[[s]quote author=mrniceguy98 post=91641610]Hello fams
Happy Sunday
I've been a member of this great forum since 2016 or thereabout though I deactivated my first account here.
I'm not a newbie here. I'm saying it cos some people may think I came to chase clout. I'm here to share my story and experience for others to learn

Back to why I created this topic.
Okay, I've been a chronic masturbator and porn lover. I started after my secondary school and being a Virgin then, it was the easiest way to get pleasure. Lemme say this MASTURBATION AND PORNOGRAPHY are destroyers. They will ruin u and turn you to mere shafts... I masturbated for 6solid years This is what masturbation will do to u

1. It'll make it difficult for you to ever fall in love with a woman. Your relationship and sexual life will become nothing to write home about
2. You'll become withdrawn from others. It'll destroy ur social life totally
3. It'll take you far away from God. Very very far
4. You'll start having memory loss.
5. It brings bad luck. Believe this, it's very true. Things won't be going the way u planned, though not true for everyone but majority of masturbators experience this.
6. You see your d*ck. It'll no longer remain the way God gave u. Trust me, you'll start having erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation if u don't stop on time
There are more but I'll stop here.

With time I noticed that I was becoming withdrawn, depressed and always weak, I was having memory loss, I couldn't keep an information for long, I was shy and didn't really fancy women and relationships. I was a shadow of myself. I didn't have friends, I liked being alone.

Honest truth is I tried stopping severally because the negative signs were obvious but I just couldn't stop. The farthest I could go was 1week, I'd start again. It was very frustrating. .. I tried praying, it wasn't working.

Soon, it weren't those anymore, it worsened. I started observing that my dick was becoming dysfunctional. It could no longer attain maximum erection and normally I've a very long d*ck cos I'm very tall but with time I observed that it was drawing back. I was having a very weak and poor erection. It worsened then again, I wasn't having morning erections anymore. I'd wake up with a flaccid d*ck and I'd have to stimulate it before it'd weakly come up and then fall again in seconds. It was disheartening to say the least. I was becoming weak. I was defeated.

On a fateful (should I even use fateful cos it worked for my favour) morning, after getting up I was with my phone and I saw something very erotic online, the urge came again, I tried to stop it but I couldn't. I masturbated. That masturbation that day nearly ended me. Immediately I was done, it was as if I lost my mind, my head was heavy, it was like men were using hammer on it. I slept for hours and got up but instead of stopping, it worsened. I was dying, my back was aching so painfully, my legs were hurting so badly, I couldn't walk well. My stomach was paining me inside. God!, the experience was tragic. This continued for two good weeks. I couldn't eat well, I was literally dying. I prayed to God to forgive me and give me my health that I wouldn't go back to it. Eventually with time I regained myself. Glory to God, my morning erections are back and my d*ck is becoming normal. I can now have my strong erection though still not completely long but with time.

My experience was horrible and I don't wish it for anyone, even an enemy. I'm happy today that I'm free, its been a long while now and I've not watched porn or masturbated. Thinking about my experience makes me detest it so much now. I've sworn I'll never go back and I believe God will help me.

I learnt the hard way. Please don't learn the hard way, you may not live to tell the tales. MASTURBATION IS A KILLER. RUN FROM IT

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Bunch of assumptions, half truths and pure LIES.

Many many people have masturbated and watched porn for years and have lived fulfilling lives.
Many have also stayed away from masturbation and porn and still lived shittty lives.

Too much of anything is bad for you, if you are addicted to porn or masturbation to the point of affecting your every day life, then you have a serious problem.
Any addiction that's affecting your every day life will ruin you, whatever it is.

Uyi168:
....
Ecclesiasties 9:10:,
Whatever your hand fineth to do, do it with all thy might.
There u have the Bible verse that supported masturbation..

Wisdom has left you ooo lol

EwuGambia:
Weyrey ni bobo yii sha..
As I see your moniker laidis....I don know say nah nonsense you wan talk...LMAO.
Wa gbayii..!!...staying true to the cause!!

Na as I see am, I dey talk my own o!

These boys go just come here come dey yarn dust.

Pesin wey never see better food chop, small dizziness come hol' am, im go begin talk say na erectile dysfunction due to masturbation COVID 19.

Na wa o!

I dey go _xvideo from here na na na make I check out their latest video on my favorite category which is: Ebony.

But in the true sense 70% of sexually active people do masturbate

GuyWise101:
Another load of rubbish!


Masturbation is never a destiny killer but instead it is a destiny keeper.


Impregenating a girl is more of a destiny killer than masturbation

Now I know that truly the devil is not all powerful after all, it only needs a willing human body to possess to get its work across to man, a lost willing tool is talking nonsense up here.

It made front page Las Las

Missy30:
I masturbated today.. Better than hoping on random d..icks

Ohhh and it felt so good

Just like having a tongue on cl.it

let's hook up bae I think u need some real meat

Your own is even better mine is worse every day once per day. I can only overcome it for few days and continue

Makavelli25:
I have always tried to stop. But after 2 months am doing it again
I NEED HELP

Ifabernard:
people advising to leave masturbation and get a girlfriend are just shit....and total hypocrisy. masturbation is a sin and so is fornication. I'd rather drag mysef in the mud than dragging someone else with me. quote me and let amadioha strike u

Yet you worship and call on Amadioha

bluefilm:


Na as I see am, I dey talk my own o!

These boys go just come here come dey yarn dust.

Pesin wey never see better food chop, small dizziness come hol' am, im go begin talk say na erectile dysfunction due to masturbation COVID 19.

Na wa o!

I dey _xvideo na na na make I check out their latest video on my favorite category which is: Ebony.

You get better taste...

Realresk:


Yeah. Excessive masturbation.
Really wish there's a natural cure

I know excessive masturbation causes premature ejaculation but what do you mean by you wish there was a natural cure?

Lol

Meedon:




What is helping me this day is avoiding porn video or pics, and I try as much as possible not to stay alone and if I'm alone I will be doing something or reading an inspirational or motivational book.


Note: I also stop myself from looking at all these naked girls on the street because everytime I looked at their huge bombom masturbation will just rush me, so stop looking at any thing whether woman or animal that can make your gbola erect.

This kind of topic has a way of making it to the front page regularly. Is Seun or any of his mods a chronic masturbator?

oderinde151:
masturbation is a very bad thing and I thank God for op. Please can I email you ? I just want to know how you got yourself cleaned because I'm going through this problem my self. Thanks in advance.

Of course you can email me.

Another thread about masturbation

Omo let's face reality
all those things you have listed there are what addicted masturbators face

masturbation is a stress relief for me
when I feel too stress up or thinking too much sharp sharp and I am free

the only negative side of am wey dey after me na back pain because of the posture when.........

my d*ck still dey gallant anytime nkechi open leg
I dey fire till she cry

my memory na kampe
social life na die
boldness nawa oh if you can look me in eyes while talking to me you go dey enchanted

me dey run am only when I dey stressed up Sha and few times when nkechi disappoint
all no just dey addicted
drinking no bad na only addiction bad


you grab

mrniceguy98:
Hello fams
Happy Sunday
I've been a member of this great forum since 2016 or thereabout though I deactivated my first account here.
I'm not a newbie here. I'm saying it cos some people may think I came to chase clout. I'm here to share my story and experience for others to learn

Back to why I created this topic.
Okay, I've been a chronic masturbator and porn lover. I started after my secondary school and being a Virgin then, it was the easiest way to get pleasure. Lemme say this MASTURBATION AND PORNOGRAPHY are destroyers. They will ruin u and turn you to mere shafts... I masturbated for 6solid years This is what masturbation will do to u

1. It'll make it difficult for you to ever fall in love with a woman. Your relationship and sexual life will become nothing to write home about
2. You'll become withdrawn from others. It'll destroy ur social life totally
3. It'll take you far away from God. Very very far
4. You'll start having memory loss.
5. It brings bad luck. Believe this, it's very true. Things won't be going the way u planned, though not true for everyone but majority of masturbators experience this.
6. You see your d*ck. It'll no longer remain the way God gave u. Trust me, you'll start having erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation if u don't stop on time
There are more but I'll stop here.

With time I noticed that I was becoming withdrawn, depressed and always weak, I was having memory loss, I couldn't keep an information for long, I was shy and didn't really fancy women and relationships. I was a shadow of myself. I didn't have friends, I liked being alone.

Honest truth is I tried stopping severally because the negative signs were obvious but I just couldn't stop. The farthest I could go was 1week, I'd start again. It was very frustrating. .. I tried praying, it wasn't working.

Soon, it weren't those anymore, it worsened. I started observing that my dick was becoming dysfunctional. It could no longer attain maximum erection and normally I've a very long d*ck cos I'm very tall but with time I observed that it was drawing back. I was having a very weak and poor erection. It worsened then again, I wasn't having morning erections anymore. I'd wake up with a flaccid d*ck and I'd have to stimulate it before it'd weakly come up and then fall again in seconds. It was disheartening to say the least. I was becoming weak. I was defeated.

On a fateful (should I even use fateful cos it worked for my favour) morning, after getting up I was with my phone and I saw something very erotic online, the urge came again, I tried to stop it but I couldn't. I masturbated. That masturbation that day nearly ended me. Immediately I was done, it was as if I lost my mind, my head was heavy, it was like men were using hammer on it. I slept for hours and got up but instead of stopping, it worsened. I was dying, my back was aching so painfully, my legs were hurting so badly, I couldn't walk well. My stomach was paining me inside. God!, the experience was tragic. This continued for two good weeks. I couldn't eat well, I was literally dying. I prayed to God to forgive me and give me my health that I wouldn't go back to it. Eventually with time I regained myself. Glory to God, my morning erections are back and my d*ck is becoming normal. I can now have my strong erection though still not completely long but with time.

My experience was horrible and I don't wish it for anyone, even an enemy. I'm happy today that I'm free, its been a long while now and I've not watched porn or masturbated. Thinking about my experience makes me detest it so much now. I've sworn I'll never go back and I believe God will help me.

I learnt the hard way. Please don't learn the hard way, you may not live to tell the tales. MASTURBATION IS A KILLER. RUN FROM IT

you will still go back to it with this mind set of yours

Deicide:
You hardly see females come online to rant about masturbation being bad, it's always guys that do this why is that?

do females release semen after masturbation... No.. The problem is not stroking the dick but wasting that semen.. There is life in the semen.. If u waste it.. Life is gradually leaving you whether u like it or not.

LongLife4all:
This kind of topic has a way of making it to the front page regularly. Is Seun or any of his mods a chronic masturbator?

one chilled beer for you

It is all about determination

IpobAntidote:
[[s]quote author=mrniceguy98 post=91641610]Hello fams
Happy Sunday
I've been a member of this great forum since 2016 or thereabout though I deactivated my first account here.
I'm not a newbie here. I'm saying it cos some people may think I came to chase clout. I'm here to share my story and experience for others to learn

Back to why I created this topic.
Okay, I've been a chronic masturbator and porn lover. I started after my secondary school and being a Virgin then, it was the easiest way to get pleasure. Lemme say this MASTURBATION AND PORNOGRAPHY are destroyers. They will ruin u and turn you to mere shafts... I masturbated for 6solid years This is what masturbation will do to u

1. It'll make it difficult for you to ever fall in love with a woman. Your relationship and sexual life will become nothing to write home about
2. You'll become withdrawn from others. It'll destroy ur social life totally
3. It'll take you far away from God. Very very far
4. You'll start having memory loss.
5. It brings bad luck. Believe this, it's very true. Things won't be going the way u planned, though not true for everyone but majority of masturbators experience this.
6. You see your d*ck. It'll no longer remain the way God gave u. Trust me, you'll start having erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation if u don't stop on time
There are more but I'll stop here.

With time I noticed that I was becoming withdrawn, depressed and always weak, I was having memory loss, I couldn't keep an information for long, I was shy and didn't really fancy women and relationships. I was a shadow of myself. I didn't have friends, I liked being alone.

Honest truth is I tried stopping severally because the negative signs were obvious but I just couldn't stop. The farthest I could go was 1week, I'd start again. It was very frustrating. .. I tried praying, it wasn't working.

Soon, it weren't those anymore, it worsened. I started observing that my dick was becoming dysfunctional. It could no longer attain maximum erection and normally I've a very long d*ck cos I'm very tall but with time I observed that it was drawing back. I was having a very weak and poor erection. It worsened then again, I wasn't having morning erections anymore. I'd wake up with a flaccid d*ck and I'd have to stimulate it before it'd weakly come up and then fall again in seconds. It was disheartening to say the least. I was becoming weak. I was defeated.

On a fateful (should I even use fateful cos it worked for my favour) morning, after getting up I was with my phone and I saw something very erotic online, the urge came again, I tried to stop it but I couldn't. I masturbated. That masturbation that day nearly ended me. Immediately I was done, it was as if I lost my mind, my head was heavy, it was like men were using hammer on it. I slept for hours and got up but instead of stopping, it worsened. I was dying, my back was aching so painfully, my legs were hurting so badly, I couldn't walk well. My stomach was paining me inside. God!, the experience was tragic. This continued for two good weeks. I couldn't eat well, I was literally dying. I prayed to God to forgive me and give me my health that I wouldn't go back to it. Eventually with time I regained myself. Glory to God, my morning erections are back and my d*ck is becoming normal. I can now have my strong erection though still not completely long but with time.

My experience was horrible and I don't wish it for anyone, even an enemy. I'm happy today that I'm free, its been a long while now and I've not watched porn or masturbated. Thinking about my experience makes me detest it so much now. I've sworn I'll never go back and I believe God will help me.

I learnt the hard way. Please don't learn the hard way, you may not live to tell the tales. MASTURBATION IS A KILLER. RUN FROM IT

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Bunch of assumptions, half truths and pure LIES.

Many many people have masturbated and watched porn for years and have lived fulfilling lives.
Many have also stayed away from masturbation and porn and still lived shittty lives.

Too much of anything is bad for you, if you are addicted to porn or masturbation to the point of affecting your every day life, then you have a serious problem.
Any addiction that's affecting your every day life will ruin you, whatever it is.

Are you an agent of satan?Someone said he's having problem and you took it personal, what's your problem Mr man?

Stopfapping:
no, you need help, I was in your shoes defending this devilish act until God saved me, I now enjoy all the positive of quitting, within this 100 days, I have 2 job offers both 6 figures after joblessness for 3 years, I have massive confidence to conquer the world, bro, instead of giving excuses, try it and thank me later

100days lol. I quited masturbation for 2years, my fear for fornication take me back to it. Anyway, I am not addicted, I do it like once a week or 2

Inyikalum:
does masturbation cause premature ejaculation??

stay away from sugar..and drink/eat anti sugar tea , spice, Vegetables fruit....eh cucumber,green tea,Moringa, cinnamon tea, bitter leaf etc

Deicide:
You hardly see females come online to rant about masturbation being bad, it's always guys that do this why is that?

Have you ever seen a hen chasing a cocck for sex? I say that to say this...the male specie of all animals/humans have been engineered by God to have a strong urge for sex so as to procreate and grow the specie. This is why guys have way stronger urge for sex than girls. Girls masturbate too, but not like guys. Girls can go months or even years without sex or masturbation...a guy trying that will probably have series of embarrassing wetdreams, or end up sleeping with an underage girl, or worse, an animal (we read about it on Nairaland everyday.)

EwuGambia:


You get better taste...

Before nko?

E be like you too dey the same department?

Eulalia
Be doing amebo there

GuyWise101:
Another load of rubbish!


Masturbation is never a destiny killer but instead it is a destiny keeper.


Impregenating a girl is more of a destiny killer than masturbation

tell them

Notatribalist:
Of course you can email me.

I've sent the mail

mrniceguy98:
Hello fams
Happy Sunday
I've been a member of this great forum since 2016 or thereabout though I deactivated my first account here.
I'm not a newbie here. I'm saying it cos some people may think I came to chase clout. I'm here to share my story and experience for others to learn

Back to why I created this topic.
Okay, I've been a chronic masturbator and porn lover. I started after my secondary school and being a Virgin then, it was the easiest way to get pleasure. Lemme say this MASTURBATION AND PORNOGRAPHY are destroyers. They will ruin u and turn you to mere shafts... I masturbated for 6solid years This is what masturbation will do to u

1. It'll make it difficult for you to ever fall in love with a woman. Your relationship and sexual life will become nothing to write home about
2. You'll become withdrawn from others. It'll destroy ur social life totally
3. It'll take you far away from God. Very very far
4. You'll start having memory loss.
5. It brings bad luck. Believe this, it's very true. Things won't be going the way u planned, though not true for everyone but majority of masturbators experience this.
6. You see your d*ck. It'll no longer remain the way God gave u. Trust me, you'll start having erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation if u don't stop on time
There are more but I'll stop here.

With time I noticed that I was becoming withdrawn, depressed and always weak, I was having memory loss, I couldn't keep an information for long, I was shy and didn't really fancy women and relationships. I was a shadow of myself. I didn't have friends, I liked being alone.

Honest truth is I tried stopping severally because the negative signs were obvious but I just couldn't stop. The farthest I could go was 1week, I'd start again. It was very frustrating. .. I tried praying, it wasn't working.

Soon, it weren't those anymore, it worsened. I started observing that my dick was becoming dysfunctional. It could no longer attain maximum erection and normally I've a very long d*ck cos I'm very tall but with time I observed that it was drawing back. I was having a very weak and poor erection. It worsened then again, I wasn't having morning erections anymore. I'd wake up with a flaccid d*ck and I'd have to stimulate it before it'd weakly come up and then fall again in seconds. It was disheartening to say the least. I was becoming weak. I was defeated.

On a fateful (should I even use fateful cos it worked for my favour) morning, after getting up I was with my phone and I saw something very erotic online, the urge came again, I tried to stop it but I couldn't. I masturbated. That masturbation that day nearly ended me. Immediately I was done, it was as if I lost my mind, my head was heavy, it was like men were using hammer on it. I slept for hours and got up but instead of stopping, it worsened. I was dying, my back was aching so painfully, my legs were hurting so badly, I couldn't walk well. My stomach was paining me inside. God!, the experience was tragic. This continued for two good weeks. I couldn't eat well, I was literally dying. I prayed to God to forgive me and give me my health that I wouldn't go back to it. Eventually with time I regained myself. Glory to God, my morning erections are back and my d*ck is becoming normal. I can now have my strong erection though still not completely long but with time.

My experience was horrible and I don't wish it for anyone, even an enemy. I'm happy today that I'm free, its been a long while now and I've not watched porn or masturbated. Thinking about my experience makes me detest it so much now. I've sworn I'll never go back and I believe God will help me.

I learnt the hard way. Please don't learn the hard way, you may not live to tell the tales. MASTURBATION IS A KILLER. RUN FROM IT

my brother all what you stated there are all lie and maybe you have a problem but u don't know it and stop blaming it on masturbation, mean while am not saying is morally right but don't just put masturbation has the problem..go find wetin dey do you abeg

cfree14:
3 months without masturbation and I don't think I'm gonna go back to that shit. Best solution to it:
1. Avoid anything porn or erotic completely at the start until you're able to withstand the urge.
2. Get a girlfriend that is readily available

lol
my dear, you will do it again with this mentality.
the only people who have been able to stop it are those who do not see anything wrong with it. let no one or you decieve yourself!

Hmmm...

This porn and masturbation issue keeps raising its neck on this forum. Despite all that has been written and said against this sinful act, many still practice it its very sad...

Habitual Masturbation does nothing for you spiritually. It just drains your blessings into the hands of your enemies. It's something we all need to control if we really want to progress and go far in life... Of a truth.

The spiritual controls the physical, in fact, the spiritual is more real than the physical, masturbation affects you spiritually in a negative way. It has spiritual consequences in the physical.

Success and prosperity starts in the spiritual and manifests physical, same thing with failure and poverty. Many don't know that our spirits have a major role in our success or failure in life... this is why we must guard our spirits with all diligence because out of it flows issues of life.


“Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.”
— Proverbs 4:23

You only masturbate when you have lots of free time, by the time ur hustle really hard during the day, when you come home, all you will think about is how to have a nice shower and get some good sleep