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ElasmoBranchii:
This is a slippery slope she might, she might not but that doesn't matter. Two wrongs don't make a right.

[b]I will use the umbrella case to illustrate, let's imagine after the girl goes home, she says ”Because a guy refused to help me today I decide never to help a guy again"[/b]Then the next day a guy asked her for a favor which is within her power to do but she refuses because she doesn't help guys. Now the guy goes home and says the same thing...

You see where this is going, it's completely irrational.

Like i said before,many of you guys dont just get it .If it had been the lady with the umbrella and the guy just stood under it just like that,the lady would have screamed "Will you get out of here!! Ordinary umbrella you no fit buy! Useless man! E won take style molest me"
By the way,women are attracted to men who say NO to them

Martinez39s:
Exactly! If ship is sinking, I can't be among those shouting "women and children first." I put myself first and fight for my survival. I won't be like the men that died when the titanic sank because women will still embrace feminism and tell you with scorn how they are strong and independent and don't need your protection.

Men LOVE women.I mean LOVE them!! Ready to end their lives for them.Unfortunately for men,women DO NOT feel thesame way about them but men don't understand this female point of view of them because they project their male perspectives onto women

Miggs:
Like i said before,many of you guys dont just get it .If it had the lady with the umbrella and the guy just stood under it just like that,the lady would have screamed "Will you get out of here!! Ordinary umbrella you no fit buy! Useless man! E won take style molest me"
By the way,women are attracted to men who say NO to them

Gone should be the days when rich men will pick up a girl that has nothing, polish her, and give her the whole world. Women wouldn't do you such favour no matter the billions they have in their bank account, and we are in the era of equality and feminism that women craved for so much. This is not hatred, it's called appropriate treatment. If your male friends were parasitic, ungrateful, and entitled as these women, would you still think of being kind to them in situation where they wouldn't help you out if they had the means? Would you even think of tolerating some inconvenience or making sacrifices for them? No one is saying we should hate women, and I am not stopping anyone from helping women. I will just do what I deem fit.

Mandela27, don't develop hatred for women neither should you become a mister nice guy and blue pill simp. We don't have huge hatred for wild tigers even though wild tigers will kill us if given the chance. Just accept female nature and live with it. I know it hurts to think about your past simp years and how you have been used. Take heart and make sure you heal.

BlackNeo:
GAMING IS NOT SEEKING VALIDATION FROM WOMEN

Only if you are trying to be mischievous, you will know gaming is not validation seeking from women. I defined game and I explained it. Game is the enemy of hypergamy. Game means men Vs WOMEN. Gamers are the only Redpillers who truly deal with hypergamy. We are the only ones who deal deadly blows to hypergamy. How? Because we utilize redpill philosophy as a weapon to destroy hypergamy. We don't become self defeatists. We don't give up. When you give up, you have not hurt hypergamy. MGTOW to me is giving up. Women don't give a shit about you. You don't hurt hypergamy. But for us, hypergamy would be on the rise. We are the punishers of hypergamy. I speak from experience. In my applications of game, I have disciplined a lot of hypergamous females. They hate me for it, but can't do without me. We are the revenge of manhood. We use the truth to destroy hypergamy strongholds. The best part? We actually win!

Not to derail or offend any MGTOW here, but I’ve always shared this sentiment.

Like , why letting these women go to waste ? Lol

Staying away means feminism will be on the rise which is clearly evident in this day and age

You already have control over yourself , now it’s time to apply all that knowledge and dominate.

Again, these are just my personal thoughts, no disrespect intended to anyone.

Miggs:
Many of you guys simply dont get it.If you were in a similar situation the lady was in,she would NEVER have asissted you even if she had a billion in her bag.Infact she would have been disgusted by you asking her for help.For goodness sake,start treating these women how they treat you men

you guys no go kill me for nairaland. But honestly, I have received help from about two ladies before. Total strangers. I understand what U mean but being mean to all because de majority of them are bad is like an overkill to me.

mattfeuter:
Not to derail or offend any MGTOW here, but I’ve always shared this sentiment.

Like , why letting these women go to waste ? Lol

Staying away means feminism will be on the rise which is clearly evident in this day and age

You already have control over yourself , now it’s time to apply all that knowledge and dominate.

Again, these are just my personal thoughts, no disrespect intended to anyone.

Lol. People should do well to research ideas they know nothing about. The goal of MGTOW is not to hurt women or hypergamy, we don't give a shit, and we don't have a vendetta against women. MGTOW are simply men who shun marriage, short or long term romantic relationships with women, and cohabitation with women. In place of these, they seek to live their lives on their own terms (usually self improvement). Being MGTOW doesn't mean you can't play the game or have sex with any woman of your choice. Being MGTOW doesn't mean you can't put women in their place. The only MGTOW men that don't want sex are MGTOW monks.

shekauvsbuhari:
you guys no go kill me for nairaland. But honestly, I have received help from about two ladies before. Total strangers. I understand what U mean but being mean to all because de majority of them are bad is like an overkill to me.

If you have received help from ladies, keep on helping in return. When I and others receive help from ladies, we will help in return. We are not being mean, let's just say we have different experiences. Shikena.

Martinez39s:
Lol. Though I am bit sceptical, but let's allow him get to his point and show us his ways of gaming Nigerian women as he promised. So far he has been dishing redpill truths that we know, and some pua tips some of us are aware of. Let's be patient and let him get to his point and "practicals." If he turns out to be another Donovan Sharpe or pua snake oil salesman, we will call him out for the sake of his followers. If he works as he says he would (though he hasn't written his approach methods yet), we would give him the thumbs up. Let's wait.

Donovan Sharpe is good but CRP is better.

Omar09:
Donovan Sharpe is good but CRP is better.

Donovan Sharpe is very redpill, but the hope he is selling to american guys to venture into the dating market over there is dangerous. Many guys think that they can be dominant and maintain frame in a marriage in gynocentric America where the wife is given too much power over the husband. The divorce courts don't care if you are alpha or beta, or if the frame you are maintaining is made of steel. If one is stupid to married over there, the divorce courts will grind you to pieces. There are even new laws that treat a man and his girlfriend as married couples if they have stayed long enough.

Donovan Sharpe is good but just like Richard Cooper, they are selling pious hopes for cash. The difference is that Richard Cooper is arrogant and charges exorbitant fees for his unnecessary services (I have no problem with that, after all it's his service). I stand to be corrected on Donovan Sharpe tho, I only listened to some of his podcast back then.

Martinez39s:
Donovan Sharpe is very redpill, but the hope he is selling to american guys to venture into the dating market over there is dangerous. Many guys think that they can be dominant and maintain frame in a marriage in gynocentric America where the wife is given too much power over the husband. The divorce courts don't care if you are alpha or beta, or if the frame you are maintaining is made of steel. If one is stupid to married over there, the divorce courts will grind you to pieces. There are even new laws that treat a man and his girlfriend as married couples if they have stayed long enough.

Donovan Sharpe is good but just like Richard Cooper, they are selling pious hopes for cash. The difference is that Richard Cooper is arrogant and charges exorbitant fees for his unnecessary services (I have no problem with that, after all it's his service). I stand to be corrected on Donovan Sharpe tho, I only listened to some of his podcast back then.

@italics
In the USA, it isn't a new law. It has been around for a really long time however not in all the states just few states like Alabama, Kentucky etc for the purpose of inheritance when one couple dies, but we all know it's not just that.

Martinez39s:
If you have received help from ladies, keep on helping in return. When I and others receive help from ladies, we will help in return. We are not being mean, let's just say we have different experiences. Shikena.

to convince a normal Naija guy make he treat gals like d way d gals dae treat dem,, b like say u dae wait make fowl lay cooked egg..

90% of niggers 4 street dae think with dier gbola

Zabiboy:

My last contribution on this thread...
To the OP and others who care,
Redpill is not about women/female.....its about YOU...your goals, your personality, its about building YOU to become YOU and be able to walk out of anything that doesnt add value to YOU..
The women aspect is just for newbies..to help them change their perception and mentality...its called THE SIDEBAR...
So i think this thread is actually what next for those who just got introduced into the Redpill world....And i think the answer is to dust yourself and move on...forget about the simping lifestyle you'v lived, forget about the people that would say you're trying to be who you aren't...keep striving to become the best version of yourself..if possible, change the circle of people you call freinds...AND FINALLY, NEVER DWELL TO MUCH THINKING OF YOUR PAST....Also pull anybody willing into the redpilled circle...
Remember....ITS GOING TO TAKE A WHILE...BUT IT'S WORTH IT....DONT JUST READ AND CHANGE BY WORDS...ACT ACT ACT
You can check out my last thread or
reddit . com / r / TheRedpill
GL

Yes! You got it absolutely right and its de way I view it. Shaking off the years of timidity, foolishness and inaction. Pursuing your goals to be the person you ought to be while discarding all the unnecessary baggage that held you down. Ladies is just one of the things you change how you handle.

patoski39:
to convince a normal Naija guy make he treat gals like d way d gals dae treat dem,, b like say u dae wait make fowl lay cooked egg..

90% of niggers 4 street dae think with dier gbola

I still maintain that Redpill is not about being cruel or mean to ladies but stopping them from manipulating or taking advantage of you and withdrawing from making them the center-stage of your life.

Skepticus:
I hope Blackneo disappoints my expectations of him being another PUA-centric clown (To me, full PUAs are men desperate for female validation and in fact, they end up validating women rather than being validated), but so far from what I've read from him is what Red-Pillers and MGTOWs yap about all the time, except for his encouragement of marriage. It's impressive to me and I liked and shared his opinions, likewise others.

My criticism of him came off from the PUA-centric vibe he gave in his comments at the beginning of the thread, his ignorant opinion on MGTOWs and his discouragement of critics which I find suspect.

I'm good with his ideas so far and I don't see anything "game" about it. Just red pill reminders.

what blackneo is doing is what i av alway stand for and argued with vbunja few times i come onboard.
if i take jedi(herbs), opa eyin + ale obviously it should be for sex with a woman and not to avoid women, not to masturbate.
Taking a redpill dose and avoiding or walking away from women is tantamount to taking sex enhancing herbs without a mindset to get laid.
infact only those whu av women in there lives,(sister & mom excluded) should be on dose, hence why these thread made so much sense, redpill with a blend of "game" sounds perfect.
@martinez39s what is the essence of a knowledge that will never be tested ... i think redpill is more appropriate for handling women than avoiding women. blackneo i can relate

anslem04:
@martinez39s what is the essence of a knowledge that will never be tested ... i think redpill is more appropriate for handling women than avoiding women. blackneo i can relate

Redpill and game are two different things. Redpill is simply the truths on female nature and behaviour and other peripherals. Game is just tricks and techniques on how "get" women. Game is AN application of the redpill. To be a very successful gamer, you must walk in light of the redpill and common sense. It's unavoidable. Game teaches you the right methods to get women, Redpill just teaches you about women. You can be redpilled and not be a gamer.

Game is not the only application of the Redpill. In our daily lives, we deal with women whether we are Redpill or not; the Redpill will come in handy when we have to avoid being manipulated in whatever way by women, and in putting women in their place and treating them appropriately and accordingly. Many nairalanders use Redpill and game interchangeably because ubunja combined both without making a distinction. Pùssy and handling women accordingly are the end goals of game; wisdom, enlightenment, and handling women accordingly are the purposes of Redpill knowledge.

ElasmoBranchii:
You are not getting my point at all. If you go through my intial comments you will see I have been advocating putting your needs first, don't sacrifice yourself.
What I'm against is saying you can never help a girl.

I was on a queue and the next in line to use the ATM. A pretty lady came up to me ask if she could use the machine that she has somewhere urgent to go. I had to tell her to join the queue not because she would have told me the same if I was in her position but my first priority was to use the machine any other thing is irrelevant to me.

She later told me that she will have her revenge, one day I will need her help and she will do the same thing( crazy bitch)

hahahaha dis one pain her die




Funny enough,when dat time comes,she would help u.mark my words

Martinez39s:
Redpill and game are two different things. Redpill is simply the truths on female nature and behaviour and other peripherals. Game is just tricks and techniques on how "get" women. Game is AN application of the redpill. To be a very successful gamer, you must walk in light of the redpill and common sense. It's unavoidable. Game teaches you the right methods to get women, Redpill just teaches you about women. You can be redpilled and not be a gamer.

Game is not the only application of the Redpill. In our daily lives, we deal with women whether we are Redpill or not; the Redpill will come in handy when we have to avoid being manipulated in whatever way by women, and in putting women in their place and treating them appropriately and accordingly. Many nairalanders use Redpill and game interchangeably because ubunja combined both without making a distinction. Pùssy and handling women accordingly are the end goals of game; wisdom, enlightenment, and handling women accordingly are the purposes of Redpill knowledge.

All things be clarified i think the thread is still in line, moving frm redpill to game is like undergraduate to post graduate studies
One assertion i have come to reckon with is "LIfe is a Game" whether we take the pad/controller or not, the match is on. martinez i don't know you in person, buh a bit concern .... get a woman bro afterall you're immune. there mama !

BlackNeo:
@Mandela27

I applaud your initiative in taking the redpill through the miseducations. You have just taken the first step towards your liberation as a man.

Now, I assumed you felt the usual adrenaline rush about the truth you have discovered and suddenly expected your life to turnaround and you become a much more better man with increased confidence and all. Then the fuel died down suddenly. I get

But, I want you to remain encouraged. Rome wasn't built in a day. You may have taken the redpill, but it will take a while for it to sink into your system and become part of you. As an introvert with years of learned introverted behaviour and low confidence, your current redpill realization will meet some obstacles getting rid of all the old behaviours and mentality. Please, the redpill is not a quick fix. Let it run its course.

The redpill is life muscle building. It has to tear down your muscles so newer, stronger ones can grow. This will not happen overnight. Don't expect to start feeling like Super Mario all of a sudden all the time.

That said, you can help your development into a much more actualised and confident man by:

1) Working on your weaknesses and improving on your strengths. I already discussed this under my topic about applications of game asides from getting women. Please read it again.

2) After doing that, I want you to dedicate time to game. Learn and master game. I will help you through this. Game will help to ensure you become an extremely better man. You won't become an extrovert but a much more better introvert. In fact, redpill introverts are the best. They can use their introvertedness to create mystery and become respected by other men. When introverts master game, they become women killers. Any woman that crosses their parts becomes enslaved. This is because they have a better capacity to create the illusion of mystery because they are not as loudmouthed and aggressive like extrovert Redpillers. That is to say, they can easily master indirect communication!

Bro I will like us to chat please

anslem04:
All things be clarified i think the thread is still in line, moving frm redpill to game is like undergraduate to post graduate studies

True, in a way. Game is a field on it's own in which one can become an expert. In game, you don't just know, you practice.

One assertion i have come to reckon with is "LIfe is a Game" whether we take the pad/controller or not, the match is on. martinez i don't know you in person, buh a bit concern .... get a woman bro afterall you're immune. there mama !

You are right, life is a game. Romantic relationships/the dating market is a game, and women are playing the game whether we men are playing or not. Personally, I choose to remain a monk because it's just the way I like and there are many reasons why I like my lifestyle. At the end of the day, you do the one you like. I am not against gaming.

Martinez39s:
True, in a way. Game is a field on it's own in which one can become an expert. In game, you don't just know, you practice.

You are right, life is a game. Romantic relationships/the dating market is a game, and women are playing the game whether we men are playing or not. Personally, I choose to remain a monk because it's just the way I like and there are many reasons why I like my lifestyle. At the end of the day, you do the one you like. I am not against gaming.

ALOL !! if i know ur address i for order two mermaid chicks to come give you messi for home seems you dey pack bus like chelsea under mourinho ... never say never what if their is a gurl out there for you. #just saying

[quote author=Martinez39s post=91715131]Don't listen to ElasmoBrañchii. Just yesterday, a pretty girl came to me and cried with a pleading, desperate and weak voice "Brother, I haven't eaten since morning and I don't have money to go home, can you spare me N100, please?" I sternly told her "NO, I don't have." She had a sad look on her face and she left. I knew she needed the money because she was looking dejected and she was begging others as I approached my estate gate, and I had free N300 I could have given her without breaking a sweat. She was the damsel in distress.

You are such a sadist and a low life..now I see why you say you've never had sex and Now I tell you,you probabily never will because no reasonable girl would want lay with you cos your so ugly, weak, stingy,broke nd immature..I understand #blackneo as trying to free woman frm pussy slavery.. but preaching hate of the opposite gender is bad..
There is a diffrnce btw being a bad guy nd being a jerk nd a total dick

softguy1:
Martinez39s and ubanja

Is it good to be friend with ur ex that break up with u many years ago.?.
And is good to initiate a conversation with her on social media

Let bygones be bygones with women.

But always "buy gun" to protect yasef from the streets. It's grimy out there.

BlackNeo:
AGAIN:

Women were successful enough to fool like 99.99999% of men. These men are the disgusting betas and simps we have today. These men should not be called men but she-men. They are an embarassing bunch who should be castrated!

Martinez39s, this your man dey para gan oooo

I'm having a fit here MGTOWs still dey learn work.

mahvellux:
You are such a sadist and a low life..now I see why you say you've never had sex and Now I tell you,you probabily never will because no reasonable girl would want lay with you cos your so ugly, weak, stingy,broke nd immature..I understand #blackneo as trying to free woman frm pussy slavery.. but preaching hate of the opposite gender is bad..
There is a diffrnce btw being a bad guy nd being a jerk nd a total dick.

Meedon:
I go like to be a Monk ooo

Any thread for that

It's no joke and not an easy path to tow.

I have so much respect for monks.

You'll have to control your sexual desires, fight the existential crises that comes when you stop catering to the whims of women (men, by nature find confidence and fulfillment in being providers to women and children) and channelling your masculine energy elsewhere.

Skepticus:
Martiñez39s, this your man dey para gan oooo

I'm having a fit here MGTOWs still dey learn work.

Simps can make redpill men mad.

Omar09:
Donovan Sharpe is good but CRP is better.

Yes I like CRP, he has a more balanced view of life in my opinion. I also prefer CRP to Coach Greg Adams.

Martinez39s:
I have never had sex before, and I don't plan too; if you don't believe that, that's your business. I never said I patronize prostitutes. I only told blackneo that being mgtow doesn't mean you shun sex. A mgtow man can have sex with anyone he wants as long as the sex is consensual. Such a man can have sex with prostitutes, his neighbor's grown daughter(s) (or any girl next door), his course mates (or any fućk buddy) etc. It is not limited to prostitutes, porn and escorts. Personally, I find paying for sex to a foolish thing, but any mgtow man is free to do such if they want... it's their money.

The only mgtow men who shun sex are the mgtow monks. I am in this group.

Chief, always resist the urge to explain yourself to these ladies. It opens you to more shit testing from them and removes the mystery that have characterized your personality.

The same ladies never talk about deep aspects of their personal/sexual lives and all.

Good evening Brothers. Hope you all had a great day? Like Tai Solarin said, may your roads be rough, because raw diamond doesn't become a jewel without going through high pressure and temperature. The hustle of normal life is to build a man who has reached realization of himself. It is not just to be rich or popular or anything, but to be the man you've always wanted to be

Thesecret99:
If a girl posts "weather for two" on her status, it's best to not reply. By replying you have already lost the game. By replying you have given her the attention she craves, regardless of your reply. You are no different from the horde of betas that responded to her attention seeking status post.

Makes more sense. They feed off attention. Cut the cable of simping attention off or reply her like a straight asshole.

BlackNeo:
Good evening Brothers. Hope you all had a great day? Like Tai Solarin said, may your roads be rough, because raw diamond doesn't become a jewel without going through high pressure and temperature. The hustle of normal life is to build a man who has reached realization of himself. It is not just to be rich or popular or anything, but to be the man you've always wanted to be

We’re good bro, oya drop tonight dosage of game and redpill.

THE MIND OF THE NIGERIAN WOMAN CONTINUED

We started by examining the mind of the Nigerian woman yesterday. We continue today.

The Nigerian woman, relying on what other women made her believe from her birth goes into the world thinking she's a cold fizzy drink to a thirsty man on the hottest day in the Sahara Desert. Everywhere she goes, this mentality ruled her. At work, school, church, or anywhere, this mentality was what led all her interactions with men. Recently I was speaking to a young gal who wanted to learn Guitar. I advised her to pay for a teacher instead of looking for cheap and less effective options. She said something about the rarity of females teachers. I asked why she wasn't getting a male, and her answer was in line with the mentality. The fool believed that she was protecting a treasure from one male. She said something about being careful blah the blah. I thought within myself , this fool imagines that her pussy is even greater than the training she good get from a male guitar master. What value is her pussy, compared to the skill a tutor could impart? That was a digression. We proceed.

So, that mentality is why when you try to toast that girl on your street, speak to a female classmate, text a new girl, or slide into a DM, you meet with that disgusting " feeling myself attitude". The attitude became more pronounced because the beta males, who constitute 9 out of a 10 males encouraged it. In a perfect world, if the Betas can be eliminated, this mentality will die a sudden death. But that's wishful thinking. So, the importance of game is to strip that mentality. To let that female know that: look, I am a man, I am the king. You don't talk to me anyhow, when I talk to you, you give me the regard immediately. I won't demand it. I won't fight for it. You give it when you interpret my signals saying : " I know all about you. None of that works here because I know all about your sex" I am not on of those in the dark, it is clear as day to me. Don't pull that shit on me. Don't even dare!