MrBrownJay1:


we know Toks and his opinion, as i have told you earlier. such mentality (and good for nothing lazy women) are the problem in this world. generosity is irrelevant to the future of a couple. generosity can never be valued as a foundation of family. imagine someone saying that, if your man isnt generous then he will be wrong for the future family?!

there are lots of good women out there with great mindset and who dont expect men to give them shiiit but CARE/LOVE/RESPECT and UNDERSTANDING. the ones that are seeking for handouts and gifts (before putting value upon a man) are liabilities!

a stingy man is a man who is careful with his money, and any man who is NOT careful with his money will be wrong for a family!

MrBrownJay1:


bro, there are many women out there who dont need to be taken care of, who value men upon their character (and not how much money they will profit from them), and who are happy to receive a gift once in a while, WHEN THEIR MAN BELIEVES SHE DESERVES ONE. no wonder many women become oloshos when people like you teaches them that men will take care of their needs and put them on their head as their priorities. thats not only wrong for MEN, its a fallacy for WOMEN (who now value money and can be bought with a few gifts)

no wonder we now have Reginas marrying your great grandfather's mate, when we have boys thinking the way you do. why should women suffer and A) get a job to take care of their own needs or B) date a simple dude WHEN THEY CAN MARRY THEIR GRANDFATHER'S MATE AND BE COMFORTABLE AND LAZY?!?!

men thinking like you do are the problem of this world...

NerdyRudeGyal:
Yes, stingy guys exist and non-stingy, giving females should steer clear of them. Giving should be a two-way steeet.

Toks2008:


Guy better learn how to give cos giving is a proof of love.

NerdyRudeGyal:
Yes, stingy guys exist and non-stingy, giving females should steer clear of them. Giving should be a two-way steeet.

MajorOvakporaye:
another big loads of trash fit for the waste bin!!!

Toks2008:

You must be one big stingy guy... Habba! Funny enough you keep getting it wrong.
No one is saying ladies should expect and guy to take care of them but as a man it is natural to take care of your lady even without her asking. Why are you arguing this fact?

Toks2008:
Guy better learn how to give cos giving is a proof of love.

MrBrownJay1:


- giving is a proof of love but ONLY men should give?! what kind of rubbish one sided love is that? unless women take take care of men's life need too, then what you just wrote is the joke of the day.
- giving is a CHOICE, and the minute giving becomes a necessity upon which men are valued in a r/ship, then thats when you are losing the plot.
- any person who uses MONEY as a reason to love someone is just an undercover olosho. who wants to even date (let alone marry) such liability?!

MrBrownJay1:


there is NOTHING natural about dating a babe and suddenly taking care of her needs... only donkeys do that....then when that woman finish the education that you've paid for, and she now goes to marry Jide, you will be the one coming here crying with BS stories....

its wrong to take care of women simply because A) its a wrong mindset in any union that turns women into good for nothing lazy people, who will now view men as a poverty alleviation tool, B) that woman had needs before you met her and could take care of them before you came into her life,,, why change that?!?! C) money has no VALUE when it comes to choosing or evaluating a man, because guess what? there will always be a man richer than you out there. therefore if thats what your woman values then she will never be yours and instead will be available to any rich man out there....who wants such good for nothing olosho in their lives?! but most importantly, D) what kind of r/ship or family do you expect to get with a woman who thinks she doesnt have to do shiit no more because her man will now take care of her? what kind of life this lazy woman will have if/when you lose your job? what kind of family will you raise with such good for nothing woman (expert in telemundo)? what do you think will happen the day you lose your job?!

in life, nobody should take care of ANYBODY (especially not when dating) and when you marry someone, then BOTH OF YOU have to work for the wellbeing of the family and kids. nobody should be lazy and stay home being expert in telemundo, while the other slaves away like a donkey....because 2 salaries would always be better than one. life is about sharing everything, and if you meet someone and they expect you to take care of them, then that person is NO GOOD. what man in his right mind would want to have a family with such liability?!?!

call me chairman of the stingy men of NL (that word doesnt scare me), because as i told you, MONEY DOESNT GROW ON TREES and i certainly know the value of money...and if a woman doesnt, then she is just a liability.

Toks2008:


You are definitely a male.

Toks2008:
Now I can see you just want to type cis your post shows that you did not read the piece or maybe you did but did not comprehend.

Toks2008:

1- there is a wide gap between a lady making lame financial demands from a man and a man being sensitive to the needs of his woman.

2- any guy who has what it takes to take care of his lady and yet refrains is a stingy man who does not deserve to be with any lady and ladies who are looking for a real purposeful romance should avoid such guys not just for their sake but for the sake of the future as such a man may not be generous enough to take care of his family financially....

3- and worse still, I believe a man who is not generous to his lady does not truly love her cos there is no love without giving.

4- this means a guy who earns 100k a month but gives his woman an average of 10k in a month has given 10% of his total income and he is more generous than a guy who makes far more but gives his lady sparingly.

5- You can give without loving, but you can't love without giving. When a man truly loves a woman he will give even without her asking, he will be sensitive to her needs and will always give her from what he has no matter how small even if the lady is financially buoyant, there are still little gestures that go a long way to express your affection for her. If a man truly loves his woman he will give of his time and his resources. Those who truly love, hold nothing back.

6- The measure of your giving reveals the measure of your love.

MrBrownJay1:
just like ladies can date who they desire, men also should stay away from goldigging good for nothing women.

there is nothing wrong with a stingy man, and people should stop trying to make them look like there is something wrong with them. if a man earns money, he has all the right to decide how to spend his money. NOBODY (especially broke women) has any right to demand that he spends HIS money the way some deluded stranger deems fit.

as the proud chairman of the NL "money dont grow on trees" club, i can assure you, if a woman has the audacity to call anybody stingy, then simply reply to her:" biitch, since you think that money grows on trees, then why dont you spend YOUR money... and shut your dirty mouth, instead of thinking that MY money is "your" money"

the best way for a man to be broke is by wasting his money trying to impress good for nothing women that havent worked a day in their lives and dont know the VALUE of money.

MrBrownJay1:


- giving is a proof of love but ONLY men should give?! what kind of rubbish one sided love is that? unless women take take care of men's life need too, then what you just wrote is the joke of the day.
- giving is a CHOICE, and the minute giving becomes a necessity upon which men are valued in a r/ship, then thats when you are losing the plot.
- any person who uses MONEY as a reason to love someone is just an undercover olosho. who wants to even date (let alone marry) such liability?!

MrBrownJay1:



a man who is careful with his money should be praised, not looked down upon!