no longer remain the way God gave u. Trust me, you'll start having erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation if u don't stop on time
There are more but I'll stop here.

With time I noticed that I was becoming withdrawn, depressed and always weak, I was having memory loss, I couldn't keep an information for long, I was shy and didn't really fancy women and relationships. I was a shadow of myself. I didn't have friends, I liked being alone.

Honest truth is I tried stopping severally because the negative signs were obvious but I just couldn't stop. The farthest I could go was 1week, I'd start again. It was very frustrating. .. I tried praying, it wasn't working.

Soon, it weren't those anymore, it worsened. I started observing that my dick was becoming dysfunctional. It could no longer attain maximum erection and normally I've a very long d*ck cos I'm very tall but with time I observed that it was drawing back. I was having a very weak and poor erection. It worsened then again, I wasn't having morning erections anymore. I'd wake up with a flaccid d*ck and I'd have to stimulate it before it'd weakly come up and then fall again in seconds. It was disheartening to say the least. I was becoming weak. I was defeated.

On a fateful (should I even use fateful cos it worked for my favour) morning, after getting up I was with my phone and I saw something very erotic online, the urge came again, I tried to stop it but I couldn't. I masturbated. That masturbation that day nearly ended me. Immediately I was done, it was as if I lost my mind, my head was heavy, it was like men were using hammer on it. I slept for hours and got up but instead of stopping, it worsened. I was dying, my back was aching so painfully, my legs were hurting so badly, I couldn't walk well. My stomach was paining me inside. God!, the experience was tragic. This continued for two good weeks. I couldn't eat well, I was literally dying. I prayed to God to forgive me and give me my health that I wouldn't go back to it. Eventually with time I regained myself. Glory to God, my morning erections are back and my d*ck is becoming normal. I can now have my strong erection though still not completely long but with time.

My experience was horrible and I don't wish it for anyone, even an enemy. I'm happy today that I'm free, its been a long while now and I've not watched porn or masturbated. Thinking about my experience makes me detest it so much now. I've sworn I'll never go back and I believe God will help me.

I learnt the hard way. Please don't learn the hard way, you may not live to tell the tales. MASTURBATION IS A KILLER. RUN FROM IT

99% false

Once a day is Normal except you do it excess all the time.

seanwilliam:
Mastubating once in a while is good. Only addiction is bad.

If you dont have girlfriend and u no get money for olosho, I dont know how u want to do it oo. Dem never born you make you no mastubate

seanwilliam:
Mastubating once in a while is good. Only addiction is bad.

If you dont have girlfriend and u no get money for olosho, I dont know how u want to do it oo. Dem never born you make you no mastubate

It is possible bro. I'm a living witness.

Notatribalist:
Op I also learnt the had way.Mine is 200x worse than urs.If somebody offers me 100million just to masturbate for even 1 day now I will gladly reject the offer with smile. I can't explain the many pain I do suffer after the act..Well,thank God I am done with the evil act.I am happy for you op.

masturbation is a very bad thing and I thank God for op. Please can I email you ? I just want to know how you got yourself cleaned because I'm going through this problem my self. Thanks in advance.